KutexKat is worried about her Dad

Our parents take care of us, but that doesn't stop us from worrying about our parents sometimes. Kutex Cat is going through that right now. Can you help?

Hi,
I know I have not posted in a while but now I need to talk. My dad might get fired and the people at his work are really mean including his bosses. I am not sure that either way is right. I am scared for him. Will he be okay? Has anyone one through this? I am not sure how to control my emotions and I need help right now. I am not sure I can talk to anyone because even when I talk to my parents they are not very nice and my dad does not want me to worry. He might get fired the day of my birthday.   I know some of you out there are Christians so please pray and if your not please wish me, my dad, and family luck!

I am not sure how I feel about telling you but since no one knows me, I guess it is okay. I am really worried and I think that maybe he will get fired. If he gets fired he might not have a job for a long time but if he stays people at his work will probably find ways to be mean to him. The people at his work are even worse then bullies, and we all know how bullies make us feel,think, and want.   If the bully tells you you're ugly you begin to think this way. I feel like just going in my closet with a pillow and crying which really is not an option. :( I am scared and sad and every other negative feeling I can think of.

What should I do? Stand up? No... I am a kid..... They could fight harder back....   My dad could get in trouble for telling me that he may be fired because people are mean. I do not know what to think feel or say. He is always busy and I tell him how I feel and then he goes on that thing. "Well, (My Name) I can't drop everything for you all the time. I could be fired if I don't get this done." or sometimes "LEAVE ME ALONE" or "GO AWAY"

I am so confused and helpless like a baby who's lollipop got stolen or saw her mother's purse being stolen. How do I get through this? Thanks for reading this. Now I do not feel so helpless! KutexKat  

You sound pretty smart, KutexKat. For instance, you knew that you needed to get those worries off your chest. And writing them down seemed to help you. Is there someone you can talk with, like a grandparent, school counselor, or someone like that? Talking is a good step because, truth is, you can't control what goes on at your Dad's work. I hope things improve for you and you are able to worry less. 

What else, Pink Locker girls? Have you ever worried about your Mom or Dad losing a job?  

Think pink!
Jemma

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jemma i'm so sorry . Try and be comforting and don't give up hope for your dad support him and tell him no matter what his work mates say just give them a look saying " I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEM'S !!!!!!

March 8, 2013 at 3:11 AM  
Anonymous ParvatiPatil said...

Don't worry, everything will be fine.. Pray hard and know that we will be there you all the time. And as Jemma said, talk to someone you trust about it..

All the best to you and your family!!

March 8, 2013 at 6:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I will light a candle for you and your Dad.

March 8, 2013 at 12:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey girl i think that you really do care about your dad but your now what you dad is a big boy you dont need to fight his battles and if he gets laid off so what he will bounce back soon

-torquoise girl

March 8, 2013 at 5:22 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

I wish your family luck. Be strong. Your dad's workmates must be so immature to behave like a bully. You can't do anything but be there for your dad. You will get through this. Everyone goes through hard times. You go KutexKat! :)

March 8, 2013 at 6:20 PM  
Anonymous Sexybragirl ( Who once use to be Hugsandsmiles but decided to change my name to something way better :) said...

It's okay! You will feel better you can get through this! I hope we can help!

March 8, 2013 at 8:47 PM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

Keep strong be happy and remeber to laugh love and live.


-a note of encouragement

March 8, 2013 at 10:40 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@hugsandsmiles/sexybragirl
Ok nothing against it but why sexybragirl?? Just wondering cuz in my opinion hugsandsmiles was great. :)
ViolinistAtSoul :)

March 9, 2013 at 2:33 AM  
Anonymous KutexKat said...

Thanks for help but I really can't talk to anyone :( Thanks for all the help, I did not expect this to be a whole new topic and now it is big so I have lots of people out there helping me! Thank you sooo much!

March 9, 2013 at 9:12 AM  
Anonymous (Thereal) Hugsandsmiles said...

@Sexybragirl and @Violinistatsoul, thats not me! Its an impostor! I dont know wether to be flattered or offended that you tried to steal my name! Im sure it was unintentional though. Sm:)e!

March 9, 2013 at 10:05 AM  
Anonymous (Thereal) Hugsandsmiles said...

KutexKat, I feel so sorry for you! Talk about it with your mum or someone else you trust. I wish you all the best and will pray that your dad doesnt get fired! Try and Sm:)e! Through the hard times.

March 9, 2013 at 10:07 AM  
Anonymous iNK said...

There are 2 things I need to say.

#1 Kutexkat~I've never been worried about a parent losing a job, but I can relate to the whole " meanness at work" thing.

#2 Hugsandsmiles(I'd prefer to call you that if you don't mind)~I agree with ViolinistAtSoul. Your previous name was so cute and happy. It's totally your choice, but I think you should change it back.

March 9, 2013 at 12:17 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pray pray pray! I really admire you for staying strong through all of this! Let's hope that even if your dad does get fired, he can find a better job with no bullies! I'll be praying for you, KutexKat! Stay strong!

March 9, 2013 at 5:46 PM  
Anonymous Icygirl;) said...

I know hugsandsmiles was adoreable!

March 9, 2013 at 7:16 PM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

I agree i thought you were going to change it to hugsandsmi(:s

March 9, 2013 at 11:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dont worry its ganna get better

March 9, 2013 at 11:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Guys could you help me out?? I'm having family trouble. My family always says I'm being rude and disrespectful when I'm not trying to be. And then they will quiz me for hours on why I'm in a bad mood when I'm not in a bad mood. I have had my mom mad at me so many times the past couple weeks it's not even funny. And I can't even get away and take a break because I'm homeschooled so I'm with my family 24/7. Please help me it's getting really bad.
Thanks
ViolinistAtSoul

March 10, 2013 at 1:24 AM  
Anonymous AnnyaWillRockYourWorld said...

Kutex Kat.Great name.why dont you email him,text him,call him or just talk to your mom about it.

March 10, 2013 at 6:19 AM  
Anonymous WildnFree said...

This kind of just happend to my friend. I gave her a list of quotes that helped her. Remember in times of need we will always be here for you. I will also pray for you. Maybe you could find a time where your dad isn't busy and ask him something. Try to grow closer to your dad. Even if there isn't a rupture in your relationship with him, it could help him.

March 10, 2013 at 10:26 AM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

@ViolinistAtSoul, there has been a little bit of a mix-up, Sexybragirl, was never me, Hugsandsmiles and I am happy with my name and have no intention of changing it. Sm:)e!

March 10, 2013 at 11:27 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok. Thought that didn't sound like something you'd change your name too. Thanks for clearing that up. Sorry they tried to steal your name.
ViolinistAtSoul :)

March 10, 2013 at 4:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree. Praying is the best solution to everything. And I love you're name!! Potterheads all the way!!
ViolinistAtSoul

March 10, 2013 at 10:20 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

I'm so happy! Our school's spring break has started and I'm happy! Any tips to enjoy a week of no school?

March 10, 2013 at 10:32 PM  
Anonymous Skyarmyrecruit said...

My prayers at with you, Kutexkat. :) But, I have a problem of my own. My best friend recently had her tonsils taken out and she isn't doing well. :( I'm really worried for her, we've been BFFs for more than a year now, and I can't imagine life without her! Please help!


Skyarmyrecruit (I was A+ but I'm a Sky army recruit (I hate squids) so my name is that now!

March 10, 2013 at 10:54 PM  
Anonymous torquoisegirl said...

hi there

March 11, 2013 at 10:56 AM  
Anonymous I am REAL KutexKat I promise said...

That is good because why would you go from sweet to eeeeew? Who ever is copying her please stop and never steal my identity :( Especially since today is the meeting and my birthday!! :) :(

March 11, 2013 at 4:03 PM  
Anonymous KutexKat said...

He did not get fired!! :) YAY!!! Thanks for the luck and prayers!!

March 11, 2013 at 4:07 PM  
Anonymous ParvatiPatil said...

CONGRATS, KutexKat(And your father)!!!!!!!!

We're all happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!

March 11, 2013 at 8:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey my dad got fired too.....sorta he hurt his back so he got some time off.......forever we have been searching for a job for my dad for 5 years or more. So I know how it feels.

March 11, 2013 at 9:52 PM  
Anonymous Skyarmyrecruit said...

Never mind on what I posted earlier. She was back at school today! :)

Remember, I'm A+, but I changed my name.

March 11, 2013 at 10:27 PM  
Anonymous AnnyaWillRockYourWorld said...

kutexkat u rock. have fun

March 12, 2013 at 2:21 AM  
Anonymous HugsAndSm:)es! (this is especially for Hatlover :)) said...

@ViolinistAtSoul, @iNK, @Icygirl;), @hatlover and @Kutexkat, Thank-you to all of you for defending my name, and in the process, even if it was unknowingly, me. I'm happy that you all like my name so much! Also hatlover, I was, but I'm too lazy, though I'll still sign of with a Sm:)e!

March 12, 2013 at 8:43 AM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

@ViolinistAtSoul, family can be tough to deal with especially since they spend so much time with you since you are homeschooled. It can easily make you cranky that people assume you will be moody or quiz you about being rude all the time, even if you are not, but persevere and answer with the kindest tone that you can muster, since sounding a little sarcastic or annoyed is way too easy (at least for me) also, dont sound even remotely whiney, as in "But I wasnt doing it on puuur-pose!" Just try to Be positive and Sm:)e! And hopefully they will stop bothering you about it. PS, like I said above, Im glad you liked my name!

March 12, 2013 at 8:48 AM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

@KutexKat, Happy Belated Birthday! Im glad your dad didnt get fired! Thanks for finding my name so sweet! Sm:)e!

March 12, 2013 at 8:51 AM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

OMG! How rude of me! I forgot to tell all the people I posted to above me how awesome their names are too! Well, I love all of your names, I hope its not too late to say that now!

March 12, 2013 at 8:53 AM  
Anonymous KutexKat said...

Thanks Annya!!

March 12, 2013 at 4:31 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

:)

March 12, 2013 at 9:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@hugsandsmiles
Thanks for the help. You're advice always makes me smile. You're pretty awesome :)
ViolinistAtSoul :)

March 12, 2013 at 9:58 PM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

@ViolinistAtSoul, awww:) thank-you! You are awesome too! Good luck! Sm:)e!

March 13, 2013 at 8:12 AM  
Anonymous iNK said...

Does anyone else want to get logins so we can like have friends and chat and have like PLS club meetings in real life?

March 15, 2013 at 8:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't worry to much. And if your dad does loose his job, he WILL find a new one. And I know that. My mom and dad had a divorce and since my dad had the job, not my mom, my mom had to find a job. It took 4 years for my mom to finish collage and find a place to work. Know she has a job, and we are all living happily ever after. So, don't worry. (Hey, if you want to here how I handle some moody feelings, listen. I just want to prove that being 11 and 12, doesn't mean that you can't control your emotions. Right when I want to cry, I just stand up and say, "I am Ok, I am loved, and I am me!" I sometimes think of all my family member who love me, and repeat over and over again that I am Ok. I really does help. And I am rooting you on! You can live through it!

March 17, 2013 at 1:48 AM  
Anonymous AnnyaWillRockYourWorld said...

yes

March 17, 2013 at 11:49 AM  
Anonymous lovebug said...

don't worry time will heal

March 18, 2013 at 10:31 AM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

You just made my day

March 18, 2013 at 10:11 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

Sorry Ive been gone for so long!!

@KrutexKats
Im so happy he didnt get fired! Thats great news. Tons of us prayed for you, and looks like God listened!

March 19, 2013 at 10:35 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

@ViolinistATSoul
I swear youre my identical twin. Im going through the exact same thing!! My dad doesnt understand that Im in a bad mood because he asked me why I was in a bad mood and told me I was being rude to his girlfriend.


@Hugsandsmiles
Thank you so much, you give amazing advice (even though it technically wasnt for me)!

March 19, 2013 at 10:38 PM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

Remakingabraverme, you're welcome, even if my advice wasn't technically for you, but I think we should all be free to use all the advice on the website. Sm:)e!

March 23, 2013 at 5:34 AM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

Hatlover, yay, I love making peoples days! Thanks! Sm:)e!

March 23, 2013 at 5:35 AM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

@hugsandsmiles
Your welcome
You give amazing advice and nice compliments i have a feeling youve been on this site for a while so you know whats going on

March 23, 2013 at 8:11 AM  
Anonymous missymooiloveu said...

Yeh hugsandsmiles u r so good i see all the past posts and u are there in a lot of them

March 24, 2013 at 5:48 AM  
Anonymous missymooiloveu said...

Hugsandsmiles love your patrol to help others

March 24, 2013 at 5:49 AM  
Anonymous Pierced Princess said...

I WANT A LOGIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

March 25, 2013 at 3:48 PM  
Anonymous flybird said...

last year, my dad got laid off for 3 months and i didn't know what to do. i felt like i should'nt be spending so much.
the economy is getting worse and more people are losing jobs. us girls have to keep our chins up and remind our parents to smile.
keep going forward, KutexKat, and trust yourself.

March 30, 2013 at 10:53 PM  
Anonymous TheBlindEagle said...

KutexKat,

I am Christian and I will pray for you and your dad, as asked. :) god bless!

April 7, 2013 at 4:17 PM  
Anonymous kewlkatkitty said...

@ TheBlindEagle- Yes, I will, too.
A quote by me "Prayer is the best remedy, for the body, for the soul, and for the spirit."

April 12, 2013 at 3:58 PM  
Anonymous AskMeAnything said...

I remember I lived with my mum only when I was little. We did not have much money but we managed fine. I know it might be hard to think this, but your life is a bit upside-down at the moment, but when you get older, things will get much better.
Think to the future. You and your family will manage just fine like everyone else`s.

April 13, 2013 at 3:04 PM  
Anonymous kewlkatkitty said...

@ ASkMeAnything- I don't quite agree. In my opinion, I believe that we should take things day by day and not worry about tomorrow.

April 13, 2013 at 8:47 PM  
Anonymous Hugsandsmiles said...

Hatlover and missymooiloveu, thanks, it really means alot! Sm:)e!

April 30, 2013 at 1:35 PM  
Anonymous Jill said...

It sounds like you are a very nice girl going through a very tough time. Just remember, you are not alone! There are lots of people who care about you and don't want anything to happen, including us on this website. It may help you to talk to a counselor, because they will listen but also keep your information PRIVATE, which it sounds like you want. A diary might help you get your feelings out too. I will pray for you, because no girl should have to go through that. Good luck!

May 20, 2013 at 4:32 PM  
Anonymous CookieStealer said...

A journal would help. Express your feelings to your journal. I think it's best that you leave you dad alone. He can't blame you for anything, and it's best to stay out of trouble. Remember, your dad loves you. There will be other jobs for him, so don't worry if he loses it. Who knows? he might get a better one. I think he's just grumpy, and leave the hard work for you and your mom and focus on school and homework.

May 25, 2013 at 8:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

try to stay busy with other things or you could talk too them both at once and when they try to change the subject keep on them its not mean

May 28, 2013 at 5:28 PM  
Anonymous qg said...

Wow I am so sorry for u. I will pray 2night. My dad almost got fired 2 but the ppl @ his work were not that mean plus he got a new job-that played him 1,000 more dollars then his old job did. Just think positive.

June 25, 2013 at 3:30 PM  
Anonymous Snowleopard051203 said...

I'm really sorry, for you and your Dad and I'll definitely pray 2night. Don't think about it 2 much though, enjoy the summer!

July 3, 2013 at 3:08 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i am not a christian so i will just wish you good
luck!!

March 12, 2014 at 1:15 PM  
Anonymous justCarlee said...

hope your dad finds a new job!
i wish u guys good luck!
hope he finds a job were they aren't mean to him!
heres an advice just relax and take a deep breath and hope every thing is going to be alright!

March 12, 2014 at 1:24 PM  
Anonymous justCarlee said...

hope your dad finds a new job!
i wish u guys good luck!
hope he finds a job were they aren't mean to him!
heres an advice just relax and take a deep breath and hope every thing is going to be alright!

March 12, 2014 at 1:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Your dad will get a better job I'm supporting you and your family

September 7, 2015 at 1:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm Hoping your dad get's a better job

September 7, 2015 at 1:07 AM  

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