A dozen BOY questions

We got 12 boy questions the other day, so let's get started on them!

CaliNeedsHelp says...What do you do if you like two boys?

To Cali, I say it's OK to like two boys. When you're young, you're just figuring out what you like in a person. And especially, if you're not going out with someone, it's fine to be friends and to think happy thoughts about two different boys.

Anonymous says...the guy I like is going to a totally different middle school next year:'(

Aww, that is sad. There's just no substitute for seeing the person you like at school. I would try to think of ways to stay in touch, like maybe in a group event over the summer, like going to the movies, the mall, or a party at someone's house. You could always say you'd like to stay in touch and see if he take the bait!

Anonymous says...Why do I think of my ex-boyfriend, I found out he is a jerk so I dumped him. I hate him now, but I still want him to want me why?

Oh, how I try not to think of boys as jerks, even when they act in completely jerky ways. I guess, now that I know some guys a little better, I see that they have their own problems and issues. So when they act jerky, sometimes it's just because they don't see things exactly as girls do. (I still remember the time I bared my soul to Forrest and he looked at me with the blankest blank look that I've ever seen.)

Of course you want your old boyfriend to still like you. That's normal. And you probably do still like parts of him or some of the good feelings you had when you were with him. But if he's not nice to you, farewell to him! You can be friendly to him. Maybe you'll like-like each other again someday, or maybe you can be friends. 

What have I missed here, Pink Locker girls?

Think pink!


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Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

I totally agree! I like two boys too! If the boy is leaving next year, just ask him out, or like jemma said, keep in touch!

April 29, 2012 at 11:24 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What if you like a girl?

April 29, 2012 at 1:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a huge crush on this boy in my grade.He talks to every girl in my grade except me!does he like me or not?!

April 29, 2012 at 4:39 PM  
Anonymous Lyn ( 12 this year ) said...

I am closeest friends with 2 guys. And @ the first anonymous, I kinda felt that when i started growing breasts and the hormones hit. I read that its completely natural to feel stuff like that, but some people do like girls. It's not weird or anything, bcause everyone is different and it's just part of who you are. :)

April 30, 2012 at 8:06 AM  
Anonymous Harlie said...

ok i have a problem, there is this boy his name is Sage but he is a year younger then me i KNOW he likes me. why else would he cll me hot steal my hair clips...and straw but im best friends with him nd when he said im hot his friends were like its TRUE nd they are ALL my best freinds idk what to do.

April 30, 2012 at 9:23 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Harlie, try talking to them about it and i ask if they meant anything? They are your best friends so it should be ok.

April 30, 2012 at 12:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My BFF's sister is pregnant, she is 14, me and her were on the phone when all of a sudden we started hearing crying and yelling from my friend's house. She said, 'omg, my sister better not be watching horror movies again!' When she came back she cried and said 'my sister is pregnant, she and my mom are fighting!' What should I do, I feel bad for her!

April 30, 2012 at 1:31 PM  
Anonymous helpme!iamsodesperateformyperiod!!! said...

I know this must be a common problem, but my best friend and I both like the same boy: But she doesn't know it. She told me, but I always lie and say I don't like anyone. My friend sits next to him during math class and he seems to enjoy that. A few days ago, my friend said that he called her a friend of his. I feel like I am going to go bonkers and explode with jealousy! Does anybody have any tips? I would really appreciate them.
Think Pink!

April 30, 2012 at 5:03 PM  
Anonymous annabanana said...

Hey guys I was wondering if any of you know what to do if your friend is like really jelous of you because you have boobs and she does not.... and we are like best friends!! I'm guessing that she's a late bloomer and stuff but she weres a padded bra with underwire, and ya so any help?

Think Pink!
Xoxo annabanana

April 30, 2012 at 8:44 PM  
Anonymous Ccmay said...

@ icygirl
You say ask him out, but isnt that wierd, untill youre like, i dunno, 14? but, hey, what do i know? one of my best friends, (Who is 11) claims already to have a "make out sesion" with her boyfriend. but then again... shes not the most truthfull of types. :) whatevs, talk to u later!!

April 30, 2012 at 9:51 PM  
Anonymous Ccmay said...

@ anonymous whose bff's sister is pregnant.
Ooooh, i went through the same thing. BElieve me, i know how much it stinks! i had no idea what to say to her, but mostly, i would say somthing stupid like, "its okay" and change the subject. if theres somthing that makes ur friend realy happy, say that. when she starts crying, say "STRIPPY SOCKS" or what ever. mostly try to make her think about somthing else. hope this is helpfull! :)

April 30, 2012 at 9:57 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl said...

Well not like ask him out like become boyfriend and girlfriend, but ask him if he wants to do an activity. I hope I cleared that oyta, ;)

May 1, 2012 at 1:02 AM  
Anonymous Emma said...

Help with mine plz! Ok so this guy in my class said to me one day after school "I need you". When I just stood there speechless he and I kinda walked away. The he said "I was just trying to be nice. After that we both have acted like that never happened. He sort of jokingly teases me and my group of friends but it's not like the other boys don't too sometimes. He is friends with the popular stuck up girls who are rude backsttabbers to us but kind and sweet to the boys. He's kinda cute but a jerk sometimes. He seemed fully serious unlike the times he jokes around. He told loads of people about how he liked the most popular girl in school and the rudest girl but not to him but she has a boyfriend and did back then. He knows she only likes him as a friend and I think he doesn't like her more than a friend now. Does he like me still? Did he before? What did he mean by I need you? What should I do now?

May 3, 2012 at 8:02 AM  
Anonymous Scarlet said...

i'm kinda confused right now. idk if this guy likes me, because i just see him as a friend . but he tends to do things that make me wonder if he has a crush on me.
i have known him for a few years, we werent close but we have some of the same classes. it wasnt until this year when we actually started talking, when we were performing at a competitive music festival. we were on a lunch break and so he asked me if i wanted to check out this undergound tunnel that was under the stage. i said yes and he and i went down, it was reallly creepy and we later got in trouble by a teacher lol. later we were kinda alone watching the view, i was cold and so i was standing at a sunny place. then idk what happened but suddenly he was holding my HAND! we didnt say anything until someone came and he let go of my hand omg. after that incident i tend to find him looking at my direction. now at school when we cross paths he smiles and waves at me saying hi. but lately it seems as though he is trying to avoid me, is he mad at me or something? idk. now when he sees me, he just looks down and it makes me wonder if he is checking me out or is he just shy. it gets soo frustrating sometimes, i just want to ask him what is the matter with him (i keep seeing him sneak glances at me and quickly looking away when i see him)idk what to do, but its really getting annoying. back when none of this has happened yet, wen we cross paths in the halls he would wave and smile and be all friendly. now he is all avoiding eye contact and it really frustrates me. then the other day, i saw him and i mouthed WHAT? and then he just shook his head and turned away. idk what do do now, i really want the glances to stop. i dont want to go up to him and ask if he has a crush on me b cuz i think its going to make it all weird and awkward for both of us.

May 3, 2012 at 9:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I sooo understand how all these people feel,i have the biggest crush ever on this guy at school and i dont think he knows i even exist,sigh.

May 4, 2012 at 2:42 PM  
Anonymous Ccmay said...

I get super nervous when I talk 2 my crush, and my friends just set us up on a date! What do I do?

May 5, 2012 at 11:33 AM  
Anonymous Emma said...

I think he's really embarrassed to talk to you since that happened. He probably thinks ur mad at him or something. I suggest going up to him and talking to him and either acting casual by saying hi or saying you feel bad about what happened. Say you dont want things to be awkward and then just see what happens. I don't know him so I'm just guessing! I think he either feels bad about everything or most likely has a crush on you. Probably both. I know how you feel with the staring. This guy who left school used to always stare at me. If I saw him staring I'd mouth what like you did

May 6, 2012 at 10:39 AM  
Anonymous Sarah said...

ok, so i have a feeling this that this guy likes me. i have him for 2 of my classes, science and music. in science i tend to find him staring at my direction and so i just smile back at him and vise versa. then when we had to chose a partner for a lab project, he asked to b my partner. it was ok i guess(we did a lot of talking, and i ended up doing most of the work). when we would be near each other he would hold the door for me, asks to hold my stuff for me and be really shy. but idk if this was really mean of me to do,(i really regretted it now) but i guess i have been not giving him eye contact everytime i catch him looking at my direction and acting like idk that he was lookin at me. i have a feeling that alll that time he was trying to get my attention, or hoping that i would notice that he was staring at me, idk! but now it seems that he is trying to avoid me. he doesnt say hi and waves at me more often and try's to avoid eye contact. idk if it was because of my actions that he is now acting this way b cuz now i feel really bad. idk what to do now!!!

May 6, 2012 at 3:40 PM  
Anonymous Scarlet said...

To Emma @ 10:39
thank you soo much for the advice. but i would like to add that we kinda started to talk a little more. he is really quiet and shy when there is alot of ppl and his friends around, but when i'm alone or that his friends arent around then he would come up to me and talk and it would be really nice. but i got to say those moments are really rare lol, most of the time i get the stare or glances which i hate lol.

May 6, 2012 at 3:54 PM  
Anonymous trumpetlover said...

If you like a boy, try walking with him after class. I have tips on how to do this. If he is slow in packing up, do the there- is-something-at-the-bottom-of-my-backpack-trick. Pretend there is something at the bottom of your backpack that you need to get. When you see him start to end his packing up, end the trick and walk with him. I used this and I held the door for him. We talked a little. He is really nice!

May 7, 2012 at 4:22 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl said...

One of my crushes ( i have two) told me his address and said that I needed to know. I like him so much!

May 7, 2012 at 7:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Aaawwww icygirl that is sooo sweet I liked this really cute boy called max but then he moved to a different school but then I fortunately found out that I was going to the same school!! Tragedy solved

May 8, 2012 at 6:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi girls
I used to have a boyfriend in kindergarten through fourth grade. We were dating for five years we were perfect for eachother .......he and I were both on the swim team I was and still is on the softball team he plays baseball he played ice hockey I ice skated we were madly in love w/ eachother but there was one thing that is the opposite with us. I am the best behaved kid in the class he is the worst behaved kid in the class He gave me nice gifts of jewlery like pandoras We ended bad
He cheated on me. I was not ready to break up
I loved his blue eyes and blonde hair he didn't even need to give me presents but I always loved his kind heart the most he got it from his mom she owned an organization that donated toys to people who could not afford them. The problem is he transferred schools last year and I miss him more than every thing in the world what should I do

May 8, 2012 at 11:32 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl said...

Wow wat a coinicidence! Lucky u! No blessed... but anyways my crush that told me his phone number too! I am starting to think that a lot of boys like me.

Smile Jesus loves you!
Think pink

May 9, 2012 at 1:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I an the same person who wrote above directly above icygirl the guy who was my boyfriend and that cheated on me his name was billy and I went through the same things as icygirl when we were dating a boy from my class went to Billy's house and saw a pic of me on Billy's wall turns out Pat (the kid that went to Billy's house) liked me too so they wrestled eachother for me

May 9, 2012 at 10:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have one more thing to add. My favorite thing that anyone has ever said to me came from his mom it was "you two (me and my old boyfriend ) may never get married but u will always have a special friendship that can never be broken by anything."

I wish that was true

May 9, 2012 at 10:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Please help. I just recently started liking my brother's best friend, who is 14! (I am 12)
I don't know whether he likes me though :( Here are some things I've noticed:
-Once when he, my brother, and my parents were at a concert he made a little heart hand/shadow puppet thing and then showed it to me (and me only). I laughed it off
-He, my brother, and I all play outside together all the time and there is another girl around my age who lives on our street and while he is on okay terms w/ her he always talks to me more (even when we are all playing together).
-Just little things like I'm the only girl he invited to his birthday party (I didn't go though because it was all boys and my parents didn't want me to go--they don't like me playing with him and and his brother and my brother anyway), and he ALWAYS turns and looks me in the eye when I talk to him, etc.

May 10, 2012 at 5:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh yeah and I'm homeschooled so I can't see how he reacts around other girls

May 10, 2012 at 5:50 PM  
Anonymous Gutair gurl said...

There is this guy in my class I think he is cute but I dont know if he likes me. One day were making jokes (he is funny too) then the nwxt he is yelling at me and telling me to shut up. He says he just in a bad mood. I sit by him my bff and another guy but were just friends. My bff is always talking to him , even when he is in a "bad mood" plus she lets him call her air bear cuz her names Erin but when ANYONE else calls her that she gets soo mad. I told her I like him she told me she likes someone else. There is another girl I think she likes him. She is always hanging out with him and talking to him they were "dating" before but they broke up... But he NEVER snaps on them!! I dont know if they like him or if he likes them,me,or them or someone else!! Ps. We like the same stuff like shows, music, ect.

REPLY please!!

May 10, 2012 at 8:40 PM  
Anonymous Abbie said...

lucck you! i'm not allowed to date.

May 10, 2012 at 8:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What should I do if I still love my old boyfriend even if he cheated on me

May 11, 2012 at 10:01 AM  
Anonymous gautair gurl said...

anonymous above me : just try to keep your mind off him and try to get over him, if he cheated on you he doesn't deserve a second chance. Try talking with a friend. Hope I helped. :) <3

May 11, 2012 at 6:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks I'll try that does anyone else have advice

May 12, 2012 at 3:52 PM  
Anonymous Emma said...

Maybe he thinks u will act wierd and his friends will find out something's up. Or u'll tell bout what happened. He is prob embarrassed 2 say something in front of you when others r around. They might think he has a crush on u which he might do. Idk. As for the glances there are three things u can do. 1 ignore it and hope he stops. 2 approach him and ask him why he's looking at you or say something to him. 3 act casual and smile and wave or something like that. It's really hard to try to fully understand how it would feel cause I'm not u but I hope I helped.

May 13, 2012 at 8:19 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

pls help!!!!! So this guy Alex i met at my friends chili cookoff really likes me and he gave me his facebook name and told me to get one and he's really sweet im going in 6th and he goin in 8th but he goes to one school and im going to another so every time we see eachother in at the cookoff and im going what should i do??? shoul i tell him i like him?

May 13, 2012 at 6:29 PM  
Anonymous Eve said...

Jemma: I want a bf because i dont have a best friend. I have lots of friends, but none of them is really my bff. Any boy I have like, really, liked has been a singer or actor that is,like, 6 years older than me. Also, I luv 2 read!!! Ever since I've read the Hunger Games, I have longed for a friend like Peeta. I wish he were out there! (And, let's just say, the guys at my middle school are nowhere close!)

May 14, 2012 at 9:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

gah what should i do im 11 but i like a 15 year old there is a rumor he likes me back bur i DOUBT that so what if he does should i go out wit him?

May 15, 2012 at 12:58 AM  
Anonymous Mere said...

I think he likes you and is scared to admit it.

May 15, 2012 at 5:58 PM  
Anonymous Gutair gurl said...

My name is supposed to be gutair gurl oops !

May 15, 2012 at 6:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

He is just embaressed if he asks u out and u say no. But i dont think thats going 2 happen

May 20, 2012 at 10:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ask him for his email address, phone number, etc. Just remember to become good friends with him first before asking for either so he doesn't think it's too... Weird. Who knows! Maybe something will happen?

May 23, 2012 at 3:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a huge crush on a boy that's like two years older than me. He's pretty nice to me. I've had some weird or emabarrasing moments in front of him. I guess I want to be friends with him. I think about him a lot. How should I keep normal around him? Thanks

May 26, 2012 at 5:28 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok so I go 2 a rly small skool and all the guys h8 me cuz I have no figure and I'm a nerd and stuff and I always have a comment not anything snotty just factual stuff and I've been told by this really freakishly hot popular guy that it's annoying help what do I do??????

May 27, 2012 at 11:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have crushes on boys older than me at least two or three years. But they can never like me back simply because I am younger. I have had some embarrassing moments. So don't worry everybody experiences them. Anyway, crushes aren't a really big deal they're just what you'd imagine your ideal love to be like.

June 4, 2012 at 6:49 PM  
Anonymous Ashley said...

i have a crush 2 years older than me too
btw im home schooled so i never c him except @ (ur going 2 think this is really weird) dance. he's really good and really strong 4 13.
and @ eve i feel the same way i luv peeta
i used like gale better but after i read the 3rd book a few times i changed my mind the hunger games r amazing!!!!!! i cant wait 4 the 2nd movie

June 5, 2012 at 3:39 PM  
Anonymous Sarah said...

oh my gawd Eve! thats totally what i was thinking! i have girls bffs , but i would really want a guy bff too!

June 9, 2012 at 10:56 PM  
Anonymous bunnygurl16 said...

can girls ask guys out? cos theres this cute guy in my class who i have a crush on and i dont think he knows i like him. also do u think i should be asking him out cos im not cool and most peeps in my class have something against me cos im a bit of a "goody two shoes" and i never get told of by the teachers or anything, but he is one if the cool guys.also if he does say yes how should i react on a date(ive never been on one before) ?

please answer this ,if you can!

PS. sorry for the long post and for asking so many questions.

June 10, 2012 at 9:32 AM  
Anonymous Icygirl said...

Tommorow is my birthday!!!¡!!!!!

June 11, 2012 at 7:27 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

LOL Today is my birthday!!! I am now 11 years old. YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

June 12, 2012 at 5:02 PM  
Anonymous Rebecca said...

Every boy I've ever known never had a crush on me and boys never talk to me and every boy in my school probably thinks im ugly :( :( :( :(

June 12, 2012 at 11:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well Rebecca;
im sure not every guy thinks ur ugly, ur just probably not friends with most guys. i mean how much time can u spend with guys, i go to an all girls school (how do i survive?!) and i only see boys on the bus on my way home. i got my boyfriend by talking to him, he picked on me but it turned out he liked me and i like him so we started to get real close and then one day he decided to ask me out, it took him a whole year of knowing me! so u never know ..a guy u know and like might be the guy that asks u out and he will be the guy u next kiss..... its all a matter of time! just try and bond with more guys and become friends by doing things that they like and ull see!! join footy and ull have major boys ..trust me!

June 13, 2012 at 4:40 PM  
Anonymous Isabella said...

Thanks for all the advice I tried it all and it worked!!!

June 19, 2012 at 10:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I always like boys not in my class or I like more than one person. And I'm sad I can't see my crush in the summer. To me thinking about my crush makes me happy. What should I do? Thanks

June 19, 2012 at 10:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

He might be shy that somebody saw both of you holding hands and might like you though I had the same problem

June 26, 2012 at 7:35 PM  
Anonymous Trang said...

If you want to date one of them, and can't decide who, make a pros and cons list. The Pros will be the good qualities/what you like about him. The cons will be the not-so-good qualities/what don't you like. It's okay to like two different guys.

July 18, 2012 at 9:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have crush on this one guy but he's two grades ahead of me! Grrr... And my friends like him to but they both are friends with him, so they are all like he's mine he doesn't even know you! They have a way to talk to him but I am just a fly on a window Help!

July 21, 2012 at 3:12 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a huge crush on a boy in my class I don 't know if he likes me.

August 8, 2012 at 11:51 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My BFF is acting wired what do I do

August 8, 2012 at 11:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear anonymous on 8th aug at11:52am
wat kind of weird?
If she is seperating her self from u and others she cud simply be goin through a rough patch! And if im rite all she cud need is a friend to help her through it and to understand her! no matter how much she pushes u away let her know ur there for her!

Or she could be going through the teenage boy blues and will also need a friend to talk to!!
hope i heled

August 10, 2012 at 5:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I've had the same prob b4 and what u hav to do is make him like u. Smile at him. For all I no my crush luvs tht. Talk 2 him and if he stares at u during class he can't no tht u no he's staring at u. Look around the room play with ur hair and then look at him and smile for a sec and look away. Try not to b to jealous. Hope this helps☺

September 1, 2012 at 12:04 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Theres a HAWT boy I like and in first grade ge said he liked me and were in seventh now. Hes popular and an athlete kinda like me and he likes girls ALOT and I catch him staring At me. It seems like he's shy around me sometimes bcuz once we were walking and talking together alone I the hall Wat and he started blushing ( he looks cuter when he blushes) but I didn't say anything about it. Once in home room in wuz givin a prayer request and he wouldn't stop sarong at me until I smiled at him and them he smiled back in a really shy way. I have a feeling he likes me but sometimes ( especially during gym ) he's a meenie. How do I tell him I like him without actually telling him thx❤

September 1, 2012 at 12:38 AM  
Anonymous boyz,boyz,BOYZ!!!! said...

i like a boy who is REALY cute. hes tall, blond, smart,and funny. then there is anoter boy who is SOOOO hot. hes tall,shagy blond, and popular. boy #1 is very nice 2 me. boy #2 teases me. im wondering wich 1 likes me.

September 2, 2012 at 5:19 PM  
Anonymous boyz,boyz,BOYZ!!!! said...

just so u no i like boy #1 and boy #2

September 3, 2012 at 11:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My x-boyfriend broke up with me because of my breasts being pointy because i dont wear a bra and ive been having dreams about him and im to afraid to ask my mom for a bra. Is this normal?

October 2, 2012 at 7:32 AM  
Anonymous dorkygirl^-^ said...

@annonymus after boyz,boyz,BOYZ!

if he dichet u Bcase u have poity boobs hes realy a idiot!!!

October 4, 2012 at 9:33 PM  
Anonymous Country gurl 8) said...

ugg u guys i ahve boy trouble. i relly like this boy on my bus he's cute and funny and he's really nice to me and we alwys have a good time together... but i dont know if he likes me and plus my best friend dosen't like him(and we have been sistas 4 like life) and i know my parents would NOT like him... but i got to know him and he isnt who he seems

any way how do i get hem to ask me out i mean honestley i just really want him to man up and ask already!?

but what if i tell him that i like him and he dosent like me back1 i would be HUMILIATED!!!!
Please help! SOS! ANYONE!?

October 7, 2012 at 9:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I also like to.boys but one is more meaner but im going to ask the other out the one that is mean likes me who.should I ask.out

October 30, 2012 at 9:01 PM  
Anonymous LovePink said...

Idk it just who you are.....sorry I rly have no idea wish I could help tho..... Just remember......

December 4, 2012 at 6:17 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This guy said: let's take a picture of the sexy ladies to me (he was talking about my friends and I but I was the only one he was talking to) and at a banquet he was sitting right across from me and he kept starring at me whenever I looked in his direction... I kept looking away... But I think I like him... What should I do jemma? I'm very shy around boys...

January 11, 2013 at 2:28 PM  
Anonymous Meredith said...

i have a crush on my best friends boyfriend. what do i do?

October 16, 2013 at 7:43 PM  
Anonymous Maya said...

help me!!! my friend broke up with a guy several months ago and I like him. I overheard him say he likes me and he is going to ask me out. if he does, should i go out with him? im scared of what my friend will think

October 16, 2013 at 7:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i go out with this boy Called Lewis but i kinda fancy this other lad called matty what should I do ??

February 6, 2014 at 6:02 AM  

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