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If you asked for advice today, it's your lucky day! We're going to publish every question received today and open it up to the fabulous advice givers who read the blog. We're also including the time the question was sent (in Eastern Standard Time).

Let's give these girls some good advice.

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Dear PLS,
If I'm 11, am I too young for makeup?
Taia, 11

Dear PLS,
I have a crush who likes me and i like him my BFF told him i like him im going out to dinner with him soon with our families. i am very embarrassed if he asks me out what should i say?
Olivia, 10

Dear PLS,
My height is shorter than average. I am just 5'2" What do I do?

Dear PLS,
Every girl in my class has padded bras and I don't and I feel left out what should I do
No Pads, 11

Dear PLS,
I think I may have started puberty butt I scared to ask my if we can go shopping 4 padded bras instead of going for outfits help me how do I start a conversation
LR, 10

Dear PLS,
I've got my period already but my best friend hasn't got her period yet but she has the discharge from 5 years now and she's very worried, so am I.
Can you help?
Natalie, 10

are periods scary?
bo-zephyr, 9-10

Everyone in my class knows what sex is but I'm not certain. Please help!
Shelby, 9

Dear PLS,
I wear a bra but my boobs aren't that big and everyone says I don't need a bra. What do I tell them?
Kenli, 11

Dear PLS,
We only have two bedrooms in my moms apartment and my grandparents live in one and my brother, mom and I live in one my grandparents are leaving and my brother wants that room but I want it because of my periods.
Worried, 10

Dear PLS,
I told my crush how I feel about him but even though we're friends I get all jealous when other girls are all touching him what should I do?
LR, 10

Dear PLS,
My crush knows i like him, even though i never told him. I used to talk to him all the time but since he found out, he keeps avoiding me, and now he's changing schools too. Should i be happy or sad?
Emma, 12

Dear PLS,
I'm going into grade 7, and i have the biggest boobs in my grade. I have B almost C cups, and everyone is in A's. Are my boobs too big for my age or are they average?
B.B.T.E., 12

Dear PLS,
How Do You Keep Track Of Your Period?
Britt, 12

Dear PLS,
What do I do if  I'm the new girl?
Paniz, 10

Dear PLS,
I still haven't had my first kiss yet and it's embarrassing because all my friends have.. I feel left out and I want my first kiss!
Alexa, 13

Hi pls,
i got my period a:-), and the color was bright red is that normal?
Anny, 10 (the worry princess)

Think pink!


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Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear pink locker society : Happy new year, any ways um my school is having a prom soon and my boy friend hasn't asked me to it. Should I be worried? He has been acting kind of strange lately and he dose not talk to me as much as he used to and he was seen going out with a new girl. ( That's what my best friend says ) and he seems as if when I talk about the girl he is hanging out with he wants to tape my mouth or some thing. I want to know whats up with him and her I do not want to be a girlfriend number two I always hated that when a boy hangs out with two girl ( I some times wonder how a boy can live with him self when he dose that!) Please help I really love him and I don't want to lose him nor make a mistake when talking to him about her thanks, Monster high girl.

December 29, 2013 at 7:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Alexa don't worry I'm 13 and i'm okay. Who cares about ur friends kissing. if they have a problem dont worry. boys are weird, your not missing out.

December 30, 2013 at 2:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear clawdeen wolf, those boys aren't getting the message. just leave them. dont get in the middle or you'll just get in trouble. trust me the same thing happened to me and i just walked away. eventually it died down. guys dont stay in fights that long. and don't think that its you fault either.

December 30, 2013 at 2:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

should I wear make up to school or not only in 5th grade?

January 2, 2014 at 8:46 PM  
Anonymous Cupcake_cutie said...

@anonymous about makeup:
hmm... I would say no. I'm in seventh grade and none of the girls at school wear makeup. there's still plenty of time to grow up, know what I mean? ;) maybe wear makeup to special events like dance recitals or something.

Think (your favorite colour)

January 4, 2014 at 10:40 AM  
Anonymous Sparkles said...

No Pads-It dosen't matter if u have no pads as long as it keeps u covered(In my opinion)

January 6, 2014 at 8:51 PM  
Anonymous your opposite said...

dear Alexa,13,
i'm opposite you but i can tell you this:just keep waiting and it will come

January 8, 2014 at 2:43 PM  
Anonymous Born2Bme said...

hi. How long should a period last? i havent got mine yet, but i dont mind im only a 6th grader.

Born2Bme, 11

January 8, 2014 at 3:21 PM  
Anonymous Sydney J. said...

Honestly...yes, you are too young for makeup. I am 13 next July, and I will be allowed to wear makeup when I'm 15. Hope this helps! ♥

January 13, 2014 at 10:17 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

All girls r different.Get to know girls around you one at a time and soon they will be easy to understand.

January 15, 2014 at 5:33 PM  
Anonymous girlygirl@heart said...

clawdeen wolf in order to answer this question I need to know how old you r cause depending on how old da boys r depends on how they will respond to situations

January 20, 2014 at 2:55 PM  
Anonymous Ask me!! said...

@shelby: you can ask your mom like: mom, where do babies com from? How they get there?

Or visit: beinggirl.com.uk, kidshealth.com

January 21, 2014 at 5:37 PM  
Anonymous Lola said...

Clawdeen wolf: you can say them: if you keep fighting I'll never choose one of you.


January 21, 2014 at 5:42 PM  
Anonymous Lola said...

@born2beme: mine last only 4 days and come when I was 11

January 21, 2014 at 5:44 PM  
Anonymous Nikki said...

this is like your average question...i like a boy and he likes me back but he doesn't know i like him back. this exact situation has happened to me a while back and i went for it and told my crush i like him and we basically avoid each other now, even though i knew he liked me and he knew i liked him. so basically im scared thats gonna happen with my new crush. what do i do?

January 30, 2014 at 6:33 PM  
Anonymous Boy Drama said...

I used to like this boy, he rejected me. i was sad but another boy liked me and i started to like him back and i finally got over my crush. me and my new crush are friends and i was happy. but now my old crush likes me... im starting to develop feelings for him again, but i like the new guy too! what do i do??

January 30, 2014 at 6:36 PM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

you poor thing! you sound like ur at war w/ urself! you should start out as friends with both and see what happens. if they start to fight over you, say, why cant i be friends with who i want?

January 31, 2014 at 12:20 PM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

i was in the exact same situation! i think that you should not tell ur current crush that you like him, but flirt flirt flirt! this will reveal that you like him without you actually telling him you do

January 31, 2014 at 12:24 PM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

@monster high girl
it sounds like your boyfriend likes another girl. :'( you should confront him and say, hey so do you like that new girl? my friend said she say you and her hanging out. is this true? please tell me if it is i just want to know the truth."

tell me if this helped!

January 31, 2014 at 12:35 PM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

ok ive tried to help every body so now i would like somebody to help me. i am home schooled and like a boy from my old school. we were good friends until this year when my mom decided to homeschool me. i like the boy alot and want his number. i want to go back to public school next year but there are a ton of great things about homeschool. i need help!!!!!!!!!!!

January 31, 2014 at 12:42 PM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

February 3, 2014 at 2:48 PM  
Anonymous Miss_Veela11 said...

Hey there. I have an answer to a question. This is my opinion, but 13 year olds should not be kissing guys yet. I think that it is too young. And also, don't kiss a boy unless you have a VERY serious relationship with him. If it is a not-so-serious relationship, you might end up breaking up with him in a couple of weeks. My opinion...good luck!

February 12, 2014 at 11:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You are not too young for some makeup at all! As long as you dont pile it on like the girls i have seen withinn my friend range do you should be fine:)
Love,Lilly x

February 27, 2014 at 8:15 PM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

ok im going to try to answer all these questions
ok number one is
Taia, 11
ok your not to young to start wearing make up but you have to wear only a little or else the school could freak out. so just put a little bit of lipgloss or a little bit of eyeshadow but don't go full out ok.
now for
Olivia, 10
don't be to embrased if he ask you its a good thing then but I can see if you can be a little nervous just relex and take a chill pill it will be fine.
now for
its not a big deal if your a little shorter then other girls your age one kid in my class before I was home schooled was really short but he didn't care I mean its not the end of the world.
ok now for
No Pads, 11
it ok if you don't have pads I really didn't wear pads until I was 12 because I ussally wore sports bras but any way its ok to feel left out I know a bunch of girls at my school had gotten highlights even my bffs and I felt left out but I said to my self if everyone has the same thing and I don't it kinda means im special. so don't see it as everyone has what you don't see it as your special and if you really want pads ask your mom or older sibling to buy some for you.
now for
LR, 10
so if you want to start to talk to your mom about this just tell her if shes got a sec when it looks like shes not buzzy and just ask her It wont be that hard I talk to my mom about that stuff and nothing akward happens because its part of growing up. so don't be afraid to ask.
now for
bo-zephyr, 9-10
no its not scary at all its part of nature it does not hurt and its not scary so if your scared don't be.
now for
Shelby, 9
its ok not to know compelty about sex so if you really need to know ask a parent, older sibling, or a trusted adult.
now for
Kenli, 11
ok so just say so what if you wear a bra and you don't really need one its ok to try it before you breast start acally growing.
now for
Worried, 10
so just tell your mom that you want that room because of your period and I bet she will let you have that room ok.
ok now for
LR, 10
its ok to be jealous when other girls are touching the boy you like or liked because you might or still have feelings even though your just friends it will never change how you feel about him so just take a deep breathe and think for a moment and remember you agrred to be just friends.
now for
Emma, 12
its ok to be sad and happy at the same time but most of the time if this happens girls are sad but I cant tell you how to feel so just find out if your sad or happy.
now for
B.B.T.E., 12
its not bad that you have bigger breast then the some girls in your grade everyone devolps different ok so if your breast are a little bigger just remember that's how god created you ok.
now for
Britt, 12
ok to keep track of your prieod is to rember every mounth that you have one and that it last from 2-7 days so on the first day be pepared for it to last up to a week.
ok now for
Paniz, 10
so if your the new girl in school then you should try to mengle and make friends so if your bullied you new bff will help you
now for
Alexa, 13
its ok if you hve not had your frist kiss I have not either and all my friends have to I felt left out to but if you really want your frist kiss get a bf and then after awhile he will kiss you so good luck.
now for
Anny, 10 (the worry princess)
oh yeah its normal because its a light flo it wont be that dark the frist time
now for
(like the name) so if your shy its ok my brother is super shy but to stop being shy you got to take a deep brethe for a second and think why are you shy and what can you change to not be shy.
now for
Anonymous said...
Um O.K I've been haveing boy trouble
ok so how you tell them to stop fighting is that you say you like them only as friends and your not a piece of proberty that they can buy your a human being so tell them that that fighting is not going to change anything.
ok that's all I can do for now hope I helped tell me if I did bye bye. THINK PINK

March 5, 2014 at 5:00 PM  
Anonymous molly moon said...

just go to kidshealth.org. people say sex is gross but its not, its a part of life

March 7, 2014 at 5:21 PM  
Anonymous Beauty ** said...

How do i know if a boy has a crush on me?

March 11, 2014 at 1:09 PM  
Anonymous justaCarlee said...

to Taia, So Taia, so you asked if you were too young to were makeup, so I definitely recommend asking your parents if you are allowed to wear makeup? And if they allow you to, i suggest starting with light makeup, because heavy makeup
is too heavy for us! guesing

March 13, 2014 at 2:19 PM  
Anonymous justaCarlee:-)- said...

Bo-Zephyr, who asked are periods scary, not
really it wasn't for me but i think it depends on the
people, well it might be scary for some girls
to see the blood come out but thats normal so no
worries:-)- CHEERS! don't worry, not really that

March 13, 2014 at 2:26 PM  
Anonymous justaCarlee:-)- said...

dear comment approver, don't know what your name i sorry but if my comments don't appear, i am not
sending my last name or email, honestly you know, and Carlee is not my name at all sorry but i had to send this to you

March 13, 2014 at 2:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Response to: I NEED HELP! How do I ask my mom for a bra??? What I did: Whenever I'm at my moms house, she tucks me in. I have an older sister so I got all of her hand-me-down bras. At night-time, I was super scared but I just said," Hey, mom?''
Mom: Yeah
Me When can I wear what's in, um, my, um, second drawer.
Mom: What's in your second drawer?
Me: Um, you can look.
Mom: Oh, the bras!
Me: Yeah...
Mom: You can wear them whenever you want. You're old enough to wear them. I'm sure Mackenzie (my BFF) wears them. Goodnight!
Me: Night!
I didn't die- I made it through, and it was as simple as that. Now if only I could get the courage to ask her about "Girl- Stuff" Hope I helped Now can somebody help me about asking my mom about "Girl-Stuff"???!!!

March 15, 2014 at 9:59 AM  
Anonymous Almost siblingness said...

I would like a baby sister but my mom is too old to have a baby

March 16, 2014 at 6:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear you,
I'm 11 and4'5 is this normal?

March 16, 2014 at 7:03 PM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

Shelby, 9
ok so yeah its gross but its a part of growing up so i would say to ask your mom or a trusted adult you dont want the wrong info so if your confused like i said ask your mom ok and people shes not gross for asking.

March 17, 2014 at 11:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh k can someone help me I dont know if I have had my first period or not beacasue one time I saw some blood on my underwear but its been 4 months so I dont know and I dont feel comfortable talkin with my mom about this or really anyone else about this

March 25, 2014 at 4:11 PM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

Clawdeen wolf
ok so tell them that fighting wont help them get you that your not probrety that your human and that if you have to yell at them its ok just yell at them. it dosent matter if they saw you first you like who you like they dont pick.
hope i helped think pink and god bless you all.

April 3, 2014 at 5:27 PM  
Anonymous Kami9 said...

hi guys I have a crush on this boy and I don't know if he likes me

April 5, 2014 at 9:59 PM  
Anonymous ama said...

oh dear. you proply hated seeing boys fighting. it must be worse when there fighting over you. takr a deap breth and try to calm down. if they dont stop fighting tell an adult you trust.

April 9, 2014 at 3:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear no pads,
Try asking your mom if you can go shopping for a new bra.You may be scared but remember your mom went through this to. Maybe pick out a bra with removable pads. If this doesn't work it's okay, no one has to know you don't wear padded bras. And besides your great personality is what really matters.

April 11, 2014 at 10:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Halloween wolf,
Don't worry. That's not true. Eventually when your breasts are fully developed they will even out. No matter how big your breasts are they will produce the same amount of milk.

April 11, 2014 at 10:19 PM  
Anonymous ama said...

hi! maybe i should change to akymicackward because its akard and so am i. you see im scared that one day someone will see my pants when im doing [or failing] cartwheels. so should i keep doing cart wheels. [ and what about the name idear?

May 8, 2014 at 11:17 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dear everyone, i am a grade 5 and they are going to talk to us about puberty and they wont separate girls and guys for everything so the girls might end up also learning about the uh um boys thing and the guys about the vagina help , grossed out and one more thing i am very shy how do i handle it plz help

May 15, 2014 at 8:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You're an early bloomer, congrats on your entrance into womanhood! You and your friend have nothing to worry about. Girls can have symptoms of periods for years and still not get them until they're 12! You can get your period from the age of 8-16, so you don't have to worry anymore!! Keep smiling!

May 25, 2014 at 5:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Do you think I am the right size for my age? My bust is: 28inches. My waist is 24inches. My hips are 26inches. My thighs are 18inches. My wrist is 5 inches. I weigh 44kg. Please help as I feel a bit heavy out of my friends.

May 28, 2014 at 11:50 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sorry. In my previous comment, I forgot to say my age. I am 13 years old.

May 29, 2014 at 7:22 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't worry! The same EXACT thing happened to me. What got me through it is saying to myself 'Who cares who he thinks! A whole bunch of people like me.'

July 10, 2014 at 11:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Im in ninth grade and my height is just 5 '3'. Most of the girls in my class are shorter than me. But i just want to grow taller like my dad and mum.
Pls, please help....!

Little Worried girl

July 14, 2014 at 5:23 AM  
Anonymous Steph said...

Dear Jemma,
I rlly like this boy and I've told him I see he looks at me every time wat those that mean
Yours truly Sthephine

July 22, 2014 at 4:34 PM  
Anonymous Emgirl said...

Shelby - I don't think that you need to know what sex is at nine. Trust me, it's gross, and you'll be told when it's the right time. Your parents just want to protect you.

July 23, 2014 at 5:08 PM  
Anonymous Coolio12 said...

LR- I had the same problem! But I just asked, and I got it.

January 2, 2015 at 3:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dear Taia,
please please please dont wear makeup, you're only 11 and you dont need to enhance your face. you dont have wrinkles, you dont have bags, and it is the most infuriating thing when i see young girls walkign around with lipstick and mascara, it isnt the slightest bit necessary. i remember in middle school when kids wore makeup and it was just the worst thing because those girls were also the brats or the stuck up snobs who act like they're 30 when they're 11. so i guess what im trying to say is, take a minute to pause. live in the moment. dont always trya and speed up your life

January 7, 2015 at 7:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok so this is really off topic but... well me and my bff are writing songs together, but we don't want our parents to know, were a bit shy of showing it to them. Well I emailed my bff some lyrics, but our parents saw the email and now we're super scared. What do we do. The songs weren't bad, but we're just shy of showing it to them
Shy of parents

August 15, 2015 at 7:36 PM  
Anonymous Help Me Please said...

Guys please tell me - what do periods feel like? Thanks x

January 20, 2016 at 12:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

you should just be kinda fearless and be all "hey mom guess what? I write songs" chances are she did the same kinda stuff when she was your age and she'll be cool about it.

February 9, 2016 at 1:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


March 6, 2016 at 2:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ask your mom if you want to wear make-up . If she says no ask if you can wear it on special occasions .

May 27, 2016 at 10:15 PM  
Anonymous Vivimouse9 said...

Dear Taia ,
I am nine and I wear make-up. You should ask your mom if you can wear make-up . I hope you are allowed!��

May 28, 2016 at 9:25 AM  
Anonymous Big eyed puppy said...

I Just don't Want to be offensive in any way but I am afraid of offending my friend by telling her I got into Sage.She is super smart and often gets jealous when others have big academic achievements.What can I do?��

June 15, 2016 at 11:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have an adorable crush and I desperately wanna b his girlfriend he is going 2 the same high school as me! HELP

June 30, 2016 at 4:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey, I was wondering when is the right age to start dating - I know everyone is ready at different times. I mean just hanging out together and with friends not proper dinner dates etc. I don't want to go out with lots of people for very short periods of time because I know people like that and its waaay too much drama! Sorry for long post! :)

January 4, 2017 at 6:19 PM  
Anonymous kennison milan said...

iv started and i think im the only one in my grade who has had one plz help me i dont know what to do and how do u make ur self stand out more

January 16, 2017 at 6:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi! It's Pnkgrl! It sounds like you guys are either scared or left out. If you think something isn't normal about you, chances are it's just fine. Just in case talk to a trusted adult (But I'm sure everything is okay). If you are feeling left out, that's completely normal! I feel left out in things too. All you have to remember is your an amazing girl and if you want to fit in that's fine, just make sure you are always yourself and you don't do things just so you can be "cool". I really hope this helps! See you guys later!

May 10, 2017 at 10:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have been liking this boy since third grade I am In sill like him I am in sixth grade now.He asked me to be his girlfriend and i said yes.I was happy to be his girlfriend but sad that I have to lie to my mom.My mom says I am not allowed to have a boyfriend.Me and him have been in a relationship for two months now.How do I tell my mom Or do I have to end this relationship.😢😳😕.I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO PLZ HELP ASAP

November 21, 2017 at 11:39 PM  
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