Emergency! She has to kiss a boy in a play!

We get a lot of interesting questions, but this one was REALLY interesting.

Dear PLS
I have to kiss a boy in a play. I need Advice!!
Emily, 13

OMG, I don't know what I would do. It's ACTING of course, so you don't have to actually like the guy, but still could be AWKWARD. My first thought is to try to talk to the guy about it, become his friend, and see if he is nervous, too. I bet he is! Joking about it might make you both feel better.

OK, Pink Locker Girls, what do you say to Emily The Actress about her big stage kiss?!

BTW, all this week we're going to talking about your boy questions. You've sent in tons of dilemmas and quandries about B-O-Y-S!

Think pink!
Jemma

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Anonymous Bubbles said...

it's okay....is there SOMEBODY that you like in ur skool? if so close your eyes and pretend its the guy YOU would WANT 2 kiss? i ope this helps!

June 22, 2009 at 2:30 PM  
Anonymous Dominique said...

I would just pretend it's my crush ;)

June 22, 2009 at 2:56 PM  
Anonymous Cassidy said...

Don't worry! It will be over before u know it! just ge into character and act like you really like him. Maybe you guys can talk about it before the play i am shure u guys feel the same about kissing. Your just acting dont be nervous it's not like it will last a lifetime just a few seconds of your life! I hope this helps!

June 22, 2009 at 7:50 PM  
Anonymous alexis said...

Don't worry I kissed a boy in a school play it was weird at first and then I got to know him better and we became good friends just friends it was cool the thing is if you do like him tell him if you are having practice just start talking to him sometimes it will happen to start to date.

P.S.(only if you like him)

June 22, 2009 at 9:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You could do the old pretend kiss. My brother did in his play and it worked out very well.

June 22, 2009 at 10:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just close ur eyes chilax and pretend its a dude u like. For example if I had 2 do it I would just pretend its Zac Efron or Joe Jonas. Pretend its a guy in ur skewl dat u like OR pretend its ur fav guy celeb! I hope it work!

June 23, 2009 at 8:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I would say just pretend that its your crush! close you eyes and just picture him in front of you. OR like the person above of me wrote, pretend its your fave guy celeb. Also try talking to they guy about it and see how he feels about kissing. I really hope this helps, im not much of an advice giver!

June 23, 2009 at 9:49 AM  
Anonymous anna said...

you can do this i woud be scared to, if i were with you i will try to tell that there more bad things, and try to think that you are Dreaming and that you kissing a boy you like, i hope you will be ok

June 23, 2009 at 12:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

first just relax all you can do is close your eyes and think its a HOT guy celeb or just think its the cutest boy in school.or all u have to do before u take the kiss take a deep breath in and out and just close your eyes u can hold your breath for a sec if its more comfortable and pucker up. and keep in mind two things. #1 its acting u dont have to really like the guy. #2 if you "ACT" like u were deep in the kiss and u like acting on stage then u may be on a tv show or some thing if act really awsome!!!

June 24, 2009 at 1:21 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Aww poor thing! Ask the director about fake kissing. If it doesn't work out, don't freak out. It'll be ok. Picture a cute boy, and don't worry. It's a play. Your an awesome actor for doing it, girl!

June 24, 2009 at 7:37 PM  
Anonymous NG said...

My advice is picture your crush or favorite actor.

June 25, 2009 at 6:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

simple!pretend the guy u have to kiss is ur secret crush!!i told u, simple!

June 29, 2009 at 7:26 PM  
Anonymous Lachelle;) said...

Well first I guess you should talk to him about it, tell him you're nervous about than scene.Then probably ask how he feels about it too.After just get it over with because it might help you in the future if you want to become an actress.;)

July 2, 2009 at 5:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

actors and actresses do that all the time.......but they practised all this when they were your age, in these plays and all!.....i have had to kiss 2-3 times, they always make me the princess:D

July 6, 2009 at 1:15 AM  
Anonymous Sam said...

wow emily. heres what i thnk. just close your eyes, count to erm,let's say 2, then pull away and you're done. i dont exactly know if this helps but its the best i could do.

August 12, 2009 at 8:08 PM  
Blogger athenianlady said...

ask if you could do a fake kiss, or a stage kiss. the most realistic way i can think of is to grab the person's face, and put your thumbs, facing vertically, on the other person's lips. then you lean in and kiss your thumbs. it looks very realistic, and it looks like you are just holding the other persons face.

August 14, 2009 at 12:35 PM  
Anonymous Dany said...

maybe u can kiss him right but not on the lips but near them so it would look like your realy kissing him

August 28, 2009 at 11:27 AM  
Anonymous beth said...

You could get friendly with him, and start kiss dating. Then it wouldnt be so weird! thats what I'd do if I had the chance!!

September 4, 2009 at 1:49 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have to kiss a boy in a school play too. I just asked that boy if he really want to KISS to than he said maybe. Remember when a BOY said Maybe he meant YES so just ask that boy and maybe you'll start liking him, that's what happened to me and we started Dating and stuff........... so just ask him how he feels and MAYBE you'll get together with him. I hope it works on You Jess

September 15, 2009 at 1:20 AM  
Anonymous brianna said...

give the boy a quick kiss

September 16, 2009 at 2:37 PM  
Anonymous jasmine said...

i think der is nothing to worry about..after all its just an acting..but be prepared.hu knows dat guy might turn out to be gud..

September 21, 2009 at 4:37 AM  
Anonymous Kikira said...

You can put a piece of plastic on your lips so you won't feel the kiss!!!!!

October 25, 2009 at 4:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just stay calm and when he's about to kiss you close your eyes and just think it's a boy that yiu want to kiss.

November 8, 2009 at 4:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

heyy just do it really quick cuz theres not a time limit... if u like this guy its really awkward and plus u never know he might like u and the kiss may feel like theres fireworks and if u like him u two might end dating or better getting married... hope this helps!!!

November 16, 2009 at 5:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ouch... what i would do is ... uhhh... id get 2 no him i guess... sorry, but i am kinda new 2 the whole kissing world so im probably not being much help here...

ANONYMOUS (K)AKA KATIEMK

November 20, 2009 at 10:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just act like he is the guy you have a crush on. You are really lucky if you ask me because I have been waiting for my first kiss and just to see what it feels like!

November 22, 2009 at 5:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

k well first LEARN HOW 2 KISS

November 27, 2009 at 8:07 PM  
Anonymous Carla said...

Well, if you like that boy, its ok. But try to pretend that he doesnt like you, otherwise there will be rumors about you and that guy. Dont panic. If he doesnt like you, well, you can talk with him about it and find a solution.
Bye!!!

December 9, 2009 at 4:56 PM  
Blogger Ishita said...

omg u r really in troble! if i would in your place i would talk to him.

January 6, 2010 at 1:04 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dont worry its just a small kiss it doesnt mean anything and if u still feel a bit weird about it talk to him about it and you might find out he feels the same way so you two can help each other out and get threw it

February 20, 2010 at 4:55 PM  
Anonymous zahara said...

hay gurl get to know him if hs a nice guy and handsome kiss away!!!!

March 1, 2010 at 11:51 PM  
Blogger momo1212 said...

i think that you should just give him a quick kiss on the lips ok.

March 28, 2010 at 9:15 PM  
Anonymous caitlin v.g. said...

wow!I have some stuff too u know so what u should do is give him a quick kiss on the cheek.because u are not at your wedding! OMG! caitlinv.g.

April 24, 2010 at 12:06 PM  
Blogger chitnis said...

just close ur eyes and let ur imagination take over. its only for a few seconds, and if u still feel really nervous, just tell the guy. find out how he feels about it and if he's good to go, then let him take care of you--just stand there and pucker up. everything will just fall into place from there.

April 26, 2010 at 8:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

perhaps u dont have to kiss him on the lips it wouldnt be so bad if you didnt

May 8, 2010 at 3:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey just kiss him with pashion

May 17, 2010 at 10:40 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had to do this is 4th grade without any notice beforehand. You just tell that little voice of worries in you to hit the road and go. Don't worry, it happens to us all!

June 14, 2010 at 7:06 PM  
Anonymous lawofdating said...

My first thought is to try to talk to the guy about it, become his friend, and see if he is nervous, too.

October 7, 2010 at 8:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just pretend he's Justin Bieber or somethin...

February 19, 2011 at 10:18 PM  
Anonymous Nicole said...

wow so came across this blog when I was Google-ing something. I've been doing plays for forever, and this is something I am always worried about happening. And not just cuz it would be weird kissing someone in front of a bunch of people, but because I (feel free to laugh its ok) have never kissed a guy before and I vowed in like the 3rd grade that I would NOT let my first kiss be on stage. That's happened to a couple of my friends and it would suck if it happened to me. In 8th grade, I was Sandy in GREASE and had to kiss Danny, but just on the cheek, Thank goodness!!! It was still really awkward though, but mostly because he was really shy and had this huge crush on me the entire year, which of course, I didn't know about till after the play, But the wholllllllle school knew so everyone was always asking if we were dating.... yeah talk about awkward.

anyway know your play was a while ago, so hope it went okay!

February 26, 2011 at 6:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I would keep cool and not panic,DO NOT FREAK.just keep your cool.

November 3, 2011 at 3:40 PM  
Anonymous Fairythunder said...

I'd say: If you really don't want to kiss the boy, ask your parents and see if you can change your role. If you don't mind, it'll be okay. If someone asks if you're dating the boy, say something like, "It was just a play."

November 17, 2011 at 1:11 PM  
Anonymous hi said...

THey acually make you kiss someone in a play???

September 4, 2012 at 11:15 AM  
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