Question No. 6: How does she aim her arrow at a new crush?

Let's start with a compliment to all of you for how well you express yourself in the questions you send in and in the answers you give others. Just yesterday, Maika shared her own unique phrase for describing problems between two girlfriends: iffy-biffiness.

Today, we're looking at Yessica's question and I really like her way of describing things. Let's try to help with this crush problem!

Dear PLS,
Hey PLS, I need major help. My first crush dissed and dismissed me, which wasn't a problem, so I started aiming my arrow on different crush, who is an okay friend, but I told someone and he is also my friend, but today I heard and saw him talking to my crush, what am I going to do? I wanted to send him a love letter for V-day but I think he might reject me as well, please tell me how I can get revenge and still be able to shoot my arrow successfully PLEASE HELP AND RESPOND
Yessica, 12

OK, Yessica, first I'd take "revenge" off your list. Instead, leave the old crush behind (as best you can) and think about the future. It's great that you like someone new. I'm sure you're nervous because of what happened last time. But liking someone is always a risk. Maybe hang back a while to see if it looks like he likes you, too. There's no harm in just being friendly and nice. You don't have to declare your love!

What else, Pink Locker girls? How can we help Yessica feel encouraged about moving on?

Think pink!


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Anonymous hope im helping said...

you're friends with him right? if your not you should make friends with him. it's easier to tell someone u like them if they're your friend first. be nice and your self TALK TO HIM NOT TALKING GETS U NO WHERE!!! i speak from experience. forget about ur first crush best u can if he did that doesnt deserve u.

March 20, 2011 at 4:11 PM  
Anonymous Josie said...

Ya, revenge is NEVER the answer! Trust me, I've tried!

March 20, 2011 at 7:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i stink at getting revenge. anyway revenge is bittersweet,it feels awesome-but it's just a never ending mean cycle, if you get revenge they will want revenge.

March 28, 2011 at 3:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i hate my body i am the only girl in my class with boobs and a butt and boys make fun of that to the point they suggest i get surgery should i?

June 5, 2011 at 7:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

How old are you?? Im 12 i got boobs and a butt..... Honestly they probably like u an stare at ur boobs and butt.... Ur body is just sumthin they like to talk about...

July 11, 2011 at 3:44 PM  
Anonymous Happytohelp!! said...


July 30, 2011 at 5:08 PM  
Anonymous dadazzlingstar said...

someone pls pls pls help me. i like this guy in my class. i'm too shy to tell him in fear of being rejected.what should i do???anonymous notes?should i ask someone to tell him???pls help!!!!!!

August 27, 2011 at 1:46 PM  
Anonymous C.C. said...

you should send a anonomous note saying that somone likes him! than keep doing that with notes and candy!it is going to drive him crazy! revenge! and telling him at the same time!

September 12, 2011 at 10:30 AM  

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