The most wonderful time of the year?


Lights, holiday music, and your favorite sugar cookies - there's so much to look forward to and enjoy at this time of year. But, I was recently reminded, that some people might be feeling a little empty or sad because they are missing a loved one who has died.

Maybe you have lost someone special to you and you can remember how it felt to celebrate holidays or observe favorite traditions without them. Maybe you will have advice for someone who's dealing with that kind of a loss.

If you or a friend are feeling that way, here is something good to read: When Somebody Dies

It's also a good idea to talk with an adult if you are feeling sad, especially if it's making you feel less like doing the things you usually enjoy.

Think pink!
Jemma

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Anonymous iflovecouldtalk said...

Awesome 1st comment!!

November 30, 2012 at 11:41 PM  
Anonymous iflovecouldtalk said...

Ya I agree don't be afraid to speak up

November 30, 2012 at 11:42 PM  
Anonymous sadbuthappy said...

my Nan died when i was three and i still fell sad it is OK to be sad but remember to be happy

December 1, 2012 at 10:08 AM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

I am so sorry about your loss.

December 1, 2012 at 2:39 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

It is the most wonderful time of the year! Do not be sad, just enjoy the Christmas spirit!!!!! HAPPY DECEMBER 1ST!!!!!!!!!

December 1, 2012 at 2:44 PM  
Anonymous tears said...

I remember when my brother's friend's mom died. She died from lung cancer: even though she did not smoke. At that day when my parents told me, I felt broken. I never really knew how much she meant to me...

December 1, 2012 at 4:30 PM  
Anonymous Loren said...

You might feel sad when somebody dies, and you might be a bit on the sadder side when you're supposed to be happy, but always remember that they are always with you, on Earth or in Heaven. And one day you'll be with them. Smile. :)

December 1, 2012 at 6:25 PM  
Anonymous watermelonpuppy said...

Everyone who has had a loss in their life-I am so sorry. I hope everybody has an awesome holiday, I can't believe it's already December!!

December 1, 2012 at 6:53 PM  
Anonymous TrustyCupcake said...

christmas time!!! :) i luv the lights and trees and break! rocking around the christmas tree im sorry for your losses too :(

December 1, 2012 at 9:22 PM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

Merry christmas (or whatever you guys celebrate) and a happy new year. Losses are most noticed at Christmas cause thats when "everyone" gets together to celebrate and if someones missing you notice it more. :(. Try to smile anyway, even though I know its hard. (my great grandma died in november when I was 9)

December 2, 2012 at 5:38 AM  
Anonymous Dyyx said...

When someone dies just remember that they are on a better place. They may not be with you physically but they are always going to be watching over you.

December 2, 2012 at 10:28 AM  
Anonymous Cutiecake123 said...

Hi guys! When I was in 1st grade, one of my friend's dad died. He had cancer and pneumonia. Luckily for us though, we didn't really understand. But he has an older sister who was in the 6th grade when it happened. When I really l think about it, it makes me really sad, even though I hardly remember him. I remember him always playing with us. Even though it's 6 years later, it still feels weird. So anyways, My friend is, well it's hard to explain. He has a different way of looking at the world. He's very bright, but I can still never really understand what he's thinking. So yes, I understand how hard it is. But I just want to say, when someone/something dies, you have a hole in your heart where that person should be. But when you think about it. That person wouldn't want you to be so upset. Probably all they want is to be remembered. It's ok to be sad, but don't let sadness rule your life.

Happy holidays~

Cutiecake

December 2, 2012 at 12:38 PM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

Happy holidays pls!!!! Love u guys. Have a great holiday

December 2, 2012 at 7:16 PM  
Anonymous Dyyx said...

*In a better place, not on.

December 2, 2012 at 9:28 PM  
Anonymous katelynla said...

Cutiecake123 thats really sad. :( I don't have any grandparents left. I didn't really know them though.... but not having grandparenst is better than not having a dad or mom, or aunt and uncle. But anyways... on that note.... MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE! :D

December 2, 2012 at 9:41 PM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

Happy holidays! @Cutiecake123, that has to be the sweetest thing that I've ever heard!

December 3, 2012 at 6:09 AM  
Anonymous confuzzled said...

@Cutiecake123 I agree completely :) In fact that's how I've always tried to think of it. My cello teacher, who was really special to me (not only as a teacher but an amazing friend and person), passed away a little over a year ago. It still makes me sad to think of but I always try to think that she wouldn't want me to be sad.
xoxo
confuzzled

December 4, 2012 at 3:13 PM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

yeah. i agree with hugsandsmiles.... sweetest thing ever!!!

December 4, 2012 at 4:33 PM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

i cant believe 2012 is almost over!!! i feel like it started yesterday!!!! im gonna miss u 2012!!!!!

December 4, 2012 at 4:34 PM  
Anonymous Hallie said...

My nana died this summer and I'm sad and surprised. But during this season, it's best to have a scrapbook with you to remember them. Also, just know they are still with you mentally. :)

December 4, 2012 at 5:12 PM  
Anonymous Smile :-) said...

My crush's (& friends) dad died in summer this year he commited suiced. He told me and my friends.I feel so bad for him.

December 4, 2012 at 5:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ya ikr? 2012 is gonna be SOOOO last year! :D LOL

December 5, 2012 at 8:33 AM  
Anonymous Purpleypopsicle said...

Sorry to everyone that has lost a family or friend. Just keep in mind that if they were still here, they would want you to be happy, not sad during the holidays.

December 5, 2012 at 7:43 PM  
Anonymous LanieJanie said...

My dad died from brain cancer 2 years ago when ii was in fifth grade. i really miss him, especially around the holidays. :(

December 8, 2012 at 10:17 AM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

Awww thats soo sweet purpleypopsicle... always stay happy pls girls!!!

December 8, 2012 at 12:51 PM  
Anonymous Cutiecake123 said...

@ LanieJanie

I am so, so sorry for your loss and may he rest in peace. Just remember to wear a smile everyday because yo know he would want you to! :) Happy holidays, and spread the love!

December 8, 2012 at 10:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

In sixth grade (I'm in seventh now) this girl that went to elementary school with me got her first period on Christmas!! That would stink.

December 9, 2012 at 12:26 AM  
Anonymous sadbuthappy said...

it is OK to be sad but be happy not last Christmas the year before that a week before Christmas day my great auntie died i did not know here well but i was sad for my great Nan because that was her only sister or bother left and now it is just her

December 9, 2012 at 9:25 AM  
Anonymous judogirl said...

when my dog died last fall i was very sad and i still cry sometime when i think of him but he was deft and now he is in a better place where he can hear and that is what i think when i cry about my dog

December 10, 2012 at 1:05 AM  
Anonymous awesomeness said...

I'm so sorry 4 everyone that has lost a loved one. When I was six (6 years ago) my great-grandfather pasted away. Christmas that year was so hard on everyone (especially my great-grandmother). It's so sad to lose a loved one but just think about what they would want u to do. They wouldn't want u 2 miss out on the fun of the holidays because of them. It's really hard but u have to be strong 4 the rest of ur family. So as hard as it may be, just be happy on Dec 23-26 and enjoy all the craziness and fun. After all it is the season of joy & happiness don't let it be the opposite 4 u! Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays! Enjoy ur families!

December 10, 2012 at 11:25 AM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

Awww im so sry awesomeness and any one else who lost a loved one. If they were here, they would want to see u happy during the holidays, not sad. I bo its hard, but try to stay strong and think pink!!! :)

December 11, 2012 at 8:27 PM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

Aww im so sry about ur dog judogirl.

December 11, 2012 at 8:29 PM  
Anonymous CandyStick said...

Absolutely Christmas!! :)

December 15, 2012 at 2:49 AM  
Anonymous zezezozo said...

I think that if someone passes on they wouldn't want their loved ones to be sad on Christmas. So try to keep a good spirit, for their sake, and hopefully the holiday cheer will be contagious and spread on to the other grieving people in your life. Merry Christmas everybody!

December 16, 2012 at 1:00 PM  
Anonymous awesomeness said...

8 days till Christmas!! That song the twelve days of Christmas - what's the 8th day say? Well, it's only 1 diget now!-TTYL

December 17, 2012 at 1:41 PM  
Anonymous awesomeness said...

4 days till Christmas!!

December 21, 2012 at 9:15 AM  
Anonymous kewlkatkitty said...

i can't wait till Christmas! hooray! i wonder what things i got?! i hope i get some boots. there was a pair @ Old Navy that i super loved. i hope i get them!TTYL, XOX

December 22, 2012 at 11:29 AM  
Anonymous love? said...

YAY!:D

December 22, 2012 at 6:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Christmas is a wonderful time of the year!

January 5, 2013 at 7:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

christmas is amazing to bad its over

February 5, 2013 at 7:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

When you fell sad just talk to someone and it is ok to cry

February 11, 2013 at 4:05 PM  

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