Do you have a summer crush?

Haven't we all been C.C.Gs? Confused Crushing Girls! What's your advice about crushes  you can't stop thinking about in the lazy, breezy days of summer?
I have a crush in school but, there are 3 problems. 1. I'm not sure if he likes me back, 2. My friend told him and used to be awkward around me but then... 3. it's summertime and I can't stop thinking about him... WHAT SHOULD I DO????

Thanks, C.C.G (confused, crushing, girl)

My advice may surprise you. When you're crushing like this, take a deep breath and FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO DO. No, you're crushy feelings won't disappear, but I like to take a break from stuff I can't do anything about. Spend your summer doing stuff you like best. Swim, dance, go barefoot, eat watermelon without a plate. You get the idea. Then, when school time rolls around, you'll have lots to talk about with your old crush. If it works out, great. If not, hey, you still had a super fun summer!

Think pink!
Jemma


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Anonymous Cindy said...

We all crush on boys. And it's summertime! That means you can hang out with him! Sure, it'll be awkward at first, but you know he'll get to like you if it's supposed to work out!

June 19, 2012 at 12:12 AM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

Hey!!! I have two crushes and I cant stop thinking about them too! They like like me and think of me as there friend ( kinda ) but Im waiting for them tok make the next step. All summer I've been thinking about their funny expressions and their personality and their cute faces!

June 19, 2012 at 1:56 AM  
Anonymous Emma said...

Jemma's right! Enjoy summer while you can cause it won't last forever. Besides, summer's the perfect time to do something with him. If you think it would be too awkward if you just invited him somewhere, go somewhere in a group. Just make sure he knows most of the people, don't just invite all you best girl friends who he's never met before. Invite both girls and boys bowling, to the beach, to the movies, to the park or shopping or something. <3 Emma

June 19, 2012 at 8:36 AM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

Its always awkward when I go swimming at camp and a bunch of boys watch me... LOL

June 20, 2012 at 2:06 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have the same problem. I even cried after the last day of school because I missed him so much.

June 20, 2012 at 1:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'd just like to request that when you answer our questions please just make the size of the words a little bigger. Thanks

June 20, 2012 at 2:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Icygirl,

I know how you feel. Just hang out with your girlfriends and you'll feel better. Don't look over at the boys and try to relax. Hope i helped. -Hibah V.

June 20, 2012 at 2:06 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey people out there.... ive got a suggestion dont get a boyfriend and think about the fact that they're just big headaches!spend time wiith your friends and family a lot!:]....also this is for the "pink locker society girls" sorry i dont know your names...:[ sorry! ok heres the thing i read on the mom that complained on the whole go to your mom first thing and i understand where shes coming from and i do think no matter how scared you are to tell your mom everything you still need to! come on people shes your mom dont get me wrong i think this is a great site for girls with questions needing answering but please go to your mom first and then go to this website with her so you can disscuss it together!....." by the way ive had a crush if not more every year sense kindergarden relax, your world is not coming to a end!:] heres my rule you can use it or you dont have to .... dont date till car is parked in the driveway and the lisence is in your wallet!:D lol! sorry its way long!

June 21, 2012 at 12:05 AM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

Thanks Hibah! Sometimes iit gets so annoying.

June 21, 2012 at 1:56 AM  
Anonymous SilverWristband said...

hello girls out there... Every girl goes through this problem, CCG, even me. Last year i lay awake each night just thinking about him, sometimes even crying. but i told myself to enjoy the summer and not ruin it by being so sad. it kinda worked, but i still missed him.

June 21, 2012 at 9:41 AM  
Anonymous Scarlette said...

Plz post something Jemma!

June 22, 2012 at 5:14 AM  
Anonymous Big friendly giant said...

My BFF has a huge crush on this guybin my grade and this guy happens to be my BBF (my best boy friend) she can't stop thinking about him and what does she do.

June 22, 2012 at 1:57 PM  
Anonymous Isabella said...

My BFF Carlin has a huge crush on this guy Parker. He asked he rout and know they are boyfriend and girlfriend.... her parents don't even know about this!!!!! What can I do to help out?????

June 23, 2012 at 7:27 PM  
Anonymous Cutiecat732 said...

I'm sort of like that too. There's this guy jack who I can't stop thinking about and he's cute in all of my classes every year and a little annoying. I'm way to shy to ask him if he has a crush on me too. I bet he does.

June 26, 2012 at 1:40 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had a crush and We planned to spend the entire summer together until I found out he was a total jurk and was just using me to be with my older sister. :( don't waste your summer on him

June 29, 2012 at 12:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well, Don't worry... I too have 2 crushes but I am not sure if they like me.. anyways I don't let them affect my studies and maybe u should make yourself happy with what you are whether ur crush likes you or not,

Take Care

June 29, 2012 at 1:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Bradley..... I LOVE him!!!! Literally

June 29, 2012 at 2:36 PM  
Anonymous xx_YOLOliver_xx123 said...

i got a problem-
wat if theres a boy u lik, u've been friends with him for a LONG time u lik him but u're both moving to a new skool and u cant stop thing about him? what should i do? ps hes not that far away tho

June 29, 2012 at 2:53 PM  
Anonymous BullsFOREVR said...

ok well i am totally with you... but the thing is with me he is a grade older and now going into highschool and not the same one i will be going to :( we dont talk that much like others do with him but we still are pretty good friends and i miss him more then ever!!!!!!!!!!!! but what i did is i have this one friend that i can tell everything to so i just talk to her and it makes me feel some what better. You could also wish upon stars, become friends that are friends with him so u can be with him,etc i do all sadly. But it is summer so try to get your mind of him by hanging out with your girl friends who arent boring and sit around but will keep active. I know its super hard crushing on someone and not being able to see them. I really hope i helped!!! Good luck and i hope you get that guy cause i am sure he will be lucky to have you! :)

June 30, 2012 at 12:34 PM  
Anonymous Kianna said...

I have 5 boys i am crushing on.

June 30, 2012 at 1:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I also have a summer crush, but he is my BFF's boyfriend! He used to be my closest guy friend till he hooked up with Ava. I try to do different things but i see Ava all the time and when i see her i think about him. HELP!

July 2, 2012 at 11:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@Anonymous,
ouch! that hurts.
try not to think about either, just dont break up with ur bff... she could supply u with info to try Plan B!

never give up

July 4, 2012 at 1:44 AM  
Anonymous Big friendly giant said...

Well i was at this concert at a Italian ice store. There was a band playing there and the drummer and I kept on staring at each other. He was so adorable and the whole time he didn't take his eyes off me. I'm going to a new school next year and he either goes there or to the other middle school but j just can't stop thinking about. But I don't even know his first name.

July 5, 2012 at 3:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have a crush 2
he's a year older than me but there r 2 problems
1 my sister likes him 2
2 im like 1/2 foot taller than him
he's so cute tho and the nicest boy i no
it took me 4ever 2 actually talk 2 him
(ok not actually that long it was less than a week but it felt like 4ever bcuz we were @ camp 4 the week
we just got back like 1/2 hour ago

July 7, 2012 at 6:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear big friendly giant,
Awww love at first sight that's cute:) Anyway
if you ever come across him, i think you
should just be yourself and say hi and get to
know him. I'm sure he will like you since you
said that he couldn't keep his eye's off
of you. *Remember to just be yourself and
don't be afraid to speak up and just say hi:) wish you the best of luck *Juliett*

July 11, 2012 at 5:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my summer is boring!

July 11, 2012 at 7:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Go hang out with your besties at the pool! Just forget about those feelings and tell yourself that you can't do anything until school starts up again, but DON'T go wishing the summer away. Just go have fun for now and distract yourself!

July 12, 2012 at 12:34 PM  
Anonymous Juliett said...

I totally agree,i tell my mum everything she's like my best friend because she has gone through the same experiences and i can count on her for the best advice. GIRLS DON'T BE AFRAID TO TALK TO YOUR MUM ONCE IN AWHILE.:)

July 12, 2012 at 12:40 PM  
Anonymous Juliett said...

Summer is boring! i think i actually miss school :)

July 12, 2012 at 2:20 PM  
Anonymous Kathy said...

Wow, CCG, our lives are practically the same! I have a crush on two people, one's going to college :'(. The other boy is in my class. Sadly, my brother told him. And yes, I can's stop thinking of them. You aren't alone! I think the boy in my class likes me too! What I do:
I have a journal that I write experiences of us together in. Over the summer, I read it and it makes me feel less lonely. :D

July 13, 2012 at 2:02 PM  
Anonymous Sophie said...

Im 11 and going to high school in September I have 2 crushes!!! One of them I know who he likes and the other I'm not sure??? They don't know that I like them. I want to tell 1 of them though, as I only have a week left of school and their both not going to my school. How should I tell him???

July 14, 2012 at 8:47 AM  
Anonymous Ashley said...

@ Sophie
1. Ur still in school!
2. Do u mean middle school?

July 16, 2012 at 12:19 PM  
Anonymous Trang said...

This totally has happen to me. Okay, Like the girl said, try to keep your mind off the person. If that don't work, read. Call up some friends, take a nice walk. Get out there, and maybe by chance you might see him.

July 18, 2012 at 9:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This happens almost every year to me! But I learned that thinking is ok and stuff but your friends are always there! Hang out with them talk text others even meet new people

July 19, 2012 at 4:07 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@Ashley
2: she probably meant junior high school (seventh grade & up)?

July 19, 2012 at 11:59 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't woorry

July 20, 2012 at 11:49 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

just get to know him better then ask him if he wants to be your friend if he says yes at that rate he'll ask you out

July 21, 2012 at 7:26 PM  
Anonymous cutie23 said...

it's all right, just act ok around him, talk with him a little, tell him how you feel. if he asks you out, say Y-E-S!

July 22, 2012 at 6:40 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a boyfriend to and i can not and i mean not stop thinking about him but then i told him i liked him and he said he liked me back and so now i know not to be worried about my crush not liking me

July 30, 2012 at 12:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have the exact opposite problem; I only see my crush in the summer!!! It STINKS!

August 1, 2012 at 2:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my friend showed me this really cute guy who has everything i like n a boy.The bad thing is that Iam in middle school and he's in high school.I talked to him by the computer alot but we have never met 4 real but since hes 2 old for me i will just keep it as friends .Its sad but I know it's the right desicn :)

August 8, 2012 at 10:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You have my best wishes, C.C.G! Hope everthing goes well with him. Sorry that I don't have any advise. I haven't ever been in that situation.

August 10, 2012 at 5:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I like a boy I think he likes me too but I want him to be my boy friend wAt should I do

August 24, 2012 at 10:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I really like a boy and I can't stop looking at his pictures and I'm not sure if he likes me but he tells me secrets and likes to laugh with me. I sorta can't wait to see him at school

August 31, 2012 at 9:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lucky you :3! If he tells you secrets there might be a chance. Try to be very, very nice to him and be yourself. Who knows, he might like you back too :D!

October 4, 2012 at 10:26 AM  
Anonymous Moe said...

This is something my mom told me " Let him do the chasing and you do the running! If he likes you he would say something!"

October 10, 2012 at 2:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a huge crush on this guy at school. We talked a bit. My best friend told me he has a crush on me too. He's so cute. I sheded a tear on the last day because I knew I would miss him. He's so cute and I have a lot of feelings for him. We have a small relationship as you can call us friends. I've always been scared to talk to him. We have a lot in common. I asked one of my other best friends for his number. She said she'd give it to me. I really miss him since I like him so much. I found myself saying I love him when I was on the phone with my best friend. She said you do. I said yes I do. She said she knew my feelings for my crush and asked me what I love about him that's making me so attracted to him. She also asked me if I miss him. I said yes. She asked me how much and I said alot. She understood because she used to have a crush on him too. She immediately stopped crushing on him because he was being mean to her. Me and him are looking forward to being more than friends. He asked me out and of course I said yes. We went out 1 time so far. I think he's going to South next year. If he's not I'll kill myself cuz I miss him so much and I want to see him so badly. I'm still scared to talk to him though. Any ideas please follow me on instagram or twitter to talk to me online to help me out. Thank you.

June 15, 2013 at 2:06 AM  

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