What to do about a cute boy?

Dear PLS,
There is this really cute boy that sits in front of me at school. I really like him. What shall I do to show him my feelings? O and there is this girl who really likes him too and she has already told him!
Jaz, 11


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Anonymous Anonymous said...

dear jaz
i know how you feel i had to sit next to my crush in class for 2 months and then a brat his best friend found out from a accident my friend made and now where totally cool with it so i'm just gonna say dont stare at him gives it away dont show up where he is with his friends if there not talking with you and later on ask to talk to him when you feel its time to tell him if you want

katelyn 13

August 14, 2010 at 3:31 PM  
Anonymous Jillian said...

Jaz, you should talk to him, and he might start to like you over time. It can be hard to tell i guy you like him. Don't tell him to quickly. I like a guy and a popular girl like him she told him too, but he doesn't like her.try to make him laugh, ask qustions about him. hoped i helped!!!

August 14, 2010 at 4:43 PM  
Anonymous cupcakes=) said...

well, just tell him that u like him and ask him if he feels the same way about u, if he doesn't just be friends with him and act like it never happened

August 14, 2010 at 5:00 PM  
Anonymous Josie said...

I wouldn't say anything, that kind of thing can creep boys out. (unless he's actually mature!) Just be nice, and treat him like a friend!

August 16, 2010 at 8:43 PM  
Anonymous gillian said...

dont tell him. thers this one girl i know and she tells who she likes that she likes him and it just seems creepy

August 17, 2010 at 10:49 AM  
Anonymous Katie said...

I like this guy and another girl did to!!! then i found out he liked her so i was just myself around him and a couple weeks later he told me he liked me!!! the best way is to be yourself!! also be honest and ask him if he likes you!!!

August 17, 2010 at 6:14 PM  
Anonymous Vanessa said...

Hi Jaz,

Don't be competitive. And be yourself. It really helps if you be "normal".

If you tell him that you like him, it might be sort of weird or awkward. Wait a while to see if he makes the first move; if he doesn't then tell him, Be honest he might like you but he's shy

August 18, 2010 at 2:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Jaz!
just get to know him and be his friend, and then over time, something may happen. you never know until you try

August 19, 2010 at 6:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My teacher our desks set up so it was 2 by each other, i ended up by my crush!It was really awkward at first, but then we started talking it wasnt as hard anymore. I say tell him! :D

August 21, 2010 at 12:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just be his freind then find out if he likes idk how maybe a friend or sumthin hope this helped =D <3

August 23, 2010 at 8:21 AM  
Anonymous jokerface2.0 said...

I say,oh well to the other girl.If she's already told him she's desperate.The first step to win the guy is to enter the game.Study him and the code, and go get him

August 28, 2010 at 7:08 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

trust me, do NOT tell him you like him it will make things awkward for both of you. try to be his friend for now, find out what he's interested and in time maybe things will develop further.
hope i helped -
veronica t. 12

August 30, 2010 at 12:34 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jaz im TOTALLY having that same experince and it's SUPER HARD!!!I sit with him in my E.L.A class!!! Don't sweat it though,chances are that he might TOTALLY have a thing for you!!!Best of luck!!!

September 1, 2010 at 2:32 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm not sure who wrote this, but I think this was written my best friend!! This is totally the situation and her name is Jazmin!! She
Likes being called Jaz. I'm gonna go ask her about this now!

September 8, 2010 at 9:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i liked this guy and i got to class first and it was the last period of the day and it said if he would go out with me and after schoool i saw it in the trash so after skool i ask him if he got the ote and we were a couple feet apart and he said yes and i said sooo and he shook his head no and he didnt look conving and walked away the next day in class he was staring at me

September 12, 2010 at 1:21 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

HELLO Jaz :)
I say if you have a problem between boys it's really easy you just need to be honest,playful(play with everybody),and show who you are(the truth)to your friends and ofcourse him :)
Kind regards,
Levina <3

September 14, 2010 at 6:21 AM  
Anonymous Chloe said...

Hi Jaz,
I think there are 3 steps you need to take to get the guy.
1. Find out if he likes the other girl back.
2.Sit by him in class, talk to him! Be careful to take babysteps, don't rush it.
3. If your now friends with him, feel free to get flirty. (learn how to flirt.)

Good luck,

September 26, 2010 at 12:11 PM  
Anonymous Feyizzy said...

just be yourself,meet him in a good mood ,tell how much you love him .....give him your number or email and call him collect his too .call him when you think it is the right time do not call him too much do not be a pest to him good luck feyizzy

September 27, 2010 at 6:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hmmm... talk to him..have a normal conversation with him then ask him questions about himself then see if you really DO like him....if you do become friends with him and don't tell him that you like him...wait until he tells you (because if he rejected that girl he might reject you too)you see thats why first become friends with him :)..hehe have fun...and there are millions other boys in the world and so much important stuff other than boys :) if you look at other interest you will see :) good luck

October 3, 2010 at 9:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i think u should talk to him and tell him u love him and then see wat he says thats wat i did and it did work

October 12, 2010 at 7:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

if you really did like him u wounldnt be shy around him u shounld feel comfotible

October 21, 2010 at 1:45 AM  
Anonymous lyssie said...

first get to know him better cause a great couple can be bbf too.

Now can someoone help me?!?!?!?!?!?
I am on a all-star cheerleading team and it is all girls but a boy joins the team and the team goes crazy. i am the only one who likes him cause we are all bff and we would tell each other. my friend asked who he likes but he said no one and ook at me and then looked down. he knows i like him.we ge along good and just mess around like poking each other. soo my friend asked him out for me and he said maybe. after that he stated to aviod me. and him and my friend were txting about me.

October 26, 2010 at 3:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

big NO NO don't tell him unless u r in lov with him

November 2, 2010 at 7:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

oy vey lyssie

November 2, 2010 at 7:11 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i like a guy in my class too but wanna keep it seceret no knows btw i always look at him and he looks at me and talks to me but i dont know if he likes me thou??????

November 4, 2010 at 9:30 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i like a boy in my class.sometimes he talks to me and tells me stuff.i think he likes me back weve had alot of good times together.try to talk to him and make him laugh.eventully he might change and like you back.

November 13, 2010 at 8:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i guy i like in my class is really nice.we love to play with eachother like poking eachother.i dont know if he likes me but i hope he does.

November 13, 2010 at 8:40 PM  
Anonymous Lynny said...

Sometimes I feel like I want to tell the boy I have a crush on I like him, but I just can't. Sometimes it's best to wait until you are really sure you like him. I mean, why say you like someone, and then realize that you don't, you wouldn't want to hurt his feelings if he likes you too by saying, I don't like you anymore. Just hang in there, and I hope I helped!

February 24, 2011 at 9:01 PM  
Anonymous C.H.L said...

ASK HIM OUT. FLIRT. DONT BE A FRIEND FIRST!!! duh he'll think of you as one of the guys. EW?!

February 28, 2011 at 10:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i know its difficult. i had to sit next to my crush for a year, and he kept smiling at me and winking.

July 19, 2011 at 3:23 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Do not be embarrassed or shy! Be confident and try to be friends. I have been really good friends with my crush since 1st grade! If he feels the same way you will be able to tell.

June 25, 2012 at 4:55 PM  
Anonymous Keelz said...

Hi everyone, there is this boy in my class that I really like. We are good friends and always hang out together at lunch, but we are going to different highschools next year and I don't know if we will see each other much any more. Help!!!
Keelz <3

December 2, 2012 at 12:53 AM  

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