Lyssie's Up In the Air

Sometimes the situations I get myself in feel like mazes. They are so complicated with so many twists and turns. And it probably doesn't help that I can't make up my mind. It seems like Lyssie might be in one of those twisty-turny, which-way-do-I-go situations. Let's see if we can help.

Dear PLS,
i liked this boy from cheer then he quit and i liked him and myy friend txted him alot so he told her he likes me and she gave him my # i told him im not sure i like him any more bc he had already rejected me, a few minutes later he txts me telling me that he is going out with my friend. im not sure wat to think but i think he is using her as a rebound girl. i still txt both of them and he knows i like him bc my friend said i shouldnt lie and he said if they brak up i can have a chance with him but i dont want to be his rebound girl. i made it clear that if he hurts me i will hurt him am i doing the right thing, wat do u think of this situation

This is a tough one, but sometimes the best action is no action. Maybe he and your friend will stay a couple, maybe they won't. I would just hang back and see what happens. It could be that you'll find someone else to like in the meantime. Or you could just be crush-free for awhile. That feels good, too.

Any other Pink Locker advice for Lyssie?

Think pink!


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Anonymous Josie said...

Be strong and move on? I don't know, do what YOU think is right! :)

March 2, 2011 at 10:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Im kind of with Jemma on this one. Sometimes it is best to just hang back. You cant always have control, so just chill! Have some girl time! Staying clear of them for a little while might be smart too. It sounds like a lot of emotions are running high, so just let it all calm down for a while. Hope this helps, and Good luck!

March 3, 2011 at 5:09 PM  
Anonymous Morgan said...

yeh i have kinda been in the same situation also. thanks pls!!!!!!!!!!!

March 3, 2011 at 9:34 PM  
Anonymous lyssie said...

Thanks everyone

March 4, 2011 at 12:20 AM  
Anonymous olive101 said...

they sound real mean

March 6, 2011 at 9:02 PM  
Anonymous lyssie said...

wow thanks for all the good ideas guys

March 6, 2011 at 9:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey lyssie if he thinks that your going to wait around just to be somebodys second chice then hes wrong ive been in the situation and it didnt turn out well. your guys out there you just have to be patient GOOD LUCK!!!!!

March 12, 2011 at 5:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Im with Jemma. Be laid back. Dont lose a friend and a boyfriend. You just gotta be cool.

March 14, 2011 at 1:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i would say not to get REALLY worked up over him. You know what they say:

"Two bads don't give any good"

Sorry ur facing that. :(

March 20, 2011 at 2:16 AM  
Anonymous stephanie said...

Lizzie I think that the friend that is dating the boy that you like sholdnt be your friend no more! I think that a friend that knows you like him wouldnt even go near him besides, what type of boyfriend would tell you that if they break up you can get a chance with him is pathetic and is a loser. He doesnt deserve you so I would stay clear of the two and if you feel a little evil go ahead and try to make them break up.There not your friends any way and you already know that he is going to use you as a rebound girl. But its your choice.

March 29, 2011 at 8:47 PM  
Anonymous Bryn- otherwise known as advice giver said...

tell ur friend u dont really like what she is doing if it is bothering u

i would try to get some new friendships going there so you can just start over- right from the beginning

good luck

April 22, 2011 at 1:59 PM  
Anonymous beth said...


April 28, 2011 at 3:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

yeah, the badthing about a boyfriend is theres only one guy to drool over u, if u dont have a bf, then lotsa guys will come after you. ps... this website has helped me out with lots of problems, but it should be called the pink computor society [= think pink! -tess

April 30, 2011 at 9:27 AM  
Anonymous beth said...

haha tess ur soooooooooo right!

May 2, 2011 at 9:20 PM  
Anonymous tessa said...

yeah, its fun bein single [=

May 6, 2011 at 7:11 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lyssie, I sooo agree with alot of people out there who tell you to stop being friends with that girl. I mean its great that she's telling you to not lie but that's about where it ends. I'd say that's the only good thing about her from what you've said. Also, we all know what a crush is and what it feels like... but this guy doesn't really seem worth your time and feelings. It's like a roller coaster for you right now I bet. He leads you up and down here and there. So ya, just remember, a smart girl knows when to hold him and when to fold him.

Anyhow, the rest is up to you Lyssie.
Good Luck!!!
- Zoey -

June 20, 2011 at 6:57 AM  
Anonymous shine said...

look i think u should tell ur friend and if she doesn't listen she'll have to learn the hard way i know it sounds kinda tough it happens with me and my friends as we learn we gain each others trust:] though we're still losers:[

July 5, 2011 at 7:24 PM  
Anonymous shine said...

adition to last coment :think pink

July 5, 2011 at 7:26 PM  
Anonymous Thinkaboutit said...

Ok well it depends. Are u like SUPER close with ur friend? Will she get mad if u date him after they break up? I know I would get mad. Lyssie, would YOU get mad if ur friend did that too you??

November 5, 2011 at 9:45 PM  
Anonymous Jennie :) said...

Guys r plain JERKS!!! Dont be his rebound girl. After I rejected this guy he went out with my best friend to try to get me jealous. Didnt work so he broke up with my best friend and told her that he was gonna get me to be his girl.

December 15, 2011 at 11:01 PM  

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