Ashley's Teasing Question

Dear PLS,
what happens if a boy makes fun of me because of my boobs?
Ashley, 12


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Anonymous anna said...

dont do anything back to him.he's gonna go through changes to!

July 16, 2010 at 10:55 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Tell him to leave you alone, and he shouldn't be looking at them or just say yeah thats me and smile and walk away

July 16, 2010 at 11:41 AM  
Blogger sarah said...

if a boy is making fun of you boobs or if you feel that everybodys looking why not wear a more suportive bra and and and undershirt.

July 16, 2010 at 11:55 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You should tell an adult that you trust.

July 16, 2010 at 4:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It probably just means he's into you, but what you should do is tell him to stop and if he doesn't get a group of your friends because boys are like wild animals and they attack the one lonely gazelle but if you're with a group of people you trust he'll leave you alone.
Hope I helped -
Veronica T. 12

July 17, 2010 at 4:33 PM  
Anonymous Sophie said...

It probably means he likes you! I know that seems weird but boys tease and are mean to girls they like. Don't ask me why!
But tell him to seriously leave you alone.
Good luck Ashley!

July 18, 2010 at 12:29 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just ignore him and he will eventually stop he should get over it all girls get boobs

July 18, 2010 at 4:21 PM  
Anonymous Josie said...

I think telling an adult would be the best solution, and just totally freezing him out might work to.

July 18, 2010 at 5:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

tell him that everybody have boobs and your teasing me,why?I bet he probably wont anwer u.

July 19, 2010 at 1:34 AM  
Blogger Theresa said...

Tell him to respect you and leave you alone you are who you are. if that doesn't work tell an adult

July 19, 2010 at 6:21 AM  
Anonymous Mia said...

If a boy teases you about your boobs or anything else, most likely he likes you, bu if he doesn't maybe wear a bra that supports your boobs might help. If none of that works just ignore him or ask a trusted adult for help. Good Luck! :)

July 20, 2010 at 2:16 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Tell him to leave you alone, this is considered sexual harresment tell him to stop and if he doesnt I woud tell an adult because it may seem like teasing but its really bad its sexual harrestment!

July 20, 2010 at 9:21 PM  
Anonymous Bridget said...

DO NOT show him that he hurt you. Express outward defiance. Glare at him, and if you don't trust yourself to speak, grab a friend and leave, shooting him a dirty look. Tell your friend how you feel, go to a bathroom, and lt your feelings flow. When you get home, make it very clear to your mom or other woman you trust that something's bothering you. Tell her and she'll put an end to it.

July 21, 2010 at 8:18 PM  
Anonymous Tori said...

When he looks say You hoo my eyes are up here.
Hope I helped.


July 22, 2010 at 12:49 AM  
Anonymous aoife said...

just tell him he is soooo immature it happened once yo me and he stopped doing it. (the guy also liked me so this guy might like you to!)
good luck

July 22, 2010 at 10:13 AM  
Anonymous anna said...

i disagree with Bridget. you shouldn't throw him a dirty look cause them he might not quit teasing you. what you should do is not look at him and just walk away.doing that will show that him teasing you is means nothing to you. also you might want to find a bra that does not have any padding. a bra with padding makes your boobs look bigger.

July 22, 2010 at 10:28 AM  
Anonymous wynter said...

Dont listen to those people and say thing like goood for u or just dont maby tell an adult ok. XD

July 23, 2010 at 11:21 AM  
Anonymous wanna help said...

i agree with bridget

July 23, 2010 at 1:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dont let him see he hurt you eventually he will get bored and stop but if he dosent tell your mom because this is considered sexual harrasment and he can get in a lot of trouble for it

July 26, 2010 at 2:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

That has happend to me more than one, AND FROM ONE OF MY BEST GUY FRIENDS!! I would just say yoo hoo my face is up here then uggg, your so innmature! then walk away next time it happens tell a female you can trust (ex. your mom, aunt, or grandma) because when he does thats it called sexual harrasment

July 27, 2010 at 5:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ha in say that if he teases you he is so into you I mean seriously that means he looks at you very closely

July 28, 2010 at 12:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

just don't react because THE MORE YOU REACT THE MORE HE TEASES YOU JUST WALK AWAY i have also gone through this i know its really embarrassing and painful .....glad to help you

July 30, 2010 at 1:16 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Actually it was just normal having a big boobs.. oTHER people do something with it just to look thin.. iF YOU HAVE IT BE PROUD OF IT...

July 30, 2010 at 9:53 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

just dont worry about it. as long as u no ur beautiful that is all that matters. dont worry about what any old dumb boy says. and if a boy does look in any personal places u need 2 ask him y is he lookin so hard because i feel that if someone is paying that much attention to those areas they MUST be looking 4 something am i right or am i right. sometimes u will run into anonymous haterz and all u gotta do is brush it off and remember this frase "mii haterz make me famous" lol (write the words "i agree" in ur post if u agree with)

July 30, 2010 at 11:22 PM  
Anonymous Chloe said...

He may be trying to hurt your feelings by teasing you about this private,embarrasing area. This is not alright. Don't hesitate to tell the teacher or your parents.

July 30, 2010 at 11:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey,its a part of a woman/girl....i'd tell them grow boobs and have a womans sure they would hate going through pregnancies and periods

July 31, 2010 at 5:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just say " Just because you dont have any doesn't mean you have to bully girls."

August 2, 2010 at 9:50 AM  
Anonymous michaela said...

Um, hey not only does he probaly like you he's telling u the way guys would tell u.I think u should look away and smile then walk out of the room. Dont be embarresed! hope i helped

August 4, 2010 at 12:56 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ashley i am the only 1 in my class that has boobs and i am 9 boys make fun of me but i don't take it in i just say your jealous and walk away treat it like a grain of sait i hope you like my advice

August 5, 2010 at 2:53 AM  
Anonymous Karishma said...

In grade 6 i was called a bra stuffer by every guy it mad me mad but i sucked it up!

August 5, 2010 at 4:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If he makes fun of your boobs, make fun of his!

August 7, 2010 at 8:22 AM  
Anonymous Kayla said...

He probably thinks hes being cool and he probably thinks hes impressing his friends. You should stay with your friends and when he bothers you again then you should all just tell him to stop but assertively
;) And tell him to stop looking!

August 8, 2010 at 12:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dont worry mabey wear a vest over your bra or if he keeps star just walk away

ps i had the same prob not too long ago

hope i help

singed dont be conmfused

August 10, 2010 at 5:00 PM  
Anonymous zekeyra said...

he probably likes you and he wants to get the feeling out by making fun of your boobs. He's just a guy. Guys can be stupid sometimes. He probably is using that as an exuse because he wants to look at your chest area. Just ask him, "do u like me?"and if he says no, then say, "Stop looking at my chest then. Trust me he wouldnt know what your chest looked like if he wasn't taking a peek!

August 10, 2010 at 11:43 PM  
Anonymous BrentwoodBengalAdviceGirl said...

I kind of agree with Bridget except for the fact of giving him a dirty look. I agree with walking off with your friend or something like that but dont give him dirty looks. What I would do is tell him to leave you alone and that you are lucky to have boobs.

August 11, 2010 at 5:55 PM  
Anonymous Grace said...

Dear Ashley,
I comepletly agree with the girl that said to write I agree in your post. They shouldn't be looking at your chest, they should be looking at your face. Just tell them that they don't have any buisness looking at your private areas and that he has a problem with his brain if he is looking so hard at your chest.You shouldn't have to take his teasing you should be able to defend yourself. So don't tease him just tell him that it is none of his buisness what your chest looks like. He is just a jerk and has no idea how to treat a woman. That will change his mind. I hope I helped and I hope that you fix this problem. Oh and tell a teacher,parent, or a GIRL adult that you trust. Good luck!!:)

August 12, 2010 at 1:45 PM  
Anonymous A.R said...

Just laugh it off and say something in a jokey way such as, 'just because your jealous because you don't have any!' lol, or if you're not that confident, go and tell an adult you trust and say that they are really bothering you. BUT, whatever you do, don't let them know that they are upsetting you because this will show them that what they are doing is annoying or upsetting you and they are likely to do it again. Good luck, from A.R

August 12, 2010 at 8:41 PM  
Anonymous Sunshinerox2 said...

It's actually bad to say stuff like that, just say something like "you shouldn't even be looking at them, you sicko!" or something along those lines. If its while you were hanging out somewere, say something like "your just jelous cuz ya dont have any." Smile and walk away, but if your at school, walk away and tell a teacher or principal, or any adult there. Its their job to help you when your not around your parents. I hope I helped :)

August 13, 2010 at 12:21 AM  
Anonymous Jillian said...

Tell an adult you trust like a teacher, mom, school nurse, ect. Because that is sexual harassment which is aginst the law at school!!! I hope your problem is solved soon!!!

August 13, 2010 at 2:57 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You should tell an adult. That against the law at scool. Plus it's wrong frankly. And it does mean he likes you muchly. :)
Holly, 12

August 14, 2010 at 12:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

don't react and if he does it again dont react the only reason hes teasing you is for the reaction and i promis you he'll stop teasing you because hes not getting a reaction then he'll stop teasing you in no time.

August 23, 2010 at 11:47 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'd say "Look at your own." lol then he might leave you alone

August 28, 2010 at 8:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'd cross my arms and give him an I statement like "I don't' like it when you stare at my breasts" If he doesn't listen tell a female teacher that you know that knows the person.Hope this helps!!!

September 17, 2010 at 7:47 PM  
Anonymous CaliforniaGurl101 said...

tell him he should back off if he doesent want troble.if that dosent work,you should tell another female(mom grandma,teacher,counseler,etc.)about it

September 19, 2010 at 8:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

help me!!! my classmates are teasing because i have a smelly arpit even though i use deodorant

September 22, 2010 at 7:08 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

be proud because when you grow up you'll like it

September 22, 2010 at 7:09 AM  
Anonymous Mrs.Im Just That Nice said...

he probably likes you or he might have low self esteam. Ask around!!!

September 23, 2010 at 9:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

he shouldnt be doing that thats really rude

September 24, 2010 at 8:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

if he does do that just know that means he probly likes you if he was even looking why why why do they do that they can look at their own

September 30, 2010 at 5:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

it usually means that he likes them. trust me, boys make fun of my boobs (cause they are too small) and then, suddenly, they want to date you!

October 10, 2010 at 5:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ignore him. Boys that do that are just jerks and are immature.

October 31, 2010 at 8:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i agree with a-lot of the girls. he may just have a crush on you. just don't be mean. ignore him or say, "if you don't like who i am,. than just ignore me." if he really likes you maybe he'll come around.....but if he's just a jerk and keeps bothering you, tell a bff or adult.

February 10, 2011 at 5:56 PM  
Anonymous texaschickwhosnotacowgirl said...

sicko boy thats all i got. tell him to shut it and find something better to do. here's a scenario

boy: (rude comment)
you: wow. u reallly pay attention to those dont you. i guess u have nothing better to do than stare. it really shows how mature u r. *smirk*

hope this helps

December 27, 2011 at 9:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

1)I'd tell the kid that I'd sue him

May 28, 2012 at 8:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Im 12and have the same prob cause everyone makes fun of me b/c of my small boobs so just ask him y hes looking down there cause he shouldnt be. This happened to me but the boy was one of my best friends.
boy: talking about his gf cause he knos that i like him"Anyway u have everything she does. Shes smart and pretty and funny and nice. And she has big boobs. Ur all of those things. Except u have the boobs of a 7 year old boy.(he runs away laughing cause he knows that im gonna chase him down and slap him silly). Then later that day he said that if he wasnt goin out with anyone hed ask me out and that im pretty awesome

June 11, 2012 at 4:33 PM  

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