Does your crush like you? Spot the signs!

When you're sick, you have symptoms. Like a cough and stuffy nose when you have a cold.

But when a boy has a crush, are there any signs or symptoms? Some girls say yes. Others say it's pretty hard to tell.

Dear PLS,
How do you tell if a boy likes you? Are there any signs?

I'm going to say, yes, there are signs. Trouble is the signs vary depending on the guy. Sometimes the guy will look at you a lot or joke with you. Other times, the guy will completely ignore you. I think this happens sometimes if a guy is shy and he likes you. But...but-but-but, a guy might completely ignore you if he doesn't know you or isn't intersted at all. How do you tell? That's MY question!

What's your advice for Gurl?

Think pink!

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

i think i might depend on the way he looks at you and the way he acts around you i like this guy and he always looks at me and we play around togeter and everytime someone says he likes me he blushes and says he dosnt now before you say hes probly embarresd for getting acussed he says it with a relly cute smile

June 8, 2011 at 6:53 AM  
Anonymous pezza said...

hi guys having a crush sucks lol

June 8, 2011 at 6:55 AM  
Anonymous its me hehehehehehe said...

yer it does i know how u feel

June 8, 2011 at 6:56 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have a crush thats pretty hard to tell. he shows all the sihns of liking me, but when i asked him out he was like no way!, i asked him y and he was like i dont like u, his mom even told me that he cant stop thinking about me i think hes shy but idk. im writing this at the lirary and i saw him look at me hes blushing..... im confushed does he like me or not help!!!!!!!!!

June 8, 2011 at 9:09 AM  
Anonymous Grace 12 said...

It's really hard to tell what the boy's gonna do, but here are some signs you might see: he might be mean to you. He might be exeedingly nice to you. He might not talk around you. That's just what I've experienced. Boys are complicated creatures.

June 8, 2011 at 2:05 PM  
Anonymous Ashley said...

from my experience, a guy likes you by looking at you a lot and if you know that he's looking at you, blink or make a motion then he will stop looking at you for that time and he will look back again. and can someone help me with my problem? my problem is that today there's these guys that repeatedly said to me "hiiii ugly girl" and now i think that I'm super ugly which is true. and right now I really need help.

June 8, 2011 at 8:30 PM  
Anonymous Josie said...

yes, they are so, SO complicated! But then again, we must seem very complicated to them!! Don't obsess over boys 2 much, there is more 2 life...

June 8, 2011 at 8:33 PM  
Anonymous phoebe said...

to anonymous with the mixed up signs if his mom is telling you that he probably is shy so just wait give him time i know its going to sound long but wait like a year or two you might bond over those years who knows he might ask you remember all good things come to those who wait

June 9, 2011 at 8:38 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't have a crush but it just depends on the way he acts around you, and if he acts like his true self.

June 9, 2011 at 11:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Although boys are very complicated to read, if one likes u, u usually have a strange feeling that he does. Sometimes the feeling is right, sometimes wrong. If you have that feeling then look for signs. Don't look for signs in a guy that you don't think likes you.

June 9, 2011 at 1:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

from anonymous to phoebe i have waited three years and i told him one year ago, maybe doesnt like me

June 10, 2011 at 8:42 AM  
Anonymous olive101 said...

Jemma, I posted a queastion for Valnetines Day and i am olivia 11 i need it before school is over (the 17 of june) please please!!!!!

June 10, 2011 at 3:28 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i just think you should go to him and say what u really feel

June 11, 2011 at 6:13 PM  
Anonymous HillFilly said...

My crush doesnt talk to me much.When i talk to him he looks down then at me alot.Sorta up.down.up.down.And he walks away awkwardly.

June 12, 2011 at 6:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I Have A Crush, I Need To Know If He Likes Me Too o__o

June 13, 2011 at 2:47 PM  
Anonymous hope it helps said...

i have had multiple crushes and i have a boyfriend. i think the best way to see if they like you is to tell them you like them and then ask if they like you but you have to be prepared, for a no or a yes, i told my boyfriend i liked him without expecting anything from it and then he liked me and we ended up dating! so seriously THINK what you're doing and what you want BEFORE you get in to ANYTHING. also don't be to sure he likes or you might be disappointed.

June 16, 2011 at 1:33 AM  
Anonymous suck it up! said...

hey, your a kid so enjoy it! childhood doesn't last forever! but if you really want to know, there is this guy who has a crush on me the size of the sun but he's mean to me because he just can't except the fact that he likes me. BTW, i know this because in first grade he tried to kiss me under the slide

June 17, 2011 at 12:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

He may not want to maintain eye contact.

June 18, 2011 at 11:35 AM  
Anonymous Ki-Ki said...

Okay, one of the ways to tell if he likes you is to first be friends with him. Hang out, and just have a good time. Then, just let it slip form your mouth that you like him. I did that once, and my crush said "I don't care", most likely cause I've known him since we were 8. But, he always acted strange around me since then. Have one of your friends bring up the topic, then have them report back to you, this may seem wrong, but my crush and I are now in a happy relationship beacause of everything above. Hope this helped!

June 18, 2011 at 12:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have a mega crush on this guy that was once my best friend. but my friend told everyone i fancy him and its not been the same between us since. ilovehim and i can't help that. he says he don't fancy me but he looks me straight in the eye, looks at me from time to time and i know that he talks to his friends about me. dunno whether they say good or bad things though. x

June 19, 2011 at 12:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think it depends on his behavior towards you.Like I have a crush on this boy and i think he likes me too.He respects me a lot and always tries to make me laugh and he acts very friendly with me than all the other people.

June 20, 2011 at 10:48 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

what do i do if the guy my bff like says he likes us BOTH and she likes him but im starting to too

June 20, 2011 at 3:07 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have this boy in my class that is so cute but I don't think he likes me but he acts so cool around me and jokes with me so I don't know if he does like me but he also comes over to me and my friends and talks to me most. The funny thing is he also knew what place I came in sports day when most people wouldn't of known if I asked them!

June 23, 2011 at 4:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

this guy likes me because he always carries me over to the place i want gets my food for me and tries to kiss me everytime we are alone

June 24, 2011 at 5:14 PM  
Anonymous heart breaker said...

theres like about 4 boys that like me, but they go out of their way to fight over me. now how insane is that!
its so obvious cuz they always talk to me. though only one ever tried to kiss me, he was so close to kiss me but luckily one of my friends came to rescue me

who do i choose,and how do i know that hes the one for me?

June 28, 2011 at 3:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

a boy at my summer camp likes me and i like him we like each other so much that we have started holding hands in private though

June 28, 2011 at 9:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had the exact same situation but I finally went up to the guy that I liked and told him that I liked him! It was easy so try it!!!!

June 29, 2011 at 1:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

There is one boy in my class that it is obviouse that he likes me. For one thing, he looks at me a lot and when I turn my head to look in his direction, he turns his head away from me as quick as he could. But their are other ways to tell if a boy likes you, depending on the boy. Some boys might blush around you or when you look at them. Some might even be mean to you!

June 29, 2011 at 3:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It's me again I like the guy at camp (previous comment writer) but the problem is that I asked him if he liked me first do u girls think that might end ours relationship plz help
Yours truly ,despret 4help

June 29, 2011 at 5:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

He might look at you alot.. Try to catch him looking at you. He might also act mean or shy when your around!

July 8, 2011 at 6:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have a crush and he has a crush witch is me! we WERE boyfriend and girlfriend, but having a crush isn't bad sometimes it can result good like mine. :)

July 9, 2011 at 7:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

boys r complicated creatures like my (best) friend teases me alot but he finishes my sentenses and i finish his. were always thinking the same thing. alone me and him click but when others are around we cant stand each other :}

July 12, 2011 at 6:28 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

all boys are very different from each other. i had a crush and the guy liked me too but at the end we didnt work out the way we planned so we ended up breaking up.

July 12, 2011 at 9:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i'm 15 and i know its wierd but i liked this guy in primary school and told him, he said no and that he didn;t like me. After that we went into second school and i didn't see him for ages then we were in the same class for something and suddenly all the feeling i had before are coming back i think he likes me to because he always lookes at me and when i catch him he looks away. i tried to talk to him a coulple of times but he just mumbles something and looks away so i don't try anymore. i really like him though and its making me depressed. :(

July 13, 2011 at 3:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

How to tell a boy likes you. Well there is a couple thing he might ignore u, he might blink or do motion or he might even mouth
"I like you" and third he might come up to you if he is brave enough or It might turn out you might be brave enough to go up to him and ask him out

July 15, 2011 at 8:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

There is a boy i know he flirts with me and lays on me and I like him to what should I do

July 15, 2011 at 10:31 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

pretty much all the guyz at my school like me.even the older ones. but its just because im pretty and popular. they dont actually know the real me!

July 21, 2011 at 3:40 PM  
Anonymous Kia said...

Dear Gurl, Our advice is that sometimes a guy flirts a lot with you,guys sometimes act really mean to you,or gives you complements like kia's crush said that because she was wearing white and he was wearing red that kia could be the angel and he would be the devil. Hope it's Helpful, Kia and Molly

July 22, 2011 at 7:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well there is a boy i'm dating and he said he loves me for the first time what should i do

July 22, 2011 at 7:38 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

im 11 and my crush is 14 this year..we met at the bowling alley on 26 of march 2011...well he go to different school..i was actually invited to b-day party there he is my fren big bro frens... we never even talk...and he has a girlfren and his girlfren is so should i add him as my fren on facebook??????pls answer....

July 25, 2011 at 12:32 AM  
Anonymous Shine said...

The's this guy I like in camp he's nice and we even joke together he even offered me a skateboard when I wanted to start skateboarding but boarding but I can't tell if he's just being nice or he likes and I only have 3 days to find out 'cause that's when camp's over ahhhhhhhh!!!!!!!

July 26, 2011 at 10:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a REALLY big crush on a boy in my class. I want to tell him, but if he doesn't like me I would be Extremely upset. He stare's into my eyes all the time. My friend says he likes me to. She guessed that I liked him so she's probably right. I want to tell him but how?

July 27, 2011 at 2:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a guy friend. He had a crush on me 3 months ago, but I love someone else that time. But now, I am falling for him and I think he isn't interested anymore. He met this girl whom I think he has a crush on now. Though there are times he looks right into my eyes for so long and plays with my hair. What does it mean?

July 31, 2011 at 8:08 AM  
Anonymous Yzza said...

I have a crush on this boy in my class last year then at summer, i kinda of got over him but when I saw him again, my feelings just and I also think he likes me too because when we try to have a conversation between us when no one is around it will be a really awkward one, when we find something funny it will only be us who knows it like a private joke, like this one time our classmate was having a report then he does something funny that i noticed then he (my crush) caught my eye and we both giggled lol.. and sometimes he would be the only one from the boys who's interested on what nonsense i have to say..i really really like him a lot.. and i want him to be my prom date!!.. i guess i'm waiting for him to ask me but i don't think he will!! PLS. HELP!! :)

July 31, 2011 at 10:54 AM  
Anonymous Ricki (15) said...

I got my boyfriend by: I had a real bad crush on him!
I decided to ask him out and tell him i liked him!
Then (AWESOME) he asked me out on date.
He kissed me!
Has any of your BFs kissed you?

August 2, 2011 at 5:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

From my experience, he likes you if he tries to find ways to tlak to you or be around you. Sometimes if he is teasing you (the immature way to flirt) this means he likes you. MAjOR ADVICE!!!: DO NOT FOlLOW YOUR CRUSH...LET HIM COME TO YOU!! guys hate it when girls get all clingy and stalkerish. TRUST ME

August 3, 2011 at 1:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

with my experience guys are idiots and when they say they like you then you like them, they decide that they dont like you!! which then makes you confuzzled...GUYS ARE IDIOTS, girls, ITS BEST WITHOUT THEM!!! GRRRR....

age - 17

August 5, 2011 at 6:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

depending on his personality he might avoid you or want to spend LOTs of time with you.

August 7, 2011 at 3:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

the guy might start acting shy around you or try to be around you alot.

August 7, 2011 at 3:07 PM  
Anonymous funky monkey said...

why does it matter when a guy likes u he will ask u out soo stop worrying and have fun maybye make him one of your friends or just ignore him and wait

August 7, 2011 at 10:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If a guy likes u then he might act wierd around you or ignore u it is a simple trick of boys they dont want u to know they like u

August 8, 2011 at 12:38 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


August 8, 2011 at 6:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

girls I have a problem! I really like this one guy but he lives in a different state and I don't know if he likes me or not! PLS help!

August 8, 2011 at 6:25 PM  
Anonymous Ashley said...

I know this one guy likes me. We've been close friends for a while now and this year I finally got up the courage to tell him I liked him. And a month later he told me he liked me back. Then 4 days after that he got a gf. I don't know what his deal is! He still flirts with me like crazy but he won't ASK ME OUT!!! And it's been 3 months since we said we liked each other. Guys are soooo stupid :P

August 10, 2011 at 10:39 AM  
Anonymous dadazzlingstar said...

i am crazy for this one guy and i'm not sure if he likes me as more than friends. we are already friends but the thing is that he hangs with me more than occasionally, he makes a lot of jokes and we can compare, but i'm really frustrated!!!! i don't know if i should just tell him or straight out ask him, and we're both in the 7th grade but im afraid he wont be in my class and i am soooooo freaked out!!!!LOL

August 11, 2011 at 4:19 PM  
Anonymous Yzza said...

hey.. so yeah!! i think that's happening to me right now... he just asked some girl to be his prom date instead of me.. WHAT IS IT WITH BOYS!!!? they're so confusing!! ugh.. i totally hate him now!! first, they show signs/hints to say that they like you and just when you realized it.. they change their minds..!! i mean like i'm a girl and it would look like i'm desperate if i was the one to ask him to be my prom date! he's stupid! ---- i'll just go to the prom by myself , i will get a full make over and be like a goddess on that they.. i'll make him regret that he has an ugly bimbo as a date when he had the chance ----

August 11, 2011 at 10:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If he seems really really nice to you,spends time with you no matter what his friends think of you,always smiles genuliy and greets you by name,blushes near you,and goes out of his way to help you,he may have a chrush on you.

August 12, 2011 at 5:25 AM  
Anonymous dadazzlingstar said...

hey girls, this is dadazzlingstar AKA rising star and i'm going to list all the symptoms that i can think of. most of them will be stuff you guys have already said, but i'm just summing it up. hope you like it!!!!!!
he is particularly nicer to you than anyone else,he ignores you, he goes out of his way to unnecessarily bully you, he spends a lot of time around you, waits for you after school, gives you a little so called "friend present" on valentines day or your b'day, he actually knows your b'day, he's always got your back, little little things like that he does for you, are symptoms or signs that he likes you.

August 13, 2011 at 12:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

a girl set me and my crush up last year and we both acted really akward...that a sign??? and we where like if you want to i want to and thats what he said not me but i agreed and he gave me his # and we text backa nd forth but i still dont yesterday was meet and greet for my new teacher and i looked around and guess who sits right next to me....yeah its complicated...and today was the first and he already got in trouble for talking to me....i think thats the right kind of clue for him liking me but i dont know...HELP ME!!!

August 15, 2011 at 6:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I like this boy I didn't see the signs entil a month later. He was not like normal boys. I noticed he talked to me alot,we actually touched each other before. once he was trying to grab my friends sucker so I grabed his wrist. Stuff like that happend alot. Most of the times boys will be mean, but he wasn't.

August 18, 2011 at 9:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

sometimes they act all cold and horrible wen they really like u. but if they r seriously doing that he is not worth it.

August 19, 2011 at 3:13 PM  
Anonymous Heartbroken said...

Boys are so confusing, but they probably say the same thing about us.

Me and my best friend have liked this guy for 3 years. I thought he liked me in year 5 because he acted all sweet around me and he would tell me all these jokes, but I was really shy so I couldn't really talk to him.
Then in year 7 he ignored me and he always seemed to avoid me and I was really sad, but I still really liked him.
Then my friends asked him if he wanted to go out with me even though i begged them not to. But they did and he said "not now", but he was all embarrassed and tried to avoid the question and change the subject.
Then on the last day of year 7 my crush told my friend to tell me to ask him out because he didn't want to have to say no.
I was so sad. And apparently he told everyone that i liked him and that i had made up nicknames for him (but that was actually my friends who did that), I almost started crying in front of everyone.

I have learnt that crushes aren't everything and you think you may like someone a lot but then you get to know them and they turn out to be really mean. But sometimes guys are different and they are really nice but i haven't met someone like this yet. Someday I will, though.

August 22, 2011 at 3:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

the guy i like is really shy, and doesn't really talk to people, so he basicly never talks to me... but you wanna know a funny story? sometimes he jokes about me to my bfiffles, but sometimes he just wants to be friends, but usually the jokes are really hard to laugh at... then if he gets red he probably wants to be cool around ur friends before actually asking you out...:-/ guys are tough to understand... but my brother said that guys like it when girls ask out the guy instead, maybe you should do that?

hope this helped,

August 22, 2011 at 1:02 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi everyone I have two boys that like me one is saying he will ask me out and I don't like him and the other one is really annoying me but he is my crush but he is a toltal nerd and he is so uncool but he has totally changed from what he use to be when he was no nerd and he is following me and my friend and annoying us to DEATH can you pleese reply and tell me what to do

August 28, 2011 at 7:06 AM  
Anonymous ♥Immy♥ said...

When a guy likes you he might act a little like a kid...funny,annoying or he might ignore you...the differnce between the i like you ignore and the i DONT like you ignore... is if he ignores you but stays close to you, whispers about you to his friends, or stares at you in class.. means he likes you, but he's shy!
Now if he DOESNT like you heres how you can tell:if he AVOIDS YOU,is around other girls, or if he gives a wierd looking stare.. that really means"IM NOT INTRESTED"
But not all these sings will tell you.. sometimes boys will just not tell anyone until he's ready to tell you.Dont get worried if the guy you like doesnt show ANY good or bad probaly just means he just isnt ready for a beautiful girl like you!
rember this tip girls:BOYS CAN'T HANDDLE TO MUCH AWSOME!!♥

September 2, 2011 at 10:18 AM  
Anonymous gummybear said...

you really cant tell if they like you.

September 8, 2011 at 5:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

k so i have alot of guy freinds and they ask me out alll the time so i think i now all the difernt types of flirts out there like the gamer type guy looks at u all the time and when u ask him a question he jokes around and the funny guys act like they make fun of there freinds in front of u and the sporty guys give u doge balls in gym class

September 11, 2011 at 4:51 PM  
Anonymous Danielle 11 said...

my bf just sat by me and played with my hand. any help to any of y'all?
Danielle 11

September 13, 2011 at 4:56 PM  
Anonymous Kaylan said...

There is always a sign. My boyfriend would always talk to me at akward times. He would ask me random ? like " Who would you date."

September 18, 2011 at 7:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think there are signs. The most common one I had was your possible-crush staring or steal glances at you whenever possible. It can get quite uncomfortable.

September 25, 2011 at 10:24 PM  
Anonymous HolaGurl99 said...

There will always be a sign but You just have to wait. Have a conversation with the guy otherwise the guy you think you like might not be the guy of your dreams. I normally rate the guys I like with NHFA Nice, Hot, Funny, Amazing. You should go for a guy who makes you feel like your the only girl in the world. You should make him realize that you also have feelings for him. If he's your best friend then you should be careful. Check with yourself if you want a relationship more than your friendship. Make sure that it doesn't ruin your friendship

September 27, 2011 at 8:03 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Im depressed too.There is a guy i like who likes to tease me but also likes to act like he is my friend O.o confused.still, i dont know if he is staring at my bff or me in class.Today, i played a game to guess the lover and he got me.i sort of blushed and he asked me who so i pointeed at my self. He blushed too.And once a guy in my class said i am___ nvm and he blushed. he always likes to talk to me.
Are these signs of ur crush liking you???Pls help me.i really wanna know

October 21, 2011 at 12:42 PM  
Anonymous Vikki said...

guys are idiots girls (no offence guys). they dont show their feelings and are too afraid to admit them.and the only reason u get a boyfriend is because you hope 2 marry them! some girls dont realise that and just go out with boys like they're going out of fashion:)basically dont waste ur time trying 2 figure out weather he likes u or not :)xxx Vikki

October 21, 2011 at 7:36 PM  
Anonymous lilly said...

in class i was fine around this guy and then i started to like him so everything got really awkward. i think he might like me though because he shows off in front of me and makes lots of jokes and sometimes i catch him looking at me! and he always seems a little nervous talking to me. do you think he might like me?

October 27, 2011 at 2:52 AM  
Anonymous lilly said...

i also have this friend who is DESPERATE for a boyfriend and it gets a bit annoying.
one week she likes a guy asks him out he says no next week she likes a new guy asks him out he syas no and then she likes a new guy! She has asked about 20 people out! and then sometimes she gos back to the first guy and aks him out again!

Don't be like my friend because she is not going to get a boyfriend doing that.

I've never actually asked a boy out because i am too shy around them

October 27, 2011 at 2:55 AM  
Anonymous Priya said...

dont worry i also have a crush i know he likes me he acts like he hates me around others thats how i know he likes me :)

October 30, 2011 at 5:27 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I've seen boys all around me, but the ones who have a crush on me are just, not my type. Like this one boy last year stared at me all during the final exam and he kept moving his desk closer to mine. And no, this year this guy in in my homeroom is really funny, but sometimes, not very nice, and then he's all nice and then turns into not nice again. And during the mid term exam this year, he kept moving his desk closer to mine! (Did I hear someone say creepy!)

October 30, 2011 at 8:32 AM  
Anonymous Rhonnie said...

there's this boy I like and he found out I liked him and @ recess he was talking to his friends and always looking over @ me.
Do u think he likes me?

November 2, 2011 at 11:27 PM  
Anonymous katie said...

hi girls.I need help .....I like this boy in my class and he says he is hard to get. I do not know what to do i think i should just ask him out! but i do not have the guts to.So i will just wait till he askes me out but he says he do not want a girl-friend HELP PLEASE!!!!

November 16, 2011 at 3:04 PM  
Anonymous katie said...

hi :D girls i like this boy in my class and i think he likes me 2 should i ask him out .What if he says no ... i will be so red and everyone will know i asked him out...:(

November 17, 2011 at 1:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i dont have a anser because i think i love someone but i dont know if he likes me we have been friends sense before kindergarten and i can not tell if just whants to stay friends help!

November 18, 2011 at 11:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think there are signs that guys like you. From a shy guy to an outgoing one. But the shy guy might stare at you often and then when you catch him staring at you he'll look away really fast and blush. Or they might build up enough confidence and try to start a conversation with you but studder often or not look you in the eyes. Now for an outgoing guy he'll for sure like play fight with you and mess with you often. He might start saying hey to you in the hallway or talk about you a lot with his friends (in a good way). But you never know maybe there just being nice or maybe they do really have a crush on you.

November 18, 2011 at 11:55 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think you should talk to him more and get to know him before making that big step and then if y'all are clicking then i would go for it and ask him out. But if he does say no then play it cool and still ask if ya'll could still be friends.

Hope that helped:)

November 19, 2011 at 12:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have a crush his so shy but he has a girlfriend but when im around he look at me until im gone..
is he like me..??

November 25, 2011 at 9:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

theres a guy I like but he is my friend and he used to be nice to me but since someone told him I like him he has started teasing me?

November 25, 2011 at 9:35 AM  
Anonymous Farrah said...

i like this guy but he doesn't like me what should i do

December 6, 2011 at 7:55 PM  
Anonymous 2cool said...

I like this guy but im not sure what to do. we joke around alot but I want us to have a good firendship because if it dose not work out i dont want to have a bad friendship. WHAT TO DO!!!!

December 7, 2011 at 3:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my guy friend......he stares at me alot!! (: but theres this girl and she said he texted her saying i like you alot i got pretty sad but that girl doesn't like me at all she hates mee!! so i dont know if shes lieing or not? what should i do?

December 18, 2011 at 12:29 AM  
Anonymous texaschickwhosnotacowgirl said...

my baest friends brother gave me the sup nod!!!!!!! 2day and ive only seen him twice in my life whatdo i do

December 19, 2011 at 8:36 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


December 20, 2011 at 8:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okay after going through these comments apparently Girls+crush=crazy! I am not aying that having a crush is not normal but a crush is just another part of life. For example...I have a different crush like every other week. But then I realize the guy is just a really good friend of mine.

December 31, 2011 at 3:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have a crush and he shows some signs but i dont know much about this kind of thing,he is my first crush do i tell if he likes me?

January 3, 2012 at 2:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I usually stick with the same crush for a long time. The only reason why I moved on for one of them is because he moved and someone else sparked my eye. Crushes will come and go untill you find that special someone. I just can't wait to find out who mine will be :)

January 8, 2012 at 12:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok i have a question. There is this one guy i like a LOT! he is telling everybody he hates me like i talk to much and stuff like that. but that isn't what kindav signs im getting... he sais hi to me everyday in the hallways at school and hes sat near me and next to me a few time, also he talks to me and smiles whenever i talk to him. When i text him he always says 1 words to me. and i catch him glancing at me alot in world history 1. all my friends say he doesnt but i feel like he does because of the signs but im not sure. can u guys help plz? :)

January 8, 2012 at 12:30 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i hate crushes. they are so confusing. i knew this guy (he went to my school) and we would i.m. each other everyday. then one day he stopped talking to me, that's when i started liking him. now he jokes around with other people, but when i say hi to him he is really quiet. good luck to you with your crush.

January 8, 2012 at 10:43 PM  
Anonymous michaela said...

I have this guy that i like but they r so confusing second he looks at means then he smiles at me then he makes a joke about me.and they aren't even funny!What up with that?

January 12, 2012 at 3:42 PM  
Anonymous t-swizzle said...

i have a crush on my guy friend who has a crush on my best friend who has a crush on him. what do i do? if that confused yall then here's the simple version. i like jack. jack likes lea. lea likes jack. im lea's bff. im jacks best friend whos a girl. help

January 14, 2012 at 7:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think they can tell you anything. And if you are really good friends with them they most likely like you! Hope this helped.=)

January 16, 2012 at 6:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i got this crush and my friend is crushing on him too, but she keeps on saying he likes me not her because she says he always talks and stares at me.

January 18, 2012 at 4:02 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a crush and he tends to stare at me alot and were best friends and he always smiles alot when I talk to him

January 20, 2012 at 7:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You can tell by if he is smiling at you when he talks to you or he stares at you or he talks about you a lot

January 21, 2012 at 9:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my crush stars at me and tends to stand near me a lot.dose he like me or not?please help me,i am so confused right now!!!!

February 3, 2012 at 7:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My good friend is my crush , and I randomly stare at him , and sometimes I start to stare and he's already looking at me and looks embarassed and once his face even turned red.So ,dose he like me ?

February 11, 2012 at 9:59 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

he might like you, what else dose he do?

February 12, 2012 at 7:17 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My crush is really confusing me. i mean he knows i like him and that i have done so for 10months and we talk alone and he tells everyone we are friends n stuff BUT his bff calls him my boyfriend and trys to set us up and my my crush is gine with that... Me n my crush also seem to stare into each others eyes alot and he says that we should become better friends n stuff, but i have no idea whats going through his head. cuz sumtimes he flirting with this girl in front of me n he blanks her when im not there.
P.S: he told his parents bout me n his mum sed i was playin games with him and i found out so i told him its not a game to me and he said, "i know, I know ites important" HELP ME!! (Again...)

February 15, 2012 at 9:43 AM  
Anonymous gloria said...

i have a crush and i've caught him staring at me many times but still i've no idea whether he likes me or not

February 28, 2012 at 7:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have this crush on this guy :3 and like he gives me mixed signals... Like when I talk to him face to face he like says hey and waves first and like when we talk we have some eye contact but sometimes he looks at the ground and smiles. :) but like when I said he should text me, he said whhhyy??? And when we do text he like gives me smiley faces :) but idk .. :3 HELP PLEASE'!!!!

March 28, 2012 at 4:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ok, so i have a feeling this that this guy likes me. and reading upon your guy's comments it seems to have made my thought about it even more sure that he likes me. i have him for 2 of my classes, science and music. in science i tend to find him staring at my direction and so i just smile back at him and vise versa. then when we had to chose a partner for a lab project, he asked to b my partner. it was ok i guess(we did a lot of talking, and i ended up doing most of the work). when we would be near each other he would hold the door for me and be really shy. but idk if this was really mean of me to do,(i really regretted it now) but i guess i have been not giving him eye contact everytime i catch him looking at my direction and acting like idk that he was lookin at me. i have a feeling that alll that time he was trying to get my attention, or hoping that i would notice that he was staring at me, idk! but now it seems that he is trying to avoid me. he doesnt say hi and waves at me more often and try's to avoid eye contact. idk if it was because of my actions that he is now acting this way b cuz now i feel really bad. idk what to do now!!!
P.S i still catch me looking at me secretly in music class lol

April 15, 2012 at 10:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't know if I like this guy, because I'm always nervous around him. He's not in any of my classes, but his locker is right next to mine!:) When I first moved, I thought I saw him stare at me from the corner of my eye more than 3 times everyday for a while. Now, he rarely looks at me(if i wasn't crazy in the first place), he just looks at the hallways in my direction, and I don't know if he's really looking at me from the corner of his eye, I'm scared he already knows I'm always nervous around him, cuz I look at him whenever I can. He once accidentally dropped his binder on me while in lockers and I saw his smile while he was apoligizing. I was so happy for the next 3 days. In fact, I'm happy for the rest of the day if he even says one word to me(we don't know each other at all, but he always makes me smile just by watching him interact with his friends.)NO, I'm not a stocker, just that our classes are suprisingly close! I see him more than 7 times a day! I'm friends with most of his friends. I hope he doesn't think I'm a stocker. How can I be friends with him, without being weird?(P.S. If we ever talk, which is rare, we always look each in the eye. Also, whenever I catch him staring at me, when I gather up the courage to look at him while knowing he's watching, he always keeps looking into my eyes and I'm always the one to look away first(which really doesn't take long). He's really interesting to watch, but only want to be friends with him, I don't want a boyfriend.) Thanks for even bothering to read so far!:)

April 21, 2012 at 10:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I really like this boy in my class. I even wrote him a note, but it was from Anonymous. He thinks its from another girl. That other girl likes him too, now they're flirting. Since that happened, I'm trying to ignore him now, but I can't. I think about him every single moment! I'm not really pretty or anything, and I want to get his attention, or just get him out of my heart. Problem is, I can't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

May 1, 2012 at 8:55 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Help me!! I really like this guy, and i think he likes me too. The problem is thet im very shy to ask him out. What can i do to overcome my shyness!!

Mariel, 12

May 8, 2012 at 7:52 PM  
Anonymous #Mariel@ThinkPink said...

To the anonymous with the gone-wrong plan. That was not your fault, your crush may have supposed that. But i recommend to be honest. Simply tell him you were the one who wrote the note. If you are feeling shy, write it in a note. Good luck.


May 8, 2012 at 10:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Super confused...... does he like me or not? He always looking at me and talking to me, plus he told my friend he thinks im cute but there's a difference right?

May 21, 2012 at 9:42 PM  
Anonymous Cristina said...

i like a guy hile i like another guy im so confuzled!

July 3, 2012 at 9:00 PM  
Anonymous I said...

Just ask him "Would it be a bit weird if we hung out, you know... by ourselves for a while?"
It's better to ask than to let it all fade away.

August 6, 2012 at 11:01 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I like this one boy. Ive liked him since fifth grade on and off.(I'm in sixth now) he talks about how he USED to like this girl when I told him I liked him...his friends tell me he likes me then when I ask him he says he was gonna ask me out but now he likes a diff. Gurl what do I do?!

September 15, 2012 at 8:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


September 15, 2012 at 8:58 PM  
Anonymous kewlkatkitty said...

um... idk

December 21, 2012 at 4:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think he is hiding that he likes u

December 23, 2012 at 4:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi! I'm 12 years old. So there's this kid that rides my bus that REALLY likes me.
I don't like him at all though. He's always staring at me and acting tough around me. He puffs out his chest (Peacocking) when he sees me. There's another kid that likes me, but he's a TOTAL geek and very annoying. He's one of those people who you can't tell any sayings or anything because they overuse them and say them non-stop. Finally, there's a boy I like, but I'm not sure if he likes me back. We were best friends in pre-k, but I think he forgot how close we used to be. My friends don't know that I like him, but they always tell me that he has a crush on me. They actually asked him out for me but he didn't really answer. I overheard him and his friend talking about me, and his friend was like "Haha you like her (me)." He does the ignoring thing to me too. (Sorry for how long this is.)

January 25, 2013 at 5:27 PM  
Anonymous random152 said...

I like this guy and all my friends say we keep flirting. I don't really mind cause sometimes we kinda do but he also does this with my bff who also likes him. I havent told my bff I like him cause I don't want it to turn into a competition and ruin our friendship. she hasn't worked out that I like him cause she thinks I have a "thing" for another guy I used to like. I just want to know if the fact that he flirts with me means he likes me and if it does does he also like my friend? also how do I stop this from turning into a competition for him. (p. s. he only flirts with me and my friend not anyone else in the year)

October 28, 2013 at 7:03 AM  
Anonymous random152 said...

he said I had nice eyes *sigh* *goes into lala land*

October 28, 2013 at 7:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

There is a guy I like and he knows I like him, but I'm getting mixed signals. Sometimes it seems like he's flirting with me or sometimes he won't talk to me. I think he also flirts with another girl in my class and she knows I like home, but he could just be teasing her. I also wrote him a note and he kept it but in class he won't look me in the eyes a lot he sometimes will and we lock eyes but I don't know! Can someone help me?

December 5, 2015 at 11:47 PM  

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