What if you got TWO love letters?

Our friend who calls herself "Confused" left multiple comments about her dilemma. She didn't know where to ask a question. So first off, here's the link if you need it again.

Ask the PLS

And now, here's the problem Confused is having...

Dear PLS,
TWO BOYS SENT ME A LOVE LETTER HOW DO I LET ONE DOWN GENTLY BUT SO WE CAN STILL BE BFF'S?!
Confused


Wow. At first I was thinking, how lucky! But now I kind of understand. She doesn't want to hurt either boy's feelings. Have you ever "let someone down easy?" What advice would you give Confused?

Here's some advice I like: How to tell a boy you don't like him as a boyfriend

Think pink!
Jemma

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Anonymous tayrox1123 said...

I think you should say to him that he is a sweet guy and you would love to be friends, but your with someone now.

October 28, 2010 at 10:01 PM  
Anonymous Josie said...

I have no clue.

October 29, 2010 at 7:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

tell the him tht a true friend tells u the truth so please understand if tht doesnt work resort to life not always fair darling amirah

October 30, 2010 at 2:00 AM  
Anonymous akinele7 said...

my friends are"growing" faster than me.I don't feel comfortable around them anymore.What should i do?

October 30, 2010 at 2:52 AM  
Anonymous akinele7 said...

ever since the day we watched Just Around The Corner LAST YEAR i have had the pamphlets that we got from the nurse.What should i do with them?

October 30, 2010 at 2:55 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

GOSH THIS MUST BE HORRIFYING!!!!!!!! WELL I'D PRETEND THAT IT DID NOT HAPPEN I'D ALSO TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT

October 31, 2010 at 7:02 PM  
Anonymous olive 101 said...

well akinele7 my advice for u is to stay with them if they r ur friends

October 31, 2010 at 10:43 PM  
Anonymous ThegreatPLSgirl said...

All you have to do is accept any of the two love letters and promise one of the boys to be their friend or whatever. Clue: Just choose the hottest boy out of the two. Can you spot there attitude or behaviour?

November 1, 2010 at 10:38 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Go out with the one you like the most. Tell the other guy that you can only go out with one boy at a time and how would they feel if they found out you were 2 timing.
Hope this helps,
Agony Aunt

November 2, 2010 at 3:38 PM  
Anonymous Confused said...

it's not that easy... one of the boys (kevin) wants to be more than friends but I'm only ten. the other is madly in love with me and gives me awesome gifts, i don't know who to choose!!!!!! Help

November 2, 2010 at 6:52 PM  
Anonymous Confused said...

they are both my bff's and I've been in their class since 1st grade!!!!!




P.s.
They're best friends and they don't know that each of them sent me letters!!!

November 2, 2010 at 6:58 PM  
Anonymous ccg said...

Just tell some of them that its better being friends so that you dont get angry with him.

November 3, 2010 at 12:56 PM  
Anonymous Confused said...

I'm now in a relationship with one of them but i don't know what to tell the other one. HELP ME PLEASE! tell me exactly what to tell him (especially people who have been in this situation and worked it out). I can't get the knot out of my stomach!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

November 4, 2010 at 6:23 PM  
Anonymous dawning said...

Tell him you like him as a friend and your all ready in a reslationship. if he can't understand that then he shouldn't be ur friend.

November 5, 2010 at 4:34 PM  
Anonymous Chloe said...

say "ur a great friend and that's how i want things to stay."

November 7, 2010 at 9:08 PM  
Anonymous Xtreme Athlete, Music lover,Animal lover and reader and writer! AKA Maddy! said...

Its ok, you don't need to freak! :)
be gentle and kind, tell him you would like to be his friend instead, if he gets upset it is completely normal just give him some space and soon enough, he will forgive you and be your friend again. but give him some space.I hope this helped! sorry about those knots ;)

November 8, 2010 at 5:35 PM  
Anonymous Cheyenne The Miracle Worker said...

I think you should consider his feelings and think of in which way you like him. If you don't like him back for sure let him down easily and ask if you can remain friends.

November 9, 2010 at 10:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i think u should follow ur heart and the one you dont like just tell him u just want to be friends

November 14, 2010 at 3:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think she should just cool down and think about who she really likes.

November 15, 2010 at 5:17 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think you should think about who would be most loyal and pick from there. Try to let him down softly.

November 23, 2010 at 6:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

if i were you id follow youre heart if you dont like someone the best thing is to be sensitive and if he gets mad dont feel bad or guilty just tell him... hope you solve the problem just keep calm and positive

November 29, 2010 at 2:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If I was you I would go for the boy that you really like and tell the other one you only like him as a friend .

December 9, 2010 at 2:30 PM  
Anonymous Journey said...

well i had the same problem with 2 boys wanted to date me but im to young for dating! i dont want to hurt their feelings at all and they're best friends and i have a crush for one of they're other best friend HELP!!!

January 8, 2011 at 12:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Omg pls SOS I need help I have FOUR boys who likes me I'm the girl who told u I've been holding a boys hand summer camp and I don't know what to do Jenna I would be so happy if u could give me any advice
Yours truly, lost in a forrest of boys

June 29, 2011 at 7:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

u jus tell them you dnt like them

June 30, 2011 at 11:52 PM  

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