Leaks happen & Love Pink needs major tips!

Periods are a perfectly natural part of being a young woman, but they also come with some challenges. Love Pink has run right smack into one:

Hey girls. I am on my 2nd period now, and last night my pad leaked all over my underwear cuz all the pads r weird. How can I prevent this? I was wearing a really big pad already so that it wouldn't leak, but It didn't work. I don't want to wear those giant overnight pads cuz those r WAY too big!!! What do all u other girls wear at night when u r on ur periods. I need MAJOR tips!!
Love Pink

So it's a drag, but leaks do happen. They happen with pads if the pad is not in exactly the right spot and they can happen with tampons, too. Gravity is your friend when wearing a pad in the day when you're mostly sitting up and standing up. But overnight is tough because you're laying down and gravity may take your menstrual flow in the wrong direction. Here are some tips:

  • Try different kinds of pads - some are bigger, smaller, have various shapes and come with wings to wrap around the underwear - or not.
  • Be sure that your underwear fits snugly so that the pad stays in place, as best as possible.
  • Put on a fresh pad just before bed so that it has maximum absorbency.

If leaks still happen once in a while, don't sweat it. Rinse out underwear, clothes or sheets in cold water, treat with stain remove and wash right away.
Any other bedtime tips, Pink Locker girls?

Think pink!


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Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Love Pink... I think you should just try on thicker pads it does not have to be really big. Make sure you are comfortable with it too. I hope I helped! By the way pls girls i need help. My mom gets me trainig bras and i think i am ready for a cup bra. Any suggestions on how to ask her? Thanks pls girls Icygirl;)

February 26, 2012 at 1:42 AM  
Anonymous Iwannabeharry'sgirl said...

you have to expect it! almost every month i have a period, it leaks. A LOT. but as long as i have friends who are willing to stand right behind me, i'm okay.

February 26, 2012 at 2:01 AM  
Anonymous TrueThat! said...

Make sure that the pad is centered right and maybe try thicker pads. (Trust me! Been there!)

February 26, 2012 at 10:10 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Anonymous.......
I get what your saying. alot of the times i need more pads or a new bra and it feels really werid and awkward to tell my mom. my best advice is to wait for a good time to tell her when she would seem the most understanding. maybe you could suggest going to the mall and when ur walking by the bra section, bring it up! act casual about it, not stiff and nervous. Hope this helps!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

February 26, 2012 at 12:55 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@ icy girl u should go to justice it is a store fore tweens an they have soft cup bras. soft cup bras are bras that are in between padded and training. take it from me i am wearing 1 right now

February 26, 2012 at 1:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I need bigger bras too any help?

February 26, 2012 at 4:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thx you guys so much! I shop at justice and I will look in there for soft cup bras. I will also go 2 the mall and check there too. Wish me luck! -Icygirl:)

February 26, 2012 at 11:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Love Pink,
Maybe you should try pad with added length so it is longer than a normal pad, I find this very helpful. Btw, I need help, girls!!! I get major mood swings an severe bad mood just before my periods, I've had them for a LONG time, any tips on how to get rid of the mood swings and bad moods? Thanks a lot, from moodygirl.

February 27, 2012 at 3:50 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Does anyone know any confidence building exercises because I'm working up the courage to ask for my first bra.Also does anyone have any ways to ask for a bra without making it awkward?

February 27, 2012 at 1:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I really dont know cuz im not on my period, and i have the same problem with bras

February 27, 2012 at 5:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Anonymous,
tell your mom (if you have to change in a locker room for gym) "Hey, Mom it's really awkward kind of to have to change for gym at school without anything on." By this point, she'll probably suggest a bra. But remember, your mom was a kid/teen too :) She knowwwwssss :) Also, try to do it like either on a short car ride on the way back, or in your house, because I know they say "Do it when you're alone together" but that's super duper awkward so do it where you can get away easily.
Hope I helped!!!

February 28, 2012 at 5:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a question!!! Does anyone know how to stop liking someone? I know it sounds weird but I need help!

February 28, 2012 at 5:10 PM  
Anonymous Cheeselover said...

@ Anonymous, i had the same problem for asking my mom for my bra. i just went up to her when we were shopping by ourselves and ask her if i could get one. i got one and it wasn't that bad. For the confidence exercise idk, u can just practice what your going to say

February 28, 2012 at 5:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my sisters are both older than me... and I know for sure that its perfectly normal to be more grumpy and moody before for periods. Don't worry!Many people are like this...

February 28, 2012 at 6:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I get moody but then my mom gets mad and I can't help it! Help me!!!

February 29, 2012 at 10:37 PM  
Anonymous helpme!iamdesperateformyperiod! said...

If you feel angry, Anonymous that said,

"I get moody but then my mom gets mad and I can't help it! Help me!!!"

Try punching a pillow, clay, or drinking tea and sitting down and reading?

March 1, 2012 at 3:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Why do girls have periods anyway?!

March 1, 2012 at 3:05 PM  
Anonymous Nastya said...

Try and keep your spirits up! I get really moody after school if I haven't eaten since lunch, but what I try to do is think about something really great that has happened that day or is to happen soon. And try to keep your voice light and laugh a lot. That seems to help me!

March 1, 2012 at 6:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm so glad my period hasn't started yet but I know it's gonna start soon -sigh-


March 1, 2012 at 8:11 PM  
Anonymous Iwannabeharry'sgirl said...

How can you stop yourself from loving someone you know will never love you, even though he's the sweetest guy you've ever met?

March 2, 2012 at 6:36 AM  
Anonymous dancegirl22 said...

to iwannabeharry'sgirl: its fine to have a crush on him, even if it doesnt mean you'll be ablee to date him. sometimes its fun to just say u have a crush to talk about with ur friends so ur not left out. i know personal expirience. when i found out my crush liked another girl, i cried, but i also wrote a breakup song, first song, now im working on two more songs! which i just decided to like him again and one of the songs im working on is a love song. so maybe u should try making a song! it helps and even if u feel confident show ur friends. hope this helps. btw i'll be on if u need me. and who knows, maybe he could like u too ;)

March 2, 2012 at 7:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey girls! Sorry about having a lot of questions but one of my friends is having a party. She invited all of my friends and me but not my best friend. She told me not to tell my bff about the party so I don't hurt her feelings but it feels wrong. Any suggestions on what I can do PLS? Thanks -Icygirl;)

March 3, 2012 at 1:19 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

what if you don't wanna be friends with someone anymore?
pleeeeease help

March 3, 2012 at 2:04 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okay girls, listen up! Being a teen can be tough, trust me, I am one. I am 15 years of age and I have pretty much been through everything you guys are going through now. So, my advice to you is; get some friends over, have a slumber party and talk to each other about what you're going through. Chances are, they'll be going through the exact same thing. As for periods, you can get pads that attach on to your trousers to prevent leaking. They take a lot more time to put on, but if you're feeling that self concious about it, then maybe its an idea. Also, try having a shower every night/morning, it will leave you feeling fresh and it will wash away any blood left behind so you can properly see how much you're getting. I have a heavy flow, so what I do is mark a small 'P' for period on my calender on the day I start, so I know roughly when to expect it next month. I always keep a stash in a makeup bag in my school bag of sanitary towels etc, so if Im caught off guard I'm prepared. And one last thing, smile, think of it this way; you're one step closer to you're very own future. Goold luck girls!

March 3, 2012 at 8:24 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yeah, I get moody a lot lately, and sometimes it stinks to go to school and make it worse. Can someone help this?

March 3, 2012 at 11:23 AM  
Anonymous dancegirl22 said...

u cant help getting moody. sometimes someone makes u mad, but to help releive some of this maybe carry around one of the balls u can squeeze whenever your about to get mad. it helps me. maybe think about a crush and sometimes that'll put u in a better mood. hope this helps.

March 3, 2012 at 12:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

thanks for the help, dancegirl22.

March 4, 2012 at 5:52 PM  
Anonymous Dancediva said...

Can I have some help?? I am in year 7, and I am 12. I want a crop top, because a) I am growing, and b) it is awkward changing at school swimming. Also, I don't yet go to the shower with the door closed*cringe* because I am the youngest and I don't think my mum can stand the thought of me growing up. Any advice on how to ask?? Please help :)

March 5, 2012 at 1:47 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

to dancediva

maybe while walking in the mall then you can hint when you walk past the bras, and as for the bathroom door, maybe close it and just not lock it once and awhile, then do it frequently.
hope I helped!

March 6, 2012 at 1:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

what is a crop top? YOUR SCHOOL HAS A SWIMMING POOL, Dancediva?!?!

March 6, 2012 at 2:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Omg I think I just had my period but I don't know cuz there was blood in my discharge but nothing on my underwear. What should I' do?

March 8, 2012 at 7:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

croptop is bra, I think...?

March 8, 2012 at 9:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

what do u do if u had ur period in class and don't want to tell the teacher?

March 8, 2012 at 10:00 PM  
Anonymous Maryk said...

Dear PLS,
I do not swim a lot,and I was wondering,will I ever have to wear a tampon? I can wait till my periods over to swim.

March 9, 2012 at 3:19 PM  
Anonymous cuti2 said...

Lately I ve been getting really moody and have light cramps. But Im 11 and dont get my period. So is it like a weird faze or what???

March 9, 2012 at 7:11 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

To cuti2,
I think its a sign that ur periods r coming.Hope I helped!

March 10, 2012 at 7:06 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Can someone plz help me on the fried comment earlier? Ireally need help. Thx! -icygirl;)

March 11, 2012 at 1:43 AM  
Anonymous dancegirl22 said...

does anyone have tips on flirting with the guy i like? please help me!!

March 11, 2012 at 4:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I like this guy alott too his name is Fernando. My friends keep doing stupied stuff to embrass me!! What should i do
- wanna be his :(

March 13, 2012 at 1:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is off topic, but what is fondling?

March 13, 2012 at 3:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The bathroom door thing happened with me too... Just close it for awhile when you're going #2, then start closing it for #1. Your parents probably won't notice. Same with shower. Also, is croptop a bra? You could tell your mom that you need something to wear when you're changing for gym class.

March 13, 2012 at 7:42 PM  
Anonymous justin bieber is awesome !!!!!!!!!! said...

Omg i have that same problem maybe when u sleep u should change pads but try thicker pads if u think this a fussy idea(rose)

March 14, 2012 at 10:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

a while ago there was this guy and i just thought what if I liked him, but I told some people that i liked him, and i havent told my friend and instead lied about it... so, what should i do?

please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

March 15, 2012 at 1:07 AM  
Anonymous Ashley said...

@ anonymous
you should tell your friend the truth and apologize
she will be happy you told her the truth

March 16, 2012 at 2:51 PM  
Anonymous morgan said...

Ask can u start out wit a couple but when u o it dont demand u want to be nice plus if u do the bra sizer thing u might actually b ready

March 18, 2012 at 12:52 AM  
Anonymous monkeyluhver said...

To anonymous on feb 26... I have the same problemo... But i think if we just tell our mom that we think we need a little more support because were becoming older and more active. If ur too nervous too ask her... Send her a txt or write a note. When i got my first bra... Training bra of course... I wrote her a note. She understood how difficult it is growing up... My guess is tht ur mom will understand too. So, just ask her.
I hope i helped u!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;-) :-!

March 18, 2012 at 1:40 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@monkeyluhver Yes I have the same problem. I wrote her a note and she understood. Just casusally ask and don't worry about it.

March 19, 2012 at 5:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

iceygirl- to help with the friend/party issue. You should not go because your best friend would be hurt. Do not lie to her. And you should tell the friend who is having the party not to ask you to lie.

March 23, 2012 at 3:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Icygirl- i was in your situation to :) all i did is when we went to a store,just me and my mom i asked her if she thought i was for a cup bra. She measured me and i was really ready! LOL :) it was a little akward but in the end it was all fine. Before u ask tho, make sure u are 100% ready :) And explain to your mom why you want it :)
Hope this helped
Smiley :D

March 28, 2012 at 1:47 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

Thankyou so much you guys!!! I will try the measuring thing then ask my mom for one soon!

April 1, 2012 at 1:28 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Love Pink,
I have heavy blood flow so I change the pad befor I go to bed and I use the body shaped pads with wings. The wings help the keep the pad from slipping. Ask your mom! She's a girl to; she's probable had to deal with this.

April 3, 2012 at 11:08 AM  
Anonymous BlueAndConfused said...

My school has an outdoor swimming pool and I have to go swimming it soon but im on my period.. how do i tell my teacher:)

April 3, 2012 at 2:45 PM  
Anonymous Gutiar gurl said...

Just tell your gurdian. They would probably help you. If you want to tell your teacher tell her you need supplies and it's "that time of month" but you need to tell someone.

April 4, 2012 at 9:44 PM  
Anonymous ckek said...

you can get some night ones

April 9, 2012 at 4:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i actually have a question

Dear Jemma,
My crush keeps staring at me and today he told my friend that he doesn't know what i want with him. Plus, i asked him why he keeps staring at me and he said he cant tell me! Dooes this mean he likes me?
Please Help!

April 12, 2012 at 8:06 PM  
Anonymous Willow said...


when you say snugly fitted undies, do you mean those tight fitting one that you can get in Primark?

April 15, 2012 at 3:36 PM  
Anonymous Willow said...

I Didnt Have Too Even Ask My Mom For A Bra she suggested it was time :)

April 15, 2012 at 3:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ask your mom-she does know best!!! If you don't wanna ask her, write her a letter, email, or text!!! Or drop hints!!! Good luck!!! And she won't say no, she knows girls boobs grow and they need bigger bras sometimes! It's a part of puberty!!!

April 17, 2012 at 4:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Uh I'm a little scared to try a bra......( I'm not a tomboy ok!)
I have been wearing tank tops for a long time and it is about to be the deadline of em cause I'm gettin taller and the last size is XL and my grandma said do u wear a bra? I said no. And then she said im goin to go take u out to get some. Then I said NO! I have a training one but I rlly don't use it cause it makes me embarrassed. Plus all the girls in my class wear em. I can tell cause it shows right through their shirts in light! Wat do I do I don't want anyone to kno I wear one! Wat about swimsuits? Padded or not? I rlly don't want to look wierd? Cause of my stage of puberty!

April 18, 2012 at 8:36 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) (with a sideways rose @}~~~ ) said...

At the anonymous above, if u need a bra, u should get some. Get a perfect bra to wear under ur shirts and it wont show! And if you wear a bra, get lightly padded suits. They work so well! If you get the perfect bras u wont look wierd!

April 19, 2012 at 12:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Love Pink,
i think one way to avoid leaking all over the place, is to sleep sideways when you're on ur period. you should avoid sleeping with your face looking up at the ceiling (is that too confusing? lol).wen i got my period, my mom told me to do that and it really works! so i just wanted to share with you girls this little tip :)

April 21, 2012 at 12:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I use a pad with wings to help ensure that the blood doesn't get on the sides of my underwear is my pad scrunches up (which is not fun, believe me!) but leaks happen and just make sure you use COLD water! Also, tell your mom, she can help prevent permenent stains. Also, if you sleep on your back, try moving the pad back.

April 22, 2012 at 7:26 PM  
Anonymous Iwannabeharry'sgirl said...

@ anyone who reads this any advice about this awesome, sweet, hot, SINGLE guy that i've known my whole life?

April 25, 2012 at 11:27 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i used to have the same problem just wear double undies that fit snug so it wont move around make shure also that the pad is on properly.
hope it helped if not ask mum!

April 26, 2012 at 6:38 PM  
Anonymous Caroline said...

Because your uterus builds up a lining of blood and tissue to be protection if an egg meets sperm and a baby is created. If a baby is not made, the lining is shed through your vagina and it comes out as a liquid containing blood. This is your period.

May 11, 2012 at 9:42 PM  
Anonymous Caroline said...

You should talk to your mom and tell her that you think you got your period but you aren't sure I'd it's really it. She can help you with what to do. Remember she's been through it too.

May 11, 2012 at 9:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I wear a maxi and then I put a pantyliner (is that how you spell it haha?) almost up to the end of my underwear, if any goes back there, it absorbs it and (for me) it lasts all night. Hope this helps!

June 24, 2012 at 12:31 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have had the same problem. I find that pads with wings work best for me. Accidents still happen though so i have underware that i use just when im on my period (the old ugly ones and cotton so i can wash them easier.

June 28, 2012 at 8:22 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My pad leaked out the sides at night too. I tried wearing two pairs of underwear - outside pair tighter than inside pair, plus an overnight pad. It keeps everything together. Hope this helped!

July 5, 2012 at 2:25 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yeah totally. Try the pads also with wings, for me they stay in place better

July 13, 2012 at 6:07 PM  
Anonymous Juliett said...

My pads are not long enough.

July 14, 2012 at 1:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

AAH! When I am on my period I have to wear super pads or else the blood leaks all over my bum.
By the way does anyone have younger syblings? If you do, have they ever seen your pads? What did you say they were?
I had a pad in my back pocket. It slipped out a little and my sister asked what it was. I said I didn't know.
When I was little my mom said that the pads in the cupboard on the bathroom was soap.

July 24, 2012 at 11:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I wear just plain pads with wings. You can also have a towel under you so if you do leak nothing will get on your bed. Wear tightfitting pants to bed to keep the pad in place. NEVER USE A TAMPON AT NIGHT!!!! You could get TSS.

July 25, 2012 at 10:17 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I wear an overnight pad you can get at CVS and/or Walgreens. If i have a heavy flow, it MIGHT POSSIBLY leak, but thats just if its HUGE. (the period i mean) Otherwize, im clean in the morning.

July 26, 2012 at 6:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ASK YOUR MOM! She is an even better sorce than ANY OF US. She will provide ypu with everything you need.

You could wear overnight pads with the wings so it stays in place.

July 26, 2012 at 7:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You can wear longer pads with wings so nothing will leak. Also make sure you are putting the pad in the right plaace and try to find which brand fits you best.

July 26, 2012 at 9:50 AM  
Anonymous PLSBlogger said...

Soap? LOL

August 3, 2012 at 7:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

/Experiment! I did it until I found my perfect pad. I started with always but they were too big and they felt uncomfortable to me(just my opinion.) So I switched to u by kotex regulars but they were too stiff and not long enough. Then I did u by kotex super and am currently enjoying them.

August 7, 2012 at 10:08 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You HAVE to try Always. They absorb so well!

August 22, 2012 at 11:27 AM  
Anonymous Emmy said...

You dont need all nighters. Buy U by Kotex tween. They are for younger girls and They are really cute!!

August 25, 2012 at 2:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@Emmy you are SO right! Comfy too!

August 27, 2012 at 1:14 PM  
Anonymous kewlkatkitty said...

aagh soon i'll have to wear those... help.

December 21, 2012 at 4:20 PM  

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