Question No. 32: For Olivia, before school ends for summer!

With school ending, we all might be thinking about a certain someone who we won't see for the summer. Olivia is thinking about her crush, who will go to a different school next year. She wants to know: Should she tell him how she feels or keep it a secret forever?

Dear PLS,
i like this boy in my class and he likes me too. but every time i get him somewhat alone my bff shows up and inturupts me or him. also he is a realy sweet boy but his best friend is a total jerk. the jerk is my total enemy. and none of my boy ?friends meaning friends that are boys are as nice as my "crush" what to do, what to do, what to do? he is leaving the school next year and i want to tell him i like him but im too afraid.
Olivia, 11


I think this depends on what you're ready to hear. Maybe don't declare your love but say something more friend-like, like... "We'll be going to different schools next year. I wish we could stay in touch."

That's an opening for him to suggest a way. If you have a cell phone maybe you could text each other? Maybe there will be summer events (carnivals, parties, outings to the movies) that he can attend, too?

What do you think, Pink Locker girls? What is your advice for Olivia before the final bell rings on this school year?

Think pink!
Jemma

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't forget, even of things don't turn out there's always someone else even if it takes ages to find him!

June 12, 2011 at 12:40 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

yh i suppose if u ask him if u ask 2 keep in contact he will or might give u his number! good luck hope everythong goes well!:)

June 12, 2011 at 2:08 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

you will be just fine :)) just comefront him im already out of school and when i went to give my crush a huge my friend pushed me out the way and KISSED HIM ON THE CHEEK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it made me so mad but he gave me like a 1minute hige lol i felt so good but ive only been out for a few days and i am already diyimg i want him now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but he will be back next year so yay!!

June 14, 2011 at 11:12 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well u should tell him straight like when i did he kissed me on the lips and it lasted so tell him straight or ask a good friend to tell him

June 15, 2011 at 4:21 PM  
Anonymous hillfilly said...

Tomorrows my last day. Wish me luck :D

June 15, 2011 at 6:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

awesome

June 15, 2011 at 8:02 PM  
Anonymous LittleBoBeep said...

It's the same situation as me! There's this boy, and he likes me, and I sort of like him too! High 5 sister!

June 16, 2011 at 3:34 AM  
Anonymous hillfilly said...

I ruined it.He's gone D:

June 16, 2011 at 10:03 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I can't wait for summer

June 16, 2011 at 9:28 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

good luck!

June 16, 2011 at 9:28 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my crush is very hard to tell he shows differ sighs

June 16, 2011 at 10:36 PM  
Anonymous vivian said...

you should tell him, whats the worst that could happen? if all goes well try to stay in touch. my boyfriend is on vacation and probly will get back just as i leave :( i haven't seen him since last tuesday i miss him so much!!!!!

June 17, 2011 at 1:24 AM  
Anonymous hillfilly said...

Theres this guy i like and im pretty sure he likes me.I e-mailed him and its been 3 days and no reply.He said he'd check it.He's pretty shy too.Did i scare him or something or am i just being a spazz?

June 17, 2011 at 7:41 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

this boy at my school named jordan is so cute and we are friends and i have a major crush on him should i approch him and tell him about the crush?Or should i keep it to myself?

June 17, 2011 at 11:52 AM  
Anonymous Paige said...

Jemma,
I met this awesome guy at camp that I'm pretty sure liked me! On the last day he sed he wood get a FB so we cood keep in touch. It's been 3 days and he hasn't gotten one. Did he just forget or is he not getting one? If he doesn't how will we keep in touch? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!

June 21, 2011 at 1:31 PM  
Anonymous Alice said...

Dear Olivia,
I totally feel your position. There is a guy who likes me and I like him, but his friends are jerks. They always pull him away from me, and my BFF totally HATES him! But, if he is truly the right guy, when you ask him to tell his friends to back off, he'll make them. And if he's leaving, spend as much time as you can with him NOW. Get his number and email, but don't totally stalk him. Talk with him ever so often to keep your cool. He'll never dissapear if you have anything to say about it! Good luck!

Alice

June 22, 2011 at 9:09 PM  
Anonymous olive101 said...

thanks guys

July 24, 2011 at 7:55 PM  
Anonymous Kia said...

I think you should tell him and ask if you guys can have a long distance relationship and if that don't work im sorry and there are other fish in the sea (or other kids in the school)

July 25, 2011 at 7:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

TELL HIM
I didn't tell my crush before school let out and I regret it.Now I gotta wait 'til fall.

August 12, 2011 at 5:50 AM  
Anonymous dadazzlingstar said...

TELL HIM!!!i did not tell my crush in fear of being rejected and breaking our friendship.now it's been almost 2 months and i still have to wait 2 weeks to go back to school and then i'll freeze !!!!

August 18, 2011 at 5:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okay,in 3rd grade my friend who was moving told me to tell him i liked him. I did. And he was like what? He doesn't know now well i don't think he does. Bad mistake, he didn"t even like me but I was younger back then. I try not to think about it though. I know it might have happened already but I woould do what the pls girls said. Goood luck!

August 27, 2011 at 2:17 PM  
Anonymous C.C. said...

hi! think confident! since he is leaving the school, what is the worse that can happen? if he doesnt like you, than you will never see you agin anyeay. but if he does, you can be his pen pal! so think big! tell your bff about the problem and devise a plan involving her or him on how to tell the boy uou like them! have fun and think big! don;t worry about embarresment!

September 12, 2011 at 10:11 AM  
Anonymous Olive101 said...

Not a easy as it seems

September 13, 2011 at 9:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i had to move to switzerland from america, im telling you not easy! but i know what your going through last year my biggest crush EVER moved back to america! i dont have facebook, i dont have his number plus we couldnt text over seas, i dont know his email. and it was really hard. and then i had to move away from my other crush at my school. think of it this way you were going to stop liking him eventually even he did stay so take your mind off him and open up to other people. also you can try to get together on the weekends or holidays if he is close enough with a group of friends! good luck :)

September 14, 2011 at 12:55 PM  
Anonymous Hannah101 said...

I think u shud tell him!! I mean, its d end of school n if he rejects, then its done~~ u cant go on 'bout it!! U'll get sum1 else 2!! I'm sure!! But try it!! BEST OF LUCK!!!!!!!! :P

October 3, 2011 at 6:36 AM  
Anonymous kristina said...

hey even liked a boy in my class and i think he likes me too.but he moved to another school,BUT i had his phone number though i was scared to call him then one day i brought up my courage and called him after 2 years and he was very happy.I SUGGEST U ASK HIM HIS PHONE NUMBER :)

October 27, 2011 at 9:19 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well, if at your school you have lockers write a note about how you feel about him and ask him if he feels the same way, if he does then he will tell his friend to back off while you to are alone. if he's hesitant and awkward telling you no he doesn't feel the same way then that means his friend likes you or he feels that way and hes embarrassed to tell you

November 26, 2011 at 2:19 AM  

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