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Tanisum

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

thanks, Jemma.I had a question about saying goodbye to my crush at the end of the year. How do I do it?!

June 9, 2013 at 6:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Does acne stay even after puberty?

June 9, 2013 at 6:27 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

I've been crushing on the same guy for two years and we've had a on/off relationship but he just likes me as a friend now (we've only been dating twice but he always dumps me). Should I try to forget him or keep on liking him and try to make him like me? I've tried forgetting him but it never works. Thx!

June 9, 2013 at 7:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I gave a guy I like my home phone number because he asked for my contact by I didn't have a phone and he hasn't called me and he didn't give me his phone # and I'm wondering if I should give him my email address (I just got one a few days ago) since it's more private but maybe it's a little pushy. What do u think?

June 9, 2013 at 7:28 PM  
Anonymous gg said...

U guys im moving how do i talk to the people i want to and how to avoid the others first comment??

June 9, 2013 at 7:39 PM  
Anonymous gg said...

U shoudnt give someone to much information so just wait

June 10, 2013 at 12:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What if a guy really likes you.. and they are scared to ask you out, but ur scared because its the end of the school year?

June 10, 2013 at 4:37 AM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

Don't worry Jemma! I definitely understand! There is no way you can answer all of our questions!

June 10, 2013 at 12:02 PM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

@gg

Awww well if ur moving u should tell ur closest friends and tell them to give u their phone number if u dont already have it...

@ anonymous
Thats one of the many things ppl worry about at the end of the year...u should jus to talk to him like he's a friend to say goodbye n mayb give him a hug. Everyone is probably thinking how they r gonna say bye to everyone so dont worry u wont b the only one

June 10, 2013 at 12:27 PM  
Anonymous bestfriendlover2002 said...

Me and my best friend are wondering if getting black hair on your leg is part of puberty. Can you help

June 10, 2013 at 8:31 PM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

You guys i dont feel very close to my freinds anymore i feel like their ignoring me there both my bffs so i dont wnt our frendship fall apart i just really feel sad and left out - hatlover
Ps. Where is evreybodey ( hugsandsmiles, and i see bluetiful blossom but i havent seen some people in a long time.

June 10, 2013 at 10:02 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think my crush likes me. He is flirting with me. One of my BFF who likes my crush as well is angry with me because he likes me not my BFF

June 11, 2013 at 1:55 AM  
Anonymous Charming Blue said...

I have bad eyesight in only one eye, but my parents don't want to take me to the optometrist because they think I can get my eyes checked at school with no problem. Will I have to wear glasses and will ti hurt to wait 2 months for the eye exam?

June 11, 2013 at 5:19 AM  
Anonymous gg said...

Thanks but now i have to learn how to fit in with a new croud ps i took ur advice there all coming to my bday

June 11, 2013 at 12:31 PM  
Anonymous gg said...

Hehe so not first comment way below first comment (starts to uncontrolebly laghing) o i need to stop doing that hehe

June 11, 2013 at 12:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am nervous to ask my mom if I can shave. Any advice?

June 11, 2013 at 2:43 PM  
Anonymous lulubellebabe said...

i had my q's (period p backwards) 2 months ago but i havent told my mum yet my bff wants to tell the head teacher but i might get expelled HELP

June 11, 2013 at 3:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It's normal, hair changes over time so don't worry, I have it to and I'm blond. First comment:)

June 11, 2013 at 10:26 PM  
Anonymous gg said...

How can u get expelled

June 12, 2013 at 9:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey when i started to want to shave i told my mom about how i thought my leg hairs were getting longer and darker. then she said i could shave or use veet. we compared them and i chose veet.( what you want to use is up to you though)
-Abby

June 12, 2013 at 11:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i might start to use proactive what do you think?

June 12, 2013 at 12:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey so I have this guy I really like and I'm pretty sure he likes me. We text for multiple hours pretty much everyday and we complement each other a lot. Whenever I mention hanging out he says it would be fun and leaves it at that. I really want to ask him to a movie with me so how do ask without it being awkward?? Also I bought him this stuffed animal crab (inside joke from a school trip) so how should I give it to him?? One last thing, my mom is fine with us hanging out and texting and flirting but doesn't want us to be boyfriend and girlfriend. She's afraid the label comes with too many other extra things. How do I convince her it's ok to be boyfriend and girlfriend?? Thanks for all the help!
ViolinistAtSoul

June 12, 2013 at 12:43 PM  
Anonymous LanieJanie said...

I think I'm going to have my period soon but i have trouble talking to my mom!It took me 7 months to get the courage to text(!) my mom to shave my legs, about the same time to finally ask my mom to wear bras without chickening, and after a couple months, again, i finally emailed my mom to ask for cup bras. but i cant wait that long to tell my mom about my period. how do i work up the courage and what should i say when my period does come??? please helpppp!

June 12, 2013 at 3:09 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

@lulubellebabe
You HAVE TO TELL YOUR MOM!!!! I know how embarrassing it is, believe me, I had my turn! She is expecting it! Don't worry. Its not like she'll be angry at you for getting it! You Go Gurl!

June 12, 2013 at 4:36 PM  
Anonymous Bobette said...

Llubellebabe why would you get expelled?

June 12, 2013 at 5:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ur not gonna get expelled 4 having ur period every girl gets it. u should def tell ur mom though and telling the teacher would be way easier in case u had 2 go out of the room 2 change a pad or something. u'll probably end up telling them anyway
-Cupcake

June 12, 2013 at 8:40 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@Anonymous Maybe u could slip it in as a conversation with ur mom. Be like "Hey Mom I've noticed some things about my body and I think maybe it's time 2 start shaving" if she denies then wait. she knows wuts best 4 u but don't give up. if u really need 2 start shaving then maybe try ur dad:) hope it helps!!!!!!
-Cupcake

June 12, 2013 at 8:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I thought that my crush/friend (who is a guy and says i'm like a sister to him) was going to a different school next year. So I wanted to say goodbye to him the day before the last day just in case I wouldn't see him. So I asked if we could say goodbye and he said ok. He said bye and I rolled my eyes gave him a hug and a kiss. Then I found out that he wasn't going to move the next day. I haven't approached since the kiss so what should I say the next time I see him? PLEASE HELP!

June 12, 2013 at 11:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Simple, walk up smiling and say "turns out I was wrong about you moving"(you can laugh if you want)

June 13, 2013 at 9:25 AM  
Anonymous Natie said...

Umm well i am getting bullied at school, for how i look, for how i talk, for knowing stuff. Then when they started bullying me about never having a bf, i told ome of my guy friends and we started sayig we went out. But now they are bulling me about that! Its really upsetting me, to the point where its making me feel ill. I honestly dont know what to do. Any advice would be well aprecieted.
Thanks
Natie

June 13, 2013 at 11:46 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pls jemma any one please answer my question please okay so this is a big EMERGENCY DO U HERE ME BIG SO THIS REALLY CUTE GUY IM NOT KIDDING REALLY CUTE WELL I JUST MET HIM YESTERDAY AND THE FIRST THING HE ASKED ME WAS (ARE U WITH SOMEONE) SO I SAID (WHAT IS WRONG WITH U) AND PUNCHED HIM NOT REALLY HARD OR ANYTHING I THOUGHT HE WOULD LEAVE ME ALONE BUT HE DIDNT HE JUST SMILED AND CHUCKLED THEN LATER HE ASKED ME AGAIN BUT WITH THE WORD (DO U HAVE A BOYFRIEND) I SAID AGAIN( WHAT IS WRONG WITH U) AND WENT AWAY WE DIDNT TALK AT ALL AFTER THAT HE JUST WOULD LOOK AT ME AND SMILE ALL THE TIME AND THEN HE WENT HOME A HALF HOUR LATER HE DIDNT LOOK AT ME DIDNT SAY BYE AND LEFT JUST LEFT SO I WAS LIKE OKAY LATER MY COUSIN WHO I SHOULD HAVE MENTIONED EARLYER SORRY (hes the boys friend)SAID THAT HE TOLD HIM THAT HE LIKED,ME I DONT KNOW IF THATS TRUE BUT YA

OKAY I KNOW U GUYS WOULD PRAUBLY SAY BE WITH HIM BUT R U READY FOR THIS HES LIKE A FOOT AND A HALF SHORTER THEN ME AND HES 12 IM 10 HE HAS 2 YEARS TILL HIGHSCHOOL IM BARLY GOING TO MIDDLESCHOOLWELL ANYWAYSPEOPLE WILL MOST LIKLEY MAKE FUN OF ME BECOUSE IM TALLER AND HIM BECOUSE HES SHORTER IF IM WITH HIM . I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO BECOUSE IM GOING TO SEE HIM ON MY COUSINS BDAY ON THE 15thTHATS LIKE 2DAYS FROM NOW I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY WHAT TO DO PLEASE HELP BIGGEST BOY EMERGENCY EVER im so sorry caus how long this is but i sm truley FREAKING OUT il add more deatails under neath please HELP

June 13, 2013 at 1:56 PM  
Anonymous roma'ntico said...

HELP! So a boy who is my arch-enemy told me something in Spanish, but the only part I caught was "bonito" which means "pretty". He's suddenly been saying hello to me. What do I do?

June 13, 2013 at 2:35 PM  
Anonymous kaka said...

I feel like I'm gonna have my period soon I have all the signs I'm turnings 11 on the 15th of June so very soon I'm scared to tell my mom when I do get it!!

June 13, 2013 at 3:13 PM  
Anonymous Emerald 12 said...

hi,
one of my friends is not being nice and i think someone is telling rumors about me what should i do and also any help. I'm starting in a new school where i only know a few people.

June 13, 2013 at 4:45 PM  
Anonymous gg said...

Wait till he aproaches u and ses somthing dont say anything and just listen dont.mention the kiss if he dosent maybe he just doesnt want to worry about it hope i helped becous no one didnt

June 13, 2013 at 6:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm not as popular as my friend even if I try hard to be. Probably because I'm not that talkative and she is very nice. But sometimes I feel left out like that. What should I do?

June 13, 2013 at 8:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi I am trea

well I started getting that white thing that u get before a period and I am scared to bleed will it hurt will it stain my clothing and I know what ur gonna say oh no it dosent hurt at all its okay bou really when it happens how does it feel

June 13, 2013 at 11:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My friends are all going to my other 'friends' birthday party today, and even my bestie is going, but she wasn't going when she invited the other girls and now she is and she doesn't even tell me. Then they were all talking about it today and I felt really left out. But its really sad because we have known each other since we were all 5-6. Please help..

Left out

June 14, 2013 at 1:46 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't be afraid to tell ur mom about ur period,I'm sure she would understand cuz all girls has there periods and if u don't tell ur mom about ur period,then u just might end up bleeding everywhere so,tell ur mom about it and ask her for a extra pad in case the time has come.

June 14, 2013 at 6:25 AM  
Anonymous gg said...

No ones answering

June 14, 2013 at 7:57 PM  
Anonymous LittleMissSunshine! said...

ok anonymous ive been there done that but what u can do is to TRY and be more talkative be more involved! if u can make memories by having a great idea or organising something that might work! what ever happens dont b jealous soon its gonna be UR time to shine :)

June 15, 2013 at 2:41 AM  
Anonymous LittleMissSunshine! said...

Natie, thats horrible but i went through the same thing. If u can get some of ur guy friends and if u have any other firends at ur school the same age of older to back u up thats going to work! dont back down and dont let them think they've won!

June 15, 2013 at 2:44 AM  
Anonymous Livie said...

hey everyone, I first wanted to say to a lot of you, who ha questions about shaving or bras or periods; I think it is best to talk to a female adult you trust, (doesn't have to be ur mom) it is so much easier to deal with when you have someone to talk you through it who knows what is going on. Friends try, and they are great, but they only know so much. AT NATIE I am so sorry, that must really suck. I don't know much about what is going on but I would sugest talking to someone who can hep, and standing up for your self. Also try not to show when you are hurt from their comments, they probably feel powerful by knowing they can toy with you. I believe in you! :) To people with questions about what to do about liking a guy, go talk to him. Worst thing that can happen is they don't like you back. If you like him, and want to go places with that, you need to make that move. Do not be like my friends who are hopelessly in love and don't do anything about it. Hope I helped:) I have a big question my self, that I asked Jemma about, but I will put on here as well on another comment.

-Livie

June 15, 2013 at 4:23 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am worried about going to a new school. I have been at the same school since kindergarten with 21 other people in my grade. I haven't had to make friends with people I knew nothing about since i was four! Any advice?

June 15, 2013 at 4:49 AM  
Anonymous judogirl said...

hey guys i need some help. will you see my friend has not been felling will and she was saying how it may be her you know and i really wan to help her since i alrady had mine but i don't know

June 15, 2013 at 7:40 AM  
Anonymous judogirl said...

My two best friends are leaving next year and i'm really sad. And don't know what to do to say good bye since i only mate them this year

June 15, 2013 at 7:41 AM  
Anonymous gg said...

No ones answering the questions

June 15, 2013 at 12:24 PM  
Anonymous gg said...

Omg i got lucky they changed the date to the 20 but still wat do i do

June 15, 2013 at 12:28 PM  
Anonymous gg said...

Ok i just noticed that i put anonymouse up there but i ment gg

June 15, 2013 at 12:30 PM  
Anonymous May said...

HELP PLEASE!!!
I'm going to be a teenager in less than four months and I still haven't had my period, needed bras, had my growth spurt, liked guys, or anything! I'm the same as I was when I was seven years old! Is this normal or am I going too slow?

June 15, 2013 at 1:22 PM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

@ anonymous..
Remember not to be a follower be a leader...dont follow wat others do

June 15, 2013 at 4:10 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

@kaka
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!

June 15, 2013 at 7:52 PM  
Anonymous Miss Sunburned said...

So bathing suit season is coming up, and I grew out of mine last year, so I'm in the process of getting some new ones. I'm growing up and suddenly L.L. Bean and Land's End bathing suits are too childish. (no offense, they are really well made and cute, but not for older girls) I want one that is padded. How do I ask my mom to get one? I feel really awkward when I try one on. HELP!

June 16, 2013 at 11:09 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Tell ur mom that u woulf like to compromise u should start with an electric shaver or ask her until what age and compromise if u could do it sooner

June 16, 2013 at 12:50 PM  
Anonymous onedirectionlover said...

hey guys just changed my name from judogirl to onedirectionlover so yah

June 16, 2013 at 4:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@May
LOL, i feel the same way. Maybe except that I don't play with toys and I grew taller lol

June 16, 2013 at 5:04 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

coolgabs1216@gg
So it seems like none answers questions but it takes a while.... Because there are so many questions. Don't worry an answer will come soon!
PS: I put one up and it got put on the front pg cover. And welcome to Pls. You r new right? I have been on here for one month. :)

June 17, 2013 at 1:06 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Hey guys
I wanted to ask some getting to know you questions?
1. whats your fAV food
2. puberty hard or complicated or both
3. pop music or rap music
4. favorite season....

June 17, 2013 at 1:29 PM  
Anonymous Onestalker said...

Actually guys, I like the name onestalker better. (Get it one-direction, one-stalker? Well, I stalk Nial the most!) Anyway. It is totes better!

June 17, 2013 at 4:22 PM  
Anonymous gg said...

Im in the same spot as u

June 17, 2013 at 4:59 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Hey guys how long does it take b4 your story gets on the artists blog? Because I submitted a story a while ago. But I don't think it got on the blog. So I want to submit another story but I do not know yet if my story got on the blog. So should I submit another story or not?

PS: on a different subject have any of you guys heard of Jamie Grace? She's a christian artist.

June 17, 2013 at 5:40 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am scared to go back to the doctor for a physical because he will ask about my period. Any advice?

June 17, 2013 at 9:00 PM  
Anonymous Rainbow Starburst said...

My mom said I wash my hair to much and this year I've started washing it everyday because of puberty and it oiling so quickly. But everyone washes there hair everyday. My hair is black but it's now brownish reddish bronzish color. How do I take care of my damaged hair?

June 18, 2013 at 3:01 PM  
Anonymous gg said...

Im not really new

June 18, 2013 at 6:30 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Oh. my mistake sorry

June 18, 2013 at 10:32 PM  
Anonymous =) said...

I have a slight mustache and I'm wondering how to remove because people stare at it and there was this guy who was like "I didn't know girls had mustaches." I just want to make myself confident. I've shaved it but it grows back. My mom doesn't let me wax or buy any products for it. (I'm 12) Thx.

June 19, 2013 at 10:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I've just gotten over a guy that I used to be really good friends with and had a crush on because he was ignoring me a lot. Now I have a new guy, well guys.. I'm good friends with both of them and neither of them knows I like them. I want to choose between them and I think they like me back. Please help me choose!!

June 20, 2013 at 1:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

When you go to get your hair cut, just mention to the stylist that you have this mustache and want to get rid of it and have her talk to your mom. Good Luck!

June 20, 2013 at 5:25 PM  
Anonymous pink peace said...

@coolgabs1216 1 cookies 2 complicated 3 pop 4 summer.Be peaceful:)

June 21, 2013 at 4:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ive had my period for like 3 years now so why arent my boobs growing like all my other friends? im 15 years old

June 22, 2013 at 8:51 AM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

1. Buffalo wings, ribs, bacon, anything meaty! :)
2. I haven't really started
3. Pop
4. Fall because of my birthday!

June 22, 2013 at 1:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If it makes u feel any better I was 12 when I started my period and I was practically flat chested
@ Annonymous

-GC

June 22, 2013 at 11:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Is it weird to have your period before your boobs grow?!?

June 22, 2013 at 11:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree with gg. How can you get expelled? Every girl gets their period. If the head teacher doesn't know that, their not a very good teacher after all. And I personally suggest sending your mom a text or email about your period. It's easier than telling her in person.

June 23, 2013 at 3:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dont worry. Your mom understands. Remember she was once your age, struggling to tell her mom the same things. Remember this:
Pros: your mom will buy you pads or tampons, your mom will give you any advice you need
Cons: embarassing
Which one has more? Pros! You can do it!
If anyone else can think of other pros or cons, please tell

June 23, 2013 at 3:20 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Talk with a parent of a councilor. Trust me, this is what a councilor's job is, they know what they're doing. Also, parents help you with lots of stuff, including this. If you need to, you can change schools.
Now importantly, remember who you are. You said you know stuff. I'm assuming that means You're smart. That can help get you into a good collage and then a well paying job. those other kids are bullying you because you're smarter than them. I don't think that even makes sence. Smart kids are the ones who are successful in the future. Think of the song "Mean" by Taylor Swift.
Also, you said you do have friends. Who cares what those other kids say about you when you have friends who've got your back?
Hope I helped! :)

June 23, 2013 at 3:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

He may be cute, but is that the only reason you're attracted to him? It sounds like he's kind of a jerk. Looks don't mean everything (reffering to both the shortness and the cuteness).

June 23, 2013 at 3:34 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dont be afraid of telling your mom. Also, dont think that it WILL come soon. I've had all the signs for a while now, and I'm almost 13. I still haven't gotten it. You MIGHT get it soon, but there is almost no way to predict things like this.

June 23, 2013 at 3:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okey, the quick stuff:
The thing youre getting right now is vaginal discharge. It usually happens 6-12 months before your first period. That doesn't mean anything, though. I had it for 2 years before my first period.
A period CAN hurt, but its usually not too bad. Some girls have bad cramps, some dont feel a thing. A cramp on your first period is usually hardly anything. If you do get horrible cramps, there is medicine you can take to help. Dont be afraid to talk to a mom
Exercise helps. I'm not completely sure how, but I think its half because your moving and half because your mind is on something's else.
Hope I helped! :)

June 23, 2013 at 3:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Go to a fancy hair cutting place once. Ask what they recommend. It will work! :)

June 23, 2013 at 3:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Maybe shave every day...?

June 23, 2013 at 3:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You're probably just a late boob bloomer, or you may not see have big boobs. Really, its not a bad thing. Lots of girls want big boobs, but I think it would cause bad back pain

June 23, 2013 at 3:58 AM  
Anonymous Natie said...

You did thanks

June 23, 2013 at 7:07 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey so I dont have big boobs and sometimes adults mistake me for a little kid. I am going into 8th grade. This drives me CRAZY. My mom said people said she looked younger. How do I ignore it :(

June 23, 2013 at 8:37 PM  
Anonymous Macy said...

All the girls in my class have there periods and boobs and I don't how do I get that stuff faster? And when should I start shaving my arms, legs, and pits? Than you!your biggest fan!!:):P

June 23, 2013 at 11:20 PM  
Anonymous Tiffany said...

What ages is this website for?

June 24, 2013 at 3:12 PM  
Anonymous pink-a-boo said...

Anonymous,
I'm going into 8th grade too and I still have what I call "pre-boobs". Remember, even though your boobs are growing in a bit late, they will grow to look about the same size as everyone else's. It may be annoying right now, but it will get better.
hope I halped!

June 24, 2013 at 4:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OK it feels good to know someone the same aga as moi is going thru late boob thing. Thanks pink a boo

@ Tiffany- OK I think it is for girls like 10- 14 but you have 2 check the actual site.

June 24, 2013 at 9:16 PM  
Anonymous Tiffany said...

Thx Anonymous!

June 27, 2013 at 11:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Emoclew that's welcome backwards to Tiffany.

June 28, 2013 at 10:51 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Jemma did u get my story yet??? I sent it months ago.

June 29, 2013 at 11:14 AM  
Anonymous Natie said...

Omg. I may still gt bullied (ta for the help) but this has made it so much easier. The guy i was talking about and I were vid chatting and he went all quiet. He said (and i quote(using nickname not real name btw)) 'Natie, this is awkward, will you go out with me?' omg and i said yes! So now we dont have to pretend anymore! I am so happy. He is my first ever bf and I am stumbling along but im stumbling happily.

June 29, 2013 at 3:40 PM  
Anonymous Natie said...

Thanks

June 29, 2013 at 6:11 PM  
Anonymous Natie said...

Awww thanks

June 29, 2013 at 6:11 PM  
Anonymous Coolgabs1216 said...

Good luck with your bf Natie!!!!!!!

:)

June 30, 2013 at 12:23 AM  
Anonymous Natie said...

Thanks!

June 30, 2013 at 2:45 PM  
Anonymous lulubellebabe said...

anonymous and gg thank you and all others who helped me and some other friends changed my bff mind she told her mum who told my nan who told my mum so bye!!!

July 1, 2013 at 2:02 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Totally just ask him! Im saying from experience

July 2, 2013 at 6:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Totally ask him out! Im talking from experience

July 2, 2013 at 6:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have medium sized boobs and I don't usually wear a bra because I can NEVER find a good sized bra. My mom says I'm fine without one, but I don't feel the same way. I've tried every bra size I can find, but they're all so uncomfortable. They're all either too small or too big. I've tried to use my older sister's old bras, but she used to have super tiny boobs so her bras leave marks over my breasts/chest. What do I do?

July 3, 2013 at 2:45 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

see if u can get measured. Maybe go to a lingerie store. I have never been there but i think they have all sizes evben though they are probably more expensive

July 4, 2013 at 12:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I went to a lingerie store and got measured. The lady working there said that I'm in between 2 of these sizes and they don't sell those sizes. I'm so angry..like, I'm 14 years old!!!! I should be wearing a bra, right? Another reason I should be wearing a bra is because I actually HAVE boobs. Also, it's not like my boobs are tiny A cups. HELP ME!

July 4, 2013 at 5:24 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Annoymous
so you took my advice and the thing is that you look at yourself and judje if u need a bra. I guess that you could ask your mom or something. Because maybe you could try B or c. Walmart also has some choices. And yeah.

July 5, 2013 at 3:22 PM  
Anonymous Natie said...

First of all, calm down. Right. I am in the same situation. Simple solution. Sports bra. They work miricles. You dont want one thats too tight. So perhaps get the bigger size. Maybe get your mum to adjust them a bit. Make up your own size! Hope I helped!
Natie

July 5, 2013 at 7:45 PM  
Anonymous amirah said...

I asked the pls many questions they never answer

July 6, 2013 at 12:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I haven't go boobs yet what age should I get them?

July 8, 2013 at 8:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

try another stor

July 8, 2013 at 8:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't have boobs yet when will I get them? help

July 8, 2013 at 8:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

so there's this boy..........

July 8, 2013 at 8:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

mmm boys what do I do of I like them but they don't like me?

July 8, 2013 at 8:29 PM  
Anonymous Coolgabs1216 said...

@ annymous
So u will get boobs when the time comes and if u like a boy but they don't like u just keep on going.

July 9, 2013 at 3:30 PM  
Anonymous kewlkatkitty said...

Guys, I have somethin' to say. I don't shower and wash my hair everyday. It makes my skin all weird. And my hair gets oliy really easy plus it gets dry easily....it's no gross. I wear deodorant. I make sure I have good hygiene.

July 11, 2013 at 1:00 PM  
Anonymous gg said...

Congrats and no prob I jusr like to help (:

July 11, 2013 at 8:00 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

@kewlkitty
maybe you need to wash AND condition your hair. Also you may want to use some face soap from the dollar tree it helps.

July 12, 2013 at 1:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

can I ever stop having periods

July 13, 2013 at 12:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

can i ever stop having period

July 13, 2013 at 12:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I really like a boy how do I know if he likes me?

July 13, 2013 at 9:57 AM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

@Natie
That is uber cute!!!!!!

July 13, 2013 at 7:27 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

@Anonymous
Periods stop around 50.

July 14, 2013 at 12:21 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

You don't do anything. Let him make the first move!

July 14, 2013 at 12:22 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

I agree with them... YOU HAVE TO TELL YOUR MOM!!!!!

July 14, 2013 at 12:24 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

What she said is totally true!

July 14, 2013 at 12:24 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

This is normal. Dont worry! Some people start as late as 16 so you shouldn't be worrying now!

July 14, 2013 at 12:26 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

Plus you don't need to like guys! Who cares about them?! Us girls need to stick together!
;)

July 14, 2013 at 12:27 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

Just ask your mom. The worst that could happen is her saying no!

July 14, 2013 at 12:28 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

1. Ice cream
2. None! Its easy, breezy, and beautiful! ;)
3. None
4. Summer!

July 14, 2013 at 12:29 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

No need to be scared. Its normal for doctors to discuss these things. Its their job and they need to make sure that you develop properly.

July 14, 2013 at 12:30 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

I agree, shave it more often. That's really all you can do unless you can confidently wear it.

July 14, 2013 at 12:32 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

We can't really help you choose. YOU decide which one you like best. Looks, personality, etc. Think of what you look for in a guy.

July 14, 2013 at 12:34 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

No, not at all. There is no specific order for you to develop. In the end, you'll have it all!
;)

July 14, 2013 at 12:35 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

Think of it this way, one day, it will be better to look younger than older!
;)

July 14, 2013 at 12:36 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

There is no way to get these things faster. (If there was, no girl would be complaining now) you can shave whenever you decide that you don't want the hair on your body!

July 14, 2013 at 12:37 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

Way to be positive!

July 14, 2013 at 12:38 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

That us ADORABLE!!!!!!!
: D

July 14, 2013 at 12:39 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

I think you should just wear a sports bra. These bras work for any size! Or, if you're desperate for the cup bra, order your size online. It will be more expensive, though

July 14, 2013 at 12:41 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

Ask your questions here and we will try to answer you!

July 14, 2013 at 12:43 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

They can grow between 10 and 16

July 14, 2013 at 12:43 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

You can't predict the exact time but they'll come when they're ready!

July 14, 2013 at 12:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

How do you know if a guy is flirting with you???????????????

July 16, 2013 at 9:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

To Annonymous on June13
So maybe you could idk wait. Its a shame that noone has answered your question. Has anything changed between him and you and I mean why did you not tell him your status????? I hope it gets btr

July 17, 2013 at 3:15 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

You can tell by the way he behaves around you. of course there is the obvious flirting, showing off, smiling, etc. you can tell if he talks to you a lot, like, suddenly, or if he just compliments you all the time.

July 19, 2013 at 12:04 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

look at my reply to an anonymous on July 16.

July 19, 2013 at 12:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear PLS,
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~im 11 and I don't know what padded bras are
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I have a crush and I wanna tell him I like him I also wanna be his girlfriend but at the same time I am not sure cuz his mom and my mom are like friends and work together and do you know how to get him to be my boyfriend

signed

confused aka aileen

July 19, 2013 at 5:30 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

thanks pink a dink I think this guy likes me because he always like shows off his skills I LIKE him but he lives in VA.

July 19, 2013 at 11:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My friends hasn't been texting me back! And the thing is, is that she is moving why isn't she texting me when she is about to move.? Also since she hasn't been texting me I have been scared to go back to school. I am afraid that people will be mean to me cause she told them to. I am afraid that the friend hasn't been texting me is mad at me! Why isn't she texting me!

July 22, 2013 at 12:11 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

Sure, no problem!

July 23, 2013 at 11:33 AM  
Anonymous confuzzled said...

HALP! I just started my period! And I was just wondering, how should a pad fit? I really hate them, but it's just a few days out of the month, and I'm done for this one, so I can deal lol. Just wondering if there's anything I can do to make the situation more bearable :3
confuzzled

July 23, 2013 at 1:15 PM  
Anonymous Pinkadink said...

A pad should feel comfortable. If you are OK with feeling your pad, you can use a thick pad. If you don't want to feel it at all, you can use a thin pad, even if you have a heavy pad. I've used heavy absorbency pads from Always that were still super thin!
I wouldn't really recommend this for your first couple of periods, but if you want to, you can use tampons.
Good luck! ;) :*

July 25, 2013 at 3:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So I have these yellow streaks in my underwear and I'm just wondering...is this discharge?

August 1, 2013 at 9:11 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Can youi ever make puberty not so awkward?

August 12, 2013 at 7:55 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi,
I'm new to this and for some reason I can't send you a question because of some error. If you want to ask people who have been waiting a long time, that's fine. This is the only place I can ask. I was wondering, how do I feel more comfortable because I don't. The reason is I feel so underdeveloped and all my friends are at normal stages of puberty and I feel like I haven't even started! Please help because I feel like the odd one out, thank you
~Sophie, 12
PS. Maybe some good news? Today I found two dry, cloudy-white streaks in my undies! I don't known if that's discharge but if it is then I'm happy. If it isn't then I guess its back to waiting! Thank you in advance. Xx

August 20, 2013 at 5:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I seriously need some help here!
I keep getting these crushes on boys from my class and for some reason, I want to get rid of that 'crush' feeling. I DONT want it to 'develop'!!
Besides, although I am 12, my whole school considers 'crushes and love' as taboo. If I try and raise the topic with my friends, they're like 'EWWWWWW!!! Sick!'
PLS HELP!

August 29, 2013 at 7:41 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sophie, I guess you got your discharge. I've been having it for 1 1/2 years now and see blood occasionally, but no signs of a REAL period yet. So it might take some time before your /./ comes.

August 29, 2013 at 7:42 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a question girls and I need advise!!!!! Ok so I got my first period and it lasted for threee days. My second one came a month and a HALF later and lasted for ONE DAY. I'm late for my third period and I'm soooo scared. I'm thirteen and am in eighth grade. Is this normal???? I need advise!!!!!!!!!!!!!

September 27, 2013 at 9:12 AM  
Anonymous Sweetlittlerockstar157 said...

I REALLY WANT SMALLER BOOBS! Here is the deal I'm only twelve and I wear a E cup I hate it so much I want to have smaller boobs because all my friends were A cups or b cups help!!!

October 10, 2013 at 8:58 PM  
Anonymous Crushing badly said...

I like, this boy he's so nice and cute but, I'm afraid to tell him and my old boyfriend. Help!

October 22, 2013 at 1:12 PM  
Anonymous Squirt said...

I think i need a bra, but i dont want all of my friends to know i have them. i wear them at home sometimes but my brother teases me about it. if i wear the padded ones that i think i need my boobs look bigger and that will make akward situations. WHAT DO I DO???? i need help. Lots of it! and i also like this guy but i dont want to tell anyone.

November 19, 2013 at 6:03 PM  
Anonymous Luv this girl! said...

@ Squirt,
If you don't want people to know, wear a jacket over. Don't let brothers tease you either. And don't worry about friends knowing, because sooner or later, they will be wearing one too. And if you don't want the padded ones, just wear the training ones. But once you get big enough, you will probably want padded ones. Hope that helps.

December 1, 2013 at 4:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear pls,
I have a crush on this boy and I want to tell him I like him but were best friends his mom and my mom know each other I want to be his girlfriend but he is dating my friend
Signed scared

December 14, 2013 at 9:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear pls,
I have a crush on this boy and I want to tell him I like him but were best friends his mom and my mom know each other I want to be his girlfriend but he is dating my friend
Signed scared

December 14, 2013 at 9:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear pls
I want to walk from home to school and school from home but I haveafter school and I dont like it my mom doesnt let me walk home what do I do p s im 11

December 14, 2013 at 11:22 PM  
Anonymous SmileLifeIsShort239 said...

@Anonymous on December 14 @9:51,

Tell him how you feel.Or tell your mom.Tell him you don't see him as just a friend.If youre scared of rejection,at least you'll know whether he feels the same way or not.

January 2, 2014 at 11:25 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey! I wasn't invited to a party I really wanted to go to, everyone else was invited. I used to always be invited to parties, but now I am always second choice? is something wrong with me? im never nasty, but I am quiet, is there a problem? They are going shopping and they are going to a sleepover after, they are now forever talking about it, going on and on about what shops they will go to, and what movies they will watch at sleepover, its really getting to me, should I say something??

February 12, 2014 at 3:13 PM  
Anonymous love ya waffles! said...

Im, sry. You should speak up, maybe then you all can take turns being the one out to make it more fair. If they disagree and don't try to help, then they aren't very good friends maybe then you should hang out with someone nicer :)

February 14, 2014 at 8:11 AM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

ps if you give me a logo i want it to be a superhero panda i love pandas and super heros

March 6, 2014 at 12:34 AM  
Anonymous Short said...

Hi
I'm the shortest girl in my grade I'm only 4'5 and I'm 11 and I want to be taller

March 7, 2014 at 6:52 PM  
Anonymous Asker said...

Dear Jemma,
I don't mean to be rude or anything but I've also
asked my questions several times and have asked them in ask the PLS, and i have never recieved any answers from them. I don''t think there is
anything wrong with my questions, Now i don't
know what to do?, what can i do?
Thank you very much, Jemma

March 11, 2014 at 2:09 PM  
Anonymous Justcarlee150 said...

Thanks a lot Jemma, i have been wondering:
how do i know if a boy likes me?

March 11, 2014 at 2:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dear anonymous,
let me start here, i also believe he probably likes
you, i could be wrong and the thing is its okay
to date someone two years older than you, he
is not way too older than you. The next thing is
he probably asked you those questions to see if
you are going out with someone to see if he can
go out with you!, The third thing is you should
probably atleast try to talk to him a little bit
like open up a conversation
hope it helps

March 11, 2014 at 2:36 PM  
Anonymous Emmy said...

At school and on the weekends, I think I joined too many clubs and activities. I want to quit, but my parents said I can't until 6th grade! Now, I don't have time for myself! Please help pls girls.

March 30, 2014 at 2:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i can't figure out how to use a tampon . my mom tried to teach me but i'm still confesused ? i just want to be prepared.

April 3, 2014 at 11:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Everyday, at school everyone expects me to be quiet and never shouts.when I do shout or yell, everyone thinks it is a miracle and makes a big deal. what should I do?

May 10, 2014 at 7:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I feel like my first period is coming and i want supplies ready but the thing is me and my mum are quite shy about talking about it and also it might happen in four years or something

July 1, 2014 at 4:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

just ask, she'll understand :)

July 13, 2014 at 7:47 PM  
Anonymous Stephenie said...

Dear Jemma,
I told a boy I like him but since that day he keeps looking at me I look up and smile and then look up what those that mean
Yours truly Stephnie

July 22, 2014 at 4:47 PM  
Anonymous Carina said...

Dear Jemma,
Ok so this boy I told I liked him so since that day he smiles at me looks at me like for the entire day so one day I was in the reading garden and all the boys came up including him so I felt sombody watching me I look up and see him looking at me and smiling

August 4, 2014 at 9:44 PM  
Anonymous Cariana said...

And all the boys said ohh abrariana started what those that mean
Yours truly,
Cariana

August 4, 2014 at 9:45 PM  
Anonymous giselle said...

hey my crush is moving. what do I do? help fast!!! yours truly,Giselle

August 5, 2014 at 7:05 PM  
Anonymous reader said...

i think my granddad will die. help

August 10, 2014 at 1:57 PM  
Anonymous Coolio12 said...

Bluetiful Blossom: Don't keep going out with him! If he keeps dumping you, he isn't worthy of you.

January 2, 2015 at 4:26 PM  
Anonymous Coolio12 said...

Jemma: When will I have breasts?

January 2, 2015 at 4:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok so there was this super cute guy, and he just walked up to me and said do u have a boyfriend, I was like get out of here, then he said, I can't, you're in my heart! Then I was like go away right now, he was like you're in my heart, you're all I can think of , I just want to kiss you a million times! And I ran away. He followed me and said now kiss me, kiss me all night long! He kissed my cheek, and touched my boobs! Help!

August 15, 2015 at 10:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I want to start living healtiher ya know, eat healthier and exersize. But I dnt have the motivation for it, and I dn't quite know what to do. PLS pls help!

December 20, 2015 at 10:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a mega crush on this guy. what do i do

May 8, 2016 at 1:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i cannot talk to my mom about ANYTHING!!! PLS pls Help!!
-Kayla

July 3, 2016 at 1:07 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I need a bra soooo bad. But I'm NOT asking my mum. How do I get her to give me one ? I do have cami bras / crop tops but my mum just gave them to me .... When I was 12 ! I've had my period but I just showed her my pants.... But it took me 6 MONTHS
Thanks so much
Xx
Bev

July 26, 2016 at 3:28 PM  
Anonymous Grace said...

I'm with ya there, Bev. For a long time I felt like I needed a bra but I was to embarrassed to ask. It turned out my mom just bought some without asking! I'm just nervous about how I'm gonna tell her I need the next size up!šŸ˜‚ Anyway, my point is, it's most likely your mom will come to you! And if not you could always send her a casual email or text.

August 23, 2016 at 11:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear pls
Please help me! I really want to lose weight because I feel chubby, especially when I stand next to my friend. She weighs more than me and her waist is the same size, or let's face it, probably a bit skinnier, but she's like 5 or 6 inches taller! And she makes fun of other people a lot. I usually go along with her, not because I'm trying to fit in, but because she's usually pretty accurate and I like to laugh at people to. Just one problem, her brother told my brother that my friend makes fun of me when I'm not there! He might have been just saying that to make me feel bad, and aI asked her if she does and she said that she doesn't, but I can't shake the feeling that she really does, because she finds the flaws in almost everyone and makes fun of them, and I feel like there are a lot of things about me that she could make fun of. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to make her sound mean, but it hurts more because in every other way we get along really well, and I don't want to think about her that way. PS I'm 12 years old and 4'11" and my friend is around 5'4'

August 23, 2016 at 12:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Please hurry up and post my comment!

August 23, 2016 at 12:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a mega crush on a guy that's almost 4 years older than me! what do i do??!!

August 24, 2016 at 9:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I sure wish someone would answer my comment.

August 27, 2016 at 5:10 PM  

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