A boy needs our help!

OK, so we're still going through the top-priority questions from girls who've sent them in more than once. But in that group of most loyal fans, I never expected to find a boy! Ben, 13, says he's been waiting for an answer to this question:

Dear PLS,
There is this girl in my class that I like and I want to know how to impress her.
Ben

That's such a great question, Ben. Isn't it odd to think about boys thinking about us girls. Like, if Forrest was wondering how to impress me, I would have a million ideas. Actually, I could tell him to just keep being himself because I'm impressed all the time when he's funny, when he's smart, when he does something nice for someone like holding the door open for my mom that one time at the grocery store. Sigh...

If you want to find out more about me and Forrest, you can read The Pink Locker Society. Click the READ THE BOOK button on the left to start reading online.
But back to Ben, let's give him some ideas of how boys can impress girls!
Think pink (and blue)!
Jemma

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think you should be friendly and strike up a conversation.... Being friendly is the way to go :) Good Luck!!

June 12, 2009 at 5:01 PM  
Anonymous Vicky said...

Be funny, be yourself DON'T be nervous around her. Girls like it when the guy they like talks to them too. Doesn't matter what you say it's just the fact that you are talking to her that's important. Some boys start with hi,hey and bye but the more you say the better. So key is... TALK TO HER, like NOW!! :) ;)

June 12, 2009 at 6:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Picture says it all.. Give her something... Ask her to hang out with you..

June 12, 2009 at 6:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm always impressed when a guy takes time to talk to me and we aren't awkward or anything it's just like we are friends.

June 12, 2009 at 10:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I like it when a guy gets my attention by taking his time to talk to me with out his "guy friends" beside him. Take me aside and just have a conversation with me. Guys also seem to act different with their friends around. I want the real you to talk to me. Not the guy with his friends.

June 13, 2009 at 12:33 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Here are 18 facts about girls you made need.
1. Sometimes they act cold just so you'll hold them tight
2.She needs to hear she is beautiful
3.All she wants is someone to love her endlessly
4.Life was so much easier when boys had cooties
5.She would rather argue with you than kiss any one else
6.It is every girls dream to have a boy call her at 3 am. just to tell her he loves her
7.Smiles and makeup hode so much these days
8. it is hard to have no one who wants to hold you when you feel alone
9. Sometimes she just wants to run away. and when she does... fallow her
10. Some things you cant see with your eyes. but you can with your heart
11. She may talk louder and laugh louder just for you to look her way
12. she might say she hates you but inside she cant live without you
13. All she wants to hear is you miss her when she isnt around.
14. Tell her you need her
15. Sing to her no matter how horrible you sing
16. Hold her hand everytime you see her. even if it's for a second
17. Write her love notes. (we all love them)
18. When you're in a fight kiss her and the fight will stop.

June 13, 2009 at 12:34 AM  
Blogger fatmata101 said...

Get to know her first!
Obviously, some girls (like me) wouldn't just go out with someone without getting to know them.
Have a party, invite her!
I think that, if you act yourself, and she likes it.. She'll grow to like you the same way you like her.
Then to finish it off, wow her by getting high marks, caring about her, and all the mushy stuff.

Good luck!
<3

June 13, 2009 at 5:55 AM  
Anonymous Jennette said...

When people like each other, they often act like jerks; DON'T DO THAT! Most girls are impressed by a guy who likes them for who they are and will do anything for them,guys who care about being nice to people, and who are into the same stuff, at least, that's what I like best about my boyfriend

June 13, 2009 at 11:20 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I would just be nice to her. Start a conversation. Don't be a jerk. Be yourself. Compliment her at her skills. (In Art Class- WOW. Thats a good picture! GYM- Nice hit!) Be kind. Think if you were a girl. Have a party and invite her for good quality time together.

June 13, 2009 at 3:59 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This question is awesome. I think that if you just be nice, be yourself, and maybe try to spend time with her. Me, being a girl, Love it when guys try to get my attention. And most of the time, it works. :)

June 13, 2009 at 9:18 PM  
Blogger Anna Banana said...

be nice to her. don't confuse her by trying to act tough especially infront of your friends. don't get someone else to tell her you like her! a couple of weeks ago some boys told me that one of their friends liked me then spread a rumor that we we're going out. i'm now not sure if the guy likes me or not it's very confusing! be her friend. my fave guy in my year is a friend of mine(not a boyfriend)i'm not sure we'd admit to being friends but he's great!

June 14, 2009 at 5:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think you should invite her over. And do things friends would do. Then maybe invite her to the movies and say its a date. and leave pick her up when you said and pick a scary movie so when she gets scared kiss her unsuspectedly and she will love you back. But remember maybe because she's pretty doesn't mean she's the perfect for you be open and don't be clingy. I hope this works and remember to kiss her!

June 14, 2009 at 5:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i say a thing that would impress me is to be a total gentalmen... just be yourself, and be a nice personne...
most girls like a boy thats kind and sweet...

Fr: Karla age 12 :)

June 14, 2009 at 7:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Be yourself Ben. I am a girl. I know these things.

June 16, 2009 at 5:31 PM  
Anonymous bfmbridge said...

b ur self & ask another grl 2 tell her during homeroom that u like her.

June 18, 2009 at 7:52 PM  
Anonymous Hannah said...

Boy-
Impressing a girl is worthless( trust me I'm a girl!) The best thing to do is to be friendly with her and always offer to help her. As your friendship progesses, her feelings with strenghen for you and she may eventually feel the same way you feel about her. If not, you will have gained another great friend and there are always other fish in the sea.

June 18, 2009 at 10:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Start hanging with her a little more. Next week a tad more, are gradually work your way up to asking her to go out with you! (And give her a yellow flower. Yellow means "first love" )

June 19, 2009 at 5:08 PM  
Blogger Suzette said...

Hey Ben,
My best advice to you is to be nice to her. If your mean to her she will think you don't like her

June 19, 2009 at 6:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Never try to impress a girl...Thats not being yourself. Don't change yourself for a girl, who may not even be your type. Just be yourself. Take it from a girl with experience. TALK TO HER FIRST! Its REALLY important. I'm super shy and a lot of girls are too shy to go up and talk to a guy they don't know. Maybe the girl likes you back and maybe shes not your type. Talk and get to know the girl as soon as possible! Just take my advice...I KNOW!! Good Luck! :D

June 19, 2009 at 6:34 PM  
Anonymous NG said...

Well to empreess me a boy just needs to be themself,make me smile,and make the first move.

June 19, 2009 at 11:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Ben..
you dont have to be asuper man just to impress a girl..try to admire her,try to chat with her..laugh at her jokes(even if they are not funny) The girl may L0vE you but she might be too shy to talk to you, these few things can make a girl realize that you love her,and the most important thing is to BE YOUR SELF..good luck!

June 21, 2009 at 2:31 PM  
Blogger Alexis said...

we i think that ben is sweet to thinck of her ike that at least we girls know boys have crushs too

June 22, 2009 at 5:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't worry just be your self every thing will work
out I'm shore she likes you to.

June 23, 2009 at 2:23 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow, i have a lot of guy friends but no one has been that straight up. but just be yourself she will probably like you for being you. and not acting like one of those guys who try to act cool but end up acting stupid. but my advice is to just be yourself.

June 24, 2009 at 12:46 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

wow, i have alot of guy friends but none of them have been that staright up. but anyway just be yourself dont try to act cool or you will just be acting stupid. so if you really like her then crack a joke show her the real ben i am pretty sure she will think your pretty great.

June 24, 2009 at 12:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i agree with th person in front of me.

June 24, 2009 at 1:36 PM  
Anonymous Annabanana said...

Dear Ben, i no us girls impressing u guys can be very different sometimes, but i stick to the golden rule of being yourself or possibly a little bit nicer. If u dont wanna give it away then dont! i agree too - dont act cool because u will look stupid and be a show off

June 24, 2009 at 3:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

why will a boy not like the real you do you change to impress him or should you be your self then he will like you.

June 25, 2009 at 1:09 PM  
Anonymous alexis said...

Well ben i would like a guy to impress me is, by goin right out and tellin me that they like me because. it would show they have ALOT of guts, and nerve, and if i didnt like the guy i would give him a shot. so hope this helps

June 26, 2009 at 9:14 PM  
Anonymous Lizzie said...

just be yourself...thats how my bf(boifren
0 won ME over...and make her laugh

June 26, 2009 at 9:20 PM  
Anonymous Anya said...

OK I have a very important tip for you Ben..if you ever ask a girl if they like you or if something leads to that..and if she says that no she does not like you and when i mean like i mean 'like,like' never ask her why ! that is a total turn-off..sure you may be curious but that's the way it is ! (in my opinion anyway) it is sometimes very hard to explain why us girls may not like a certian guy. But if you want to empress her then try talking to her more often.....if you are in a same class and there is an activity you have to do with a partner ask her to work with you ! don't think about the worst things that can happen ! just relax ! it is sure to work ! try telling her some jokes...make her smile....then she might like you back and if she does mabey ask her if she might want to study together sometime or go to the movies ! i hope i helped and good luck Ben ! -Anya <3 :p

June 27, 2009 at 3:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

All you gotta do is be natural. She might think of you as a friend, but if she does like you, maybe you could ask one or two of your friends to ask her (or her friends) if she likes you. Trust me, i would be soo excited if my crush liked me...

June 27, 2009 at 3:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If you can make her laugh, and your sincere, and funny, she might think twice about you. Most girls like funny, and smart guys. I know i do.

June 27, 2009 at 3:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

just smile.tell some jokes. she likes it when boys laugh. i would know.just be yourself and slowly get to the point and tell her you want her to think about something and then say can you think about us? and if she laughs or smilles, that's a good sign. trust me! LOL.

June 28, 2009 at 9:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

just be yourself. thats what a girl would usually like in a guy. see what she likes to do and maybe do them with her. spend some time with her. give her a gift. tell her how you really feel.

June 29, 2009 at 2:13 PM  
Anonymous Banin said...

I think u shuld be urself 2 coz 1 day u will get sick of pretending so just be ur self no matter what happenz...even if she walkz away coz shez gotta like u 4 who u r!!!!!!!!!

July 1, 2009 at 5:57 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Be nice, but not too nice. Just act as if your friends. Don't tell her that you like her too early though!

July 1, 2009 at 3:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You should start out as friends first because if you all of a sudden ask her out it would get kinda' wierd. Second afrer about a week of hanging out with her(as friends) ask her to come over to her house(to study or something).After you're done studying just casually talk to her like she's another normal person in your life.Make sure you make her laugh or smile(keep her happy).Finally three or two days later if you see her smiling when she sees you ask her out.

Although the most important rule is...
TO BE YOURSELF.

July 1, 2009 at 9:04 PM  
Anonymous Lundon said...

I bet like 9/10 of the answers are girls.Since we are the gender you are trying to relate to we know more.Pretty all of us girls got it all down for you

July 2, 2009 at 7:10 AM  
Blogger Emma said...

Well, a boy in my class did what your pic. did. He gave me flowers. DO you think she likes you? Well....... no madder what, you should tell her. But the one thing all girls no is that the boy who calls or txts, isn't the one. So, tell her how you feel, in private, when you have a comfortable place, and confidence. Remember, you should always be honest with a girl. GOOD LUCK!!!

July 4, 2009 at 1:22 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just be here friend and when you think shes into you ask her friends, or just ask her who she likes and if she looks nervous and says i cant tell you she probably kies you too.

July 6, 2009 at 11:21 AM  
Anonymous Marissa said...

well... the first thing you should do is try to talk to her and when you do ... plz don't get nervous , because its going to be awkward ... so the main keys are to be funny , cool and mainly... just be yourself! GOOD LUCK!

July 7, 2009 at 8:34 PM  
Anonymous Clairebear said...

be yourself, and just walk up and tell her the truth. she'll be impressed by the fact that you are brave enough to tell her!

July 8, 2009 at 8:08 PM  
Anonymous nottaprincess said...

just be nice and yourself!

July 22, 2009 at 12:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Whatever you do, don't keep staring at her as it annoys most girls. If she's an all pink girl, you must remember her b'day and give her a present with her fav colour,pink. Girls love attention whenever they want it from a certain boy. Slowly ask her out too! (go lunch together)

July 24, 2009 at 10:38 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i think u sould be honest and tell her how u real feel grils like honesty . good luck


p.s. be yourself

August 6, 2009 at 2:19 AM  
Anonymous Kody said...

Hi Ben
i think that you shouldnt do anything actually. say hi to her, be nice, talk to her, dont show off and be a friend
hope this helps!

August 7, 2009 at 9:24 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

do not ask someone else to tell her you like her. at first just act like you are friends and hang out. then just start a conversation with her and somehow tell her.but be yourself

August 7, 2009 at 6:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

like jemma, i'm suprised you even came to this website but Ben, you came to the right place. just be your self and walk up and say hi. try hanging around her, but not to ofen or she could find you annoying just enough to get her to notice you, then just be her friend. she'll be bound to see your point soon enough. does this help?

August 7, 2009 at 11:56 PM  
Anonymous macenzie said...

well i hate it when boys show off around me oe think they are sooo cool i hate that i think just be yourself around her and once in a while do somthing nise like say that you like her hair or somthing

August 13, 2009 at 3:01 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I love it when a guy takes the time to just hang out with me!but first find out more about her then tell her how you feel.

August 14, 2009 at 9:36 AM  
Anonymous Krystiana said...

Ben I think you should be nice to her and be yourself.Don't try to act cool because girls like when guys act like themselves around them they don't like when they act like jercks.So have some confidence and just be yourself theres no reason to act like some one your not.So take my advice be youre self and be there for her.

August 18, 2009 at 12:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

u have 2 be urself. that is the most important thing.

August 18, 2009 at 4:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

1. BE YOURSELF!!!!!!
2.drop hints that you like her like try and partner up on asinments.
3. if you want to hold her hand walk with her in the coridor and bump your hand into hers a few times.
4. dont act horrible or cool because that will make her think your not into her.
5.confidence.
6.ring her quite alot but not constantly you might start to get anoying.
7.take it in steps become friends and then you make your move.
8.sit by her in the cafeteria start a conversation.
9. give notes through her locker or in class girls like it wen you tell them the truth.
10.every time you lookqat her smile because that is a HUGE hint and then maybe she'll get the picture.
good luck.....
-Lucia x x

August 24, 2009 at 8:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I would say you should try to know her REALLY well! And try the hardest to let her understand you.Maybe you could ask her like to help you in H.W and projects.Then the more you understand her you would know what would impress her.If you are a partner in any of your classes with her , That IS a GOOD time to be friends.If it was me maybe I would like someone to tell me what he feels after I understand him.Some boys in my class stutter and are nervus.That is sooooo not cool.Be friendly.But dont be out with her toooo much.She might think it is annoying.When she asks you to come out with her....then is the time to tell you secret.I under stand what it means to be in luv with sum1 yet shy to tell.

August 27, 2009 at 6:03 AM  
Anonymous rei rei said...

here is some girl advice you should get to know her. you should always know what a girl likes. but you never want to know too much cause then what if you ask her out or something (im not saying that you should ask her out im just saying when your ready to ask her out). what would yall talk about if you do date her.

August 29, 2009 at 10:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well first make sure that you always be nice to her like if she needs a pencil or a book to read but dont be too clingy. also be funny girls LOVE guys with a sense of humor. and most of all be yourself then shell like you as a friend then she'll be even more into you!

September 4, 2009 at 3:25 PM  
Anonymous over here!!!! said...

dont follow us! my boyfriend used to do that and it was so annoying! second, to start out, just be a friend and work your way up.

September 4, 2009 at 10:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Choose a day to talk or to hang out. If your are taking her to a movie try to a funny one and bring her one single rose. Thats what i would love.

September 6, 2009 at 4:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You are so sweet.
personally, i think its the little things that count. a smile when you walk by, hold the door for her when shes running late, on valentine's day leave a flower for her.
thats wat would make my heart beat for u

September 8, 2009 at 12:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

tell her the truth

September 22, 2009 at 10:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

tell the truth and smile at her

September 26, 2009 at 7:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey great question, well anyway don't try to act cool around ur buddies to show-off, dont make fun of her to try to be funny, just take the time to have a real conversation with her, especially when she looks lonely or sad, and ask her about stuff she likes, let her do the talking. AND JUST BE THERE FOR HER

September 28, 2009 at 9:06 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

All you need to do is be yourself. If that doesn't get her attention, then nothing will the way you want. Also be nice to her and her friends and family. It shows you care.

October 2, 2009 at 11:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

maybe smile at her if she looks your way. try to be friends with her first. be nice to her. don't try to make yourself look impressive. just be yourself.

good luck!

October 3, 2009 at 4:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Be funny and people say if you make fun of them you like them. Smile at her aand talk to her alot.

October 17, 2009 at 9:57 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dear ben, i don't know your persinality but i do know 1 thing: mst boys try to fit in and it usally makes them look like a flat out JERK!! BE YOUR SELF!!!! try to be nice to other girls also!!! [but be acspesialy nice to her!!!]

good luck, hope this helps!!

November 25, 2009 at 10:56 AM  
Anonymous Samantha said...

You really should just be your self try and be sweet to her with out giving to much away and then later ask her if she wants to hang out or if she is the smartish one in class you could ask for tutoring or u could ask her if she needs it !

December 1, 2009 at 3:02 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Ben, My advice is to be yourslef. Try some jokes to get her laughing. Good Luck.

December 3, 2009 at 10:01 PM  
Blogger battynora said...

whatever you do don't stalk her it's scary and don't talk to her all the time just say hi in the mornings and talk to her from time to time have a laugh and be yourself not someone else

December 4, 2009 at 11:36 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

start a conversation.If it goes well at the end ask her out

December 8, 2009 at 9:55 AM  
Anonymous Carla said...

Ooooooooooh...
Youre a very good guy.
Be yourself, be funny, find information about her. Im sure that you´re clever to conquer that girl.

I wish that there will be a boy like you in my school.

You´re so sweet!!!!!!

December 10, 2009 at 1:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Be yourself! Girls don't want to see a fake you, because they wouldn't be liking you for who you really are. All the guy that likes me had to do to impress me was talk with me a lot and be himself. No flowers, boxes of chocolate, or all that lovey-dovey junk. Just be yourself and strike up a few conversations.

December 22, 2009 at 2:10 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't tell her you love her at first. Start out as friends. Then work your way up. And as you get in the boyfriend/girlfriend department, don't give her too many gifts or surprise-kiss her. This can send the message creepy or desperate. Remember...smile, make her feel special,and always show you care.

January 17, 2010 at 4:30 PM  
Anonymous Iris said...

ZOMG i've got big answerz 4 this 1.

Girls have many MANY needz and wantz. Lets hope this helps you out:

THE DO's AND DONT's OF GIRLZ

:-) you tell her every single second of every single day that you love her.

:-( do not go completely overboard and give her a a ring or somethin dumb like that, cuz thats asking for trouble.

:-) protect her. Dont let her screw up her life. thats one way to let her know u care

:-( dont kiss her until shes ready (unless u want ur heart broken)

:-) invite her 2 parties and stuff like dat. plan get togethers and stuff, that show her u wanna be wit her.

:-( dont give her ballons and a big bear and lots of roses and junk on valentines day and dont wear a tux to school and give her a ring or somethin. She'll think you have gone tooooooo far.

:-) Be yourself

:-)

February 26, 2010 at 9:28 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

okay just be yourslef and u will be find trust me she might like you to!!!!!

February 27, 2010 at 8:22 PM  
Anonymous Josie said...

Be nice to her, try and be a friend and make her laugh. Sooner or later (probably later) she might like you more than just a friend.

March 7, 2010 at 10:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

if you have noticed she maybe likes you come out and tell her it might work

March 12, 2010 at 4:28 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

you should take her to the movies and do nice things for her than she's really going to like you <3 and try to be cool go with the flow and be you're self ...

March 14, 2010 at 10:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well ben,
um u could try to make her laugh alot. or complinent her, or sit next to her at lunch sometimes.
just occasionally sit next 2 her. thats a perfect time to make her laugh!

March 19, 2010 at 9:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

make her laugh. give her a rose on her birthday and compliment her. if she finds this being "weird" just tell her your a nice guy. talk to her about stuff-find out what she likes. then, when your in the middle of laughing with her, tell her that you like her! hope this helps.
ily
xoxo

April 3, 2010 at 5:49 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

just be yourself u may want to tern on the charm a little bit like give her a wink that should do good luck

April 3, 2010 at 8:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I LOVE your website!

April 6, 2010 at 7:05 PM  
Anonymous hannahmae said...

hi ben you should just be your self around her and give her compliments, REAL compliments that YOU mean.

April 6, 2010 at 8:11 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ben,
BE YOUR SELF!!!!!!! All(almost) girls like that.

April 12, 2010 at 7:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

try your best to talk with her. good luck :)

April 14, 2010 at 6:38 AM  
Anonymous Rain4926 said...

:)

April 14, 2010 at 6:41 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

you never know she might like u too. When i have had crushes on people before it turned out they liked me too. just try too gradually get more and more frinedly with her

May 8, 2010 at 3:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

NUMBER ONE THING 2 REMEMBER!! Girls will just feel ackward if u give them a flower or stuff like that. (been there, done that, not fun really ackward.) If she is playing a game like doge ball and she is on ur team, mabey u could block the ball from hitting her, just not so dramatic about it (leave out the NOOOOOOOOOOO). If she is on the opposite team DO NOT HIT HER ON PURPOSE!!! Don't tease her or more 2 say u like her. Other wise she will think u r mean (VERY BAD!) Whatever u do, keep it settle.

May 31, 2010 at 3:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

girls luv it when boys like them.

July 19, 2010 at 8:07 AM  
Anonymous Annie said...

start talking to her. try to see if you can hang with her at lunch, or even buy her lunch!

February 17, 2011 at 9:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

we are girls we know what we talkin about for valientines day give us candy or like a flower(not a dandiline that is so not a flower)!!!


sighne,idk what to say

May 30, 2011 at 12:55 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OMG BEN THIS IS ALOT OF ADVISE YOU BETTER USE IT LOL GOOD LUCK WITH THAT GIRL :)

May 30, 2011 at 12:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Us girls hate jerks and notice when guys try to act "cool" when we know that they aren't being themselves. So... be yourself, compliment her- without being too obvious, and get to know her to a friendly level. Don't be mean about anyone else- she will find out, and be friendly! Be friends and most likely, your friendship will blossom into a crush + crush = <3

June 4, 2011 at 7:08 PM  
Anonymous Tana said...

"be your self and she doesn't like that then she's not for you" (ps this doesn't cout if your real self is a total jerk) I know that I like guys who are honest about who they are an like me for who I'm always going to be. If your confident enough to tell her something then she'll probably respect you for having the guts to do it. I'm not saying that shell fly into your arms of wateva but you'll have a foundation for a great relationship or a great friendship.

June 26, 2012 at 12:00 PM  

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