Pinklollilolli needs advice about friends

Pinklollilolli has an important question. Let's try to help!

Dear PLS,
I need help! I just lost my BFF, who was my only friend. She said she doesn't want to be close friends anymore, and never talks to me. So I obviously need new some new friends! There is this group of 5 or so girls who are really nice, and I want to be included with them. Any tips on how to become friends with them without being pushy and annoying? It's really hard to make friends at my school because everyone already has friendship groups with no room for more :(
Pinklollilolli

First of all, I like your screen name! Second of all, I'm so glad there's a little bit of good news in your question. The good news is, you have five nice girls in mind that you would like to be  friends with. The truth is that friends come and go. Sometimes it's a slow process where you and the other person gradually move on to other places and people. But once in a while, it's quick and that hurts. 

Please talk to a grownup, like a parent or school counselor. It can help a lot when an adult knows you are having struggles. 

Let's focus on helping you find other people to hang around with. It's great that you know that being pushy is not the way to go. Go slow by hanging around with those nice girls a little more than usual. You might even say, "Do you mind if I eat lunch with you today?" or something like that. 

Also, think of other people who you like to be with and spend time with them. Is there a cousin you love? Or a friend who you don't see as often because she doesn't go to your school? Even good old brothers and sisters can fill in when you are looking for someone to hang out with. 

Again, when you tell a parent or teacher, then they can help you match up with people you like. Maybe there's a person at school that you never thought of being friends with before. And there' no better way to meet someone than to say something nice about them. Do you admire the way she kicks a soccer ball or the decorations in her locker? Then say so. It could start a friend-building conversation.

What else, Pink Locker girls?

Think pink!
Jemma

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Anonymous torquoisegirl said...

mabye that girl isnt really your friend dont worry girl ive tottally been in your shoes sometimes people can use you i had friends who where super popular we would share stuff and talk and she wold always "forget" her wallet one day she let me go like a dead fish then i got 1 friend and now she hates me becuase of some rumors heres my advice:go to school be friendly and adventually you will get a really nice friend that you will like for the rest of your life trust me

February 6, 2013 at 6:00 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

?First comment¿

February 6, 2013 at 6:05 PM  
Anonymous ShowJumperForever said...

Ok PinkLollilolli,

Start with a conversation starter like "hi, my name's ____ what's yours?" or if your in the same class and let's say you just had math "wasn't math hard?(or easy)" Just engage in their conversation and when you feel left out just speak up and comment or reply their statement.

But most importantly...
BE YOURSELF!!!! if they don't like you (as a friend) then there not the right group of friends and keep searching. Don't invest all your time in trying to include yourself with them, there are others girls out there!!

Hoped I helped!!
~showjumperforever

February 6, 2013 at 6:07 PM  
Anonymous FigureSk8er4Ever said...

Ya same with me. I had two good friends but one was just some an to me so we're not friends anymore and I don't want to be her friend but the other friend like both of us and doesn't realize how mean she is. It's really hard to make new friends but I'm trying hard!

February 6, 2013 at 6:18 PM  
Anonymous roma'ntico said...

"Hey! My name's _______. What's your's? I like the way that you ______________________. Maybe we could hang out sometime! Is __________ okay for you? See you then!

February 6, 2013 at 6:52 PM  
Anonymous judogirl said...

i'm so sorry about that but the same thing happend to me last year and you know what i think you mayneed to make some new friends and trust me everthing while work out take it from me

February 6, 2013 at 7:18 PM  
Anonymous sharkgirl said...

If they are in a group- i've gotta admit it is a little hard to get accepted. Try talking to the girls when they are alone or in a smaller group. You could also text them after school and then meet in person. If you become super close with one and text all the time then maybe she will introduce you to the rest of the clan! And I'm really sorry about your friend :( happened to me too!
Think pink!

February 6, 2013 at 7:35 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

FIRST COMMENT!
Anywho, (hehe) Im so sorry Pinklollilolli! This happened to me a while ago, and I didnt handle it very well, so this is what I recommend to you and I should have done.

1)Do exactly what Jemma said about the eating lunch with them thing. Since its lunch, you will all be eating and there wont be any awkward-ness.
2) At break time, sort of repeat it and just go up to them. "Hey, can I hang out with you?" Is all you need to say. If they're playing a game, play too! If theyre just walking around, walk with them! Dont feel you
3) Dont feel like you need to do anything specail or be anything but yourself. They will probably like any real you MUCH better than any fake you. If youre just yourself, then you dont have to worry about acting all cool or extra halarious.
4) Remember things will get better. Maybe in a little while, your friend will have cooled down, and maybe will still want to hang out with you from time to time.

GIRL POWER! Good luck buttercup!

February 6, 2013 at 7:46 PM  
Anonymous RoyalPurple said...

Just be yourself. You should be kind and inviting but give the people who want space, space.******FIRST COMMENT******

February 6, 2013 at 9:18 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl♥♥♥ said...

Well first, you want to be kind too. No one likes a mean person:) You can approach them one day, and say hi. Smile, and make sure you make eye contact! And since there are only five of them, adding six would mean that no one would get left out if you had to be in partners:D I hope I could help:)

February 6, 2013 at 10:03 PM  
Anonymous ShowJumpingForever said...

@TurquoiseGirl

Omg, So sorry, but I like your advise!

February 7, 2013 at 7:24 AM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

hehe wow. I thought I was the first comment, so did RoyalPurple, but we were like ten comments down! This blog has some really active girls!

February 7, 2013 at 9:11 AM  
Anonymous torquoisegirl said...

i was the first person that posted im totally happy

February 7, 2013 at 4:17 PM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

try to talk to the group of friends and be as polite as possible so u can be on their good side. try not to talk to try to hard like following them around because they might think that is weird. talk to them like they r ur friends u knew forever. invited them to as many events u host as possible.

February 7, 2013 at 5:16 PM  
Anonymous dolphin00 said...

Okay, as Jemma said. Go slow. Don't push yourself into a group of friends because then you will be displayed as annoying and stuff. As for your "best friend", shame on her because she just lost a lovely friend.

February 7, 2013 at 5:24 PM  
Anonymous watermelonpuppy said...

I know how you feel. :( Stinks, huh? Well, if you talk with the guidence councler maybe they can arrange for you and those girls to have a special lunch together. I really hope that it works out with those girls
xoxoxo watermelonpuppy xoxoxo

February 7, 2013 at 6:30 PM  
Anonymous iNK said...

I hope you make friends with those nice girl!:)

February 7, 2013 at 10:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

omg that's me!!! thank you so much for replying, jemma!! i never thought my quesiton would be answered :D and thanks to all of the girls who also commented advice, i read them all and just wanted to let you know it helped. From pinklollilolli

February 7, 2013 at 11:41 PM  
Anonymous Hey-you-gorgeous! said...

Omg girls! Have any of you ever seen the very, very first post by Jemma? I commented that I thought I would be the last person ever to look at it, and 5 days later Karen commented! Does anyone else go through the old posts when theirs nothing else to do?

February 8, 2013 at 10:03 AM  
Anonymous Hugsand*cough*smiles said...

Hey! On my way to *cough* recovery! Anyway, smile and be your friendly self, dont just limit yourself to that one group! Make friends with everyone and you wont have that problem in the future. Smiles!

February 8, 2013 at 12:21 PM  
Anonymous torquoisegirl said...

oh girl your welcome at least if you have no one to tslk to you anoymas friends that help :)

February 8, 2013 at 1:29 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

Wow.... I am so sorry Pinklollilolli
If I knew you, I would totally be your friend! You seem like a nice person. You have us as friends!
Jesus Loves You

February 8, 2013 at 5:27 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

@Turqouisegirl, yes u were the first commenter out of everyone who said 'first comment' including me. :P :)

February 8, 2013 at 5:54 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

Hey•you•gorgeous, how do u get to the the very first post? Because I know there's more than just the one at the bottom of the page. Do u know what date this blog started? :)

February 8, 2013 at 6:02 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dont worry! i had the same problem. just come up to them and say; "hey guys,mind if i hang with you?" they are most likely to say yes.if they say;um...no its kinda private..." just say: "ok. well, when your private discusion is over...then can i hang with you?" if they say no, know that you can find other friends.if they say no out front,think the same thing.if they say;"sure" make a statement like; thanks. i was just so bored alone id thought id join you"

February 9, 2013 at 3:04 AM  
Anonymous wildnfree said...

Even though it's embarrasing, talking to your parents helps A LOT! The same thing happend to me in a different way. I told a secrete and my friend refuses to talk to me and is always mean. I talked to my mom and I felt much better afterwards.

February 9, 2013 at 4:04 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

I went to the first comment:) Its so ANCIENT!!!!!!!!!! :P

February 10, 2013 at 8:46 AM  
Anonymous Lolly said...

That has happened to me as well. The best thing to do, is just walk on and don't care! And about this group of 5, just start talking to them, dont feel shy!

February 10, 2013 at 9:35 AM  
Anonymous judogirl said...

I NEED HELP while you see i'm ver very very shy and while you see my dad's family lives on the other side of the world so i don't see them often and i get shy when i talk to them and then my dad get's since i don't talk and i don't know how to and i email them and stuff but when we do face time i get very nervous so what do i do and plessa

February 10, 2013 at 2:40 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

@Judogirl
I totally get you, my relatives live on the other side of the world and when we visit them, I don't know what to say. Ask them about their day. You could have a fun time with your dad and ask a question and he'll answer and then he'll ask u a question and you'll answer etc. Talk about what's happening in school, tests, fav teachers or school lunches, least fav school lunches or subjects, your bff's. Talk about what's on your mind or events coming up. Ask questions while u talk to keep the conversation going. Have fun and be open, he's your dad. Hope I helped! :D

February 10, 2013 at 7:45 PM  
Anonymous Hey-you-gorgeous! said...

Oh I know icygirl;)! Sooo old. hehe.
Bluetiful Blossom, if youre on the computer, you go to 'Recent Posts' and click the bottom option over and over again. The very first post was 'Rockstar Pets'. Check it out broski!

February 11, 2013 at 4:13 PM  
Anonymous sk8tergirl said...

Awww that sucks! I'm so sorry! But good for you for moving on! Try getting their numbers or finding one of them alone- if you get close with one of them it will be easier to get to know the rest of them. Be kind and friendly and outgoing- sometimes even being a little bold in class gets ya noticed!Don't try to make friends with all 5 of them at once- trust e it wont work. Try getting close with one or to and I promise you'll fit in in no time! Think pink! (: <3

February 11, 2013 at 5:47 PM  
Anonymous FireNinja said...

Theres this REALLLLYYYYY annoying girl I know. The sad thing is I almost forced to be friends with her. (Family friend or something) Anyway, shes going to the same camp as me and we have NO choice over who we will be with. I'm forced to hang out with her because she follows me around all the time! I can't tell her I don't want her to hang around as often. I just need some way to make it easier to deal with. Any Ideas?

~Keep it sparky!

February 11, 2013 at 6:10 PM  
Anonymous judogirl said...

Bluetiful Blossom:it's not my dad it is his family and my shynees

February 11, 2013 at 7:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi.

February 11, 2013 at 7:43 PM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

I cant wait til valentines day and the winter recess!!! :) did all of u guys survive the snow storm hahahaha loll

February 11, 2013 at 8:06 PM  
Anonymous torquoisegirl said...

i know right hey-you i did that i went on and on and on i wonder how much people went on the very first post

February 11, 2013 at 8:09 PM  
Anonymous judogirl said...

cutiepie4eversophie: yes but know i get snow in my boots and then i am so cold. and it needs to go no joke it is over snow

February 11, 2013 at 9:22 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

@fireninja
You can always try to help her find new friends. If she finds another friend, she's less likely to bother you, and more likely to hang out and have fun with her new friend! It would be a win-win situation because you wouldn't have her following you all around, and she would have a new friend. I hope I could help!!!! :)

February 11, 2013 at 11:08 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

Dear Jemma,
You should totally have a posting story section of the blog,(appropriate of course) It would be really fun, from embarrising stories, to favorite summer vacations, or maybe just post something saying STORY TIME, or whatever awesome quirky titles you come up with :)

February 11, 2013 at 11:17 PM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

@Pinkadink, youre back too! Im sick for a week and miss everything! Lol smile everyone

February 12, 2013 at 9:45 AM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

FireNinja, I feel so sorry for you! Try and do fun stuff to distract you from being with her, and not lose your temper. Make lots of new friends at camp and hang out with them too. Or suggest that you would like some more space. Smile and good luck!

February 12, 2013 at 9:47 AM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

Cutiepie4eversophie, There was a snow storm? The last snow storm here, I had to walk through knee high (No joke, it was at my knees, and Im tall) snow to ballet, since the busses werent running!

February 12, 2013 at 9:50 AM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

Icygirl;), that sounds like a great idea! Smiles!

February 12, 2013 at 9:51 AM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

OMG Icygirl thats a great idea! I love writing, and I have lots of short stories I would love everyone to read!

February 12, 2013 at 12:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had a friend that used me. I'm really into internet saftey, so I'm not gonna say names. One time when I did something that I was really proud of, she said anyone can do that in a mean way. We don't talk much, but she's nice to me. My advice is to do something to get your mind off of it. Do a sport, or play an instrument. Just be yourself and people will like you for that.

February 12, 2013 at 4:08 PM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

@judogirl

omg that happened to me too and my feet were like soooo cold!!!
@ icygirl;)

omg that is such a good idea that would be soooo fun!!! i would loveee to hear all of ur funny stories

February 12, 2013 at 4:59 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

Whoops, sorry judo girl!

February 12, 2013 at 5:14 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

Cutiepieforeversophie- where I live we've never had a snowstorm and it hasn't snowed in a couple of years!

February 12, 2013 at 5:15 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

HELP, I NEED ADVICE BY V-DAY
Ok, this guy is going to ask me out a.k.a. be his girl friend on v-day. I like him as a friend and I have a crush on someone else. What do I do?!

February 12, 2013 at 5:21 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

I agree with icygirl;) about story time. That would be totally cool!

February 12, 2013 at 5:22 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

IMPORTANT INFO FROM THAT OTHER POST-Scratch the other post about v-day I said. Somehow my mom knew about this and said the guy I like isnt good for me (I now get her) and now I feel like a free sprit after crushing on the same guy for 2 years. So what should I say to the guy that will ask me out? My mom says that he's much better than the other guy and he is nice... so mixed feelings?

February 12, 2013 at 7:10 PM  
Anonymous Anna said...

First, so sorry you lost your friend. Second, just be yourself around these girls, start up a conversation, and see what appens. You seem really nice so they're sure to be your friends! :)

February 12, 2013 at 8:49 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

Yay, I'm really glad that a lot of people liked my idea!! :) I'm also happy that im able to find a little time to go on this website, because of volleyball, piano, homework and crossfit I'm really busy, but Im finding ways to go on my favorite website :D

February 12, 2013 at 10:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok ready for this big news?!?!?!?!?!?!? I'm soooo excited!!!!!!! Alright ready gals?!?!?!?!!? MY CRUSH TEXTED ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you frequent the blog you know I gave him my number about a week and a half ago. Well he kept track of it and today HE TEXTED ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I ran around the grocery store jumping and screaming when he did :) We held a 30 minute conversation. So happy!!!!!!! AAAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!
ViolinistAtSoul

February 13, 2013 at 12:36 AM  
Anonymous FireNinja said...

@Icygirl:)

Thanks Ill try that! :D Ill post an update on how its going

February 13, 2013 at 3:09 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

I'm so happy for you ViolinistAtSoul!!! YAAY! That must be super exciting! :D

February 13, 2013 at 3:20 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

AHHHHHH!!! OH MY GOODNESS ViolinistAtSoul! Wooooohoooooooo! That is amazing! 30 minutes, thats impressive. Im so happy for you!!

February 13, 2013 at 5:56 PM  
Anonymous Grace said...

Okay so pinklolli, I had the EXACT literally the EXACT same problem at the beginning of this year. Don't worry, go sit at their lunch table, hang out, just be yourself!!! PLEASE do it for yourself :)

February 13, 2013 at 7:22 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

I wish there was a new topic...............
IM DYING OF BOREDOM, HELP ME JEMMA!!!!!!!! PLEASEEEE
LOL

February 13, 2013 at 10:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok about 24 hours of having his phone number, and I've logged about 4 hours texting him. So happy!!!!!!!
ViolinistAtSoul

February 13, 2013 at 11:13 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

Im so happy for you ViolinistAtSoul! Do you think he likes you back?

February 14, 2013 at 10:38 AM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

@icygirl;)

lol i am sometimes bored all the time to so here are some things to help u stay occupied:
do random things like blow up a ballon and bounce it up and down
call ur friends
have friends over if possible
text ur friends if possible
draw or write in a journal if thats ur thing
decorate ur room with drawing or posters
take pictures
listen to music and make dance moves to match each song
look at clothes online or other things u like
play a game
cook with ur mom
write ur name on a bunch of papers and tape it on things u own like books
make videos.
seee!!! there are sooooo many random things u can do!! lol i do random things to when im bored

February 14, 2013 at 6:06 PM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

and congrats to violinistsatsoul!!! :) im happy for u

February 14, 2013 at 6:08 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

Ok, today's v-day and that guy asked me out and I did pretty dumb things like running away. Anyway to make him not feel that sad?

February 14, 2013 at 8:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So, my friend just dumped me. I have gone through months and months of rejection. Don't doubt yourself! Hang in there, and surround yourself with people who make you feel good. That's what I did, and I don't regret it for a moment! Good luck!!

February 14, 2013 at 10:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@remakingabraverme
Yes judging by some of the things he said I think he might :) And guess what?!?!?!!? I spent like 5 hours texting him today!!!!!! I haven't stopped smiling for 3 days!!
ViolinistAtSoul

February 14, 2013 at 11:48 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

Nice ViolinistAtSoul. Im so jelly (or Nutella). ;)

February 15, 2013 at 10:38 AM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

Oh, Bluetiful Blossom! Ive done much, much worse. The worst thing is to say yes, when you dont like him and lead him on only to break his adorable, probably very nice heart.
Heres what you can do:
1) Apologize for running away. That may have hurt his feelings, just say you were shocked and didnt know how to respond.
2) Say you only want to be friends.
3) Dont lie about ANYTHING! Be completely truthful, but dont be mean. Say things like "Youre a very nice guy, but I dont really want to date."

February 15, 2013 at 10:44 AM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

@cutiepie4eversophie
THANKYOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was currently bouncing a balloon but now I'm looking at all the clothes I like with my laptop:D
Any one have favorite clothing stores? I like Abercrombie, Forever 21, and Aeropostale. What about you guys???

February 15, 2013 at 12:31 PM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

@icygirl

i hoped my post helped u with ur boredom

February 15, 2013 at 1:45 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

@Icygirl
Ooohlala you sound like my sister. Everything in her closet has a moose on it (Abercrombie). Im a mix-match girl.
FOR EXAMPLE todays outfit:
Long chair earings with pink clouds
A pink fabric flower clip in my earlength (dyed)red hair
A skirt with layers of yellow, green and pink watercolour type pattern
Knee high socks with black and white strips.
SO YEAH! Im a crazy girl with no style or store. Whats your look girls?

February 15, 2013 at 9:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok your officially completely awesome!!
ViolinistAtSoul

February 15, 2013 at 9:45 PM  
Anonymous Bunnies:3 said...

I wear black leggings like EVERYDAY and sometimes,I like to make my own shirts! As for hair, I wear HUGE bows in my chin-length brown hair.(My hair used to be long. Stupid head lice.)
God bless you guys!!!

February 16, 2013 at 10:59 AM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

@Remakingabraverme
LOL
My style: Johanna Tank (Abercrombie and Fitch)
Light wash denim jeans (Love Culture)
Studded faded black sandles (I honestly don't know, I think they were from a vintage boutique. lol)
Humoungo Coral Flower earrings. ( vintage boutique again)
Two Diamond studded bobby pins in my dark brown hair which is only like two inches past my shoulder.
I think Im decently cordinated with my clothes. But If you look closely something about my outfit is really cool, like my earrings in this one :D

February 16, 2013 at 2:41 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

@Bunnies:3
Cool beans girl! I love bows!
@Icygirl;)
Omg your style sounds amazing! Vintage, elegant, fun and very pretty! You have really long hair. I have like a pixie cut, thats just thick and a bit longer. I dont style it so sometimes its a bit crazy! :P

TODAYS OUTFIT!
Yoga pants from abercrombie
A forest green v-neck t-shirt with gold words saying 'Keep Calm and Catch the Snitch', (Quidditch in Harry Potter) from Bluenotes
Floppy crochet black boot with felt feet from ShoeLaLa
Bright red skull earings with thin chains that go down to my shoulders from Ardenes

once again, SO YEAH! Very different from yesterday.

February 16, 2013 at 5:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My style:
Dark wash skinny jeans
Cute tee or floaty tank and jean jacket
Hair either twisted up or down (brown and goes about 5 inches past shoulder)
Ballet flats
Diamond stud earrings
ViolinistAtSoul

February 16, 2013 at 11:29 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

@Remakingabraverme
Your outfit is really cool:D Your style seems more colorful, fun, bright, and unique.
@EVERYONE ELSE
Hey peoples post what you wear, I love clothes, so I'd love to get an idea about what you wear!!!

February 17, 2013 at 12:17 AM  
Anonymous supergal said...

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February 17, 2013 at 3:08 AM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

@supergal I take that to offense! :D jk I honestly dont mind
You must really like red and black :P
@anonymous
YOU HAVE SUPER LONG HAIIR!!!!! Im jealous, but I like my length Do you knowhow long it took me to grow my hair out? Lol I'm African-American by the way. And my hair is NOT a poofball, it's just longish and boringly straight. :D

February 17, 2013 at 10:59 AM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

@supergal
I hope your kidding, cuz everyone has their own style that suits them and is their own form of awesome. I do like your style, but I also like my own and Icygirls and ViolinistAtSouls.

@Icygirl;)
I had no idea you were African American! I can picture you perfectly, rocking those jeans. One of my friends has a crazy afro she dies pink, and its the most definitely a poofball (I like your word, by the way).

@ViolinistAtSoul
You sound elegant, classy and traditionally gorgeous! You have very. veeeeery long hair!

February 17, 2013 at 5:51 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

@Remakingabraverme
LOL she has a pink afro? She's AWESOME! Don't worry, my hair's just dark brown, but having a different color hair is TOTALLY AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well I'm about to have a sleepover with my four of my friendzies so bye bye my fellow pinkitas!!

February 17, 2013 at 10:02 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Awwww thank you. I think your style is totally awesome too!!!
ViolinistAtSoul :)

February 18, 2013 at 12:48 AM  
Anonymous loveable132 said...

i would recomend like just walk up to them at lunch (like like to their lunch table)and ask if you can sit with them. then yall will start talking and trust me yall will get super close :)

February 18, 2013 at 5:11 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think you should talk about it with an adult.Try to make a new friend maybe you'll make a new friend maybe she will be jealous and be your friend again.

February 18, 2013 at 7:54 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

Thanks ViolinistAtSoul!

@Icygirl
Yes, yes a pink afro. have fun with your friendzies!

February 18, 2013 at 7:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Its ok, friends do come and go here are some tips:
*Talk to an adult or close relative

*Try talking the five girls you have in mind ask them if you can hang around with them.

*Stay happy

*Always shoe the positive side of you!
=)



February 19, 2013 at 12:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't worry about that other girl just go up to those 5 girls and say hey and see if you have anything in common with them

February 20, 2013 at 4:45 PM  
Anonymous Karen said...

Noticed you guys have commented what's your style, heres mine...
I'd like to try
-A floppy sleeveless shirt(like in those summer commercials)
-a tight tank top , like red.(under the big one)
-skinny jeans(black)
And silver flats.thats like my dream outifit!
What I usually wear
-a aeropostale polo shirt(or a t-shirt ;)
-skinny jeans( matching or un-matching colors!)
And converse or any type of shoes really!

February 20, 2013 at 9:03 PM  
Anonymous confuzzled said...

Hehe my hair goes down to hips... lol it's kind of hard to manage at times...I might get a trim soon. (: Here's mah style!
-hair down
-my necklace that has a cool tiger's eye pendant on a black necklace-thingy
-white graphic tee with black lettering/design
-black leather jacket
-boyfriend or artist jeans (american eagle)
lo-top black converse

I don't actually have these, but that's what I would wear if I had 'unlimited resources'. :D

February 21, 2013 at 12:54 PM  
Anonymous bluesoccer99 said...

hey girls i need a huge favor ok so my 4 feb break i might have to go to my grandparents house and i dont want 2 go beacause my grandmother makes comments about me having a bra or not (i do she just does not know) and then my grandpa he makes fun of me about boy and my brother he makes fun of everything they might not thinks a big deal but i do and if i dont go then i will be at home all allown cause my parents have to work. The reason i kinda hav to go is because my grandmother is really sensitive and if i dont go then shell think i hate he or something i cant turn around and go home because my parents wouldnt waist the time and money. I asked my best firend and shes lik why cant u go home (she is like really spoiled never mind i also hav a problem with her) but she can pretty much do whatever she wants. But no one understands exept 4 u guys so what should i do INEED HELP FAST BY FRIDAY PLEASE HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO
thanks guys your the best so it was so long

February 21, 2013 at 3:28 PM  
Anonymous loveable132 said...

saw u girlz were talkin style and I wanna join! Hehe ;)
My dream outfit
Silver and lime green flat bill hat
Lime green headsets
Blue jeans (litterally like turkquoise hehe)
And a shirt with one soulder out thats lime green with a pink star ;)
And sneaker boot thingy me bobbers!

What I normally wear
Normal tshirt
Sky blue headsets :D
Purple jeans
Follow your dreams jacket
And dc's that are lots of different colors! XD
I'm a hip hop dancer so this fits me ;)

February 21, 2013 at 5:15 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

@Lovable123
The top outfit is siiiiiick! Now its my dream outfit, youre gonna have to share, even though your style is very different from mine.
I love your real outfit too! You sound like an awesome person, really hip and cool.

@confuzzled
Thats sounds so awesome! Like, tough (sorry if you dont like that word) girl and stylin'.

@Karen
Cool beans. I know exactly what you mean about the tops in the summer commercials. Cuuute!

I noticed everyone was talking about their 'dream outfits' or what they want to wear. I think you should all make it happen! A great style that fits you, and your personality can make you shine and feel amazing. Last year, I was like 'Why not?' and I started buying things that were exactly what I wanted to wear, to feel pretty and fun. Now I wear socks with mustaches on them and Dr.Suess high tops! (hehe)

February 21, 2013 at 8:17 PM  
Anonymous sharkgirl said...

What I normally wear
-Hollister or abercrombie teeshirt
-Hollister Hoodie
-Abercrombie Jeans
-Black low top converse

DREAM OUTFIT
-Vanilla Silk sleevless shirt with a black collar
-Fitted black jeans
-White toms

February 21, 2013 at 9:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Pink Locker Socitey,
I've had a guy friend since I was in PreK and just last year I started to have a crush on me all my friends say he likes me back and I dont know but I also wonder if it would be awkward. I dont want to tell my mom because I think she would just make it more awkward, and I also dont want to tell my dad because he would just tease me about it how am I suppost to know,
from,
fashiondiva101

February 21, 2013 at 11:47 PM  
Anonymous Giants Girl said...

Help I need to clean my room any tips plz help

February 22, 2013 at 12:57 PM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

My style
-big floppy shirt with lettering or a pattern
-leggings
-fake ugs/boots or sneaks
-big loopy earrings
-my E ring(the1letter of my name)
- a cool bracelet
-i either wear my hair down in a shrt bob(it used to be long but i donated it a week before x-mas,) or i put it in a (x-tremly short) ponytail and a headband.
-and of course sometimes a hat

February 22, 2013 at 11:28 PM  
Anonymous confuzzled said...

Remakingabraverme, thanks:) And the tough girl look is what I would go for ;)

I would totally wear it, but my family doesn't have a lot of money, so... :D someday!! btw dr seuss hi-tops sound like EPIC PWNAGE! :)

February 23, 2013 at 1:29 AM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

Fashiondiva101, ask him out, and if he says no, try to remain friends. Sm:)e!

Giants Girl, do it in sections, with music on. Step away from the computer and start tidying up right now! Sm:)e!

Remakingabraverme, I agree with everything you said! Your feet must look so cute!

Bluesoccer99, go to your granparents house and tell them that that kind of comment hurts your feelings, dont take anything to heart and be yourself! Goodluck and Sm:)e!

Loveable123, that sounds so cute and colourful! Sm:)e!

Confuzzled, your hair is soooo long! How do you have time to look after it! Anyway, thats how long I want my hair, and Ive alway had chin length to off the shoulder length, so its taking forever! and like Remakingabraverme said tough girl look it sounds awesome. Sm:)e!

Sharkgirl, you sound american and fashionable, cool! Sm:)e!

Karen, try out your dream outfit, it will probably look awesome on you! Sm:)e!

February 23, 2013 at 12:38 PM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

My style (which I have posted 5 times and hasnt shown up) is
-hair in a ponytail or side dutch braid
-A longsleeved shirt with those metal ring buttons
-a checkerd shirt or woolen jumper over
-corduroys (too cold for jeans)
-socks in a different colour from the outfit
-a really old plastic red flikflak watch and a green summer camp bracelet
-rimless glasses that are practically invisible

I dont wear shoes indoors and my kneelength snowboots are way too short as my feet are small lol. Smile!

February 23, 2013 at 12:44 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

@Hugsandsmiles
I hate it when your comment doesnt show up, eh?
Your style sounds so cool! I wish my glasses were rimless. I have blue flowery ones that I seriously dislike.

@hatlover
I love hats! Cool beans girl. Very nice clothes.

@sharkgirl
Omg I love your dream outfit! Chic and smooth. Your real styles are sick too!

@Confuzzled
Thanks! I love my high tops. Thing one and thing twos hair are signed by freaking Brent Hayden and Scott Dickens (Olympians)!!!!! They coached me in a specail racing camp my team held.





February 23, 2013 at 2:17 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

@Hugsandsmiles
Your style seems really interesting:D
@hatlover
That's really nice to donate your hair:D
@sharkgirl
I have your dream outfit! Except the toms are the lacy looking ones:D
@loveable123
your outfit is REALLY colorful! :D

February 23, 2013 at 4:20 PM  
Anonymous Karen said...

@HugsandSmiles aww thanks lol! Sadly, I'm going to have to wait months. We are having the harshest(is that even a word, sounds like it to me, in Karenlandia.) winter.But, i will try it! and then..ikr? i always post stuff...next day..BAM! not there.You have an awesome sense of style btw!
@hatlover, that is so awesome! I wear that too!
Random, but here are some things i do when I am EXTREMELY bored, or just bored.
-draw
-read
-listen to music.
-come up with "inventions"(in my head) that know one has never invented.
-try to pick out the seeds of a strawberry
-study
-think.
The bored Karen is fascinating person.

February 23, 2013 at 8:42 PM  
Anonymous watermelonpuppy said...

My dream outfit--
- A floral, flowy dress
- A jean jacket
- Brown sandles
- My hair up in a perfect bun

Too bad I can only dream about it.

What I'm actually wearing
- Fuzzy owl pants
- A purple long sleeved shirt without a bra
- No shoes
- My hair down

February 24, 2013 at 9:47 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

that JUST happened to me yesterday. this helped me a lot. :-)

February 24, 2013 at 5:06 PM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

@Karen, winter and dream outfits dont usually go together sadly. Thank-you, you should have seen me a couple of years ago, one coloured turtle-neck and black trousers, the ENTIRE winter. Bored Karen does sound like a fascinating person, Im probably going to go and count he seeds in a strawberry now...Sm:)e!

@Watermelonpuppy, why not give it a go? It will probably look great! Where did you get owl trousers/(pants) though? I really like owls.Sm:)e!

February 24, 2013 at 5:42 PM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

Thanks

February 24, 2013 at 11:20 PM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

Awesome dream outfit!!!!!!

February 24, 2013 at 11:24 PM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

Well my hair is super thick and it was really long and untamed so i decided to cut it

February 24, 2013 at 11:26 PM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

Thanks! Yep hats are my favorite accessorey

February 24, 2013 at 11:27 PM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

Yep big shirts and leggings all the way for me

February 24, 2013 at 11:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i reaally wish my crush would text me.... :(

February 25, 2013 at 10:21 AM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

Well i dont have a phone or ipod touch so i dont text(except chat on words w/ freinds) but i suggest texting him

February 25, 2013 at 9:37 PM  
Anonymous inlovebutscared said...

hi pls girls!
i have a problem... i really want to tell my crush how i feel....but i don't know how to do it discreetly...do you have any ideas?? i really need some advice... :(

February 26, 2013 at 5:28 AM  
Anonymous cassie said...

omgeeeee!!
i told my crush how i feel and now he messaged me and told me he feels the same!!! we are going to the mall later today!!! im soo happy!!! wish me luck for my first date!!!
here's what i'll be wearing...
purple and blue tank from Justice
ultra skinny jeans
purple converse
a silver bangle
Hope you approve of my outfit!!

February 26, 2013 at 5:35 AM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

Anonymous, why dont you text him first and see if he replies? Sm:)e!

Inlovebutscared, first be friends with him and flirt a bit, smile, touch his arm, laugh. You can always just tell him, but then you risk being disappointed, this way you can gauge his reaction first. Sm:)e! And Good-luck!

Cassie, Lucky! I love the sound of your outfit! Goodluck on your first date, and dont forget to Sm:)e!

February 27, 2013 at 8:26 AM  
Anonymous confuzzled said...

Omg cassie I'm so happy for you!!! Good luck:) And your outfit sounds super cute!

February 27, 2013 at 12:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow cassie im so jealous!! Have fun, youre going to look gorgeous!

February 27, 2013 at 8:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So I have a funny/ embarassing story I thought I should share with all of you. Yesterday was my eighth grade dance, and a slow song came on. My crush was RIGHT behind me. My friend randomly pushed me, hoping I would fall into him. She must have pushed too hard or something, because I fell backwards onto the ground!
Purpleypopsicle

March 2, 2013 at 11:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Congrats Cassie!
Purpleypopsicle

March 2, 2013 at 11:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Smile and be nice. Be yourself, or they won`t actually be your friends. Don`t talk to much, let them speak. Find things that you have in common that you can bond over, like an annoying younger sibling. If they put you down, exculde you, or act anything like your old best friend, quit hanging ou with them; they are not worth it. I went through the same thing in 5th grade, and I know it hurts. I wish I had stopped hanging around her sooner; it really took a toll on myself esteem. Renember that its her fault, not yours. Think pink!

March 2, 2013 at 4:13 PM  
Anonymous Bluesoccer99 said...

My outfit is
Shirt: Aeropostle/Abercrombie or hollister fashion top shirt
Pants: dark wash skinny jeans (american eagle
Shoes:Gray britter trap moccasins
Hair: I have red hair not dyed its real so i either put it up in a pony tail or down with a barreett in it

March 3, 2013 at 11:33 AM  
Anonymous cassie said...

thanks so much guys!! ur all amazing!!

March 4, 2013 at 10:27 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

hey, I like it!! Im jealous of your hair. Mines like mousy brown, but I died it red of course. Flaming red, I bet you have pretty auburn hair.

March 5, 2013 at 8:54 PM  
Anonymous loveable132 said...

@Remakingbraverme
Aww thanks! I love my look (not to brag) but I feel it matches my personality ;)
Lovin ya look to! :p

March 7, 2013 at 1:10 AM  
Anonymous loveable132 said...

@HugsandSmiles
Thanks! Love your look to!

March 7, 2013 at 1:11 AM  
Anonymous loveable132 said...

Yay! I finally got the guts to ask out my crush and we're dating now! Eeek! We started dating last week and I kissed him on the cheek! So exciting for me! I just gotta make sure not to rush things :)

March 7, 2013 at 1:20 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Woah ... i know that feeling don't worry be confident don't let it drag you down it just as easy as to make friends rather then lose a friend they will regret it later especially if you guys were great FRIENDS !!!!

March 8, 2013 at 3:16 AM  
Anonymous Bluesoccer99 said...

@Remakingbrave me

ya its a aburny color im sure ur sooooo bueatiful and i bet u girls are all buetiful and im sure ur hair is super pretty it sounds really nice i wish i could see it sounds really pretty

March 8, 2013 at 6:11 PM  
Anonymous Bluesoccer99 said...

@lovale132 awwww thats so cute i wish i got ask out (i would never the guts to ask any one out) so good for you you sure r brave. Thats adorable he kissed u on the cheek thats cute how old r u im still waiting for my first kiss or (boyfirend) but whatever good luck with him

March 8, 2013 at 6:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well first Pinklollilolli u shld ask ur former friend if she wld still like 2 hang out a little bit.
And with the other 5 girls u shld start with something simple that cld get u all friends like going 2 movies tlking about guys gossiping ext. Then if they rlly want 2 b friends they wld start including u in more & more stuff!!!!!!

March 9, 2013 at 4:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

DONT WORRY THIS HAS HAPPEND TO ME BUT WERE FRIENDS AGAIN TRY WORK THINGS OUT

March 12, 2013 at 2:23 PM  
Anonymous cassie said...

hi again!! cassie here! i love converse!! i have all the all stars collection but my fave is the ice cream cone patterned one!! oh and by the way..if u need any advice post on this place and maybe i can help you!!
stay calm and think pink!! and ur all amazing!!

March 14, 2013 at 3:33 AM  
Anonymous afraid said...

okay i have a question for cassie:
How can i show my mom i need a bra discreetly?
Please help me!!

March 16, 2013 at 2:25 AM  
Anonymous cassie said...

Dear afraid,
You can wander off to the bra section when your at the mall with your mom and maybe she'll understand. You can write her a letter, email her or just text her about a bra.The best way is to tell her outright. She will understand for sure!
Stay Calm And Think Pink!

March 16, 2013 at 2:28 AM  
Anonymous afraid said...

dear cassie,
Thank you!! It worked!! I did the wandering off thing and my mom laughed and said I could have a bra!! Thank you so much!! Your the best!!

March 16, 2013 at 11:24 AM  
Anonymous mima said...

Dear Cassie,
You are so cool! I love your advice! It's so useful and understanding! You are the coolest!

March 16, 2013 at 11:40 AM  
Anonymous milie said...

Dear Pls administrators,
hello. i am one of the girls who visits your blog regularly.My question never gets published!

March 19, 2013 at 1:14 AM  
Anonymous confused said...

Dear Cassie,
I have a question...is getting your period bad??

March 19, 2013 at 1:16 AM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

Ugg after spring break my grade is learning about puberty and family life

March 19, 2013 at 10:25 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

@Bluesoccer99
I think everyone is pretty in their own way, you know? Like some girls have really pretty eyes, some have a really nice skin tone. Whats your favorite aspect about yourself everyone?
I like the shape of my face (I know that sounds weird but I mean like my jaw and cheeks and stuff. :)

March 26, 2013 at 10:36 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

@millie
Jemma only does a very few questions, I know it can be a little frustrating. Try posting your question in the comments and we'll do our best to help you out. :)

March 26, 2013 at 10:38 PM  
Anonymous love? said...

confused...i know i'm not cassie and shouldn't be saying anything, but your period is not bad..it just shows that your growing and when you grow your body changes...

March 27, 2013 at 2:09 AM  
Anonymous cassie said...

Dear Confused,
I totally agree with love.She said exactly what i would say!
Thanks so much for giving advice when i was away love

March 28, 2013 at 8:08 AM  
Anonymous sweetie said...

Dear Cassie,
I have a huge crush on a boy..... but I'm too shy to tell him.......
any advice? I saw how you helped others on this blog...so....can you help me too?

March 28, 2013 at 8:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear sweetie said
i have to say that my name is Angelica and that i know how to solve your problem just either write a note or ask a friend tot ell him for you. My friend had the exact same problem and she did the second choice i suggested it worked out fine. he's totally cool about it.

March 28, 2013 at 4:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear pinklollilolli
i had the exact same problem last years except mine was way more complicated we had to see our vice principal about it!!! but any way just try to at least try to reason with her about trying to make it work as friends it may take a few weeks or so but other than that you will be fine. :)

March 28, 2013 at 4:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey are there new names on post
@sweetie
@ cassie
@love
@ millie
Welcome i am new aswell to sweetie anyone can answers your question not just one person even though they are good don't take this wrongly i am not jealous but eager to help!!!!!!!

Well it depends if he has had multiple dates maybe he's a girl hopper you know if he flirt with does drops hints such as playfully kicking stealing your hat you and looking at you talking etc. to you is he much older then he may not be investedto you first he likes u in little girls will he tell everyone will classmates go all snoopy...

Sorry this wasnt to specific but tell me more that i can make a better conclusion SORRY FOR THE LONGish POST so
think pink
Think smart
Take heart
PinksHugzandPlayinInFun

March 30, 2013 at 8:00 AM  
Anonymous Zoey said...

Dear sweetie,
First of all,I'm not Cassie and I know you asked Cassie so I should not be giving you advice but anyways...
If you are too shy,
write him a letter,
put a note in his desk or look at him until he looks at you and talk to him about random stuff frequently.The last two ways are how I did it got together!! Hope it works out for you!!
Think Pink and Enjoy Life!!

April 1, 2013 at 4:06 AM  
Anonymous Zoey said...

Dear sweetie,
I am sorry for answering when i should not have!! Thanks anyway and i hope the advice helps!!
Think Pink, Enjoy Life and Be Fabulous!!

April 4, 2013 at 5:08 AM  
Anonymous Justagirl said...

Dear Cassie,
My little brother found out about my period and teases me constantly!!! He also reads my diary,messes up my stuff,and takes out the stuff I like to keep discreet like my bras,pads,or tampons,and I, like every girl,find it annoying!! He shares my room, so no matter how much i try to ignore it, I can't!! How can I convince my parents to give me my own room as i really need my space and my privacy??

April 4, 2013 at 5:15 AM  
Anonymous PinksHugzandPlayinInFun said...

Well you could
Get a privacy box
and a new diary with a key
Instead tissues
Email her
Send a note or
be sneaky maybe don't ask for liners but say mum my discharge is uncomfortable i t leaks.
Also your have a system a back and forth one like you could have a little privacy at times
So think pink
think kind
Think sweet
PinksHugzandPlayinInFun

April 9, 2013 at 10:26 AM  
Anonymous hope said...

TRUST ME THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME!! all u gotta do is kill. them. WITH KINDNESS!!!! if they see how nice ur being they might want u back.

April 10, 2013 at 6:27 PM  
Anonymous kewlkatkitty said...

who is Cassie? And why is everyone asking for her? not being mean, I'm just wondering.

April 13, 2013 at 8:55 PM  
Anonymous unsure said...

im so sorry. once my bff moved away.

April 22, 2013 at 6:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Who needs Friends? Friends are overrated. The best part of growing up is becoming your own best friend. Why don't you try to sit with them at lunch, talk about a movie you want to see and ask if they want to come with?

April 27, 2013 at 8:53 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I hate 2 tell u this anonymous but friends r not over rated friends are people who've got ur back and like u 4 who u r. and becoming ur own best friend is just sad. u need someone to add a little color in ur life. u should play with them at recess, talk 2 them a little, maybe start making jokes, u can even invite them over 4 a sleepover! :)
-Cupcake
P.S. if u need more advice ask me!! :)

April 30, 2013 at 7:31 PM  
Anonymous was-afraid-but-now-not said...

dear kewllkatkitty,
OMG!!! Cassie, is like, the number one person to give advice!! She already helped me so many times!!

May 1, 2013 at 10:36 AM  
Anonymous Loveable132 said...

@ inlovebutscared
OMG just had the same problem! Okay but what I did was I wrote a note and slipped it in his school box after everyone walked out of class when the rang. I'm now dating him and he rocks:) If ur in highshcool or junior high though try his locker :)

May 22, 2013 at 11:49 AM  
Anonymous CookieStealer said...

Explain your story, and ask if you can be friends with them. They seem like nice people, and better than your old friend. And friends don't have to be at school. You can have a journal, a pet, or even a sister and that'll be enough social life you need. I hope that they take you in. My school is exactly the same. Don't force yourself into the group, just gradually hang out with them more and more. Good luck :)

May 25, 2013 at 8:52 PM  
Anonymous Holly said...

@Pinklollilolli, I have exactly the same problem as you! My best friend keeps avoiding and ignoring me but I don't know why. I really admire her, and she is my only friend at school. I want to make up with her, but she has a new best friend. Whenever I try and make up with her, she just keeps on ignoring me! What do I do?

May 28, 2013 at 7:39 AM  
Anonymous aaliyah2003 said...

YOU should talk to your friend even thoug ht she might blow you of she might just want too hang out with others and so dont you give her spase she will come around

May 28, 2013 at 5:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If you have some girls in your mind with whom you might want to be friends, then it is very good.
If you are good at studies, just try to help them in studies. For example, if you notice them sometimes not able to solve a math problem or not able to understand something in science or language, just go and say " Should I help you with this?"
And, as you said that they are nice, they would not rudely refuse your offer and then you could help them solve the problem or explain to them something.
OR if they are good in studies and you find problem in understanding something just go to them and ask if they could help you. They will surely not say no and at the end you may thank them and invite them to have lunch with you. This is a very effective way of making friends I believe from my experience, for some girls came to me for understanding a lesson in English and we all created a separate group of ourselves. Hope you join the group of those five nice girls and all of you turn to a group of six nice girls.

June 1, 2013 at 9:10 AM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

answer to Pinklollilolli
You can like Jemma said gradually hang out with the girls. Also you may want to talk to your best friend and ask her if she still wants to be friends. She may say yes. If she doesn't just let her go and give her a little space. She may come around.
:)

June 1, 2013 at 1:28 PM  
Anonymous beautiful butterfly said...

That's not good. U might want to...
1. Hang out with that group u were talking about
Or
2.Hang out with other people that need a friend.
Who knows it might work.

June 26, 2013 at 2:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Always invite other people to do things iwth you. When you go to other groups look like you have a purpose. Think of something to talk about!

June 27, 2013 at 11:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pinkloli
Maybe u can find best friends that r guys!!!!!

June 29, 2013 at 11:47 AM  
Anonymous Pink fan said...

Hey! Girl

I really think you should find new fiends there are so many girls or possibly even guys how would like to meet you so don't be shy!
Hugs, pink fan

August 25, 2013 at 3:24 PM  
Anonymous pink peace:) said...

hey there i lost my bff last year too.

November 2, 2013 at 3:42 PM  
Anonymous Doglover said...

I have a similar problem. My friends are to pushy and I can't trust them. Therre is a group of girls at my school who are very nice and quiet and trustworthy but, I just can't figue out how to make friends with them! Thank you for everybit of advice that people posted on this subject! It will help me a lot!

January 26, 2014 at 11:35 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You can always say excuse me can I play??!

February 6, 2014 at 2:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

can we communicate to eachother
Jemma?

February 25, 2014 at 6:19 PM  
Anonymous Daniella said...

Yvette
I mean is that a lot?, thanks!

March 31, 2014 at 5:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

first liv your screen name.try asking to sit with them at lunch! dont worry, just be your awesome self, good luck

May 17, 2014 at 5:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Pinklollilolli I live in spain but im english . The same sought of thing happens here all the time . Im lucky enough to have a best friend but i remember what it was like before ! First of all make sure they are nice and arent laughing at you behind your back . If they are nice start by introducing yourself saying what your hobbies are etc , if they seem to actually notice you and like you try being as nice as posible make some cupcakes to share get tickets to the cinema ... Afeter a bit they should accept you and like you . If they dont maybe try getting back with your ex-bestfriend doing the same as before . Good luck and hope this is helpfull !!!

May 23, 2014 at 3:44 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey just be your self and friends will come to u . if there is a new girl or a girl that has no friends just go up and say hi!!! that should get you started:-)

June 12, 2014 at 6:51 PM  
Anonymous Anyone? said...

Has anyone been on here lately?

January 2, 2015 at 4:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

find someone who you think would be good and try them out!!
-Kayla

July 2, 2016 at 3:12 PM  

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