When your crush sends mixed signals...

One minute it seems like a boy likes you. He winks at you or teases you in that "just kidding" kind of way. He asks if you are going the the hayride. Hmmmmmm...you think - what does it mean? Then the next minute, you hear he likes someone else and he's cozying up to her during the very same hayride he asked if you were attending! What gives?

But before we blame it all on boys and their impossible-to-understand ways, girls are guilty, too. I know I have felt one way about a guy one minute and the next minute I'm not so sure. (Not about Forrest, of course.) Even more often, I wonder if I'm giving mixed signals to guys who might like me, but I don't even realize it. Is it a mixed signal to say hi to someone or say, "I like your shirt?"

So for all those reasons, today I'm featuring questions from girls who are asking about mixed signals.

Dear PLS,
I have a major crush on this boy.
There is only one thing: We are sworn enemies.
My friends think that he has a crush on me because he'll talk to them but won't when I'm around.
Please help me!
I've got it bad!
Regina, aka Green Girl
P.S. this is my fourth time writing. :)

Dear PLS,
What happens when you break up with someone but you still like them?
Caitlin, 11

im totally in lovee with this onee guy but his mood swings are kinda givin me whiplash one minute hes totally nice but the next he's really moody, is this normal or should i give up this is the third time ive asked this plz answer xxxxx

LoveeStuck, 13

Green Girl (Regina), Caitlin, and LoveeStuck all need our help. What do you say? I say try not to over-analyze every little moment. That's easier to say than to do, though. If Forrest, my crush extraordinaire, says "Hey," I put it under the microscope. Other ideas on dealing with mixed signals?

Think pink!


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Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am having the same problem too. My crush is always nice to me like a friend, and always sits at the same lunch table. But when he is with his friends and I walk by, he acts like he doesn't even know me. I need the same kind of help you guys do, but I have more signals that he has a crush on me too!

November 30, 2009 at 6:10 PM  
Anonymous taija,11 a.k.a tallie/smart girl said...

I really like this boy in my class a nd he's always making fun of me in a kiding way but he also calls me ugly sometimes I wonder if he's just kidding or if he's serious HELP ME I'M UGLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

November 30, 2009 at 9:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i really like this boy in my class.i think he likes me back.but i dont know what to tell him. please help!!!!

December 1, 2009 at 4:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


December 1, 2009 at 8:53 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am 13 years old, and in the eighth grade, I am upset though, beacuse I dont like anyone. So far, i havnt found anyone who shares my interests, or who is "my type" And im worried that I will have to wait a lifetime before I find a guy that is right for me. can anyone help me?

December 1, 2009 at 6:55 PM  
Anonymous Jade (10) said...

Hey all,
Jade here,
Q1:im in ur exact same position GG! a few months back i submitted a question and it got submitted on the blog. my Q waz dat my crush and i were enemies nd i think he hates me.lyk, my friends were telling me he lyked me but i wasnt so sure. i think that u should get 2 no this guy bettr becuz guys r no good w/ romance and 2 cover up that they lyk some1 they try 2 do as much as they cn 2 be mean 2 this grl. so just try 2 get 2 no him and he'll eventually show his true feelings. u also dont wnt 2 freak him out by saying"Do u Lyk me?" just take it slow.
Q2:hey Caitlyn, if u broke up w/ this guy but still lyk him, then look bak on y u broke up w/ him. Is he worth it? did u get in2 2 many fights? if he is worth it, just concentrate on being friends w/ him for a while, then after he is comforable around u then maybe u cn get bak together. If hes not worth it, then just chill w/ ur friends. that always wrks.and eat lots of chocolate!;)
Q3:Hey LoveeStuck, lyk i sed for Q1, i waz in de exact same position!usually, wen a guy is mean 2 u, that basically means that hes afraid 2 show his feelings. guys will be guys. they dont wnt any other guys thinking they're mushy, soft or whipped. Think bak, were his friends or other guys around wen hes really moody? nd is nice wen its just u or u and ur grlfriends? either that, or hes just prolly going through puberty! LOL guy pms! so, just try 2 be friends w/ him nd hit it off from there!

Hope i helped u lot! GOOD LUCK W/ THE GUYS U FANCY!

<3 Jade

December 1, 2009 at 9:29 PM  
Anonymous essiii said...

hey GreenGirl,
youh should get to kno dis guy if ur so into him. give him da benefit of the doubt. idk wut dat means but it sounds kool. anywayz, talk to him, but not in an obvious "I LOVE YOU" type. inna friendly, jokey, kool type. 4 caitlin, i agree wit jade. if youh kno dat u guys will get nowhere, n u fight, dun get along, etc. its prob betta dat u break up. but if u still lyk him..maybee u can work it out, maybee not. u will kno wen n if da time comes. n 4 LoveeStruck, (oh btw nyce name XD) u shud follow ur heart. if da guys bf-material, den he seems guud. if hes not, den.....well, its harder. if u think dat he lyks u, thats good always too. anywayz, GL! to u guys!! ~~~~essiii

December 2, 2009 at 3:20 AM  
Anonymous Anne said...

Hey, no worries! This could be a good sign that the boy likes you back. When it's just two, alone together, he is more comfortable with you. But when other people are around, for example his friends, he gives you the cold shoulder to disguise his crush on you. On other occasions, he might have a crush on you but at the same time he doesn't want to have a crush on you but he does. His feelings could be really mixed up right now so he doesn't know how to handle them.
I hope this helped!

December 2, 2009 at 7:10 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hope this answers your Questions!!!

Q1: Green Girl, i think every girl has to go through this at some time or other. I think (and this is just my opinion) that you should probably just try to be nice to him and see if that works out. See if he notices a difference in you. A lot of times your friends tell you that they think your crush likes you, but have they asked him??? Maybe the reason he doesn't talk to you might be that he also has a crush on you and he's shy :)Just try to get to know him a little better and if he likes you his feelings will show sometime.

Q2: Hey Caitlyn, Think back and ask yourself WHY you broke up with him. Did you just get tired of each other after a while?? If he isn't worth the loving, Try to like someone else. If you like him no matter what happened, just try being friends for a while, and Whenever you think the time is best, just ask him out, or just be friends forever :)

Q3: Ya 'know LoveeStuck, this might be the sign that he likes you. If he is mean to you, just be nice back. He'll probably notice that you will stick with him through thick and thin, no matter how he acts. He might be going through puberty or he might be going through a situation he just doesn't know how to handle.
Think pink!

December 2, 2009 at 4:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks so much jade, essii, and Anne.
Hope it works out.
love from
Green Girl

December 2, 2009 at 4:20 PM  
Anonymous Alyssa said...

Hey I'm kind of in the same promble i like this boy and he is always stare at me. One day he's friend yelled at me " hey Alyssa brock here likes you!!!" My friends think he is stupid so I hide my crush.now I'm mad cause he is going out with a girl I know good!!!!! What do I do he still stares at me and one time when he broke up with his first girlfriend he sent his friends and hid behind me???? Help please

December 3, 2009 at 10:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey girls I'M YOUR GINOUR MOUS FAN IN THE WORLD.How do i know i need a bra or how do i pass stuff like math and social studies?!!! LOVE YOUR FAN CONCERNED!

December 3, 2009 at 2:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

great glad your problem worked out

December 3, 2009 at 5:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


December 3, 2009 at 5:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

loveestuck mood swings are very common i used to have them myself one minute i was happy the next i wanted to scream or slap someone.its okay it will pass.it did for me

December 3, 2009 at 5:18 PM  
Blogger battynora said...

the truth is boys all have mood swings usally when they have a crush on you they either show it by 1) ignoring you 2) talking to your friends or 3) talking to you the whole time - you get used to it and in some ways it's kinda cute, don't rush in and have a relationship with them enjoy it while it lasts let them make a fool out of themselves while there about you the crush dies away slowly then but if you where in a relationship it usally ends up in a break-up about a week after

December 3, 2009 at 7:05 PM  
Anonymous ashlee said...

hey i met this guy one night on my birthday and he was really cute he told me he liked me and i liked him back the only problem is that i have never seen him again and i think about hime everyday and i want to know if he still likes me but i cant read his mind

December 3, 2009 at 7:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My friend has a boyfriend so shes always talking about him. My best friend whos a guy happens to be her best friend too and she always makes fun of me and this guy, like how we are made for each other. I never liked him that way but now i kind of do, idk wat to do!!!

December 4, 2009 at 7:09 PM  
Anonymous Kaycelynn said...

my crush goes out with one of my best friends and i feel left out anytime they hang out i dont no what to do!!!!

December 5, 2009 at 9:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had a dream about a boy i used to like.My friends say he was like "eww".Even my BFF!
What do I do???

December 5, 2009 at 3:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ok boy's are wierd and will send mixd sighns so if hey are seen with other girls there probaby tying o make you jeluos, and his probably shy aroud you so his probaby your enemy so he wont hav to get shy around you, nd don't give up in him he probaby has a lot on his mind.

December 6, 2009 at 12:50 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

There's this boy and we're like cousins... his mom and my mom are from the same country... Anyway not long ago someone suggested that I ask him out... I'm really scared what if he doesn't like me back/ what if it ruins our friendship...
But sometimes I catch him looking at me and he smiles at me!!! Help!!!

December 6, 2009 at 9:41 AM  
Anonymous Violet (in love girl) said...

Hi girls my name is violet and theres i guy that it seems his inlove with me i had i crush with him this friday.well i was so shy.now he thinks i love him i do love him but idk wut to do. girls do i tell him to be my boyfriend or i leave it like that?

December 6, 2009 at 2:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well if you are having trouble knowing whether they like you or not stay away from them for a couple of days or so and see if they "go after" you (so to speak) or if when you by your locker and they appear close (like a1or2 feet away) then they most likly like you!!!!! gooood luck:)!!

December 6, 2009 at 4:21 PM  
Anonymous Nicole said...

Okay,this is for all the girls who wrote those questions:
1.If you and your crush are sworn enemies, try to make a truce with him. You know,be friends. And maybe a while after you guys start being more friendly, you could ask him out. Or maybe if things go even better he'll ask you out.
2.If you break up with someone and you still like them,see if they feel the same way.If they do,maybe you could get back together.If they don't,you have to move on.
Just don't think about guys for a while.And if someone asks you out say yes because it may take your mind off the other person.
3.If you like a guy and his mood keeps changing,from my expierience,it's normal.But don't ask him about it,though.Guys hate when things like that are put straight out there in the atmosphere.Next time he does it,just say "gosh" or something,and he may feel bad and explain his behavior to you.
Hope I helped!

December 6, 2009 at 8:59 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Been There, Done That. There was this guy who I thought was really cute and all my friends thought was horribly ugly. He seemed funny, smart, and kind...some days. On other days he practically ignored my hellos and avoided me as much as he could. He made fun of me and laughed at me with his friends. But for some really stupid reason that I still don't know, I still liked him. So, I summoned up as much courage as I could from all the way to my toes and I asked him out! And guess what!?!?! He said yes and that he had liked me all along and he had decided that he was going to ask me out the following week! Yay! We have had loads of fun skating, roller blading, biking, and watching movies together! If you really like someone but they are giving you mixed signs, just ask! Even if he doesn't like you, it won't hurt to ask. You never know! Maybe he really is in love with you!

Catherine, age 13 --- a girl with an awesome boyfriend!

December 7, 2009 at 5:53 PM  
Anonymous jenim1101 said...

JUST BE FRIENDS! seriously, the fastes way too lose a guys intrest is to act all mushy around him. If youre nice, just not too nice and you dont freak out around him, you have about a sixy percent chance of getting the guy.

December 7, 2009 at 10:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Theres this guy whos friends with my friend sarah and she told me he said he liked me and one of my friends asked him if he liked me and he lyed and said no and my one friend overheard him talking to his friend about me it was weird and i dont even like him back

December 8, 2009 at 10:10 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Help i'm new At a new school and this guy spread a rumor that he was going to dump his gf for me and his gf sAid she was going to bEat me up now he alway look at me when I think he is Stupid wat dO I do

December 8, 2009 at 11:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

girls like that are all talk and no bite.. dont worry! round up a few friends (so your confidence will boost) and ask her why she said she wants to beat you up. If she acts like she NEVER even hear those words put together in the same sentence and she doesnt know what ur talking about, shes all talk.. no bite! if she was like "u stole him!" or something like that say"Its not my fault he likes me. i dont see y ur mad." hope this helped~

December 8, 2009 at 2:59 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have a crush on a boy my bff likes. he likes someone. it might be me. i need HELP !!!!

December 8, 2009 at 9:54 PM  
Blogger eniyah said...

i have a crush on this guy but i think he is datiing someone else!!! HELP also, we are friends and i we were really close friends in the summer time!! but we've sorta drifted ways helpp please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and,he's really nice and smart, and quiet, i told him i didn't like him!!!

D: i didin't mean it either.,... and i miss him.... and he's a "ladies man" i really need help!!!!!! So the girl that he is possibly dating is with him every single day, and they stand close to eachother.... it's saddening and depressing... there's not really a "menu" of boys at my school...... i really like him and i don't want to change my mind!!!!!!

(Help)signed, E'niyah

December 8, 2009 at 11:41 PM  
Anonymous Nikki said...

i like this guy (B) but the wierd thing is that he is also one of my best friends. My best friend is the only who knows and she totally agrees that we are the perfect pair. I'm not really allowed to date guys yet but I really like B and my friend knows it. I don't want to ask him out because I'm afraid of getting rejected. But what if he likes me more than a friend too and asks me out? What should I do???I really need help...plzzz someone help me!

December 9, 2009 at 6:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i want aboyfriend but i dont know how 2 tell if anyone likes me so give me advice im in middle skool i need it

December 10, 2009 at 6:41 PM  
Anonymous Heather said...

Hey I hear you. If u want to know if a guy likes u then it won't be that easy to tell. Sometimes guys act all moody and tough in front of their pals and you're thinking wats up with this guy? But that could be a sign that he likes you. Also they might stare at you alot but then they stop as soon as they see you've noticed. Don't act so desperate and be like I need a boyfriend it will take some time so chill. Hope I helped love the PLS. -Heather

December 10, 2009 at 11:23 PM  
Anonymous Carsy said...

I have a lot of guy friends and only a few girl friends and I'm a girl. What does that mean????-Carsy

December 11, 2009 at 4:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It might mean that you just like hanging out with boys more than girls! there is nothing wrong with that!!!!!! actually,your "girl"friends might be a wittle bit jealous that you get the attention from the boys,I would!!!!!!!!! YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!

December 11, 2009 at 7:16 PM  
Anonymous char char said...

catlin i have been in that same situation i just asked him out again

December 12, 2009 at 8:59 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My best guy friend has been acting weird around me ever since middle school started... some people say he likes me but I'm not sure. I just want my best friend back. What should I do!!

December 12, 2009 at 1:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think I have almost a same problem only the guy I like is super crazy about this girl he even wrote her initals on his wrist!

December 12, 2009 at 9:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

if your getting mixed signals just go up to him with one of your friends that you really trust...then just ask him if he likes you

December 13, 2009 at 7:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Q1:Unless you two argue every second, you're not sworn enemies... There's two possibilities. 1. He just doesn't know you that well so he doesn't know how to act around you. 2. He likes you but he doesn't know wether its a small crush or maybe the real thing. He hangs around your freinds to find out more about you. 3. Your freinds are just saying that to make you jealous since i'm pretty sure they know you like him.
Q2:Think about it. Who broke up with who? If it was the guy whos broke up with you, then Forget about him. He obviously doesn't know what he's missing. If you still like him, think why. Why do you like this guy? What didn't you like about this guy? Was he mean? There should be equal sides.When people are young, they all have these crushes. Don't worry, if in the end he ends up getting another girl in like 5 days, obviouly he doesn't like you. What's the point of dating a guy who oesn't like you at all?
Q3: Oh my God!! That's the exact same thing for me... Think about wether he was with his freinds when he was moody... If he's the popular kind then he likes you he just doesn't want his freinds to ditch him... If he's the shy nerdy type, then he's just confused and undecided

December 14, 2009 at 10:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have the same problem... there's a boy in my class and he sits next to me so we know each other really good, but we say we hate each other and I really like him, and people say he likes me but I don't think so because the guy who told me is his bff but he lies alot.

December 15, 2009 at 4:59 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Kaay.. so I like this guy in my class and one minute, hes flirting with me then alot of other girls.. he offers to carry my bag and books only me but.. my friends and his told me that he likes me.. should I confront the guy I like or just.. idk do nothing?

December 16, 2009 at 1:57 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My best friend and I both like the same guy! So i ask one of my guy friends if he likes one of us and he likes both of us. Recently me and my crush have been sitting by each other and ive started giving him hugs and he hugs me back, i also think he likes me to. I want to ask him out but i feel like that would make my friend really mad and jelouse and very sad because she likes him to! what should i do!?!?!?!?!??!?!

December 16, 2009 at 8:04 PM  
Anonymous Amber said...

Eh,forget about boys and just have fun!

December 18, 2009 at 12:38 PM  
Anonymous Sawyer30638 said...

Hi...Im sorta confused!!!!! Like,I like this boy....alot.And my friend told him...he sed he was taken.So i play it cool around him but really i still like him.I really wanna tel him for my self so i can get his answer direct from him..but im not sure how to bring it up.PLZ I NEED HELP!!!!

December 18, 2009 at 12:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i really like this guy but his last gf mt bf. hes also alot popular than me. the other day, we were playing in the snow and started communicating annd all that. i almost fainted. but still, his latest gf was my bf. im also scared his friends will tease me. wat should i do.

December 19, 2009 at 7:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i like this guy who is more popular than me. but im scared of his friends making fun of me. also, his ex girlfriensd is my best friend. one day on a free day at skool, we started talking and i figured out we have everything in common. we had a snowball fight, drew pictures, played videogames, (free day at my skool is awesome) But anyway, i realy like him wat should i do?

plz help!!!!

December 19, 2009 at 7:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i really like this guy and he likes me back but he doesn't know i like him! what do i do? he is older than me but all my friends say we are perfect together, he is perfect, but i can't date till i am 15. HELP! :)

December 23, 2009 at 4:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I really like this 4th grader but I'm a 5th grader..what do I do PLS?

December 23, 2009 at 6:19 PM  
Anonymous Cami Jo said...

Ok, so this really cute guy keeps txtn me and he flirts with me! We even told each other who we liked. I said him (he already knew! Lol) and he said this one other girl. I think he likes me though. I really want to go out with him but I dont want to be pushy! What do I do???

December 23, 2009 at 6:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

okay for cami joe ask him out even though you may not be his first choice it sounds like he would say yes anyway

December 23, 2009 at 8:06 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my best guy friend has been sending me mixed signals that he likes me since the beginning of the year. Does he like me? i kind of like him but i'm not sure if i do or not... :-(

December 24, 2009 at 6:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

For everyone who is having guy trouble, listen up. Your only in junoir high/high school, you have the rest of your life ahead of you. You'll find the right guy eventually. Don't be afraid to be turned down, if you like a guy enough ask him out yourself. If its one of you good friends he'll understand. Just be confident, and everything will work out! :) good luck

December 29, 2009 at 1:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

sometimes guys are hard to understand but if you like the guy and he likes you, you should get to know him as friends and work forward from that.

January 2, 2010 at 11:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i really like this guy that hated me, didn't hate me, and now likes me! He decided to annouce his liking in front of three other guys! I declined and now i feel like a complete idiot. What should i do? HEEEEEEELLLLLLLPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!

January 3, 2010 at 8:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OK so I like this guy (let's call him Jay) and we used to be bf/gf. I then broke up with him because I don't think eiter of us were ready for a relationship (we were in 5th grade) now that it's been a little less than a year, I'm ready to try again but he's now dating someone else and it seems like he hates me and I don't know why. I text him and he never texts back. Anyone got any ideas on what the heck is his problem? 'o'

January 9, 2010 at 12:31 PM  
Anonymous Lachelle said...

ok well that's kinda' REALLY confusing when your secret crush does that. You should probably try finding something you guys have in common. I have A LOT of people(mostly guys) that tease me a lot and we basically ALL hate each other. Although sometime way back in like 2nd grade one of my sworn enemies actually told people that he... well i'm not gonna let you guys listen to the story. My friends keep teasing me that he STILL likes me although he still claims he didn't. We both still compete in stuff and everyone is becoming more mature and let's face it guys mature WAY longer than girls do so ya. Just wait because he might find some feelings for you later. Just don't mind them.

January 9, 2010 at 4:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OMG. i have awful guy prob to. my boy friend and i broke up . he is still hitting on me. RIGHT IN FRONT OF MY NEW MAN!!!!!!!! I tell him to stop but he wont listen. it REALLY ticks me off! My man now is kinda avoiding me and acting odd. I think the other one is making him uncomfortable. Realy my X is OBSESSED with me! he cant leave me alone!
what should i do?????? any ideas?? PLEASE HELP IM BEGING YOU!!!!!!! i need to get me life back from this jrk!
i dont want to be mean to him.... but its getting to the point im going to have to!

January 12, 2010 at 3:06 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

There is this guy who is like my bffl.Im Starting to Like him more than just friends.I really dunno if he likes me like that

January 12, 2010 at 3:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Boys are freakin' messed up.

Known to u as Anonymous

January 12, 2010 at 5:01 PM  
Anonymous A said...

help i have a crush i never told my friends about because it is on a guy they think is stupid. i think he likes me becauese he is always stares at me and only make fun of my freinds not me. he friends even said that he likes me pppppppplllllleeeeeeaaaaaaaaaassssssssseeee hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeellllpppppppppppp

January 12, 2010 at 10:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dont matter what ur friends say. Dude just freakin' matters about what u think.Yo friends dont rule yo life.

Known to u as anonymous

January 13, 2010 at 7:46 PM  
Blogger caylee said...

Green Girl
i Think if he likes u he wil Talk 2 u buT my crush does Thesme Thing so i guesswe r in The same mess :( uhhgggggg

January 14, 2010 at 9:14 AM  
Blogger caylee said...

omg !!!!!! ok me and my friend think that these boys like us but we dont know they say they dont but they no they do what do we do ????

January 15, 2010 at 9:21 PM  
Blogger caylee said...

hey girls i need him 2 like me what do i do????

January 15, 2010 at 9:23 PM  
Anonymous Lulu said...

hey girlies
my boy friend is really making me mad but we r good family friends and i dont know if i wanna break up with him...what do i do?!?!

January 16, 2010 at 12:21 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Anyone who doesn't like someone, u are SOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooo lucky!!!!! Even if u feel like u aren't, believe me, u ARE!!!!! Once u start 2 like someone, things get really, super confusing..... u try 2 figure out if he likes u back, and if not, who he likes. Then try 2 figure out how 2 get him 2 like u. I'm listening 2 Barlowgirl songs on my iPod right now, and i would really reccomend them if ur allowed on Youtube or iTunes. <3 their songs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3<3<3<3<3<3<3

January 17, 2010 at 3:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm with you
Green Girl

January 18, 2010 at 10:35 AM  
Anonymous Jade said...

My crush and me are friends, but his other close friend is my ex best friend. What should I do?

January 19, 2010 at 5:40 PM  
Anonymous little miss swagger said...

i like this guy in my class and he is my best guy friend and peolpe say that we make a good couple but i think he likes me to so pleese help i need to know .

January 31, 2010 at 3:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have a guy friend and im 5 months older than him. im ok with that but he acts like a 5 year old sometimes and sometimes he doesnt

February 1, 2010 at 2:36 PM  
Anonymous Help Help HELP! said...

I really like this guy but he kinda (not really on the kinda) got a girlfriend... i liked him befor she (my kinda (again not really on the kinda) bff and he liked me to i think!... HELP pls

February 1, 2010 at 4:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I must say i am impressed at the response to my question.
Valentine's Day is coming so I'm crossing my fingers for something good to happen.
Thanks For your Support, Girls!
LoVe from
Green Girl
PLS Rules!

February 2, 2010 at 5:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi, i have this guy that i don't no really if i like...... its rly confusing. he's like kinda mean to me sometimes and then like right after that he's really nice and shows me what he did for his whatever thing in school...... plz help!!!!!

February 2, 2010 at 7:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a boy in my class I really like. he sits on my lap in class. Were going skating together with our class. I tought him how to skate. But his best friend hates me. Should I tell Mathew I like him?

February 4, 2010 at 8:33 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

there is this boy that i've liked for a while but he got mean as soon as my friends asked him out for me yeah it probably was like the tenth time i've asked him out but i've liked him for two years!WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!

February 4, 2010 at 1:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

all my guy friends are starting to like me and saying things like, "Your hott" and im fall in for it. i like this other guy but i just dont know what to do

February 4, 2010 at 1:40 PM  
Blogger allie said...

skater girl
if you guys have already sat on each others lap its seems like her likes you.but before you do tell him you like him ask yourself:
Do i want a boyfriend?
Do i want to wreck our relationship as friends?
Can i trust him that he wont brake my heart?
skater girl just make sure its what you want to do.

February 4, 2010 at 1:45 PM  
Anonymous marianna said...

i am totally crushing on the cutest, most athletic, most popular, honest, and nicest guy in the school. the problem is LOTS of other girls like him, too. i almost never get to talk with him. but he always does go to my parties. aghhh!! he's totally sending mixed signals!!!when i sat next to him in science, he'd sing songs like, "my Love," by justin timberlake or "burnin' up" by the jonas brothers.

February 5, 2010 at 4:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have the same problem because I like my friend's cousin and he likes someone.I think it is me!HELP ME!!!!!What do I do?

February 6, 2010 at 8:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I like a boy,but I'm to much of a coward to tell him I like him. I see him a lot, and we're friends, but I just can't say the words!

February 11, 2010 at 12:20 PM  
Anonymous corox2 said...

I like this one guy but I think this girl who was pretending to be my friend likes him to. One minute he likes her then he likes me, someone HELP!!!!!!!!!

February 13, 2010 at 12:14 AM  
Anonymous taralyn said...

i like this boy and i want to tell him i like him, but there are two problems. 1.) i'm too scared of rejection and 2.) my mom says i can't have a boyfriend until i'm 17. WHAT DO I DO????????

February 13, 2010 at 6:17 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I really want to tell this really cute guy I really like him but I am scared. You see..he also a VERY good friend of mine. What shall I do?


February 14, 2010 at 8:24 PM  
Anonymous A hopeless romantic said...

That's the worst thing you could do. Quick question:
Would you rather risk it and have a boyfriend,
Risk it and lose a good friend,
Or live in a state of worry until HE says the words?

Also, watch for signs. If he acts nervous around you, NOTICE! It might me he likes you. If he starts saying you're nice/sweet/cute/hot, you can start freaking out. One of you will say the words soon.

February 16, 2010 at 5:56 PM  
Anonymous carolynne said...

i'm very frustrated, my best friend is lauren and her brother jeremy is my boy freind and my boyfriends best friend sean is my enemy. so if me and jeremy hold hands he tells sean and then sean teases me about it. what do i do?

February 19, 2010 at 3:23 PM  
Anonymous Lachelle 11 said...

Wouldn't it be sooooooooooo much more easier if the guy just went up to you and told you how they felt about you?????? Life whoud be soo much easier if guys were like THAT!!!But unfortunately they aren't...
:( ~Lachelle! :(

February 22, 2010 at 10:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear PLS,
I have a crush on this boy, and I can't tell whether he likes me or not, without him finding out I like him!
Help! Aliyah

February 23, 2010 at 10:09 PM  
Anonymous Amelia,11 said...

This boy sits in front of and he makes it super obvious he likes me.I have a crush on someone else.What should I do if I dont want to hurt his feelings?

February 24, 2010 at 7:28 PM  
Anonymous Bella said...

GREEN GIRL: when a guy likes you the will most deffinetly chicken out when your around,thats a good sign that means he actually does think of you just talk to your friends and see what they can get out of him without being to obvious, hey you never know things may work out!!!:)
CAITLIN:this sorta things happen alot you dont know what you have until its gone, try talking to him and see how he feels i mean its worth a shot after all everyone deserves a second chance.
LOVE STRUCK:these type of people i wouidnt mess with when you get into a relationship where you dont know what the person is going to do or say its best to stay away its not healthy you are putting yourself in a situation that may be hard to get out of.

well hoped i helped, good luck to you all and bes regards

February 25, 2010 at 1:04 AM  
Anonymous alexis said...

duh alexis here,
question #1:ok pink locker society i really need your advice on this ok i really like this boy at my school but when im standing or sittin with my best friend at lunch he looks right though me! im a car rider every day and so is he and its like when ever im at lunch he looks right though me and at the car riders he sits next to me and he talks to me and i just dont know what to do??????
question #2: ok so i already told you about the dude at my school i like now there is still a problem you see i have dated him before and the reason i broke up with him is because he was always asking me quistions and thats why i broke up with him........................................................anyway there is also this other dude and he is in one grade bellow me (P.S.he is my neighbor)OMG and every time i try to tlk to him i get sooooooo nervus and my heart starts beating really fast and i just end up walking away what should i do?????????????????????????? O and if anyone elese has any ore advice for me plz plz plz tell me ok im all done with my stories lol=)
luv ya,

February 26, 2010 at 8:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi guys my name is Brianna. I'm in a simliar situation as you guys. I have a HUGE crush into this other guy. His in my math class and we are always flirting with each other. I'd sometimes catch him looking at me and everything. I told him I am really into him. And he just ok-and he was blushing then he said he think I'm cute. And a close friend of mine told me that the guy I like actually likes me back. So now I'm just curious if we both like each other, why can't he simply ask me out!?

February 27, 2010 at 10:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well throughtout my boyfriends i have learned to play hard to get. make them want you. dont prove yourself just be who u are.

March 1, 2010 at 4:59 PM  
Anonymous Bigm said...

Ok.I like this guy.He is a girl on my basketball team's brother.He just seems cute to me.He is about 4-5 years older.I have never been next to him or even talked to him.How can I start a conversation?

March 1, 2010 at 9:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okay, in middle school this guy starts air high fiving me during class, high five me with the hockey stick which he showed me how, called my name out and said hi when we both were going opposite directions, and said to me "You are my number one house dog" but in the last year of middle school he stopped because we didn't have any classes together and we see each other in the hallways and make eye contact a lot but then in high school it totally stops but since we have the same lunch together, I caught him looking at me and I looked back at him and he kept the eye contact with me. And my last year in middle school, I started to have a crush on him and i still do. My first question is Does he have a crush on me? My second question is What does you are my number one house dog mean? And my finial question is, If he does have a crush on him, why doesn't he talk to me at all?
I can' talk to him because I'm too shy and he knows that!

March 2, 2010 at 7:22 PM  
Blogger Mollie said...

i have a mixed emotion crush too!!!??can some one help me?

March 3, 2010 at 6:18 PM  
Anonymous Bigm said...

Dear A,
I think that guy actually likes you but is shy.The guy who I like, I think he is shy because he talks to everyone but me.At least that is how I feel.So yeah!Good luck!

March 3, 2010 at 9:30 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

sometimes i feel a little sad cos my elder sis is so much nicer looking than me so guys fall for her all the time, but i'm just that loser kid in the background no guy wants to know.i don't have much experience talking to guys,so i stammer and say really lame stuff around them, but with girls,i feel less alien and i can actually be funny and quick witted all at once.my school is for only girls,so i only get to see guys at church.what do i do?how can i stop looking like a dim-witted girl around guys?

March 7, 2010 at 1:33 PM  
Anonymous ILIK3F00D!! said...

there was this guy who i met in b.o.b(battle of the books) who was my best friend's friend n she told me he liked me. wen my friend showed me who he was, i was totally love struck!!he was the CUTEST guy ive ever seen!he goes to a different school then i go to though...:( he told me that we will meet in middle school. i met him a year ago!!i tried looking for him this year wen i was @ b.o.b but he wasnt there :((. now im waiting til next year in middle school so we could meet again.:) hes the same grade as me :D but im not sure if hes still "crazy" about me...but i still want to get 2 know him wen i see him again, hopefully he still remembers me...:) n likes me...

March 8, 2010 at 3:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OMg i LOVE battle of the books!
Green Girl!

March 9, 2010 at 4:49 PM  
Anonymous BigM said...

Ok.I like this guy.He is a girl on my basketball team's brother.He just seems cute to me.He is about 4-5 years older.I have never been next to him or even talked to him.How can I start a conversation?

March 9, 2010 at 6:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I need some help! This boy told me he liked me a couple years ago, but I couldn't speak because I was in so much shock, so I think he thinks I don't like him anymore, but now I got glasses and my hair cut so I think he doesn't like me, but he looked SO cute today. I just wish I had the courage to tell him... and then I think this other boy likes me, he is like always smiling and talking to me. OH BOYS AND THEIR ENDLESS QUESTIONS!!!

March 10, 2010 at 8:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i like this boy but i am a taller the him and he is not my coler i mean we are doth mex... i am just brker then him what shoud i do sos sos sos sos sos

March 13, 2010 at 6:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

guys will be guys nd if they look you in the eyes they like you enough nd they want to figure you out but if they look down alot with you around they are crazy about you so watch for it ladiess adios

March 14, 2010 at 6:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

reginia, you should- wait! first of all, why would you 2 be eniimies if u like him???
hmmm, um try to talk to him! I guess. hehe

hope this works!!!

March 15, 2010 at 9:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

did he break up with you, or did u break up with him?

if it was him, then just ask him why. and if he says another girl, just get mad at him, but, dont, get yourself in trouble! :)

Ignore him!!!! If he wants you back, if he begs u back,, IGNNORE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!unless u really want him back 2, i guess u can take him back lol.

Have Fun!!!

March 15, 2010 at 9:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I know exactly how you feel green girl. Me and my crush are arch enemies too. Well, I'm sorry to say I'm a bit more mean to him. I hope not in a ''i hate you way'' but in '' I like you I'm just scared to tell you'' way!

March 18, 2010 at 2:17 PM  
Anonymous Nicole said...

Hi I'm Nicole
All my friends keep telling me that my crush likes me and that he wants to go out with me. I don't know if I should believe them or not. They don't even know I like this guy. Do they? I mean, I haven't even told them. Did I?

March 18, 2010 at 2:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i like this boy. my friends tell me that he likes me but i dun believe them cos good stuff never happens to me. but then ppl i noe but arent really friends with tell me that he likes me. i dun noe wat to do. and plus he tells me his friend likes me. =P im like omg. cos his friend is like yuck and annoys me too much.

March 22, 2010 at 5:59 AM  
Anonymous jasmine said...

yeah ive had the same prob. i think you should talk to him about this. you should talk to him about how he should calm down sometimes so youll feel more comfortable around him.

March 25, 2010 at 10:54 PM  
Blogger caylee said...

hey just go out with him ull get something good out of it i promise :)))

March 26, 2010 at 11:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

theres this very cute guy in my grade, and i have a crush on him. hes been my friend before , but now we r just drifting apart. guys r sometimes a big problem in a girls life!

March 29, 2010 at 4:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have the same problem!!
this boy who is in my class who i really like, he gives me mixed signals all the time.The other day he was really nice to me in class and we mucking around with eachother. But then the next day he just ignores me!
i reaaaally like him what shall i do!
L x

April 12, 2010 at 8:17 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ok for ALL u girls out there listen up. No matter what even if the guy u like likes other types of girls that u arent still dont be ashamed of who u really r because if he doesnt like ur real self then he isnt good for u also if he is sending u mixed signals ask a friend who is his friend 2 2 see if helikes u it really works

hopoe i helped alot,

April 13, 2010 at 6:33 PM  
Anonymous moodygirl12 said...

i have the same problem
this boy who i really like teases me does that mean he likes me should i tell him i like him?how do i know if he likes me back he always looks at me and makes me laugh does that mean he likes me?

April 21, 2010 at 9:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a secret crush but a bunch of kids keep on telling me i like this boy named Kywar,the most annoying person in my school and my crush thinks i like him too hes the ultimate interfearence

April 24, 2010 at 9:17 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

im the new girl and i kinda have a crush on one of the boys hes so cute!!!But he already has a gf :( what should i do?

April 24, 2010 at 9:22 PM  
Anonymous Bailey said...

it's soooo weird right? ask the boy! Tell him how u feel! He'll understand and say, "ooh..." haha

April 27, 2010 at 7:08 PM  
Anonymous Estera said...

I have <3 ENOURMOS <3 crush on a cute boy at Polish class named Pawel (pavew)but i think he sorta likes my friend Caroline. That's trouble.

May 14, 2010 at 3:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i'm going through the thing
i used to go out with this guy and we broke up then he went out with other girls for like 4 years. i think still got a crush on him. but he kind of ignores me and pretends i'm not there. sometimes i think he alks about me. but sometimes i see him looking at me and when i look at him we stare at each other for a few seconds and then i turn around

May 15, 2010 at 1:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OMG! i have the same problem! well sorta. i have a crush on my ex bf but all my friends say he likes me back! i feel your pain!

May 15, 2010 at 2:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

okay im having this problem with a guy. in homeroom he would always be looking at me and smiling at me and my friends thinks he likes me so she tells me to tell him i tell him and he shows off to like nearly half the scool and now everyone knows i didnt want everyone 2 know ever since i told him he wont talk to me what do i do any help

May 17, 2010 at 7:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okay i need help FAST! Okay i like this boy, but two problems. My best friend told him i like him! And she said he said good for you and he is still making flirty and shy facese sometimes to me. How do i know he likes me? He makes diffrent faces to me all the time and i barley talk to him. If i talk yo him i get REALLY NERVOUS! I dont know what to say. Second everybody is saying Joey lkes Alyssa and i get confused. I dont know if he likes me or my best freind. How do i find out? But my best freind dosent like him. What do i do? HELP! PLEASE!

May 29, 2010 at 12:56 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

theres aboy i like but i dont know what to say to him

May 29, 2010 at 4:12 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i like a boy at my school and ithink he likes me but idont know what to say to him

May 29, 2010 at 4:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

im having similar problems. im in love with this guy & i think he likes me back, but im not sure. i can't stop thinking about him & i love school time cuz i don't see my crush in the summer. help me!

June 13, 2010 at 8:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I really like this boy who's 13 but i don't know if he likes me back!!!...btw we don't see each other that often!!! What should i do!!

July 13, 2010 at 7:04 PM  
Anonymous 11 year old hippy said...

guys chill go with the flow he will come to you

July 23, 2010 at 10:56 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

PLS I am really in this major crush with this boy in my class I and him are like BFF(everyboy are my BFF)
help me!!!

August 6, 2010 at 7:37 AM  
Anonymous lyssie said...

i like this boy and i see him straing at me so does my friends but when i asked him out he said no. he still stares and i look at him and he smiles.i have and exta class with his friend and he sits behide me and we do gourp activties and he is soo funny and kinda cute and he calls me a nickname but i like his firend. HELP ME!!!!

September 15, 2010 at 8:37 PM  
Anonymous SoccerGirl said...

Dear Green Girl,
I have almost the same. I like this guys but we've been enemies since 3rd grade, I tried to become his friend but whenever I'm around him I act all stupid and say mean things to him. Only one of my friends know I like him and everyone thinks we're rivals,I feel your pain and even though I don't have much experience, here are some tips:1.Try becoming his friend, this may sound hard but there are easy steps to this. First try by asking him for help on homework or questions about class, slowly you guys will become friends. 2. When you become friends tell him how you feel, our if you're afraid of ruining your friendship wait until your positive he likes you and until you're ready to date. I hope this helped

October 30, 2010 at 3:06 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

theres this boy in my class that i really like.everyone thinks we hate eachother.but not long ago he called us friends and thats impotant to me since he never said that to me before.

November 13, 2010 at 8:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have the same problem. i am like so totally over the moon in love with him. But he ignores me. My girlfriends says he has a crush on me but whenever he is with my friends he ignores me.

February 13, 2011 at 7:35 PM  
Anonymous t-swizzle said...

he so likes me then denys it ive overheard him talking to his best friend about how pretty smart and funny i was then he denys it. love stinks......kinda

January 2, 2012 at 7:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey yall excited to join the girl club :) ok so there's this guy and i like him and sometimes he'll act all flirty but the next week we dont talk at all and then the next week he'll be all flirty and the next week he'll be mean... why are guys so confused???

January 3, 2012 at 9:39 PM  
Anonymous Maggie said...

Ok here goes. I am 12 years old and have liked this boy for over 3 years. His name is Brock. He is sweet, cute, athletic, funny, and smart. Everything I have ever wanted in a boy. Everytime I see him I get nervous and butterflies form in my stomach. Last year we went to the movies for school, and he has a gf, but chose to sit next to me even tho his gf had no one to the one side of her. I was disappointed to hear that we have no classes together this year in school, but our lockers aren't that far apart. A couple times he will say hi to me in the hallways, and a couple days ago he put his arm around me (yes he has a gf) and said hey! How's it going? I said hi and good. I was smiley(: Then last night we had a back to school dance, and a slow song played and he asked me to dance with him. I was like freaking out. I was nervous to and I had no clue how to dance, but my friends were like, do it do it! And pushed me to him. I danced with him and it was AMAZING! He asked me why I kept smiling....well what do u think? Ha! Then I asked him y he asked me to dance, he said I don't know. It was the first time I have ever danced with a boy, and he knows I like him btw. I have never had a bf cuz I don't want to be with anybody but him. His gf is one of my good friends. She texted me and told me she might break up with him cuz he never talked to her at the dance and never danced with her at the dance...only me. I was really happy, but of corse I didn't tell her that. Idk if he is being nice to me cuz he knows I like him, or of he like likes me. We have shared laughs together, and talked...but that's it. I need some advice on what to do. I scared to ask him put, cuz what of he says no? What if he only likes me as a friend? I love him so much it hurts! He is the perfect guy for me. What do u guys think I should do? Do u think he like likes me? HELP

August 18, 2012 at 10:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

what if.. you really like this boy, and he used to talk to you a couple times, but know he ignores you? you guys make eye contact all the time, but don't talk? help.

March 24, 2013 at 11:09 PM  

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