Crush Poll: The results so far...

If you haven't taken the poll on secret crushes, please do. It's on the lower left of the home page. You have to pick whether you should...

Tell your secret crush that you like him
Shhhhh! Don't tell him
Have someone else tell him

Shhhhhh! Don't tell him is winning by a lot - 861 votes and 68% of everybody who voted!

59 Comments:

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

YIKES!!! I don't know what to say!! That's ALOT of votes!!! Guess people are kinda scared to talk to their crush I'm having problems w/ mine..I'm so antzy I'm waiting for him to email me back!! How do I calm myself down(ant advice ANYONE)

Thankx

May 8, 2009 at 7:15 PM  
Anonymous cupid! said...

I say either tell him you like him, or tell your best friend to tell him, if you are to scared.

May 8, 2009 at 7:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my comment is that you should tell him cause if you have someone else they might tell the wrong thing

May 8, 2009 at 8:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't tell him/her

May 8, 2009 at 8:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dont tell him/her

May 8, 2009 at 11:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yea, I'd honestly either not tell him or ask my BFF to ask one of his friends if he likes me. :D If he did then I'd tell him I liked him.

May 8, 2009 at 11:50 PM  
Anonymous Amy said...

I would NEVER tell my crush that I have fellings against him! Then all the rumors begin and everyone in the school looks at you and laughs! Oh! How embarassing!

May 9, 2009 at 6:16 AM  
Anonymous Kelly said...

I would like ask my BFF if he liked me. I would never just like go up to him! Too embarrassing!

May 9, 2009 at 9:34 AM  
Anonymous Cassy said...

i think you should tell him urself!

May 9, 2009 at 6:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Why would I tell my crush I like him? too weird and embarrassing

May 9, 2009 at 8:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I really like someone. We've been friends since we were little. I finlly asked him if he liked me but he dose'nt like me back :(

- A girl with a broken heart

May 9, 2009 at 9:07 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i like 2 boys they are best friends when they found out i liked them i tried my hardest 2 impress them but fyi dont try 2 impress boys theyll break ur heart either way i found out they only like me as a friend o well at least im close 2 them even if i still like them they dont treat me any different they may bring it up on occasions but they dont stress it

-love guys fall hard

May 9, 2009 at 10:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think that people should tell him/her that they like them.I have done it many times and sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt =)
Well,good luck to whoever is going to tell!!

May 10, 2009 at 8:08 AM  
Anonymous Emily said...

Telling a guy you like them can be very nervous because you dont know what they will say. Its best to find out if they like you first. Tell a good friend to ask the boy you like if he like you. Then make your move.

May 10, 2009 at 11:13 AM  
Anonymous Cinnamon said...

I disagree with that because i told my crush how I felt and i felt a lot better and hen he started to pay attention to me and startd to flirt with me

May 10, 2009 at 1:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I dont have a crush so i wouldnt know. I just put "shhhh dont tell him"

May 10, 2009 at 2:39 PM  
Anonymous Mink said...

I can tell that boys feel kinda uncomfortable when girls "confess" to them. Also, a girl gets rumors spread about her if she confesses. Trust me, I don't have experience, but I've seen it happen.

May 10, 2009 at 4:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

same with me but not too me but to my friend it hurts

May 10, 2009 at 7:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I told my bff who i had a crush on then she told her other bffz. then they told my crush, ya well, it did not turn out so well. the girlz told him that i LOVED him lol now they will not stop so that is why i chose shhhhh! lol bye!

May 10, 2009 at 9:25 PM  
Anonymous Starglitterrock said...

Tell him when you have a moment alone it is the easy and quick way you are still young hone boys come and go*****

May 11, 2009 at 8:05 PM  
Anonymous Sandy said...

TELL HIM!!!! He might like you back.That happened to me. i told my friend that i liked a guy, and she told the guy, and then he asked me out!!! we're just friends now though. but i still like him. he's just so cute!!!!

May 12, 2009 at 10:25 AM  
Blogger Liddy said...

WOW! thats alot

May 12, 2009 at 2:35 PM  
Anonymous claudia said...

everyones knows my crush and they also know i have a crush on him but my crush dosn't know i have a crush on him.

May 12, 2009 at 4:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sssshe don't tell him =S

May 12, 2009 at 11:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i think you should tell him or her if you like them. i mean if someone likes you, you would wanna know right. so i'd tell him.
from,
angel ca

May 14, 2009 at 6:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

wow! now thats alot of votes. that makes me say wow out loud! and thank jemma! this is the coolest websight ever and im saying it to the world! lolz!
from,
angel ca

May 14, 2009 at 8:19 PM  
Anonymous JESSICA .L . said...

TELL HIM! TELL HIM! TELL HIM! TELL HIM!:)
TELL HIM HOW U FEEL! IT JUST MIGHT WORK OUT!

May 15, 2009 at 8:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You know, almost everything is true that's been commented. You should find out if he likes you first then make your move. And, the rumors? That happened to me. That's why you should wait untill you're older!

May 16, 2009 at 4:16 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

on monday, im telling my crush how i feel, and im as nervous as heck!!

May 16, 2009 at 5:50 AM  
Anonymous Soon to be eigth grader at DRMS said...

Shhh! Don't tell him!

May 16, 2009 at 2:30 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i am so afraid because i think hell think im ugly.and hes always with friends and hes never alone so i cant talk to him even if i tried.plus hes popular!!!! Aaaaaaagggghhhh.this is why im afraid.

May 16, 2009 at 4:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dont tell him/her

May 16, 2009 at 5:54 PM  
Anonymous tabatha said...

what would happen if u started ur period but u are 2 afraid to tell ur mom or ur friends

May 18, 2009 at 8:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i think trevor dosnt like me i dont no what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!help

May 19, 2009 at 5:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

um...I'm way to wimpy to tell my crush the truth!!!I once told someone in grade 2 to tell my crush i liked him and it turned into a total disaster!!!sigh...I'm never doin' that again!:)

May 20, 2009 at 10:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I also don't know if my crush likes me or not! I actually think he hates me!

May 20, 2009 at 10:11 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i know a dude who does NOT like me at all so i would not tell him even though he's really nice and senstive and woudn't care.

May 20, 2009 at 10:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

aaaaaahhhhhh!!!!!!! My friends are such LOUD mouths they told everyone in my class who i liked and now my crush knows to!!!!!
So if u think ur secrets safe ur wrong!!!
DON'T TELL HIM!!!!

May 21, 2009 at 5:01 PM  
Anonymous jessie said...

i would be honest and if he laughs or bes mean just walk away there is lots more boys out there.

May 22, 2009 at 6:10 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have a crush and a few of my frinds know but he does not know.
plus he sits right next to me! im too nervous to tell him i fancy him.

May 22, 2009 at 3:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i told a friend thet i have a crush on a really cute boy and i also told her about anothe really funny guy i have a crush on and he isone of his bff and she spills lots of secrets should i trust her or not

May 22, 2009 at 6:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a crush and he is the most popular in sports and crushes. HE IS HOT! but the only problem is that he looks at girls butts,boobs,blushes and winks. I HATE HIM! or do I love him what should I pick?

May 22, 2009 at 7:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I say love. You should ask him out. Then if he dosen't stop dump him. "It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all"-Shaksheare (i think)

May 22, 2009 at 8:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dont tell anyone

May 24, 2009 at 10:10 AM  
Anonymous PARNELL said...

Dont tell him

May 24, 2009 at 10:14 AM  
Anonymous PARNELL said...

Dont tell him

May 24, 2009 at 10:17 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

have someone else tell him

May 25, 2009 at 7:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'v gone threw the same thing i think you should like , tell a friend to ask him how he likes then if he likes u TELL HIM KAY!!! kay

May 26, 2009 at 4:38 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I would ask a friend to ask him if he likes me.To me, it doesn't sound as bad hearing it from someone you trust.

May 26, 2009 at 9:22 PM  
Anonymous Meredith said...

at one point, me and my friend liked the same person, but we were cool with it, cuz it wasnt like anything serious, but the she stopped liking him(you know how luv is)and we had this plan where she would ask him if he liked me, and if he said yes, she would tell him that i liked him....but he moved away, and iv moved on...im okay about it...i like this guy now who is soooo hot!!

May 28, 2009 at 2:36 PM  
Anonymous morgan said...

uhm well i like this guy but hes in 8th grade an im in 7th plus his girlfriend is cheating on him an he dont know an idk what to do cause i cant just walk up to him an say hey i like an your girlfriend is cheating on you..he knows me he cheered for me in a hotdog eatin contest at my school dance im mean he was on a chair yellin go morgan!! lol idk what to do though cause i dont know if i should tell him or not...):

June 2, 2009 at 11:34 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ive been in this situation several times and i usually tell my friends and instead of me getting a chance if they see that i like "him" alot my friends will pick up the phone or just walk up to him and b like do u like her. its funny and embarrassing lol. i have a crush at the moment and i told his sister whose my bff and she told him. plus my friends asked him if he liked me. it might hurt to know the truth but its worth it. 2day were still friends and we text 3 or 4 times a week!!!!

June 10, 2009 at 5:47 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think I'm in love. I've dreamed about this guy 6 times, and I always feel as though he's staring at me. He's super cute and I think he might like me. Should I tell him I like him or not? Is it love?

June 12, 2009 at 6:31 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

wow!!!! i always have my friends to ask but i think the best way to tell him is to tell him your self!!! it always seems better that way!!!!!*****

June 16, 2009 at 10:11 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dont worry about what people say about you its not worth it to listen to what other people say about you!!! stay true to you!!!

June 16, 2009 at 10:17 PM  
Anonymous Annabanana said...

I put ssssssssssshhhhhh dont tell him but i have a crush and hes known for ages. obviously i didnt tell him at first but when i did, he was pretty cool about it cuz he was a gd friend and hes still cool with it today!

June 24, 2009 at 3:11 PM  
Anonymous Lachelle said...

wow those are a lot of people
i voted for
shhhh don't tell him

July 2, 2009 at 5:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

HEY AS A DARE ALL THE GIRLS HAD TO TELL THEIR CRUSH THEY LIKED THEM 18/20 PEOPLE GOT THEIR CRUSH AS DATES TO THE DANCE THE OTHER 1 OF THE PEOPLE WHO DIDN'T GET THEIR CRUSH AS A DATE WER TWO YEARS YOUNGER AND THE OTHER ONE HED A GIRLFRIEND

September 2, 2009 at 1:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well i say tell him flat out. i did and now we are going out so yeah. but i have a question; my best friend keeps flirting with my bo and she likes him how do i tell her to stop????????

February 9, 2010 at 10:04 AM  

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