An answer for Beth: This boy is a boob!

Let's help our friend Beth. Here's her question. (Once you read it, you'll understand why I gave this post the headline above!)

Dear PLS,
I NEED HELP> ok i realllllyyyy liked this guy and he really likes me except his friend told me hes not gonna ask me out until my boobs get bigger. i am so mad and he's a jerk should i tell him off? what should I say?
Beth


OK, this question is easy for me to answer. It's not nice, not fair, and mean for someone to say they'll go out with you but only if your body changes. It's as mean as if you told a guy: I'll date you but only after you grow taller and get bigger muscles. We can't control how quickly we go through puberty and, I'd like to add, no one should be talking about your body that way.

I think the best response to all this is no response. Hopefully, he'll grow up and apologize someday. Or maybe his silly friend is to blame. Either way, move on and leave that whole experience in the dust!

Who else has advice? Anyone else have something like this happen to them?

Think pink!
Jemma

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Anonymous monkey rose said...

oh yah! that guy is totally a boob! if he is only gonna like you for your body he is soooo not worth it. but if your still in to this guy talk to him and ask him if he will only date you for your body. if he says yes then u just say he is not worth it and walk away, and if he says no then u say his friend said that he did.

September 5, 2011 at 9:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The guy is obviously shallow. You don't want someone to date you just because of your boobs. I think you should just ignore him, maybe a glare or two in the hallways

September 5, 2011 at 10:29 PM  
Anonymous A different Beth said...

then that guy obviously has no life so i think u should just give him a piecce of ur mind! he cant just say things like that and get away with it!

September 6, 2011 at 5:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

no guy worth it if he judges you for your body!

September 6, 2011 at 11:50 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This dude is stupid... i mean you sound awesome! why would a guy want to date a girl with boobs and no personality???? what would he do, look at her boobs all day? He sounds dumb... Find a guy that likes you for you!

September 6, 2011 at 2:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

thats messed up that isent right AT ALL let him go

September 6, 2011 at 7:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It's funny that you say this because I went through the exact same thing last year. I was in sixth grade a.k.a your "pro year". You have to know how to make out, hold hands, be flirty, date. It was awful I came from a very conservative Christian school and got put into this. I really am a headstrong girl but, I really wanted to fit in. I dated the cutest boy in the sixth grade, Luke. He liked me and at the end of the day he gave me a hug and leaned in for a kiss when I stopped him and said, "I'mm sorry Luke I'm just not ready for that." He replied, " Good you don't have enough boobs for me." I was mortified and cried the whole bus ride home. Everyone laughed and it became the joke of the year. But, when I started to develop my boobs towards the end of the year he asked me out once more and I told him nicely, "I'm sorry but, I don't want to date somebody who looks at me like I'm meat." It became the talk of the town. But, I did it nicely. He ended up apolagizing to me and we are good friends now. Just be strong, polite and keep your head held high.

September 6, 2011 at 9:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

God, I had that same experience Well about me being taller I just ignored it, Dont worry we grow at diff rate <3 <3 <3 ;3 Hes a boob truely.

September 6, 2011 at 10:11 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

He's not even worth the time- telling him off is telling him that you actually care what he thinks. And if he only thinks about boobs, than you really shouldn't care what he thinks. Ignore him- maybe he'll grow up, maybe he won't, but he's not worth it.

September 6, 2011 at 11:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well, I think you should tell him that really hurt your feelings. If he shows no signs of saying sorry just walk off. If your boobs get bigger and he askes you out just say I'm sorry but I'm not going out with someone who judges me by my boobs.
-hannah

September 7, 2011 at 9:14 AM  
Anonymous taffy said...

its ok boys will always be boys u will meet many others so keep ur head held high

September 7, 2011 at 10:25 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

No guy should date someone cuz of her boobs. It doesn't make sense

September 7, 2011 at 4:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

here is a simple answer if he didn't tell you himself that then it's probably not true. but if not then he not worth it if he is only going to like you because of your boobs and how big they are then just ignore him. if he does ask you out sou can bring up what he said and show him his wrongs. most boys like this one are weird. but that has got to hurt you. and i'm so sorry about what happened to you

September 7, 2011 at 6:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

he only cares about girls boobs and that wrong if I was you I should just forget about it

September 7, 2011 at 9:30 PM  
Anonymous Sophia said...

I had a huuuggeee crush on one boy about a year ago. Even though I didn't know him that well, I was totally in love with him. He wasn't dating anyone, so I got really hopeful. Out of the blue he started dating one of the most popular girls in school. I was so sad for weeks. After I got to know him better, I realized he was kind of a jerk. There's nothing wrong with liking a boy, but make sure you don't get too wrapped up in things like I did :)

September 7, 2011 at 9:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This boy and I were friends, and we liked each other. He bought me stuff and simple gifts. And when he leaned in to kiss me, and I said "no", he then ignored me for the rest of the school year!
Obviously, many boys are immature, and do stuff to get instant gratification. When you arent looking for someone, you will find the best match that will treat you with respect and love the qualities about you, that wont fade away with age. :)

September 8, 2011 at 2:35 AM  
Anonymous sharon said...

If he does that ignore him and when your boobs get bigger and he asks you out you just give him a cheeky glare and say maybe when he asks you and do the same thing again when he asks you the third time you say to him i was rejected by you you've asked me three times now and my answer is no you big boob looking jerk

September 8, 2011 at 1:50 PM  
Anonymous Sarah said...

Beth,
If this guy doesn't like you for you, he will neveer like u! He's a jerk and shallow. Next time you see him, tell him that! Maybe say it right back to him, you would never date him until he's taller! You go girl!!

September 8, 2011 at 3:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

No boy is worth the humiliation of everyone knowing the reason why hes dating you(gossip travels fast). Hes so not worth it anyway if he dosent like you for you(you sound totally awesome btw) but for your boobs you need to drop him like a hot potato :) There will be plenty of guys that like you for you weather as a friend or a boyfriend. Becides youll develop later so dont feel bad.

September 8, 2011 at 7:43 PM  
Anonymous Olivia said...

Ugh. I hate Boys Like That! Im Going To The Courtyard Dance, And i hope i can find a boy that wont like me for my...Boobs...

September 8, 2011 at 8:59 PM  
Anonymous Meesa said...

UGH. If you notice, guys love to talk about boobs, but if you talk about boobs in front of them they flee. it's funny. But that boy should not be judging you on how your body looks. That's downright dispicable.

September 8, 2011 at 10:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OMG!! Im soo sorry that happened to you! That's so incredible RUDE!! I sorta can believe a guy would say that though :/ They dont realise how hard it is being a girl!! We get our period, carry and give birth to children! RESPECT PLEASE!

September 9, 2011 at 6:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

honestly, this guy is ridiculous never change your appearance, friends or attitude for a guy. I know exactly how you feel me and this guy really liked eachother but he wanted to keep me a secret.. like who does that right? but don't worry there's many other guys just forget about this guy.It may hurt for awhile but you'll get over it.

September 9, 2011 at 1:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree with all of the above!!!
this boy is totally acting like an immature jerk!! dont worry about how you look like....the right guy will love you just the way you are....ignore this guy...hes not worth it!!!

September 10, 2011 at 12:01 PM  
Anonymous hi said...

Is everyone here talking about boys you go out with, or boys you sit in class and dream about?

September 10, 2011 at 2:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If this boy acctually liked you he wouldnt care about what your boobs look like.Get a new crush.Someone that likes you for you.Your upper body does not define you.

September 10, 2011 at 8:33 PM  
Anonymous sara101 said...

ok let me get this straight his friend told you that? i would ask him (the guy u like/liked) if its true before taking it as fact. also you guys i totally agree about they have 2 like you for you but its not a bad thing if they like how you look. i think also boys will say u rnt as hot/cute/beautiful in front of their friends and when others rnt there they will go on and on about how hot/cute/beautiful u are. i was with my friend, my boyfriend, and another friend (a guy), and they were talking about rating girls by looks (thats not all they care about they care about personality 2)and they gave my friend (who the other guy likes) a 50%!! :( (i was so irritated) i so wanted 2 say and WE rate guys on personality and u guys r 0's right now cuz ur being jerks! sorry about rambling but yes boys can like u and your boobs, but boobs cant be all they care about.

September 10, 2011 at 10:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If a guy will only take you out if you change he is not the guy for you. Move on and know that he is not the guy for you. Get someone who likes you for who you are and not just how you look like.

September 10, 2011 at 11:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

God!
He is so not worth it, people develop at different times and boys need to forget that and think about girls personalitys not their boob size!
Thanks hope it helped anyone who needed to know this x

September 11, 2011 at 12:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

He should not say that!!! You are perfect just the way you are! If he wont go out with you until your breasts are bigger he doesnt really like you:He just wants you for your looks. No one should judge you because you are you! and you are perfect!

September 11, 2011 at 2:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

GOD!HE IS NOT THE GUY FOR YOU SINCE HE SAYS HE SAYS HE WONT GO OUT WITH YOU UNTIL YOUR BODY CHANGES

September 11, 2011 at 3:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dont get down on urself he probroly is going throught things himself dont beat urself up about it you are how u are he is not the 1 4 u the one will be the one who loves u even if ur 3 feet tall and have a squeeky voice evryone else just dosent get u love u 4 u and dont be afraid 2 tell him off but in a polite way!

September 12, 2011 at 2:40 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Obviously you know he is not right one for you!!!!! He is so silllly!!! Oh and hopefully boys dont read this ~

September 12, 2011 at 7:17 AM  
Anonymous Tibby said...

Okaay... This may not be the most HELPFUL advice because I am already going out with someone. This boy, his name is Harvey, when we were like in the 1st grade, he said i was too tall for him because he found out i had a crush on him. Now, Im in Grade 7 and we are going out and really happy. You just have to wait... he'll grow out of it or you can wait until the right guy PROPERLY asks you out- that guy will be THE ONE. Or it may just be this same jerk.

Love,
Tibby

September 12, 2011 at 7:42 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I would find it so hard to be polite....i have small breasts and they bug me so much!

September 12, 2011 at 12:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi i can't believe what that guy said 2 u! i'm 15 and my breasts are kind of big but nt so big!I used to have this cute guy named P.J and one day out of the blue he dumped me for a girl named selina.I asked him" why P.J?" HE Said because i have large breasts and selina doesn't! what a immature stupid guy he is! so listen it alwaays gets better.Find another guy suitable for you love demi xx

September 12, 2011 at 3:16 PM  
Anonymous sunshin said...

I think you should ignore what his friend said and ask him for yourself.If he really likes you he won't care what size boobs you have,he will look past that.

September 12, 2011 at 7:40 PM  
Anonymous monkey rose said...

ok its funny when u say " boob " in front of a guy but when he starts talking bout ur boobs u just hit him got it!? cause guys dont realize it offensive until its to late!! then after u hit him tell him dont talk bout my boobs!!

September 13, 2011 at 7:22 PM  
Anonymous redpinkpurplegirl said...

His friend told you that, right? Maybe his friend is making that up so that you wouldn't start dating. There are several reasons that he might do this. Maybe the friend of your crush has a crush on you. Or mabe he thought it would change too much if his friend and you were dating. You should ask your crush about it. If he says that he DID say it, ask him why. He might have just wanted to impress his friends. If he says that he said it beacause it's true NEVER DATE HIM!!!

September 14, 2011 at 12:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

im sorry about that the same thing happened to me....lol i am in sith this year and fully "devoleped" as they say with my yearly thing AKA period. but anyway my friend is flat as a board and really liked this guy but he said dont come to me until you had you period and she cried for two whole weeks i mean i felt bad but the guy is such a jerk

September 14, 2011 at 8:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Beth,

I think you should go up to the boy that you like and say "if you don't like the way i am then you obviously don't like me, so take me the way i am or don't take me at all." He might say no but you will have to take to chance and tell him your not going to try and change for anyone besides yourself. I know how you feel because it has happened to me as well.

Amanda <3

September 15, 2011 at 6:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You are totally not the only one! Nearly every guy I know cares about boobs. If there's not enough, you're not the one. But there are still some really nice guys that you never pay attention to. I think you should have a look around and see who's been helping you out. Forget about that boob. And find a real guy!

September 16, 2011 at 12:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm sorry.....you don't deserve a guy who judges your body. This guy is one big jerk. Don't even respond to him at all!

September 16, 2011 at 5:30 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

this guy is totally a jerk! people shouldn't be judged by their bodies. It's the inner beauty that counts!!!!!

September 17, 2011 at 1:10 AM  
Anonymous gussie28 said...

Hey! If he says things like this, you really shouldn't like him. He should respect who you are. Of course, people look at looks...but clearly he judges a little too much! Just don't say anything. He wants what he wants! Hope this helped!

September 18, 2011 at 10:37 AM  
Anonymous Mia said...

The same thing happened to me when i was in year six, im in year 8 now and im 12 years old. This boy really liked me and i really liked him, we ending up going out and he had an argument with me a few week later. He told me to get big boobs or he was going to break up with me now when he sees me he doesn't even speak to me because he knows what he missed out on. If a boy only likes you for what your body looks like he inst worth it. :) Mia

September 18, 2011 at 10:39 AM  
Anonymous Kay-Kay said...

Thats really stupid. If he says that to you again tell him hes immature and you can find someone better than him

September 18, 2011 at 7:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

For the girl who posted the 7th comment, what is making out?

September 19, 2011 at 5:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What a mean thing to say! I agree totally it's so hard to be a girl boys that think that need to grow up!

September 19, 2011 at 6:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

 Anonymous said...
For the girl who posted the 7th comment, what is making out?

i am not the writer of the 7th comment, but making out is just kissing alot. .

September 19, 2011 at 8:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i kno ur all upset and so am i. but its ok if guys like ur boobs as long as they like u 4 u 2.

September 19, 2011 at 11:31 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think that you should think before you say anything to him and YES you should confirm him that your better than that and won't deal with foolishness from a guy that is being such a jerk!

September 20, 2011 at 12:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This happened to my friend a boy dated her jut for her boobs. I didnt think it was right. You should definitely tell him well I dont want to date you anymore and you should watch what you say because girls hate when boys say that. Just tell him how it makes you angry.

September 23, 2011 at 11:13 PM  
Anonymous Maddy said...

Before you get mad you need to work out if his friend was just making the boob thing up.
If he really likes you he should be able to look past boobs. If he can't then don't worry. A relationship is more than what's on your chest. He obviously originally liked you for all your other amazing features - both personality and looks. Sounds like you're a great girl and there will be great guys who'll appreciate you properly.

September 25, 2011 at 11:56 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If some one wants you to change that is rude it could just be gossip from some one. Your breast are perfectly fine just the way they are.

September 25, 2011 at 5:01 PM  
Anonymous Katharina said...

making out is kissing & so on and so forth

September 27, 2011 at 6:31 PM  
Anonymous Katharina said...

what a lot of people said was that you should ask him if he said that, and I TOTALLY agree with them. I'm almost 11, I've just started developing, and I've never had an actual crush. I used to think that I had a crush on one of my classmates. Maybe that's what you're feeling.

September 27, 2011 at 6:40 PM  
Anonymous Sophie said...

Blehh * He's a Jerk ! You Guys are Soo Cool add Me ! On Facebook

October 2, 2011 at 7:28 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Maybe the friend was lying. Its possible he likes u and wants you to think he's a jerk and get with the friend. But u should ask ur bf if its true

October 3, 2011 at 12:35 AM  
Anonymous princess said...

i think his friend was just trying to get u mad ask him if he said it:)

October 4, 2011 at 10:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If his friend told u then it's either a lie, a hurtful joke, or the truth. but really test him to see if he luvs u, then just see what happens

October 5, 2011 at 9:06 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

if hes says stuff like that about you,IGNORE HIM!!!!!!You can do sooooo much better than that

October 10, 2011 at 3:49 PM  
Anonymous BlAcK pRiNcEsS said...

He is so not worth it. You need a guy who likes you for YOU, NOT YOUR BOOBS!!!

October 10, 2011 at 5:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

DONT LISTEN TO DAT JERK ! HE AHOULD LIKE U FOR WHO U R INSIDE NOT FOR UR APPERANCE AND DONT CHANGE FOR A BOY

October 12, 2011 at 5:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

he is totally a JERK!! we all develop at a different age!!

October 16, 2011 at 7:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

are you positive that the boy you like said that or if his friend was just saying that so that you wouldnt like him anymore? maybe the boy you likes friend likes you

October 19, 2011 at 2:51 PM  
Anonymous Taegan said...

All the boys say this about me, since I grew some 32D's practically overnight :) I just ignore them, because if they are being that mean, they are probably icky people :/ by the way, I'm British, can anyone explain what 'making out' is?

October 19, 2011 at 3:36 PM  
Anonymous Marissa said...

You should tell him i wont go out with you cuz ur so imiture You r buutifool dont let his insecrities change that

October 19, 2011 at 10:29 PM  
Anonymous Blue said...

I think one of my guy friends likes me. In gym class he looks at my boobs. And my friends saw he do it. Why do guys like to look at a girls chest?

October 21, 2011 at 4:40 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Its sad that he wont date you. Here's what you should do let him go and find another guy that really likes you for you

October 22, 2011 at 8:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

He's no good! I can tell the guys from good to bad and he's deff the bad kind! Sorry girl!

October 25, 2011 at 9:29 PM  
Anonymous Nikki said...

Well either
A: Be Mad.
B: Tell him you don't wanna date him until he looks like a dinosaur chicken nugget.
Or C: Confront him saying that He's wrong for wanting date someone for their bodies, not them.
I don't have the best judge of character, so I would go with B, but... That's just me.

October 26, 2011 at 12:58 PM  
Anonymous Rhonnie said...

making out is like kissing on the lips passionatley... lol

October 28, 2011 at 12:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If a guy or a group of guys judge you by the way you look. Then, they are obviously too stuck up and stupid to realize the great person you are! Besides picking on a girl because of her breasts, etc., can be illegal, stupid, dumb, jerky, etc. Tell a trusted adult and they will surely help you.
:)

October 30, 2011 at 8:19 AM  
Anonymous Taegan said...

soo like snogging? thanks loads <3

October 30, 2011 at 6:07 PM  
Anonymous laughingoutloud2011 said...

what a gerk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
he is so not worth it if he's going judge you by your body he should love you for you and not you for you body.
he proberly would just stare at your BOOBS all day and KISS you a lot not even make a convisation with you i think personily you should just forget about him and let him come CREAPING after you.(EVEN IF IT IS HARD)
don't worry about stupid boys like that and don't worry about your body im sure its fine.if it is worring you, you should tell a responsiple adult that you know and trust.i hope this helps you.

November 2, 2011 at 11:30 AM  
Anonymous Rhonnie said...

girls, I have a boy problem! there are these two boys @ my school who are normally ok and I told them who I liked and then they went up to him and started hinting about it! and now he knows and it's awkward! what do I do?

November 2, 2011 at 11:14 PM  
Anonymous Rhonnie said...

yeah like snogging :)
by the way I love england! It's so cool!

November 2, 2011 at 11:15 PM  
Anonymous Georgia said...

Hey,
I have a crush on this boy and his best friend found out that I have a crush on his BF, he started saying that I wanted to marry my crush right in front of him, and he asked me out!

November 3, 2011 at 3:15 AM  
Anonymous Jennie said...

Hiya! Well I know what that feels like. I know tis guy and were really close friends I call him my brother but we're related. One day I was at his house watching T.V he took a pen and then started poking me in the boob and said "Wow you have small boobs." It hurt I got up and left. A week later I went a cup size. And he hasnt said a word to me scince!!!:)

November 5, 2011 at 5:06 PM  
Anonymous Beth said...

Thank you so much for all ur support. It was welll needed and helped my get through everything. THINK PINK;)

November 7, 2011 at 9:37 PM  
Anonymous splashkittiy4427 said...

Beth,

if this "guy" gives you any troubill.... tell an adalt or forget, i had the same thing, i forgot.

good luke!!!!!!

November 10, 2011 at 9:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

first of all that is just plain MEAN! there are boys like that but you just need to tell your crush that he should like you for WHO YOU ARE not WHAT YOU HAVE. also, my BFF loves my friend and the whole scene of them getting together is wierd. any help?

November 16, 2011 at 8:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Boys are stupid when there growing up. If the only reason he wants to go out with you is your breast size then move on to someone who will except you as you are. :)

November 18, 2011 at 8:31 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

no guy should treat a girl like that im sorry about what happend but i think u should forget about it and move on if he liked u he would'nt say that

November 18, 2011 at 10:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OK well I'm sorry that happened to you but i say forget all about it. Boys can be like that and it probably was one of his silly little friends that dared him to say something like that. But anyway, I know how you feel. Guys at my school only like girls if they have a big butt. Now I'm not saying that all guys at my school are like that but from what I've seen, some of them are. So don't let this one guy bring down your confidence your perfect the way you are. Trust me, there are PLENTY more fish in the sea. :)

November 18, 2011 at 11:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

That boy is a boob someone should like you for you, dont ever change for a boy. You know what you should do just forget about him dont confront him.

November 20, 2011 at 7:26 PM  
Anonymous chloe said...

Omg I really hate guys that do that i am dating a guy who is really nice i hope he would never say something as stupid as that......mimicry...hey i wont date you til your boods fit double d...let him go beth beside you sound like an amazing person

November 21, 2011 at 3:17 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey Beth,
I had that feeling before. my friend said he wants to like me, but i was too small and he would be made fun of. you should tell him off in a nice way, like i did. tell him it should matter most to him about your inner self, 'cause that's how relationship starts.

November 23, 2011 at 2:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well, what i would have done was to ignore the dude that told u that "he won't ask u out till ur U KNOW WHAT gets bigger. He might be telling a lie or something. Have u tried telling him u liked him? i think u should it might help and ask if he likes u. Don't worry i have the same problem that a guy likes me and i like him back but he hasen't told me yet if he does. So now check if the guy u like is acting cool or weird around u kay it will work

November 24, 2011 at 7:10 PM  
Anonymous Abbey said...

Something happened like this last year. I really liked this guy buthe was dating all these girls but it turned out he was using them to get the hottest girl in school. It hurt me when he asked me best friend out but I got through it. No one should go through with that. Especially you Beth. You deserve better and he has no right to say that. Show him the real you. No one wants to be fake. Tell him you are proud of your boobs and that you dont care what he thinks. He is a jerk. Most guys are. He doesnt deserve you and he was just being a guy. If he apolgizes. Good he has a right to be sorry. If he asks you out again then just ignore him. You can find someone so much better.

November 27, 2011 at 9:31 PM  
Anonymous Kira said...

hey Beth that has happened to me before but the guy was really mean to me and not about my body but like your stupid and he would call me names I would ignore him

November 30, 2011 at 11:27 PM  
Anonymous ATTA said...

Beth,
If this guy is acting like a jerk then dont like him.... wait until he says sorry! and even when he does just remember he hurt u really badly, im just saying it's your choice

December 2, 2011 at 12:16 PM  
Anonymous fizzel1999 said...

Beth,
well for one: if he really liked you he would of liked you because he liked your personality or your looks....two: boys like that arent worth it and three:i ecxpect you could do better... not worth the hasselxxxx

December 5, 2011 at 3:40 PM  
Anonymous Hannah said...

Well I think you should just ignore him until he says sorry to you (and he must really mean it). I think he was really mean and I understand how you feel...and he really isn't a true friend.

December 7, 2011 at 2:59 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had similar experiences. All of them are shallow tell him I won't go out with u until u get abs

December 10, 2011 at 1:51 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It's probably just his friend playing aprank on him. Guys are like that.You said that he likes you too, so try asking him out, and if he says yes, then it probably wasn't true, but if he says no, then he IS a boob!

December 10, 2011 at 10:06 AM  
Anonymous ems said...

wow that is soooo sick why would a guy like u only for ur body??

December 11, 2011 at 2:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What a jerk! Don't settle for a guy who judges you on your looks! All but 5 or 6 of the guys are shallow in my class and if your tall, have curly hair, and even a tiny bit of acne, they won't like you. Most even don't like you if you have tan or dark skin!My point is if a guy can't accept you for who you are, they don't deserve you!He'll regret it once he sees you with a nicer guy!

December 11, 2011 at 8:08 PM  
Anonymous l-sap said...

Wow, at leasthe was straight out with u (sorta) i realllyyyy liked this boyy and he wuz sooo cute and perfect, except he was a little short, but i didnt mind. It seemed like he liked me, and we were friends and we flirted nd stuff but nothing happened tht summer (i knew him from an all-summer long summer camp) so i guess he was expecting me to grow bigger boobs by the next summer, cuz we kept in touch, but i dint see him til the next summer. Then tht next summer, it seemed like he hated me. The fist day when i was walking up he smiled, then when i went to his table and he got a closer loook he ignored me!!! And ignored me for basically the rest of the summer!!! :( he was a jerk, and i learned my lesson, dont fall for guys unless u know tht they are a good person and wont judge u based on things like boob size. I think the guy tht said tht is just like the guy i liked. I would find out if he actually thought tht first, but if he did, thts horrible. Hope i helped :)

December 13, 2011 at 10:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If he can't accept you for who you are... He totally doesn't deserve you! Keep that in mine for when you are in high school too!

December 15, 2011 at 7:34 PM  
Anonymous texaschicwhoisnotacowgirl said...

if he asks you out if your boobs get bigger tell him u would rather date the guy who likes you for u. Beth that boy is a dumb jerk whos such a narcissist (that means only cares about himself and status.) get over him bcuz that relationship would b based on boobs which is really sick and twisted. i know how u feel. my friends brother used to well just be annoying. ive "blossomed" and now hes staring at me all the time. narcissist.dumb.boys. find one who likes u 4 u and hang out with him right in front of the jerkface. good luck. and i m not a cowgirl :D

December 15, 2011 at 11:03 PM  
Anonymous ke$ha-not really said...

ok well hes being a jerk. some guys look at me funny cuz im 5'1" and have biggish boobs their like 4'8". but i dont/shouldnt judge them by their height just like they shouldnt judge me by my hieght/boob size. hey dont worry bout it beth. if he's gonna judge u 4 shallow things like that then hes soooooooooooooooo not worth it. give him and his rude friend a peice of ur mind

December 15, 2011 at 11:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

boyzz r going through the stage where most of them(not all of them) care about the body...and thats it. THey dont deserve you. TRUST me. i am in middle school and im 4'7:( and I have bigger boobs than most of the other girls sooooo thats why a lot of boyzz like me. ITS SOOOOOOOOOOOO GROSSS!!!!

December 19, 2011 at 4:55 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I know exactly what you should say, "Look, you like me correct? So, here's the thing, my boobs are none of your dang business. Stop loking at them or whatever and pay attention to my personality got it?"

December 23, 2011 at 9:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

he is such a jerk but i did this once because i really liked this guy and he said the same thing so i stuffed my bra and it just looked weired so i un stuffed it and than walked right up to him and asked if he liked me and when he said yes and i asked why he wouldn't ask my out and than it turned out the friend was lieing so we have been going out for 2 years (sincd i was 10) and have been really happy since

December 24, 2011 at 4:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

if a guy wants you for your breasts,thighs,or legs...send him to KFC or something!!!You are a LADY not a cheap value menu!!!!

December 30, 2011 at 12:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Maybe his friend was just joking around, but I should say FORGET ABOUT HIM!

December 30, 2011 at 1:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

lol I like the way anonymous put that :if a guy wants you for your breasts,thighs,or legs...send him to KFC or something!!!You are a LADY not a cheap value menu!!!! You have a great way of putting a sense of humor into that! Thanks i needed that lol

December 30, 2011 at 8:42 PM  
Anonymous t-swizzle said...

lol to the KFC thing :D and it true if he says something about em do what i do say : y r u looking there, punk!?! my face is much prettier *smirk then walk away*

January 1, 2012 at 11:43 PM  
Anonymous Zora1111 said...

get lost would b good if a guy wants u he likes u but if he want ur breasts or butt or legs KFC was a good one he might like CHICKEN breasts or legs lol

January 6, 2012 at 11:24 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I know! Anonymous (if a guy wants you for your breasts,thighs,or legs...send him to KFC or something!!!You are a LADY not a cheap value menu!!!!) Your hilarious! RESPECT THE AWSOMENESS! LOL

January 6, 2012 at 9:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

How do you get a boy to like you? I think we're already friends, but I like him more than that.

January 7, 2012 at 11:57 PM  
Anonymous t-swizzle said...

@taegean in america making out=snogging oh yeah baby i kno this stuff :D

January 8, 2012 at 5:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My advice?
"Dump" him or tell him how you feel.
But that guy needs to learn.

January 10, 2012 at 5:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You shouldn't always believe what guys friends say. They are boys so they don't always tell you the truth and if he did say that just know that he isn't right for you. You should be with someone who respects you for sure because you're worth it.

January 11, 2012 at 4:36 PM  
Anonymous t-swizzle said...

1 of my good friends likes one of by best guy friends. my friend and i kno that the guy likes her. we were @ a party and talking 2gether and he randomly said ur hot to my friend. we all stared @ him and he was like *smile* jk i was just joking! then he stared @ my friend. its akward should i tell him that she likes him 2 or not

January 14, 2012 at 7:00 PM  
Anonymous AskLily said...

Like Jemma said, don't let him get you down. Hold your head high, and he'll get what's coming to him either tomorrow, or in 10 years. You must focus on more important things. Good luck, Beth!

January 15, 2012 at 9:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If he wants you for your body he is sooo not worth it.

January 21, 2012 at 9:42 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Bigger bazooms doesn't mean anything just be who u r and keep ur head high;) ps if he said that u tell him to back off it's not ur fault everybody goes at their own pace




Think pink Bet

February 8, 2012 at 5:39 PM  
Anonymous Snipper said...

Dudes a jerk! Enogh said.

February 11, 2012 at 3:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

at least its his friend being a jerk and not your friend! my friend started saying things about my boyfriend so now i have to deal with fixing TWO relationships. :/

February 17, 2012 at 7:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You should ask the boy if it is true. His friend could have been lying.If he really did say that, it is really mean.

February 22, 2012 at 4:30 PM  
Anonymous pretty brat145 evil angel said...

don't listenand dump him head first! [literaly,i mean it!]

February 26, 2012 at 4:42 PM  
Anonymous buttercup said...

i agree with jemma that he has no rights 2 talk about ur body like that

March 2, 2012 at 6:07 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okay i udnetrstand your problem heres my advice:
If the boy's (that you like)friend told you this ( about the boob problem) information without talking to your crush then you should go straight to your crush and tell him your true feelings if your crush told his friend to tell you the problem then you should like Jemma said he's a big BOOB and leave him in the DUSSST!!!

March 10, 2012 at 12:22 PM  
Anonymous cuti2 said...

A total boob. But then again, boys can lie. I say just confront your crush and if his friend is telling the truth, yell it out in his face " YOU BOOB!!!!!!!!!!!!" You know you want to.

March 11, 2012 at 7:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

its ok once this boy liked me and i liked him but his friend said that he cant like me cause of my friend she is not that popular

March 20, 2012 at 11:29 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ever since I got a bra boys stare at my boobs. I sit in a group with 2 boys and they always stare there. Many boys say im gorgous and they stare atmy face my boobs and my butt all day long. Even my kinda-crush stares!!! I try to ignore it but once a boy was staring at me then said hey ---- why dont you come over here and raised his eyebrows. Boys are so annoying! I cant walk around withoit being stared at! What do I do!

March 22, 2012 at 1:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well whatever you do, you have to know that you don't have to change the way you look. You don't control your body. But I would tell him off, right there in public in an he-pretends-to-act-cool-but-he-is-speechless sorta way. Or if it is much more personal, tell him off in private.

March 25, 2012 at 11:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

That's just sooo cruel!!! I think you should just do nothing and ignore him and his stupid friend! Stick up for yourself girl!! :) xxxxxxxx

April 7, 2012 at 7:07 AM  
Anonymous Juliett said...

Wow if he only likes you for that, then he really is a jerk and let him know that he doesn't deserve you:)

August 6, 2012 at 2:24 PM  

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