Question 19: A guy touched her lip

Question 19 is kind of like Question 17 below (butt looking). Both questions are about other people looking at or touching you.

Dear PLS,
A boy in my class touched my lip and asked if another boy has done that before. Does he like me or is he just being weird?
Qwerty, 11

Once again, I'd say your body is YOUR BODY. So no one gets to just touch you. Sure, it's possible he likes you. He might be trying to be cute or romantic. I've seen mushy scenes in movies where the guy does something like that. He also might be curious about girls. But it really all comes down to you. What did you think about him touching your lip? Do you like him? Has anything happened since?

What else, girls? What's your advice to Qwerty?

Think pink!


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Anonymous monkeyrose said...

ok im not trying to be rude or anything but thats kinda WEIRD. So its prob just him being weird.if i were you i would just ignore it.

November 30, 2011 at 9:25 AM  
Anonymous a little too far?? right said...

well when i used to go to this christian school we were at church time and a boy turned around touching his lips against mine then he put his hand on my inner thigh i was in 2nd grade so
i sorta was like ????? but now i understand

November 30, 2011 at 12:15 PM  
Anonymous Hannah said...

Last year the boy I liked,he liked my back, would often touch me. When I was being loud he'd put his finger on my lips and say be quiet. I never really minded. But if he touches your lip, I think its a sign.

November 30, 2011 at 7:18 PM  
Anonymous Abbey said...

That is just weird! I mean did he just touch your lips or was it like more?

November 30, 2011 at 7:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

probably not a bad thing but definatly not good either.

November 30, 2011 at 7:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm seriously romantic so...OMG! this guy likes u!

December 1, 2011 at 3:35 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If I had to guess,I would say he was bout to kiss you and then chickened out, or maybe you looked uncomfortable so he stopped. He so likes you!

December 1, 2011 at 10:27 PM  
Anonymous Fairythunder said...

I think he is trying to drop hints that he likes you. The main question is, do you want him to like you? Did you mind him touching you?

December 2, 2011 at 3:28 PM  
Anonymous lon-lon said...

i never had to go through that i go to a all girl school so it doesnt really have anything for me

December 2, 2011 at 10:52 PM  
Anonymous Christeen said...

I have a realy big crush on this boy in my bffs class but the only problum is my bff is my crushes x! what do i do?!?!?!?!?!

December 4, 2011 at 4:58 PM  
Anonymous cra-z4pinklol:] said...

I think he really likes you if he said that. If he looked at you mystriously and tried to talk smooth, YES!!! he likes you. if he did it in a normal voice he's just plain weird.

December 4, 2011 at 7:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

this one boy is like 4 years younger (he is on
my bowling leage) and he ask me to
be his partner in the doubles tourtorment or however you spell it. And he like me he always ask me things like whats my favorite color favorite tv show ect. and idk what to say like he is 8 years old but he is such a cutie( little kid cute)

December 4, 2011 at 8:52 PM  
Anonymous Christeen said...

Wait did he touch u with his finger or his lip???

December 4, 2011 at 9:53 PM  
Anonymous Cathy said...

Well, let me be clear. If that kid is known for acting strange, then that guy is a weirdo. If he always stares at you and is NOT known to do crazy things, then he likes you. If a boy cracks his knuckles, that means that he wants to hold hands with you. Or he just does it for fun.

December 5, 2011 at 4:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

He porbaly likes you and he might wanna be dating u so ask the guy out

December 5, 2011 at 6:44 PM  
Anonymous Hannah said...

Yeah, I think he probably likes you. But if I were you I won't start dating him or anything like that yet. Hope this helps :)

December 7, 2011 at 2:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Be careful I thout a guy liked me but he called me old and sayed right to my face a girl in kindergarten was a better choice than me my name is Cory just so u know and I am 12

December 9, 2011 at 10:21 PM  
Anonymous ranie said...

he likes you!

December 10, 2011 at 3:08 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes! He's a boy! This may sound weird but he just wants to touch you! lol

December 11, 2011 at 7:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


December 13, 2011 at 9:19 AM  
Anonymous tima said...

he loves u

December 16, 2011 at 3:15 AM  
Anonymous kickboxergal said...

he probably really likes u or it might have been a dare

December 19, 2011 at 4:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Eyes of brown, so dark and deep
Darting, shifting, breathtakingly steep
Hair that falls in just the right way,
Naturally, needless to say
A heart of gold,
And a laugh that stops traffic,
You can’t help but laugh when he starts laughing
He flashes a smile,
My heart skips a beat,
I try to not grin,
But admit to defeat
He has no idea,
I’ll tell him-
No rush,
Though he may not know,
I have a huge, growing crush

December 19, 2011 at 5:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

He probably likes you and has watched way to many romance movies with his family. So the big question is whether you like him or not. Either way don't let him touch you unless you're OK with it. If you're not then let him know.

December 20, 2011 at 4:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OK, so he touched your lip. He either A. Likes you B. Is a weird pshyco or C. He's obsessed with you and wants to marry you. How good do you know this guy? And if you like him just slowly make your way to a relationship.

December 23, 2011 at 9:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think he like realy likes you is he crushing or just wierd

December 24, 2011 at 3:40 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

maybe he wants to be friends and is trying to make you laugh

December 26, 2011 at 12:30 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dont freak that happened to me wat i did was just ask him why it might be an accident

December 30, 2011 at 6:39 PM  
Anonymous t-swizzle said...

he's either weird or hormone crazed... Maybe both ;D

January 1, 2012 at 11:38 PM  
Anonymous Zora1111 said...


January 6, 2012 at 11:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ya thats totally weird but ya maybe he is hormone crazed lol

January 6, 2012 at 9:56 PM  
Anonymous t-swizzle said...

hes either weird or likes u mayb both... since he was wayyyyyyyyyy 2 straight 4ward i wouldnt go 4 him....creeper :D

January 8, 2012 at 7:11 PM  
Anonymous No-name said...

try talking to him in a kinda-ish deserted place, talk to him from a distance, though!
sthen try bringing the subject up("why did you touch my lip?")
I'm afraaid that's the most advice I can give you, I really don't know much about attractions/wierd peaple.

January 14, 2012 at 5:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i would say its wired and hes flirting with you or his hormones are going crazy

January 15, 2012 at 6:28 PM  
Anonymous AskLily said...

Well, you're only 11 years old, so I would assume you aren't old enough for a relationship (in my opinion). I suggest you avoid him and try to hang out around friends, so that something like that doesn't pop up again. Good luck, Qwerty

January 15, 2012 at 9:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If that made you feel sort of weird,avoid him.I know what you mean.You are curious why he did that.If this does not help,tell a parent,or the school conseler.

January 16, 2012 at 10:25 AM  
Anonymous Maribel said...

Hey, it's YOUR BODY.NOBODY touches. that has happend to me be4 but somewhere in a more WORST way and i didn't like it. so i just said,''what are you doing?'' and he said,''touching you what do you think?'' and i replied,''Well it's my body not yours, you don't plan on doing something to this body cause it doesn't belong to you.Just like you don't rip a book from the library cause it's not yours so please get away, Thank You for listening''
Good Luck & Think Pink!

January 18, 2012 at 10:57 PM  
Anonymous Madison said...

Hi I am a first time blogger,but Ifeel you on this.There is a guy that touches my butt and I am not sure if I like or I don't he asked me for my number and I gave it to him am i dumb

January 24, 2012 at 10:51 PM  
Anonymous Janice said...

I think you should tell a parent or an adult

February 25, 2012 at 10:24 PM  
Anonymous Amanda said...

First, make a joke to de-awkwardize this. "Wow, I think you might have been watching one too many romantic movies." If he does it one more time, tell him to stop, or tell an adult. Depending on whether or not you feel threatened.

March 2, 2012 at 11:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a crush on my best guy friend I don't know what to do help p.s he's shorter than me so my friends r like, but he's so small!! I need help please

March 7, 2012 at 2:23 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think he seriously likes you or that he was curiou to why people in movies do it. Don't fret it really is nothing to worr about.

March 10, 2012 at 11:07 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


March 26, 2012 at 3:02 AM  
Anonymous Duckie said...

I think that that's kinda gross but you might disagree. I would freak out if this happened to me and probably tell every adult I know that he should be in SERIOUS TROUBLE! He might like you, or he might just be weird!

March 29, 2012 at 1:14 PM  
Anonymous ♥Immy♥ said...

well, idk, its never happend to me. lucky.... ;^)

April 16, 2012 at 8:33 PM  
Anonymous Juliett said...

Ha ha a boy touched your lip that is so cute :) lol i once touched a boys lip by accident and he was like "Ahhhh! you just touched my lip!!!" Ha ha it was so funny he was freaking out!

July 15, 2012 at 12:58 PM  
Anonymous Juliett said...

Really? i think it's cute but that's just my opinion.

August 2, 2012 at 4:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My best friend(male) touches my lips or puts his hand over my mouth when I talk to motch

July 9, 2013 at 10:25 PM  

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