Middle school tips needed NOW!

Megan writes that she's worried about middle school and wants to hear from girls who have been there/done that. What are your best tips for starting middle school?

Here's mine: Be open to meeting new friends. That means inviting people to sit at your lunch table or agreeing to be partners in class with someone you don't know yet. Remember new friends are silver and old friends are gold - you want a little bit of both!

What do YOU suggest if you want to be happy in middle school?

Think pink!


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Anonymous Periwinkle said...

Be bold. If you go up to people and smile, chances are you could make friends pretty easily.
ALWAYS have extra pencils. People are always stealing them and you lose them all the time, so ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS have pencils.
Um, lets see… oh! Know where your classes are. Take a few minutes before school starts and find your classrooms. It's a lot easier than scouting the school a second before it starts trying to find your class.
Keeping a planner is good. Last year I didn't, and I wish I did.

Hope I helped.

August 29, 2013 at 2:37 AM  
Anonymous AwesomeSauce said...

Remember: everybody in your grade is about to start the same middle school journey you are. Everyone feels different and awkward - even the "cool kids" do sometimes!Be confident and let people see the true your - that is how you'll make real friends that want to see you succeed. The teachers are generally nice and willing to help out new students, so don't be afraid to ask questions in private to them if you are struggling with their subject. Good luck in middle school, and try to make the best of it! Stay pink :)

-last year of middle school for me!!
Hope this advice is helpful :)

August 29, 2013 at 9:04 AM  
Anonymous Sofie said...

-Join lots of clubs, they don't have to be sports teams
-Get to know as many people as possible
-Talk to boys, not just other girls
-Make a good first impression
-Do your homework on time

Hope this helps Megan xxx

August 29, 2013 at 12:28 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi! Okay so...I think my neighbor/guy friend-ish likes me. Some stuff he does/has done:
-plays with my hair sometimes
-pats me on the shoulder, back
-one time he patted me on the head
-he goes out of his way to talk to me...for example last night he, his brother, me, and my brother were taking a walk and he kept falling back and walking with me. also he was walking pretty close :3
-he'll do stuff for me just because I ask..like my protector or something lol :D
Do you think he likes me?
Thank youuu :D

August 29, 2013 at 1:06 PM  
Anonymous Coolgabs1216 said...

Ok so for me transferring to middle school was super difficult I had to leave behind friends and I got stressed out a lot. My advice for you would be be friendly and confident talk to different people about things nor too serious. And most likely you will have someone who will want to b your friend.

August 29, 2013 at 7:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I just graduated middle school last school year, and believe me, starting middle school was nerve-wracking for me! It's an entirely new level of your education. The important thing to remember is your level of commitment as a student. Always do your best and put out your full effort. You will reap from the rewards after toiling long and hard.

In regards to friends, I went to a new school where I did not know a single person. Just be patient and know that there must be at least a single person who you could befriend. Be open-minded and willing to find that person. Also, take risks and be courageous. If you find yourself wanting to be friends with someone, don't be afraid to approach her and ask her something about herself. A kind demeanor is something that draws the attention of all.

Best of luck, Megan, and all with similar circumstances! Just know that you will get through it! Hang in there - the experience will be memorable and last a lifetime! :)

August 30, 2013 at 4:01 AM  
Anonymous Alara xox said...

To Megan!

One thing. Be yourself. One thing I learnt is that you need to follow your instincts and do what you think is right.

I got in trouble once for doing something I probably shouldn't have done, but that was when I learnt not to let people control you. You need to be the best you can be and only you can help yourself achieve that.
- a tip is to stay organized. If you are organized it makes the experience so much less stressful.
- choose friends that make you happy. Friends and socializing are a big part of the experience.
-SMILE:) Let me tell you a story. The was a guy who jumped off the golden gate bridge. Later on the police went through his house and found this note "Today I will jump off the golden gate bridge, if someone smiles at me, I wont jump" This story made me cry. There is so much a smile can do to effect your c=day and others.

From Alara xx

August 30, 2013 at 5:29 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Annnoymous on August 29 I think he may like you but I would not make any moves just watch for a while if he like likes you he will probably admit it.
@ Alara- wow i never heard the Golden gate bridge story it is kind of sad.

August 30, 2013 at 6:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey i need help i just started middle school and im still flat chested i havent gotten my period and im super short what do i do

August 31, 2013 at 3:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

wow the golden gate bridge story is sad and how long does it take till your comments are posted

August 31, 2013 at 3:27 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

Don't be nervous! I'm sure everyone is, like I was. To me the first day was the hardest for me. I had so many lockers and I had to get on class on time. I felt clueless because I've never done it before. Of course I've walked into the wrong class before and forgot what my locker combo was and where my locker even was. ;)
Try to be involved. Like sports, orchestra, drama, choir, art, band, dance, cheer and be in multiple clubs. I mean you're going to go there for a couple years, why not enjoy it!
Don't get tangled with drama. Gossip is not good for anyone. I know you'll probably have crushes but don't focus on them too much. It's stressful.
Be on time to class and pay attention. Do your homework and study for tests. Keep a planner to keep track of things u need to do and stay organized. One thing I was bad at was I procrastinated a lot. Don't do that! :)
Don't try to fit in. Everyone is unique. It would be a boring world if everyone was the same. Make some new friends.
If u want to look good, u got to be clean. Shower and wash your face. At this time people will start wearing make up. All i did everyday was curl my lashes and smack some lip gloss and lip balm on. If I had a pimple I would wear concealer and some days I would brush on some mascara. You don't have to wear any makeup but definently don't overdo it.
Most of all, smile and have a good time. Enjoy middle school. Good luck Megan!
~Bluetiful Blossom

August 31, 2013 at 4:28 PM  
Anonymous Rosebud said...

Just walk into your new school with poise and determination. ALWAYS have extra pencils, smiles, and the thought of new friends. If some girls your age are sitting together, you might go up to them and say, "Hi! My name is _____, can I sit with you?"

September 1, 2013 at 10:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi! When I first started middle school I was super nervous. I didn't know the school and I was the shortest one in my class. I didn't know the teachers at all so I was nervous for who I was going to get. There was also some mean girls in school that I didn't want to get mixed up with. Basically my tips would be:

-Try not to get in other peoples business.
-Don't worry about being nervous. In the end it will work out.
-Just walk up to someone and say hi. It seems hard but you have got nothing to lose.
-Loosen up. Don't be scared to ask a teacher or principal for help. That is what they are there for anyways right?
-Choose your friends wisely. Get to know them before you make a real commitment to them. Make sure they are a good influence on you.
-Take your time learning the layout of the school.
-Stay organized and on top of homework.
-Don't sweat the little stuff.
-Try to stay out of trouble.
-If you are being bullied, no matter how much the bully threatens you not to tell, just do it anyway. After the first time I told on them,
I felt not only much better, but like I could tell anything.

Tell him that you kinda like him. For me it was hard to get it out but i felt better once I had. It is totally normal for you to have a crush. If he doesn't like you back then just well be friends. Even if you still like him!

Good luck with everything.

Smile and wave!


September 1, 2013 at 6:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Be your self make sure you have real friends that don't talk about you in a bad way and stick with the right crowd

September 1, 2013 at 7:02 PM  
Anonymous Pinkie Pie said...

Dear Jemma,
How do I stay out of trouble in school? I've got a very important year in school and I need to concentrate but a lot of things get in the way. Crushes, friend problems, bras and stuff like that. I also just got my period. I just want to stay out of these things but have fun.
- Pinkie pie

September 2, 2013 at 7:18 AM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Ok so let me tell you somoething about puberty. SOmetimes it takes a long time for things to hapen. For example I am now in 8th grade and I wear an A cup which is a little smaller tha people in my grade but overalll I am fine. And i am only 5 ft which is average. Im telling you this to say that you dont need to worry about growing up so fast. Because once you start wearing a bra you r stuck with them. Be cool with yourself and in time you will grow think pink

September 2, 2013 at 10:57 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

help i really need help now !!!! im in middle school i just started and im flat chested i still havent gotten my period and im super short my shortness is becoming a problem because there are big crowds and its hard to get through them i almost got a detention because i was late to my class but the schols so big i also really need help with my other things and this as well ........ how do i concvence my dad to let me get a phone or facebook or instagram i love my dad but hes just to over protected since i moved in withhim because my mom went to jail i really like that hes trying to protect me and all but he's just to over protected

September 2, 2013 at 1:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I just hit puberty so this year will be interesting. Any tips?

September 2, 2013 at 3:58 PM  
Anonymous kewlkatkitty said...

@ Pinkie Pie-
Hey girl, I know exactly how you're feelin'! Just set aside some time each night to study. Even if you really want to do something, make sure homework is already done!

Also, don't be afraid to talk out problems with friends.

September 2, 2013 at 5:12 PM  
Anonymous Rosebud said...

To the girls who are late bloomers and not happy:
Your growing time will come, just not at the moment. I have lots of short friends under 5 feet and I'm in seventh grade. Just give it time and walk under that branch easily that everyone else ducks under or gets hit in the face by!

September 3, 2013 at 11:15 AM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

To stay out of trouble:
-know when you can be loud and when you can't. I know it's tempting to talk during class, so if you sit next to someone you think you will talk to, after class ask your teacher to move your seat.
-try hard to listen what the teacher is teaching. As you said, crushes, bras, periods, and things like that are on your mind. Try and clear your mind during class and concentrate on the teacher.
A way to have fun while not getting in trouble is:
-When you get home from school, do your homework and give yourself a certain amount of time to study (ex. 15 min. of study time for each subject everyday.) That way, you have a lot of time to talk to friends and watch TV, instead of having fun in class and getting in trouble. And if those things you mentioned are on your mind, talk to a friend or an adult you trust.
Hope I helped! :)

@Anonymous on September 2nd
Don't worry, I'm flat chested too, but I am average height. Every girl goes through this at different rates! To get around the school, walk with a buddy who is going to or near the same class as you that knows the school pretty well. When you're walking with them, make sure to remember shortcuts they take so soon enough you'll be able to go around the school by yourself. And about getting a Facebook or Instagram, show your dad how responsible you are. Do all of your homework, study hard and get good grades, and do your chores. This way, your dad will see how responsible you are and he will let you have one.
Hope I helped! :)

My first day of school starts tomorrow! I can't wait! (I actually like school)


September 3, 2013 at 3:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a bigger problem, because I am shifting to ANOTHER country and continuing my schooling there. I dont think it will be that hard, because I am from that country, but I am still very scared. Tips PLEASE???!!!

September 4, 2013 at 6:08 AM  
Anonymous Coolgabs1216 said...

Annonymous-If you need help walking with your books walk with another friend. Also if u think your dad is overprotective maybe you could try to negotiate on certain things. It may take a while for them to say yes but your dad just has your best interest at heart.

Annonymous- puberty is interesting. It is a time of growth and things changing.my tip would to be get closer to a mom or someone you can talk to. They will help if u have questions. And lastly have good friends thy may b going thru the same thing u r and trust me friends make this much easier.

September 5, 2013 at 8:08 AM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

Totally of topic but what if there was a PLS app for android and apple devices?

September 5, 2013 at 11:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yeah he does.

September 6, 2013 at 1:46 AM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

PLS please help!
I am in seventh grade and most of the people in my classes I don't know! I'm really shy around people I don't know and I don't like meeting new people. I know I will have to for when we do group and/or partner activities. Can anyone help me to be more outgoing and meet my classmates? Thank you so much!!!!!!!


September 6, 2013 at 5:07 PM  
Anonymous swagchick said...

Im just starting middle school and its AWESOME like a thought.But I need some help with three questions 1. at lunch i sit with strangers that look at me and then laugh at me what should i do 2. im not good at makeing new friends any tips 3. i really want a boyfriend how can i flirt

September 7, 2013 at 9:34 AM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

It would be awesome if there was a PLS app!!! That was exactly what I was thinking!!!


September 7, 2013 at 12:28 PM  
Anonymous Rosebud said...

First week of 7th grade done! Phew, it wasn't as bad as I thought. Almost all the boys who I've had crushes on are in the other group of classes, so I don't feel like I need to act cool during class. :)

September 7, 2013 at 4:58 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

@PurpleRose- Purple Rose I would say to put yourself out there and talk to someone who looks to be nice. MAke an open ended conversation mostly.
Swagchick: Its gr8 u love MS with the strangers I would look at them and smile or ignore them they dont know you. For making new friends talk to a lot of people. Lastly,you reallly dont need to flirt with any boys just smile and be confident and some boys will most likely talk to you.

September 7, 2013 at 6:58 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

I am wondering I have been trying to get a story unto the writers blog for a while but I dont know what you expect what do you expect. Do you want stories with FUNNINESS, A STRANGE PLOT, A SAD STORY HAPPY ENDING, SCI FI, POEMS ??????? PLEASE>>>>>> Get back to me I REALLLY want to get a story on the blog

September 7, 2013 at 7:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Middle School can be HARD. Basically because everyone is in a hurry to grow up. You may say your not but deep inside you are, even if you don't realize it. This also starts to bring up problems like "popularity" and you might feel like you don't fit in. But if you have great friends, what's the problem? Show "popular" Who's boss! Good Luck!

September 7, 2013 at 10:07 PM  
Anonymous swagchick said...

thankyou @coolgabs1216

September 8, 2013 at 10:40 AM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

It could give you updates and have a bunch of cool fuetres

September 8, 2013 at 6:11 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Jemma I just moved to a new school and I am really scared that I don't know my way around. What should I do?

September 9, 2013 at 3:07 PM  
Anonymous Abbey :) said...

Honestly, middle school is a piece of cake! Remember that you aren't the only one starting middle school. Make friends!! They are so helpful and are probably feeling just as scared as you are. Make a good first impression. Be kind and confident. Sign up for clubs!! Clubs are such a fun way to get to know more people! And remember to be yourself!! :) I hope I helped and really you have nothing to worry about!

September 9, 2013 at 6:24 PM  
Anonymous Periwinkle said...

Guys? I'm going in for my first physical soon, and I don't really know what to expect. What will the doctor do?

September 13, 2013 at 12:36 AM  
Anonymous Qi said...

Okay firstly I'm from Australia. Am I the first Australian?...Moving on.

So I used to (and still kind of do) like this guy. I've liked him since September 2012 and I told him in May, and we were really good friends from Jan to May, but since the end of July we've been drifting apart. Yesterday I wrote him a letter talking about how I liked him for a year and how I was sad he didn't care and that I'd like to be a better friend to him and hoped he'd do the same. However when I gave it to him today one of my friends said he was acting really sad and kept asking her if I hated him. He didn't talk to me at all since he read it. I'm worried. Have I made a mistake?

Thanks guys! :D

September 13, 2013 at 8:48 AM  
Anonymous #annawesome advice giver said...

Maybe he likes you but he might of been struggling with other problems in july then now he might have remembered you liked him and that he hasn`t had time to be friends with you so he might feel bad and think you hate him

September 13, 2013 at 2:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Does anyone like 1 Direction?

September 13, 2013 at 10:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

be yourself ,show you ,not who others want you to be . this is where you dont have to worry a bit ,only be your self .

*TIP : try to be in as many activities as you can ,in school people will know you more and you will have lots of bff's all the time . not of drop of sweat to worry.

September 13, 2013 at 11:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Anonymous,
I like one direction!

September 14, 2013 at 11:26 PM  
Anonymous Qi said...

Thanks Anna :)
The thing is that it's now the weekend (I gave it to him on Friday) and every time he is online he doesn't talk to me. Also my friend says he is too scared to say anything to my face but he still hasn't said anything online which is a problem because I see him at school tomorrow. In Australia it's not like middle school where you switch classes for subject ifs like elementary til 7th grade. So...I don't know what's going on... @_@ my friend says whenever she mentions the letter he goes offline.

September 15, 2013 at 2:03 AM  
Anonymous Coolgabs1216 said...

@ qi
So maybe u should talk to him. He may have misunderstood your letter . Hopefully u guys can get together again

September 15, 2013 at 2:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok so one of my friends is mad at me because I told some of my other friends who she liked. I texted her yesterday and I sent her a paragraph saying im sorry and all that jazz. She texted back and said ik ur sorry and explained to me what happened and at the end she said I didn't really want you to tell them k. Then I said sorry about that too and I shouldn't of told them. But then she texted back and said whatever floats ur boat...... I not sure do you think she is still mad or are we cool now?

September 15, 2013 at 4:58 PM  
Anonymous Abbey :) said...

Yeah :) who doesn't like One Direction??

September 15, 2013 at 10:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

a need help,help.a boy likes me but i dont any advice

September 16, 2013 at 9:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Who is your favorite in One Direction?

September 17, 2013 at 12:35 AM  
Anonymous Rhianne said...

We got to choose our options at the end of last year and now I've found out that I'm the only girl who chose engineering. I don't know what to do. Should I change class or stay here? I stick out like a sore thumb.

On an unrelated note, I love 1D! Anyone else British here?

September 17, 2013 at 1:07 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Ok so maybe your friend is still be mad you may want to talk to her about this to see her perspective. Annonymous Sept. 15
@ annonymous sept 16- so this boy likes you this is exciting but it is up to you what you want to do. whatever you do whether flirt or ask him out its ure choice

September 17, 2013 at 5:06 PM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

Thanks Coolgabs1216!!!


September 17, 2013 at 8:06 PM  
Anonymous Miss Independent said...

Hi really quick question. There's this shy guy at my school. We've met each other already, have three classes together and I still don't know how to talk to him. Also I am very awkward at times any help would be awesome.

September 17, 2013 at 11:40 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey anonymous on aug. 31
I know so many girls, well a few in each grade, who fit into that catagory! Well, i'm not sure about the period part for them, but i dont have a period yet, and im in 8th grade. My advice, dont worry about it. Just try to make friends :)
Pink-a-boo (on my iPod and unable to give myself a name other than anonymous)

September 18, 2013 at 12:36 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

That is an awesome idea! Also, a suggestion box to put suggestions like this in...
Pink-a-boo (on my iPod where for some reason it won't let me put in a name other than anonymous)

September 18, 2013 at 12:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I suggest to just start talking to the person whos sitting next to you. That's actually how I met my two current best friends! Who knows, you might have something in common after all! If there's awkward silence, you can always you an Icbreaker or small talk. I, personally, am horrible at making small talk but then I found out a few things that you can say. You can talk about something you like (example: "sooooo, read any good books lately?) or you can just say something random (example: "sooooo, how do you feel about cheese?) you can say that I always use so. It's my favorite silence breaker, but if you'd prefer using something else you can.
Anyways, hope i helped!
Pink-a-boo (on my iPod which for some reason wont let me put in a name other than anonymous)

September 18, 2013 at 12:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

In response to anonymous on September 7:
But don't be mean!
It's okey to show them your confident and can't be bullied
But don't be mean

September 18, 2013 at 12:56 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't believe you made a mistake Qi. You sound like you were trying to keep a friend. Just explain to him that you don't hate him, that you like him. I don't get why he thinks you hate him, but if you clear it up, I hope you guys will be friends once again!
Hope I helped!

September 18, 2013 at 1:01 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Anonymous on sept. 15
I'm not quit sure what to make of that. Texts can be hard to read (the emotions behind them, not the words) i suggest talking to her in person. It's easier to see how she's taking it
Hope I helped!

September 18, 2013 at 1:04 AM  
Anonymous LovelyLittleLucy said...

I was PETRIFIED to start middle school (or high school here in Wales) and it wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be. I know you've probably heard that and you thing that im just saying it to make you fee better, but honestly it is amazing and you'll have so many amazing experiences>

Live long and prosper xx

September 18, 2013 at 2:36 PM  
Anonymous SkyDolphin16 said...

I'm British!!!

September 18, 2013 at 3:49 PM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

Thanks Pink-a-boo!!!


September 18, 2013 at 8:27 PM  
Anonymous hatlover said...

Woah, i completly forgot, i turned 12 on september 15th!!!!!!!!!!!

September 18, 2013 at 9:30 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm in middle school and I have to change in the locker room for the first time. I have an outie though and I'm afraid that all of the other girls will make fun of me. :(
What do I do?

September 19, 2013 at 7:28 PM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

HAPPY LATE BIRTHDAY!!! Don't worry, that's what I felt when I turned 12. Actually, I still keep thinking I'm eleven! I'm turning 13 in less than a month! :D


September 20, 2013 at 6:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well changing in the gym. On gym days wear a undershirt then you don't have to feel so embarased. It works. I'm in 8 th and its ez.

September 20, 2013 at 6:59 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Always be nice! Most people will immediately find a smile much more attractive than a frown. I think the bestthing to do at this age is to try and blend in. Don't make attention towards yourself. Be aware that friends are going to come and go. You aren't in elementary school anymore : middle school is baby steps into the real world. Pay attention and do all your homework. Don't get distracted. If you get stressed, it's okay. Don't tell anybody your locker Combo. When you are on your period, wear a long shirt so lockerrooms aren't embarrassing. Be social but not too social. Don't worry about having a boyfriend. Everything will be okay.

September 21, 2013 at 11:12 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

heres a head start:find a friend and ask them if u could spend middle scholl with them

September 21, 2013 at 6:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok so things have been getting different between me and my friends ever since this one girl got mad at me. Ok so once I got to the lunch table they just left. Also I think I always hear them talking about me in one of my classes. What is happening all I am is nice to them but, I guess that isn't good enough. I haven't done anything to them. What is happening do they hate me or what are they started to hate me what is happening. I don't even what to go to school anymore and I am crying right now because I feel really scared

September 21, 2013 at 10:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok so please don't cry it's ok. The girls sound really snobbish I would either try to talk to them or your friends alone to see what is going on or just find new friends. Don't forget to hug your pillow and pray if you are a Christian. May peace b with u .


September 22, 2013 at 7:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Be yourself. Don't try to be someone you aren't- you'll just be living under a fake personality. And that's NOT GOOD!

September 23, 2013 at 5:33 AM  
Anonymous kewlkatkitty said...

So this is year 2 for me middle school-wise. I am 6th so it is my second year, and I still am not that good at this whole switching classes thing. Here-

We are supposed to leave each classroom at 00:10 (that was just an example). Like 2:10 and/or 11:10. ALways at a :10. So-
Today in math class I gathered up all my books at 11:10 to go to reading. And my teacher Mrs. B is always making me late by not dismissing us until 5 minutes afterwards. And she yelled at me because she was going to let class go on longer. Yet, not too long ago she was giving the class a lecture about not being late! What do i do???

September 23, 2013 at 3:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh yes if you are shy try going for talking to some nice people they will talk back I tried it and I have got gr8 results

September 23, 2013 at 7:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Be yourself, participate in class, smile at others, be friendly, start conversations with other classmates and you're ALL SET!! I wish you plenty of luck!!

September 26, 2013 at 2:02 PM  
Anonymous Want TRUE love said...

hey so i have liked this boy for 1 year now and i told my friend lets call her jas so i told jas i liked him and she said she would hook us up and so she said he said yes i was soo happy intill i asked how she did it and she told me "well you know he likes me so when i told him you like him he said he wouldnt go out with you but he said he would do it for me" I dont want him going out with me just for "his" crush. what can i do hes going to ask me out tommorrw

September 26, 2013 at 4:44 PM  
Anonymous kewlkatkitty said...

@ Want TRUE love-
Maybe that guy isn't right for you then...also maybe you should have a talk with your friend...

September 26, 2013 at 6:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OK so right now I just really need a place to vent to anyone who listens. My life is kind of a mess. I am feeling so many feelings at once and I feel like A PIMPLE has erupted on the nose of my life. My number one problem is with this girl. SO she makes me so angry sometimes because she will talk to her other million Bffs and leave me hanging like I am not a friend . I mean she also always tells me her feelings but doesn't care about mine. And all of this hurts my heart I feel like crying and stuff. But the most confusing part is that JM (her initials) may be angry and ignore me one day then be nice the next. All of this is a bunch of confusion. I feel like crying writing this. And I cant turn to my mom I can but Id have a 99% chance of crying. I want to tell her how I feel she still considers me her friend. But I dont know how she will react because I mean she may just clam up on me. SOMEONE i need advice. So desperate. :(
OH yeah and I have a question for Jemma I really REALLY like this boy does this mean I love him ???

September 26, 2013 at 6:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


September 26, 2013 at 8:34 PM  
Anonymous kewlkatkitty said...

@ anonymous-
Okay girl. Trust me everything isn't as bad as it seems. Hormones can make you feel like a speck of dirt is the end of the world! But, I do understand what you're going through. One word: Drama. I think that this 'friend' may not be your friend. This happens a lot in middle school. People who were your friends last year clam up on you. Or they only are 'friends' with you when they want something. But, then again, maybe you just need to explain to her (politely) that you need someone to listen to you and you want her to be that person. If she doesn't listen after that...Maybe you should move on.

September 27, 2013 at 3:56 PM  
Anonymous want him back said...

ok so im just starting middle school and my ex is totally ignoring me i want to be friends with him again help

September 27, 2013 at 4:59 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...


September 27, 2013 at 9:30 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

How do I get a guy to like me?

September 27, 2013 at 11:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@want him back
I would try being very nice to him and smile at him and just start random conversations with him. Eventually,he'll realize you being ever-so-kind-and-friendly and he'll start being nice and friendly to you and you'll eventually become friends. If he refuses though and it seems to you that he doesn't want to be friends then just leave him alone. It's ok, you tried,you wanted to be friends again,he doesn't want to,oh well. It's not your issue. And don't be hurt if you don't get the respond you wanted!! Always be strong, and believe in yourself!! Good luck!!

October 2, 2013 at 9:08 AM  
Anonymous jamesly said...

Middle school is no different! I've only noticed that people say meaner things more often. Just be open and kind and DON'T follow people who swear and try to act cool all the time, those are not good examples.

October 6, 2013 at 10:51 AM  
Anonymous Isobel said...

my boyfriend keeps trying to snog me!!!!!!!!
(tonges involved!!!!!!!) what should I do???

October 6, 2013 at 5:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

First things first:
There is a school dance at my school for halloween and all of the girls have been asked out to the dance. And then there is me. A lot of the girls rejected so I know there a couple girls dateless and the boys that are, are very nice. I also have this crush on a boy in my class and he hasn't asked anyone out. It is not that I don't like being alone. It's just the way that it's happening.
Please Help Now!!

Thanks so much

October 9, 2013 at 6:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@ Isobel
What does snog mean?

October 9, 2013 at 6:01 PM  
Anonymous wtdfmmd? said...

Hi there
I am having trouble with a monster mash dance on halloween. It has to do with being asked out and what not. They always have a slow dance closer to the end and if I don't have a date then I will be stuck to the floor like a floor flower. Would it be wrong if I asked a guy out instead of waiting for someone to ask me or is that wrong? There is a guy that got rejected and I was thinking of asking him. But then there is also my crush. I know that rg (rejected guy) would be easier for me to talk to about it but c(Crush) well I might not even get around to it. I get jitters thinking about it. What do you think that I should do cause I am seriously stuck right now. They are both nice. Both cute, but I know one a touch better than the other. I know rg a little better, so should i go with him? I also want my first kiss and my Chance with rg would be much stronger than with c cause I haven't gotten to know him yet. If there was no spark with c than it would be over and jeopardize the friendship that is forming. But if i go with rj than my chances with friendship could also be in danger. But i think that rj is more forgiving cause he has asked the same girl 2 years in a row and got rejected both times. What do I do.???

October 9, 2013 at 6:32 PM  
Anonymous wtdfmmd? said...

What does snog mean?

October 9, 2013 at 6:32 PM  
Anonymous wtdfmmd? said...

Please hurry with my comments and questions!!

I am dying

October 9, 2013 at 6:32 PM  
Anonymous ynh said...

@ Isobel
I say break up with him. If u really like him than u need to have a serious talk with him and don't let him tell u that it's fine and to get over yourself

October 9, 2013 at 10:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my best friend talked about me behind my back and said something very mean and she doesn't think I heard what she I do?

October 10, 2013 at 9:09 AM  
Anonymous hth said...

You need to tell an adult that u trust and talk to her. Say that you have lost all trust in her and that you thought that you guys were better friends than this. She needs to know what she did was wrong and having you and an adult talk to her about it will help.

October 11, 2013 at 12:22 PM  
Anonymous SNAD said...

Still need a date

October 11, 2013 at 12:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Omg I feel so bad for you!!
That is definitely NOT a TRUE friend!!
Don't be friends with a faker who's taking advantage if you!! Maybe she's only being your friend cuz ur smart or pretty or popular?? My advise it to show her that YOU aren't bring her friend and shell eventually realize. Then,she'll come over to u and ask you why you aren't and then tell her ur feelings and how you feel about her and tell her what u heard and your very hurt and ask her why she said that. Good luck!! And I Harpor I helped you and your situation!!!
@Anonymous on October 10

October 13, 2013 at 7:49 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a crush on this guy that I met. He lives all the way in Philly and I'm from Arizona. I really like him and I text with him mostly everyday. How do I get him to like me back.

October 14, 2013 at 4:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@annonymous- I totally know how you feel I really like this guy and he lives in a totally different state. My advice would be to casually flirt by sending him a smile message. But please dont send any grosss pictures to him of you that wont end well.
Oh yeah and I have a problem. SO this girl at school I ride the bus with I wrote her a note saying my felligs some being that I feel like sometimes she ignores me and how she comes to me when she wants something. And sshe sent me a stupid note back saying that I was speaking with a foul tounge for saying my feelings. I am definatly going to give up on our friendship soon. But should I write her back or not? PLEASE HURRY AND COMMENT. And I really dont want this to be a big blowout or anything but I am afraid that if I dont answer she will b very angry at me and not talk to me ever not even say hi.

October 15, 2013 at 7:34 AM  
Anonymous hth said...

Don't send her a note back trying to reason with her. If that is the type of person she is then it's just not going to happen. I have dealt with similar stuff. Don't worry and don't go out of your way to not be nice to her back. If she is going to be like that, then just let her go. She isn't worth it. I am sure that you are nice, so go make other friends.

October 15, 2013 at 7:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Don't right a note back cause then u will sink to her level.

October 15, 2013 at 7:06 PM  
Anonymous hth - Please help me! I am trying to help other girls so help me please! said...

Hi there
I am having trouble with a monster mash dance on halloween. It has to do with being asked out and what not. They always have a slow dance closer to the end and if I don't have a date then I will be stuck to the floor like a floor flower. Would it be wrong if I asked a guy out instead of waiting for someone to ask me or is that wrong? There is a guy that got rejected and I was thinking of asking him. But then there is also my crush. I know that rg (rejected guy) would be easier for me to talk to about it but c(Crush) well I might not even get around to it. I get jitters thinking about it. What do you think that I should do cause I am seriously stuck right now. They are both nice. Both cute, but I know one a touch better than the other. I know rg a little better, so should i go with him? I also want my first kiss and my Chance with rg would be much stronger than with c cause I haven't gotten to know him yet. If there was no spark with c than it would be over and jeopardize the friendship that is forming. But if i go with rj than my chances with friendship could also be in danger. But i think that rj is more forgiving cause he has asked the same girl 2 years in a row and got rejected both times. What do I do.???

October 15, 2013 at 7:16 PM  
Anonymous wallflower said...

I think you should trust your gut on this one. If you prefer to ask your crush out, go ahead! And there's no shame in him saying no, either. It's better than never asking at all. However, if you feel more comfortable asking rg to the dance that's fine also. If all else fails you can just go with a group of friends, which is a lot of fun too. Don't be afraid to not have anyone to dance with at the slow song. I'm guessing not a lot of girls will actually participate in that anyways. Best of luck!

October 17, 2013 at 6:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

YAY!!!!!! 100 comments reached !)
hth- I agree that you should go with your gut I mean i havent asked a guy out so IDK what it is like...... if all comes to worse go with your friends and party :D

October 18, 2013 at 6:21 PM  
Anonymous I'm only nine said...

What does snog mean

October 22, 2013 at 8:28 AM  
Anonymous Bianca said...

Hi I'm only nine so please do not be mean.Well ,you see there's a boy named Martin,and I THINK he likes me .But how can I tell him I like him?

October 22, 2013 at 8:35 AM  
Anonymous Mrs I've Been There said...

Bonjour girls! Okay, there is so many girls on here asking for advice on boys. How many of you have that one friend who's single but gives amazing relationship advice? Yeah, that's me. Number one: "How do I ask a guy out?" Honey that's 100% his job! Not yours, come on your the lady here, you wait until he has the nerve to do it! If you really want to, a simple, understated, "Will you go out with me?" with a cute nervous smile will do. Number two "my friends being really weird and making me feel down." Tell her! The next time she snaps at you, you snap back. Ask her what the problem is, and if you get nervous make it into a bit of a joke by just hitting her gently and telling her to stop being so moody. Number three: school can be rough. My tip to you is to keep your head down, do the work in hand, meet up with your friends regularly, and remember; its only six years of your life.
Stay beautiful,
lots of love, Miss I've Been There xo

October 23, 2013 at 11:46 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well if he likes you then wait for a while he may ask you out and all you have to do is nothing.
And has anybody heard of pinterest. com

October 27, 2013 at 5:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


October 30, 2013 at 10:47 PM  
Anonymous Dance4mylife said...

Well, middle school is the time to start on a fresh slate. That means, not a lot of people will know you (unless you all transfer to the same school) so you can add a little bit of change. Maybe change you hair, your clothing style, or even add makeup to your daily routine! Anyway, your first year of middle school is NOT HARD!!! The teachers will explain everything that you will need to know. Here are some tips to keep in mind to be the best student you can be:
- Do your homework
- Try to stay healthy so you don't miss school as much
- Don't keep asking to go back to your locker
- Don't complain about your teachers
- Don't cause drama
- Don't curse
- Follow the dress code
- Turn in everything on time
And last but not least, help others who may be struggling. This might seem like a lot, but it's proving to your teachers that they can respect you and you will need that respect later on. Okay, I hope you have a fun year in middle school! :)

November 1, 2013 at 11:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

All I'm gonna say is, if people are bullying you, here are the top tips:
1. Ignore them and walk away
2. Build an army. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! I've been through this since I was three. You've gotta realize that you have a whole range of people who can help:
People at church
With their help, you can stand up to the bully and 3.TELL AN ADULT! Or at least someone you trust. They can help the bullying stop. But that DOES NOT give you a right to make the bully feel bad. If you do that, that kinda makes YOU the bully.

I hope this helped many of you who are out there and getting thrown around big time. LOADS of successful people were bullied in their childhood, but look at them now!! Say NO to bullying guys, you are wonderful. :)
Here are some useful websites:

November 2, 2013 at 8:20 AM  
Anonymous Miss Independent said...

Aaaaaaahhhhhhhh! I actually just wanted to say it's my birthday I'm 14 now!:)

November 2, 2013 at 3:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Treat everyone the way you want to be treated!

November 4, 2013 at 10:18 PM  
Anonymous Daphne said...

If you're looking for friends, be friendly. One way that I got some friends was just lending out pencils until people hung out with me more. It sounds weird, but it actually works. all you need to do is be nice.

November 6, 2013 at 9:57 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Happy belated birthday :)

November 7, 2013 at 7:07 AM  
Anonymous Spaarkles_ said...

help i really need help now !!!! im in middle school i just started and im flat chested i still havent gotten my period and im super short my shortness is becoming a problem because there are big crowds and its hard to get through them i almost got a detention because i was late to my class but the schols so big i also really need help with my other things and this as well ........ how do i concvence my dad to let me get a phone or facebook or instagram i love my dad but hes just to over protected since i moved in withhim because my mom went to jail i really like that hes trying to protect me and all but he's just to over protected
*********************************************************Your period should not be a problem ladybug cause you might not get it til your in eighth grade like some of my friends.& there's nothing you can do about your shortness so work with it umm.. nicely but firmly tell the people in the hallway to step aside , being short isn't bad ! some guys find it very cute & LEARN YOUR SCHEDULE so you can move faster around&& you can throw the "emergency card" with your dad an ask how u would get in touch with him if there were an emergency ,tell hm that everyone has a phone and you feel left out&&&& YOU DO NOT NEED AN INSTAGRAM yeah its all cool and stuff but its unescassary!

November 29, 2013 at 12:12 AM  
Anonymous Spaarkles_ said...

I turned 14 on 11/11 too (;

November 29, 2013 at 12:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You should kiss a boy when he was very helpful on the cheek. When you do that often it becomes the lips and go on from there.

December 4, 2013 at 7:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What do u do when your bff and crush can't stand each other?

December 6, 2013 at 10:48 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Its okay if thry can't stand each other I have the same problem. Try to keep them apart by standing inbetween them and spending time with both of them. Remind them that you'll always be there for them and you'll spend an equal amount of time with both.

December 9, 2013 at 5:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

U could write a note saying that ur too shy to tell him urself but u like him and please reply to ur message if he likes u ornot

December 9, 2013 at 5:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

you could just tell him : " I like you okay and if you dont like me like that we can just be friends " Also you could get to know him better and just like chat and hang out more

December 31, 2013 at 3:52 PM  
Anonymous pink party said...

The boy I like, I never get to see, so you're lucky!

January 1, 2014 at 4:35 PM  
Anonymous pink party said...

My little sis and I do this thing where we tell eachother what celebrity they would look best with and she said I would look cute with Bradley Steven Perry and I was like eek.. Anyone else have celeb crushes? if so, who?

January 7, 2014 at 12:46 PM  
Anonymous Born2Bme said...

hey..i have aboy question girlz.
so, this guy in my class (i will call him J) sits infront of me and my friends keep asking me if i like him. Im not mad, its funny. BUt the truth is i kinda do like me, and my friends think he likes me too. What if he asks me out!? im in 6 grade, and my sis is in 9th. She hasnt had a bf yet, so idk if my dad will be ok with it, let alone my mother! so if he asks me out, and i want to say yes, i think i will. the thing is, do i tell my mom? what is my teacher finds out and tells my mom? so my final question is: If i get a bf how do i tell my mom?

help me girlyz!

think pink!

January 8, 2014 at 3:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well im a 7th grader and there are some things people do that you might not get used to like... oh people swear sometimes your friends dont do it in 5th grade but then they start to um there are cliques try and find one that you fit into also teachers they can be really annoying but try not to give attitude and be polite bullying gets worse becuase some older grades thimk they are better than you but let me just say stay tru and be you if your a "loud" person like me and is always live and turnt up then thats ok be u if your a book worm and quiet there people like that dont stress to much its easy and fum im middle school its just how you look at it

January 18, 2014 at 9:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just be honest with your mom she doesn't want a daughter who's dishonest she faced the same thing as you so be calm don't stress out too much or your mom thinks that you're in trouble

January 19, 2014 at 9:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Here's my advice, be yourself and eventually someone will notice the unique qualities you have, and will want to meet you. Also, if your shy or scared like i was, people might try to help you find friends if your lucky. Good luck in middle school it's a long hard ride that doesn't stop.

January 19, 2014 at 7:41 PM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

well born2beme,
you should first like when shes in a good mood ask her "hey mom how would you feel if I got a bf?" you should ask her before he asks you out.

January 26, 2014 at 9:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear pls, i know im not fat or ugly. I'm just not pretty. The only reason is my pimple marks and pimples. does anyone have a soap used for this?

January 28, 2014 at 9:06 PM  
Anonymous Wolves08 said...

Hey girls!Amazing tips out there.Although , what about
boy problems?Easy!

Do you ever think that you should dress or
act like that particular boy wants you to?Well all you need to
know is that boys should like you the way you are.If the boy you like asked you out on a date or even gives you amazing gifts, it's hard to respond if you're nervous.Don't worry!You must be yourself, be strong, and act courageous.If that boy acts like he wants you to not be yourself explain to him why it's wrong to you.If a boy you like doesn't let you be you, he should!

just remember, you are amazing just the way you are.

this is Wolves08 out.

February 2, 2014 at 7:44 PM  
Anonymous Wolves08 said...

OMG, i like this guy named kaden but i don't know if he likes me!

February 2, 2014 at 8:23 PM  
Anonymous Wolves08 said...

be yourself!!
:D :D :D :D wolves08 over and out

February 3, 2014 at 6:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

starting middle school is just like 3rd grade except usually more teachers. For me i had alot of friends that helped me not be too afraid to start middle school its not actually that bad as long as you keep your head up.And dont give up when things seem tough."When life gives you lemons make lemonade".

February 17, 2014 at 8:11 PM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

hey I love a guy, ya I am just gonna say it cause I really do love him but not want to do anything gross or stuff but I keep having dreams about him and I and this sounds weird and ull think im lying but im not. sometimes I can tell the future. I dream about things like making a bracelet or a certain situation where someone says something and then it happens. exactly how I dreamt it. I think that he was put in my life for a reason. he is the same religion as me and things and is very protective over me like as a sister/amazingly good friend. it drives me cra-cra cause now im homeschooled but never c him. I think about him aton like everytime I blink. whadoido?????????

February 23, 2014 at 9:48 PM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

idk if he likes you, I need details dahling! think polkadotted rainbow colours!!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

February 23, 2014 at 9:49 PM  
Anonymous coolcadycat said...

Wolves08 do u like anyone ? Is ur comment on this from previous experience?
Love coolcadycat

March 1, 2014 at 6:41 PM  
Anonymous wolves08 said...

Ok he is blond but dirty blond has cute face and always sits next to me when possible

March 1, 2014 at 6:45 PM  
Anonymous Savingtheworldwithwords said...

Going to middle school can be hard because you came right out of elementary and you have to make new friends but once you make a friend and get used to your classes middle school will be like a walk in the park. (:

March 1, 2014 at 10:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Have an emergency kit consisting of the following:
1. Pads/tampons (I can't stress this enough)
2. deodorant (from the travel section)
3. pen/pencil
4. hair ties/bobby pins
5. hand sanitizer (courtesy to germaphobes)
6. Lotion
7. perfume (after gym if you stink)
8. any makeup you use

April 7, 2014 at 8:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Middle school is a great experience, maturity will be reached at about the seventh grade. The first few weeks its awesome meeting new people, and later in the year everyone gets their separate entourages and cliques and its hard to make friends. Trust me , I'm an Eighth grader. It's best to be a 'social butterfly' at the beginning of the year, drifting from group to group you find so much love between your friends as you grow up together the bond is virtually inseperable!

April 12, 2014 at 5:20 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I totally agree! I am going to middle school this year and am SUPER nervous/excited. Thanks for the tips. :)

April 29, 2014 at 6:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ughhh! Middle school! That's probably the first thing a lot of PLS girls think when they hear those two words. But don't worry millions of people have survived it and so will you. There will be tough times like homework overload, breakups. etc. but you will overcome them!! :)
Keep in mind that you have this whole website full of girls dealing with this kind of problem. You are not alone! Keep smiling!

May 25, 2014 at 5:22 PM  
Anonymous Superz said...

ok so I just finished my first yr of middle school-gr 6! it was AWESOME. My advice is try new things. go out of your comfort zone. be urself don't try to be super cool or like someone else. manage ur time and keep a positive attitude. also the cool people aren't always the nice ones. BE KIND, BRAVE, AND YOURSELF!

July 18, 2014 at 10:56 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ok so should i try to make myself look flatter than i am or not if i want someone to like me. I'm 12 going to grade 7. also what to wear on the first day of school and at school sometimes my mom and i disagree on what to wear

July 18, 2014 at 10:58 AM  
Anonymous athena said...

i haven't been to middle school but i say just be yourself and be strong.YGG [you go girl]

p.s i am in 4'th grade

July 24, 2014 at 10:52 AM  
Anonymous Wolves08 ( Also Lupa Wolf Goddess) said...

Hey girls :( I need some advice on middle school. I dont know what its like so i am nervous. is it hard? is it stressful? please respond

August 5, 2014 at 4:34 AM  
Anonymous middleschooler (grade 5) said...

my advice (kinda funny)
-fall in love but dont get TOO obsessed
-get good grades but dont be studying ALL THE TIME bcz free time is needed, too!
-be organized but dont be a boring goody two shoes: have a wild side, too!
-be nice!!!!!!!!

December 16, 2014 at 7:58 PM  
Anonymous middleschooler (grade 5) said...

OMG wolves08---u commented on my bday!!

December 16, 2014 at 7:59 PM  
Anonymous middleschooler (grade 5) said...

look ppl---middle school can be hard sometimes but always remember:
-ur friends r there for u
-ur teacher and school counselor are there for u
-ur parents r too
-and ur siblings, whether u believe it or not
I know ur thinking NONE OF THOSE PPL CARE but they do. Try a positive attitude!!

December 16, 2014 at 8:00 PM  
Anonymous middleschooler (grade 5) said...

theres this girl thats not that nice and she keeps on asking me
"Wanna be best friends?" I dont wanna say yes but i dont wanna hurt her feelings!!! she isnt nice and i dont like her. Every time i just keep on saying
"i dont know what u mean, tell me" and she doesnt respond but i think shes starting to get it that i kinda dont want to bbe friends and I think she might be getting upset! HELP THIS IS URGENT!!!!!!

December 16, 2014 at 8:03 PM  
Anonymous middleschooler (grade 5) said...

i need help. Im at an all girls school and i have a crush but i never see him except for when my bro invites him over! Help! Also:
How to u get a guy to like you?

December 16, 2014 at 8:14 PM  
Anonymous anonymous_1234 said...

ok, currently im in middle school (grade 6). does having a boyfriend or wheels make you more liked?

May 28, 2015 at 2:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Is it wrong to be a tomboy because most girls inmy class are girly and my friend who's a tomboy is on holiday for the rest of the year. I feel left out hello

July 31, 2015 at 12:53 AM  
Anonymous Anna said...

Dear Jemma,
I have a crush on this cute guy and it seems like he doesn't like me! How do I get a guy to like me?

Please help!

July 31, 2015 at 3:53 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Megan, I'm starting middle school too after summer. So all I can say is BE YOURSELF and NOTHING can stop you!

August 10, 2015 at 9:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Probably you should ask

December 5, 2015 at 8:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This year I am going into middle school, HELP, I need tips!!!

July 3, 2016 at 1:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Here's some tips :Always have pencils people steal them u lose them no matter what have pencil .
Respect your teachers it will give u a foot up in class if your friends are mean to u then talk to them about it could have been some silly misunderstanding study study STUDY ask questions I mean your at school to learn right if u don't understand something don't be afraid to say something stay as neat as possible it will help a lot on at test if it asks pick one or all of the above and u know that to are right pick all of the above that's all I got I hope u have a good school year

July 26, 2016 at 7:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


July 29, 2016 at 4:16 PM  
Blogger S said...

Middle school is easy as long as you are yourself

December 10, 2016 at 8:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had something like that too!except when I was crying cause my friends were all against me,he hugged me!!!!

August 31, 2017 at 2:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had something like this too! He even hugged me!

August 31, 2017 at 2:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


August 31, 2017 at 2:58 PM  
Anonymous sara said...


Don't worry we've all been there.(i think)
Just smile at him and try to be his friend but DO NOT, and I repeat, DO NOT get stuck in the friend zone.I did that once and I Was stuck there for a while. I am not a natural at flirting so I kept a little competition with my crush instead. ( he was a braniac and skipped a year, blah blah blah)
Another thing is, make sure that you do not go all gushy in front of him, it does not make a good
impression. Instead show him that you are strong and just like him. He will appreciate you much more then.

Hope this helps!

BTW You should check out the crush section on wikihow. It really helped me.

November 8, 2017 at 2:37 PM  

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