Birthday slumber party emergency!
Sorry this is gonna be long but,PLEASE,PLEASE,PLEASE i need an answer by next week. ok so, i am having a birthday sleepover party on july 19th and i need ur honest opinion who i should invite of these girls.
girl 1: she is nice and popular and bff's with 3 other girls i am inviting but she creates a lot of drama and im afraid if I dont invite her people will be like where is she? I am also friends with this girl but she creates sooo much drama.
girl 2: she is 1 of my friends but she is kinda rude 2 some of my other friends, she can get annoying and she is wild at partys (my parents don't really like wild kids running around in r house).
girl 3: this girl was my bestie in the beginning of the skool year but she dislikes some girls I am inviting, is a bully to my friend and she whispers in the corner about people at partys. she is besties with most of the girls i am inviting so if i don't invite her people will be like ???. and r moms r friends! please help me!
just say which 2 girls you would want 2 come to ur party i only can pick 2 of the 3. thank u soo much if u help! sorry this was so long.
- a very frustrated birthday girl
I think this is a very good question. Our birthday girl has really thought a lot about it and has analyzed it well. But here's the thing to remember: Even if it's your party, you aren't responsible for anybody's behavior except your own. So if girl 1 creates drama or girl 3 starts trash talking other people, it's not the birthday girl's fault.
But why not invite girls who will make the party fun? So feel free to cross girls off the list if you think you won't like having them there. It's YOUR birthday after all. Don't worry about what people will say. You can always keep it polite and just tell people you could only invite two girls. Be kind even if you feel justified because it still hurts when you are the girl left out.
Another approach would be to talk to all three girls, in a gentle way, about the stuff that's bothering you. You could say, "Hey girl 1, I think we'll have a great time at my party. But one thing that bothers me is drama, so would you help me keep that under control?"
What else, Pink Locker girls? What makes a great birthday party guest? And what makes you NOT want to invite someone to your party?