Question 17: What if a guy looks at your butt?
Today, we'll take on two questions - both about guys touching you or looking at you. Both can make you feel kinda weird.
It's sorta happening to me, but I witness it all the time. What do you do if a boy looks at your butt..?
Just A Thought, 12
First off, your body is yours - all yours. So if someone is looking at you in a way that feels uncomfortable, you can say, "Please stop staring. It's not polite." And you can always talk with a parent, teacher, or school counselor about something like this. You don't have to put up with someone looking at private parts of you, like your butt. Obsessive staring of any kind is creepy, even if the person is looking at your face.
Sometimes someone looks at you a lot because they're curious or they think you're pretty. So it can be a sort of compliment. It's part of the job of growing up to figure out what's OK and what's not. That goes for boys and girls. And I think it's fair to say that both guys and girls can be clueless about stuff like this.
All right, Pink Locker girls - what's your advice about boys who look at butts? And tell the truth: Have you ever stared at a guy, secretly or not-so-secretly?