2 questions about boys & bras (for 2 Jades)

Here are two good questions from two different girls named Jade (cool name!)
Dear PLS,
I like this boy but I think he hates me, but all my friends says he likes me too! Who should I believe?
Jade, 10

Dear PLS,
i have no boobs yet my friend says i should were a padded bra like her but wouldn't that make me like a fraud?
Jade, 12

Any advice for our Jades? Did you notice what's in the photo. It's jade!

Think pink (and green for jade)!
Jemma

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jade 12,
wearing a padded bra does not make you a fraud. It just helps you to fit in, and trust me I hit my boob growth spurt when I turned 13, befor4e that, I was flat.
Jade 10,it's kinda scary because I had the same exact thing happen to me. Boys always act like jerks around girls they like. If you show it's not bothering you, they'll eventually confess. Me and my guy are dating now

June 13, 2009 at 12:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey jades!!
Q1: i had a crush on a guy that hated me too... because i flirted with him so much. i just backed off for a while and we slowly became friends. he even gave me multiple hugs on the last day of school!! if i were u i would start out as friends and if he likes u he will ask you out.
Q2: if u are comfortable with a padded bra then wear one if not, oh well. your body will eventually catch up with your hopes

June 13, 2009 at 12:40 PM  
Blogger Jemma said...

That's some excellent advice delivered in a flash. Thanks, girls!

June 13, 2009 at 12:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I was once in the same situation as you. I felt the same exact way! Advice; go ask the boy himself, he's the only one that knows the truth! And turns out, he did like me, so give it a try, even if he doesn't like you, it won't be the end of the world.

June 13, 2009 at 1:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I dont have boobs and I am 11 and all my friends had them early should I wait when I am older to find what happened or do I ask a parent what I am dealing with

June 13, 2009 at 8:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Um....
Question # 1-
I think you should try to tell the boy you like him, and see what he says. I did that, and it ended up good, so give it a shot!
Question # 2-
Padded bras is NOT a fraud. Honestly, if you feel like you should be wearing padded bras, then do it, but you shouldnt if you are only doing it because of peer-pressure.
So go with you heart on this one.

June 13, 2009 at 9:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I know how you feel... Same happened to me. I think you should write him a note, but not directly saying "Do you like me" but something that he is going to be confortable answering. I did, and now we're really close. But if you're not ready to do something like that, it's ok too. Give him some time.

June 13, 2009 at 9:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just trust your guts(Jade #1) and it's mainly your decision(Jade #2). I like my answers short, simple, and right to the point, hope I helped!!

June 13, 2009 at 9:55 PM  
Anonymous Riley said...

Question #1. Talk to him. Say it straight up, I would just walk up to him and say, "Do you hate me?" But that's just me.

Question#2: I have no boobs and i wear padded bras. Padded Bras are just for a little helpp it doesnt make you look like a fraud.

June 13, 2009 at 11:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jade 10:
I would believe you friends. I mean don't most guys act like a girl doesn't exist and act like there cool when they like a girl?? Or they will pic on them. They can be rude, but you have look for that secret message behind why he is doing what he is doing (ignoring you? tempting you? taunting you? bugging you?). Maybe he really does like you too.

Jade 12:
Honeslty I feel a padded bra helps support and keep a girl more comfortable with her chanching body. Maybe your nipples are more noticable, where a padded bra. But in your case I would go to a department store with you mom and get fitted for a bra. There are soooo many different kinds of bras out there. Choose the one that suites you best. A fraud type bra to me is a water bra... just to tell you my opinion.

Hope I can help you two Jades.

June 14, 2009 at 1:55 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I was flat until I turned 13.
Also... If a guy insults you, that means he likes you!

June 14, 2009 at 6:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jade 12,
hey i don't think you'r a fraud. I wear a padded bra and don't worry NOBODY noticed... and i'm almost TOTALLY flat... don't worry cuz i'm 12 and who cares if your flat. EVERYBODY grows at thier own pace...

June 14, 2009 at 7:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi jades i think that since i have no boobs like you i decided i would help sorta.
i think you shouldn't wear a bra at all when you need one you need one and like me you don't and also they feel horrible (my mom bought me some but i dont ever wear them). i think you should just relax and enjoy you dont have one. and for the boy thing try and ask him if he hates you.

June 15, 2009 at 12:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i submitted my question 7 times and it still isn't answered.

June 15, 2009 at 1:52 PM  
Anonymous Georgia said...

Jade no.1...
So, yea like everyone says, if a boy acts like he hates you, he likes you! Same with me. I used to like this guy who used to like me and everyone knew that he liked me. Then he suddenly started being mean and stuff after a while that I liked him. I wasn't sure what was wrong so that put me off him. But I suddenly then learned that when a guy is mean, he likes you and my BFFL said that he diffenatly likes me so I think him being mean is a sign of him liking you!

Jade no.2....
Yea, I am only juat about of the leaving piont of being flat on the chest, I am growing!!! :D But, I used to wear padded bras all the time when I was flat. They were so uncomfortable. But, I only wore them for practise. Now, I wear them all the time and hardly know they are there! :O So, if you are flat and wear a padded bra it gives you practise and stuff so when you start to grow like me you will actually be comfotable and get used to wearing them. No you won't be a fraud. But, I am saying is go with what you want to do!!!

So, did that help?
xxx

June 15, 2009 at 1:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

its okayy to have small boobs or no boobs at all. but just make sure if you make a choice you can back it up. your my age and i have little boobs also. some days you may feel insecure. but dont. eveery one has there own time to grow. so dont try and be someone your not.

June 15, 2009 at 3:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Question #1: Jade, if you like someone and you THINK they like you too, the best thing to do is wait a while and let things blossom. If he's not showing any signs of a crush, why don't you ask him? Be inconspicuous. Says things like, 'What do you think would happen if we started dating?' or 'Hey, guess what! My friends said you like me.' or maybe 'It's crazy, but I was wondering if you like me as more than a friend?'. He'll either give you the truth because he likes / doesn't like you, or tell you something different because he's embarrassed to admit his true feelings. Let things grow between you! If you want to be more than friends, spend more time together and talk more.

Question #2: Jade, who cares if you have small boobs? If you feel uncomfortable wearing a padded bra, don't bother wearing one at all. There's no point in wearing something that is uncomfortable. Don't let what you friend says influence your opinion. Only do what you feel is right! And also, if people make fun of you for your flat chest, so what? They don't what they're talking about. You will grow to be a beautiful, wonderful women, but you'll take all the time you need! Be true to who you are, and make your decisions from your heart.

June 15, 2009 at 9:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well Jade #2 i was small 4 a while but i would give it some time like i did.

Jade #1 i also would give him a few weeks but if he dosent really talk 2 u then just go and talk 2 him. Even try and get his number and call him 2 see if he wants 2 go hang out at da mall with or somewhere and do something so yeah u guys just give it some time

June 15, 2009 at 11:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jade number 1, If u think this guy likes u, then go talk to him about it. U should always get the info from the person, and not the people that gossip about that person. If u really think so, I think u should go for it. Try to catch him alone, because if not, he might act more macho and tough so he won't be embarrassed.


Jade number 2, if u don't think u need a padded bra, don't bother with it. Just wear a normal one. Do wat u think is right, it's normally the right thing. Besides, everyone on Earth was made by God to be their own way. If he doesn't want u to grow out that way, just yet, maybe u could wait a while. They'll come up, I promise.

June 16, 2009 at 12:42 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

answer to
Q1: dear jade number 1 i dont know much about boys but i think if you give him time to see how he thinks about you then go ahead, but if he doesn't notice you then move on ok.
Q2: dear jade number 2 every one grows at their own time so dont worry about your chest i even bet you that when u get older u get bigger boobs than u espected and i think u should wear a paded bra.

June 16, 2009 at 11:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i think that you should do what ever makes you comfortable, and what ever fits into your view of things. dont go against your will or your belief. do what you feel is right.

June 16, 2009 at 6:55 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

where is the jade in the photo?

June 17, 2009 at 5:32 AM  
Blogger Jemma said...

Jade is not only a cool name, it's a kind of stone. Those are jade stones in the photo.

June 17, 2009 at 8:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Q1:Hey Jade I have The exact Problem, BUT My Crush likes my BFF, What I would Do If I were you? Well I would Just is just ask him if he hates you and not anything else. If he says he does hate you then well Give him some space and after about a couple weeks he'll see you in a different way :)

Q2:Hey Jade, Wearing a padded bra is one way to make you LOOK bigger. But what will you do when your real boobs come in? if you start wearing another bra wont they be smaller then when you had your padded bra? So If I were you just give your body time and soon enough your boobs will grow! But when they do just use a TB (training bra)to get you started.

June 18, 2009 at 11:02 AM  
Blogger Suzette said...

Q1:Hey Jade, well if you like this boy, but you think he hates you, you should try to get to know him. Then maybe he will tell you the thing you wanted to hear or if you get the courage to you should ask him.
Q2:Hey Jade, you can do it but my advice for you is to be you, be the real girl you really are. But if you do It won't make you a fraud.

June 19, 2009 at 6:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Q#1: If a boy really likes you, he'll act like he hates you, so watch his actions! Anyway, it's not the old days anymore, so ask him out. It dosen't have to be a romantic date. Maybe you can start with just a trip to the ice cream shop, or a hike through the woods! Just enough to get closer. I also have a really big crush on someone and he lived right across the street from me!!!! But then he moved away. =( But we were friends, which is an awesome way to start out!!!

Q#2: If you feel more comfortable with a padded bra, wear one! If you talk to your mom, she will totally understand and do everything to make you feel good. I am 12 and started wearing a bra when i was 11, but just because my nipples were getting too noticeable. But then I switched to ones with a little cup about half a year ago. It is so much more comfy when i have the right bra on. Don't think that wearing a padded bra will make you a fraud. Girls our age sometimes need a little boost! I know that i have been waiting to grow for years now, and its finally happening! (though hardly any.) Just do what you feel is right, and ALWAYS talk to your mom about any questions you have. I bombard my mom with at least 5 a month and she always answers them as best as she can. I hope i helped you!

June 20, 2009 at 1:08 PM  
Anonymous Jade said...

thanks for all the advice guys! this is Jade, 10 and its really helping! thx alot!

June 20, 2009 at 2:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

JADE DO YOU RELLY LIKE HIM IF YOU DO TELL HIM

June 22, 2009 at 10:06 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

jade 10
right anonymos letter and sent it to the boy in the letter you say do you like jade

June 22, 2009 at 10:12 AM  
Anonymous Cassidy said...

hi jades!
jade 10,
if a guy really likes u he will act like that sometimes but i wouldn't tell him just yet, you need to make shure he likes u first. what i do is get my friends to right s note 2 my crush and say do you like Cassidy ( or jade since that is your name) or just c if he flirts with u and maybe blirt it out in a convo. with him. best of wishes!
Jade 12,
No, it wouldn't make u a fraud u will get boobs eventually, every1 grows at their own pace.If u read the book jemma is 13 and in 8th grade and still hasnt started her period like her friends just give it time you will grow and maybe someday u will have bigger boobs than your friends!
best of luck jades!

June 22, 2009 at 8:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just because you wear a padded bra doesn't make you a fraud or fake. Every girl could use the extra boost. Guys are hard to read. Some are out going and some are as shy as a turtle. Just try talking. That's what I do. Small talk then you can get into more detailed conversations! :)

June 24, 2009 at 12:51 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jade (12), dont feel bad about wearing padded bras! I used to have a friend who said I HAVE to be wearing a bra by grade 8 and i wasnt so she made fun of me. I wear bras now but she isnt my friend anymore. Wear what you think you should wear. I still sometimes wear crop-tops because mine are annoyingly small still!! And i agree - every girl could use the extra boost!

June 24, 2009 at 2:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Jade (12),
I know exactly what you mean! I'm 11 and I started wearing a bra last year because it made me feel good. Now, I wear training bras because I only have a little bit. Some of the girls in my class wear padded bras, but it bothers me because I think they have fake personalities as well. You should do whatever you feel is right, and don't let anyone make you feel bad. I have a tip for you: Wear tops with a pouf where your boobs are so that you can't really tell what size they are. And one more thing, it feels like it will take forever for us late bloomers. But, most people make fun of us because they are jealous of us in other areas.

I hope I helped you.

June 24, 2009 at 7:59 PM  
Anonymous niki said...

doear jade #2 i doesnt make you a fraud but you should only wear it because you want to not because you want to look bigger (every1 grows at there own paste dont be mad about that i was or to have a guy if you want to you should god luck

June 24, 2009 at 8:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dont worry jade 2 wearing a padded bra dosent make you a fraud i wear one .but if you you dont want too its totally fine i wear one to make me feel confident but theres a milllion different reasons dont worry you will blum hope i helped you

June 24, 2009 at 8:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi jade 1 dont worry just tell him
good luck

June 24, 2009 at 8:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dear jade # 2 don't worry all of my friends had boobs and were wearing bras all during school and i was still flat but near the end of the school year and now i wear a bra and i feel more comfortable wearing tank tops and other shirts. just do what you think is right.

June 26, 2009 at 11:36 AM  
Anonymous Ariana, 11 said...

Jade 10: you cn read a guy's mind,so you never know for sure if he likes you, so I suggest just talking to him. Once he's your friend, you can gofrom there!

Jade 12: It's not a rud to wear padded bras, or else why would companies make them? If you think it is a fraud to have a padded bra, don't wear one. Your curves up there' will grow eventually!

June 26, 2009 at 11:49 PM  
Anonymous Mirandaa(: said...

This guy and i liked each other for years,little kid crushes, then we started going out, and then we broke up because he liked this girl, that is now my bff, and i dont mind them together. She knows i loved him and is fine with that. But then i started liking him again...everyone told me he like me, but he acted like he didnt, so bff asked him if he would go out with me, he said yes!!! It lasted a week, then we broke up, but i learned its better to try it, if it doesnt work, well we are friends again. Yeah, i still like him in the first crush way. And its great to know he is there for me. But try him, and sometimes, you crush on a guy when your friends, but when your dating its weird and thats fine!

June 27, 2009 at 8:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

justwait til' u actually grow boobs don't rush to grow up because when u do u will experience puberty and have ur period

June 28, 2009 at 1:33 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jade 12,
Do you think that you need a padded bra? Alot of girls in my school don't wear bras, i don't and i'm 12 too. If you think that you are ready to then go ahead but don't do it for your friend. Personally if you don't need one why waste the time. You'll need one eventually but maybe ot now
Jade 10,
try to read the signs...does he ever look at you. Do your friends even talk to him or any of his friends. I think that you should take your chances and talk to him your seld to find out the facts. ( if i were you i'd say that 10 is too young for a bf, but maybe you should try to be his friend first) :)

June 29, 2009 at 6:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jade 10 I think you should go up to him and just tell him that everyone keeps telling you he likes you(make sure you ask for the TRUTH because boy s are such jerks at times).Jade 12 it's ok that you're not fully grown yet that kind of stuff happens to some people.Although it's ok if you wear a padded bra you just feel left out, but keep in mind some people at age 13 probably don't even have boobs yet.

July 1, 2009 at 8:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Q#1: The same thing happened to me in 6th grade with a guy. He seemed like he was a real jerk but then I asked him why he was acting that way and he said he didn't know and then he started acting wayy cooler and now we are starting to become more then friends.
Q#2: Don't worry a lot of people are flat, including me and if you think you need a padded bra then go for it tell your mom and go get one. It might make you feel more confident around people. But if you don't feel confortable then don't wear one, as long as you feel good then you don't need to impress anyone else. Yours will grow eventually, and so will mine.

July 2, 2009 at 6:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hay jade!
Q #1-
of what ive learned from having a big brother and a boyfriend is when i guy says he really hates you really means he does like you! they just try to hide the truth but do a bad job of it. ou can also ask the boys friend to ask the boy you like if he likes any1 and if so who. i hope this helped!

July 4, 2009 at 3:02 PM  
Anonymous Catherine said...

Jade (10) i think you should believe your friends. This is because a lot of times when guys like us (especially at your age) they act mean to us so they can get our attention! and at other times girls feel insecure and think the worst!
hope it helped

Jade (12)
Jade, i never had this problem because i am skinny but have c cup boobs and i am only 13. But girls with boobs do have problems you probably never heard of. Boys come up to grabbing my boobs because they think it is funny. They say hurtful jokes because i look older. They sometimes say it is fake and say i got them at the dollar store. I know and they know that they are not fake though. Be happy what you have because their is another girl who wishes she had nothing. I use to but then i learned to love my body and things worked out for the better. You need to love your body.

July 6, 2009 at 2:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oky Doky. Well, Jade 10, I had a guy do this to me. What you can do is, ask a person who you don't really hang out with (so that the guy doesn't suspect anything) but someone you can trust to ask him if he likes you. You can even get that person to list ALL of the girls that he would like. If it is possible, I would recomend trying to get his best guy friend to ask this for you (If you two speak reguarly enough)or someone who doesn't mind being embarrassed if this guy thinks that she likes him (and be able to set him straight of course!) Good Luck and "adios!"

Jade 12,
I started getting my lovely boobies when I was about 10. However, they started off growing really s l o w l y... But, I asked my mum if I could get a padded bra (This was mostly because my "Headlights" would pop on and it would be EXTREMELY embarrassing!)She said yes, and not only did it create a great "sheild" around my "headlights", it also made my bobs look kinda bigger. I must add though, it only makes 'em look a little bit bigger (1cm most of the time, but if you get REALLY padded bras, it can go up to 2cm, or you can get a water bra! However I don't recomend getting a padded bra that is three sizes too big for you... or two... or even 1 size too big because then it can be kinda hard to explain when your "boobs" are extremely... flexible...). If YOU want your boobs to seem bigger, go for the padded bra, it makes your boobs look bigger and is no crime, so you don't have to feel like you're faking the boobs. Good Luck!!!

July 7, 2009 at 8:41 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

jade 10
right a anonymous comment to him he might just submit if he likes you or not

July 7, 2009 at 4:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

jade 10
tell him how you feel might anderstand

July 7, 2009 at 4:50 PM  
Anonymous Clairebear said...

trust your friends. they know what they're talking about!

July 8, 2009 at 8:03 PM  
Anonymous Clairebear said...

your bra size doesn't matter! just be yourself.

July 8, 2009 at 8:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jade 12
i am 12 and sometimes wear a bra that fits me or a padded one. as long as you happy with yourself than thats fine. Padded bras can look silly if u wear them big then u start growing and stop wearikng them though. i kno some girls who have breasts but wear a padded bra to make them look bigger. it does not matter as long as you feel comfy in what ever you do

July 9, 2009 at 12:25 PM  
Anonymous emily said...

Jades,
(question 1) boys are so unpredictable!! usually guys acting like jerks is their way of flirting! so just ignore him and if he does it more, it means he likes you!

(question 2) i don't have anything either. if you want to wear a padded bra that's fine, but it makes you look insecure. don't worry about that because eventually they will grow. just be patient.

July 21, 2009 at 11:44 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jades,

1, i think you should ask him if he likes you as a friend then go from there. 2, you do what you think you should.

August 7, 2009 at 11:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I was just like u a bit ago in sixth grade then I got them so I wore no bra till I needed one so dont wear one till u need one.

August 9, 2009 at 10:56 PM  
Anonymous Lily, 12 said...

To the second Jade:

NO! That does not make you a fraud! I wear a padded bra but thats me, but I think its fine to wear one if you want.
Wearing a padded bra is like seeing into the future its what your boobs will look like in the future.


WARNING: Some bras have a thinner padding than others so pick a thin one because is you go to thick people will think you want to pretend to have big boobs or will know your wearing a padded bra, 'cause really who's boobs grow that fast? And thick ones are just hotter! Eww Sweat!




Good luck and bras don't make you a fraud!!!

August 10, 2009 at 8:21 AM  
Anonymous Dany said...

1. just dont give up, if he dosent have a pencel give him one right away, try makeing friends with him help him with stuff he will reaize sooner or later your a good person.

2. Yea you can use padded bra, but remember, if one day your dont have boobs you cant have boobs the next day you have to go slow or pepole will notice

August 28, 2009 at 11:39 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well that just puts you in a very tough situation but do what you think is right!!!Well about the boy you can just try to get to know him and be his friend.

October 15, 2009 at 9:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jade 12!
i have the same problem!!!! i am very flat!! everyone in my whole school has boobs expect for me! my sister that is 12 already has boobs! and i am 13 and i dont have them!! ughhh!!

October 21, 2009 at 11:17 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have both problems!! im rly flat but i wear a padded bra and its realy comfy, and i rly rly like this guy and he flits with me wich hints he likes me back so i asked him out and he said no because he wasnt ready for a relationship although he was ready because he had already asked out another girl! but she (fortunatly) said no! this guy still flits with me even though he doesnt want a relationship! i think he rejected me because i have small boobs! can any1 give me advice on what 2 do? iv tryed 2 move on but i cant!!i didnt get a reply on the other board so i am asking hear plz help!!

November 2, 2009 at 5:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my boyfriend is short and everyone makes fun of me because i am tall.but i really like him HELP

November 10, 2009 at 7:11 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i think you should my friends told me the same thing and my breasts dont hurt and i kind of feel naked with out one talk with your mom and give it a try and my breasts are very flat

November 11, 2009 at 7:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

jade 12) i've never really had this happen but just act like u don't care how they act and mayb they'll confess sooner or later... u never know he may really like u and act sweet or he could act sweet and just not like u or he could be a total jerk and like u or not... if he's a jerk then u might just give it up and walk away chances are he'll do bad things in life and to u so just say no to that type of guy!

jade 10) heyy it won't make u a fraud... wat will is if u stuff ur bra but i hope u never do that... its not like anyones judging u on how big or small ur boobs are... anyways if u absolutely want to wear a padded bra or u just wanna wear a sports bra do wat makes u feel comfortable... i was only a size 32A while i had a friend who was younger wearing a 36A and it made me kinda sad... but then i grew into a size 34A and i was there for a while... then i was a size 36A for two weeks... then i grew into a 34B!! see eventually u'll get boobs even if they're not huge it doesn't matter... besides ur friends will like u for u not bcuz of how big ur boobs are!!! hope this helps both jades!!!!!!

November 16, 2009 at 5:19 PM  
Blogger battynora said...

my advice to people who thinks their crush hates them is this does he tease you if he does he likes you does he joke about you if he does he likes you and if he doesn't stop talking about you he likes you

December 4, 2009 at 11:32 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

for the jade with boy problems: i would just wait for him to make his move. i had belived my best friend and made a fool out of myself.follow ur heart and think pink!
for the jade with her personal problem i would not stuff ur bra but be proud that u dont have any breasts while u can bc when u get them its another part to clean! be true and proud and think pink!

January 3, 2010 at 4:37 PM  
Anonymous Amber said...

Boys dont always show or make it look like they like you so your friends probably might know something more or they are just being nice.
Q2 What ever makes you comfortable. If you dont want to wear a bra till you need one thats fine. You dont always have to fit in. SOmetimes its good to stand out.

January 6, 2010 at 12:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Jade, I know how you feel on the male problems, every girl has problems knowing if he likes you or not. I have problems with that to, but good thing is that in time you will know the truth. Just listen to your heart, but don't be fully oblivious on what your friends are saying. Also take some quizzes or look up the signs. Eventually your heart and mind will come to rest on this idea. Good Luck.

January 15, 2010 at 9:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Me i never had problems like that (im 12) but ive seen alot of movies and stuff like that with girls who are expecting or wanting boobs i think u shouldnt worry bout it youll get them sooner or later oh and the whole boy thing dont worry bout that either cause most boys mostly like girls who have boobs or developed bodys.

January 27, 2010 at 9:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

who cares about boobs you'll get them i dont think you should belive your friends cause my friends say that but there just trying to be nice and i now that guy doesnt like me and just be cool calm and smart just not like a geek...

March 14, 2010 at 10:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

jade age 10,
believe whoever u want to. just listen to ur heart!

March 19, 2010 at 9:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

jade age 12,
well, i dont have boobs either, but I dont caare cuz im only in 5th grade, so i cant help u here, sorry

March 19, 2010 at 9:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well i have that same problem AND I AM 14 YEARS OLD! no joke maybe u can use the padded bra until ure boobs grow!No One will ever notice!hope that i helped !!

March 26, 2010 at 1:29 PM  
Anonymous naomi said...

i have boobs d im 9 i also have a boyfriend

March 28, 2010 at 7:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have boobs and i am 10 i don't wear a bra but i don't have a boyfriend

March 30, 2010 at 3:47 PM  
Anonymous Casey said...

#1.i have a boy in my class who used to hate me but i asked him if he hated me and he said no and that he liked me ALOT!!! now we are dating!!! try it!!!!!!

#2.if your heart says you ned boobs now then where a paded bra BUT if your heart says you are fine the way you are then i think you should just be jade with no paded bra.


both of you just be yourself!!!!!

April 12, 2010 at 7:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

to Jemma,
hi by the way cool name i have a question i have a crush on someone at school shall i tell him or what!!!! we were together but he dumped me


ps.please give me advice

April 18, 2010 at 12:42 PM  
Anonymous cara said...

padded bras dont bounce when you run and they look fake anyways. just forget it. my friend wears like 36a and already has had 5 boyfriends and she is in 7TH GRADE. besides who wants alot of fat down their shirt anyways? just learn to love your boobs and one day they will grow. just look at your momma you will most likely be her boob size. dont show cleavage and wear clothes that fit well on you. and never touch your boobs in public or people will think you are some weird person. bye.

April 22, 2010 at 7:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dear jades,
Q1:write him a note saying i heard a roumer that you liked me is it true if it is them ok and if not then thats ok too or something like that and just put it in his locker or desk hell find it sooner or later but that is only if you wont.
Q2:i dont really know i started wearing a sports bra at first but i was in gr 3 but in gr 4 i had an a cup and i wore a padded bra i read a comment that it wont bounce when you rub you wont bounce when you run untill your atleast a b cup and even with a padded bra youll bounce but a padded bra is not a fraud but my friend is in gr 8 and still flat as a board but wat your boobs will catch up with your body sooner or later

May 7, 2010 at 1:26 AM  
Anonymous Mickayla aka Scared for period said...

Dear Jade thats 12,
Wearing a padded bra when you have no boobs isn't gonna make you a fraud. One of my friends that's 13 has no boobs and still wears a padded bra! I need a padded bra and im 10! But all girls develop at a different rate. I started growing boobs at 9 and had discharge at 9 but still no period! One of my 10 year old friends has already started her period. And another one of my friends are 16 and still doesn't have boobs yet! I only wear a size 32A. Eventually your boobs will grow! JUST KEEP BEING HOPEFUL!

Mickayla aka Scared for period, age 10

August 2, 2010 at 10:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i like a boy at my school but im new people say he likes me i wanna ask him but tey might think that im nasty and too fast help meeeee

April 8, 2011 at 6:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i gave a couple buys some notes and my teacher found out and called my mom so(he found out because one of the boys told!!!!!!!!!!)that made me think i will never give a boy a not it is not there thing know if i have a question for a boy i just ask them face to face or call,text,on the bus! etc when evr nobody is around that is when i ask.

June 1, 2011 at 6:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have the same problem... my breasts are not growing and i am 12 to. My mom says wait for them to grow,maybe you should ask your mom.

November 3, 2011 at 3:46 PM  
Anonymous t-swizzle said...

some boys will act like they hate u when there crazy bout u honestly. ive overheard boys say wow "t-swizzle" is REALLY PRETTY i wanna talk to her. how? i ask them and there like *blush* EWWW GROSS *stutter* i dont like u. *pants* where'd u get that idea. im like sure *smirk* c ya.

December 27, 2011 at 10:28 AM  

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