So busy her head is spinning

Being busy can feel good, like when you're bopping from this to that and enjoying it. But sometimes too much is just too much even if you like the various activities and responsibilities you have. It sounds like Anonymous is feeling that way.

Hi PLS. I'm just so overwhelmed because of how busy I am. I feel like I never have any free time to relax. I have a lot of homework, tests, projects, assignments and so many different stuff and I'm so overwhelmed!! I'm not sure if it's just me or if that's what middle school is. I literally can't get even 5 minutes to just simply relax!! I need advice!!!!
Anonymous

OK, step 1 is to tell someone. Usually a parent is a good choice. They can help you slow down, get organized, or even reduce the number of activities you do.

Step 2 is to find ways to calm yourself. Anonymous says she can't get 5 minutes to relax. My advice is to make time for nothing. That's right, make some time - at least 30 minutes - to do nothing much. Look out the window, write in a journal, listen to music, go for a walk.

Step 3 is to check in with yourself after you make some changes. Do you feel better? Do you still feel overwhelmed? If so, it's time to go back to steps 1 and 2.

What else, Pink Locker girls? How do you manage busy-busy times?

Think pink!
Jemma

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

MUSIC + COMFY CHAIR + YANKEE CANDLES = BLISS

December 2, 2013 at 10:22 AM  
Anonymous Taylor said...

Dear Anonymous,
I usually either chillax in three ways:
1.Cooking! A great stress buster that makes you feel accomplished but relaxed. Try baking cupcakes- icing's the best part!
2.Reading! Grab that novel you've been crazy to read for so long!
3.Volunteer at an animal shelter or an old age home! It's fun, relaxing, and it makes you feel positive!

I've been through middle school- It's super stressy! I'm a proud high schooler now, though.You need to learn to balance your work and your chill time, because too much work can make you hate the awesome years of school ahead. I suggest you spend 30 minutes a day every day doing different things, from yoga to making frozen yoghurt! It's a guaranteed way to relax!
Chill!
Love,
Taylor

December 2, 2013 at 11:45 AM  
Anonymous SkyDolphin16 said...

@Anonymous
I am always in a rush and running around trying to get things done in time. I hardly ever get time to do things either. Trying to deal with all this gave me depression. I am now getting weekly counselling to help me but my advice would be to talk to someone and get help so that you don't get depression too. teachers will be there for you so just go and ask them for help with anything and everything you are struggling with. Talk to your friends too. My friends have been so supportive and friends can help you stay organised, help you with homework and act as moral support. I don't know where I would be without my friends!
Good luck and all the best!!!

December 2, 2013 at 3:42 PM  
Anonymous leaper said...

first comment???

December 2, 2013 at 5:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

maybe you could try to get it done right after it was given. You can do this with homework and projects. If you don't get it done or don't have time to its okay. you should take brakes in between to cut down stress.

December 2, 2013 at 6:22 PM  
Anonymous random152 said...

put in your earphones, grab the nearest good book, and find the quietest part of the house. even just 10 like this makes me feel relaxed. your get stuff done a lot quicker if you aren't stressing

December 3, 2013 at 4:04 AM  
Anonymous random152 said...

also start the homework on the same day it was given. that way there isn't any last minute rush. plus if you don't understand it then you can ask the teacher before it is to late

December 3, 2013 at 4:06 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey girl chillax we need to talk give time to just close your eyes and lay in your bed and sleep

December 4, 2013 at 7:50 PM  
Anonymous Pink a boo said...

I hate middle school homework too. It seems like I'm always in the middle of a project. Also, my science teacher told us we will have homework every night until 2014. Ugh. :P

December 5, 2013 at 2:57 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you so much everyone. I took all of your advise and it really helped!! I really appreciate it. Thank you!! :)

December 6, 2013 at 4:37 AM  
Anonymous AGirlInLove said...

Dear taylor,
Hey! Look, I have a question....
I really like this guy at school, but I'm too shy to tell him! Help!

December 6, 2013 at 6:43 AM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

@AGirlInLove
My advice would to not tell him u like him yet and wait for him to tell u he likes u. When I did that, the guy I like avoided me and thought I was crazy. If he likes u then go for it. You should ask his friend if he's single or if he likes someone. You should really try to become his best friend and like really close to him. A non awkward way to say it is to say, if I asked u out what would u say. But try not to say it out of the blue and gradually build up in conversation. Good luck! :)

December 6, 2013 at 9:32 PM  
Anonymous Miss Independent said...

He girl in love and me kinda got the same issue except my crush knows I like him. My problem is just I really like him and for what I know and heard is that he likes me to. He wanted to try to ask me out but didn't. I would like to go out with him but I'm not allowed to date until 1. I only got 2 years left. Any ideas how to wait

December 6, 2013 at 11:00 PM  
Anonymous PopcornPrincess said...

i have like a really huge boy problem and idk what to do with it at all.

so there are these 2 guys at my school that i hang out with all the time. they are best friends and stuff. i am tennis partners with one of them so we travel to tournaments and spend a ton of time together. i have a huge crush on him and stuff.

we always dance together at dances. we always sit next to each other. he takes care of me when i get sick and always listens to my problems. we argue like siblings but he always tries to make me laugh and he's also like one of my closest friends.

his best friend though, likes me and when my crush and i got voted cutest couple (we aren't dating or anything.) the best friend started bugging me and my crush about liking each other. he's making fun of me and stuff, and idk what to do! the best friend is convinced i like the crush, and he's trying to get me to tell him like if i actually do and idk what to do!? i don't wanna ruin my friendship with either but yeah....

December 6, 2013 at 11:49 PM  
Anonymous TrueMU said...

I want to be able to watch videos on YouTube, but my parents won't let me. How could I convince my parents that I should be allowed on YouTube?

December 7, 2013 at 3:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think you should tell them that you want to go on YouTube.

December 7, 2013 at 4:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

prove to your parents that you are mature enough and capable enough to use YouTube. Talk to them and tell them how you feel. After that, they might change their minds and realize that they should allow you to. If they still don't, don't get upset!! Your parents have their reasons for everything!! Hope I helped and wish u luck!! :)

December 8, 2013 at 2:39 AM  
Anonymous AwesomeSauce said...

@TrueMU
Maybe you can ask them to share an account with you and they can monitor what you're watching. After a while, you can prove that you won't be on any age-inappropriate videos and they will monitor you less and less. It may prove that you are very responsible with your choices!! hope it helps and good luck!! :)

I really like Youtube, not just for videos, but also for music - music to enjoy listening to and to help me concentrate when working on hw assignments. hope all goes well :D

December 8, 2013 at 2:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi

December 8, 2013 at 3:32 PM  
Anonymous Sophisticated Swiftie said...

@TrueMU

Ask your parents if you can watch, for example, a cover video for a song, or a funny video (WHAT DOES THE FOX SAY). Tell them that they can check your history after you watch.

@Popcorn Princess

I hate boy problems, they're really hard to deal with and they're all sticky situations. So, Guy #1 (let's say it's the tennis guy) is your crush, I believe and his best friend likes you and knows that you like Guy #1...? I think, but if it's like that, just say something like, "I think there's some chemistry between us." to Guy #1 if you want to tell him, so it kind of wouldn't freak him out, like if it was really blunt.

@Anonymous

I have a really tight schedule, too, and I'm in middle school (grade 8 :) ). I have band every Tuesday and swimming 3 times a week from September to June. I find that I also am buried under a lot of homework and I get stressed a lot. So when I feel like I'm completely buried under homework, I get my diary and write about my day or I take a nap. It makes me feel a lot more relaxed and I feel more focused on homework. But if that doesn't work for you, play music (I listen to Taylor Swift and The Beatles or I play guitar), sleep, do your nails, or just something calming that you love. But, don't be so focused on work and no play! Ask to hang out with friends like a get together or party once a month. :) It creates memories whilst work. :) It works for me, and hopefully it'll work for you!

@AGirlInLove

I have the exact same problem! I am head over heels for this guy at school and I keep telling myself I'm over him, but really, I'm just lying to myself. So maybe, if you're alone at sometime like if you're in the hallways at school during class and it's kind of empty and you're alone and you bump into him, you could go and tell him your feelings. :) It's hard, but you can do it!

December 8, 2013 at 6:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Mabye you should write him a note and have a friend give it to him. Mabye give him a warning about sex so you can know how he would be

December 8, 2013 at 8:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You can show them by saying they can try a monoriting system. (parental controls) and check by your room without bothering you (if your easily irratated) and make sure you are being responsible while watching vids

December 8, 2013 at 8:27 PM  
Anonymous Swagchick said...

What i do is i sit on my bed and breath when my mom calls me i tell her im breathing

December 8, 2013 at 8:43 PM  
Anonymous Swagchick said...

@popcornprincess
ask him to dinner or something or a movie just the too of you then ask him if he sees you two together

Hope I helped,
Swagchick

December 8, 2013 at 8:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You're right, being busy can be a huge problem sometimes. The way I deal with it is to use the steps above or maybe set some time aside to just relax. Maybe watch your favorite show while eating your favorite food or drinking tea while reading book. Something that makes you happy yet relaxed. You can also use this time to reflect and come up with some ideas of how you can decrease your stress levels. Maybe you can

December 9, 2013 at 10:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

YouTube has many different parental control settings, if you show then that, it could win them over. They may also see how responsible you are!

December 9, 2013 at 10:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It seems like your in what they call a "love triangle". Perhaps, and I know this seems cheesy, you should talk to the guy who likes you. Explain to him that you really like him as a friend but not more than that. It seems that he is teasing you because he realized you like his best friend. Also explain to him firmly and kindly that you appreciate being teased.

December 9, 2013 at 10:40 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

@TruMu
They are probably just worried about your safety on the Internet and stuff. Tell them that you are responsible enough to look at videos on YouTube and you'll only look at things that u r allowed to look at it. If they still won't let u, tell them that they can supervise u while u r on YouTube. Good luck! :)

December 9, 2013 at 10:53 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

@PopcornPrincess
Wow, you're in a tough situation. Here's what I would do, I'll politely tell the best friend to stop bugging u. You can tell your crush that u like him or ask him out only if u want to. If u think he likes u back, go for it but if u know he likes someone else I wouldn't tell him yet. I think u could without ruining your friendship cuz it sounds like u guys are super close but it's totally up to u. Hope it goes well! :)

December 9, 2013 at 10:58 PM  
Anonymous Help!!!!!!!!!! said...

Dear PLS,
I've got three questions.

I'm going to a new school next year. Are there any tips?

All the girls in my grade sit and talk to each other at break. I didn't invite 3 girls to my party and they've found out. Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I've got a big rivalry with someone in the younger grade and I like him as well. How can I let him know?

Please help PLS
I need the answers before the end of the year!!!!!!

December 9, 2013 at 11:51 PM  
Anonymous taylor said...

I'm back! I was on holiday for the past week.Here goes!

Dear Girl in Love,
I think you should first become close friends, and try to build up a besties kind of thing with him. Then, gradually ask him if he likes anyone or something. If not,go for it! Ask him out. If yes, don't be too disappointed..there are plenty of fish in the sea!

Dear PopcornPrincess,
I think you should tell your crush everything, including that you like him. Since you guys are so close, he'll totally understand!

Love,
TayTay

December 10, 2013 at 9:55 AM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

Hey everyone! I haven't been on for a while!
I have a very important dilemma!
Okay, so I am going to use letters for the people in this story:
H- My best friend
D- My other best friend
V- My no longer friend
J- My other best friend

So, here it goes:
Me, D, and V always talk to each other because we are all mostly in the same classes. All of the sudden, V started liking D because they talk to each other a lot, and he wants to ask D out. I told him that it isn't a very good idea, seeing that would ruin their friendship. I got H into this, and we stayed on top of things. V had D try to guess who he likes, and then on a break he asked her out anyways. She said she will think about it, only because she couldn't find a way to say no gently. Obviously he took it the wrong way, and told everybody, and I mean everybody, V and D are dating.
That got me mad, and so did H and of course, D; she never said yes in the first place and now he's telling all of his friends! Since V gets off at the same bus stop as me, he was talking about how V and D were at the library and J came and asked if she was sure if they were dating; he knows D well, so he didn't believe it himself. Then D said no because she didn't want to say they arent dating yet because she still doesn't know how she will break the news and now V is mad at J because of that, even though she didnt say yes in the first place. Then V started say things like, "J is so annoying, he ruins everything" And that got me mad. No, FURIOUS. First he started spreading things that weren't true and now he is talking about my best friend like that. It made me even more mad because J isn't having a great year; his friends he used to have last year are now ignoring him and now he seems sadder than ever. Having one of his "friends" talk like that about him now got me AGRIVATED, I literally yelled at him, shouting, "Don't you EVER talk about J like that ever again!" And this was Friday. I'm still so mad that I deleted his contact from my phone and is planning on ignoring him from now on. I am happy we had 2 snow days yesterday and Monday, but I am still angry, I've never been so angry about something in my life! I am so angry I'm swelling up in anger just typing it!
Sorry PLS girls for this, I need help MORE than ever please, please, please, answer my question: What should I do now? I don't even have a clear question, I have no idea what to do! Please help!
Thank you PLS girls!
-PurpleRose

December 10, 2013 at 4:11 PM  
Anonymous pink a boo said...

************WARNING*************
TOTALLY RANDOM COMMENT
This website is, in a way, kind of like Secret Santa. You don't know the person who's giving you advise. It could be a random stranger, or it just might happen to be one of your best friends who happens to be on this site too. The thing is, you'll never know the person behind the screen who's helping you, or the person you're helping :)

December 11, 2013 at 3:55 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sophisticated Swifty and Anonymous
Thank you thank you thank you so much! You really really helped and I took ur advise!! I make time for myself to watch my fav show or write in my diary and I try to just relax. U really helped!! Thank you!!!!
:)

December 11, 2013 at 8:29 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey Jemma Ive been wanting t ask if we could do some christmas related posts. Ideas
Christmas cookies (allrecipies.com) or other recipes
A merry christmas post where we can pst what we will do for christmas
maybe our new years resolutions
or good gift ideas for family.
THANKS COOL GABS 1216
PS when du u get back from France??????

December 13, 2013 at 8:42 PM  
Anonymous LanieJanie said...

I think my periods coming, but I want to know what you guys said to your moms when you got yours! I'm a little nervous

December 14, 2013 at 6:41 PM  
Anonymous LanieJanie said...

JEMMA! This is for u, u don't have to blog it! Lately nothing has been about any of the pbbs, I used to come here all the time for advice on growing up, like my breasts and period. Now I just don't feel the need to because your posting things about Paris and stuff like that. It's a good conversation starter but its not the reason most people are here, please go back to the pbbs because you haven't in so long! And please blog more too! I hope you understand, thanks

December 14, 2013 at 6:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dont don't be nervous!! I was too when I first had gotten mine. I went up to my mom when no one was in the room like in the evening and said " Mom I got my thing" and my mother knew what I was talking abt. It was embarrassing a bit at first but she's only your mother so it's ok!! Good luck!! :)

December 15, 2013 at 8:37 AM  
Anonymous Swagchick said...

I just dumped my ex boyfriend now every boy is after me but a like the only guy that is not but when he asked if me and my ex Sam broke up i said yes and he high fived me i don't know what this means Help

December 15, 2013 at 11:27 AM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

I NEED HELP? AGAIN!
Okay so I got invited into the National Junior Honor Society. I definitely want to join because it would be a great opportunity for me. The thing is, the letter says you should be apart of school clubs and extracurricular activities, and I'm not! I was going to join debate and track this year, but I did nothing before that, and I am really scared that they won't accept me because I don't do any clubs. I get good grades, volunteer, I am a leader, and helps people in need. Is that enough, or will I be turned down because I don't have a school club? People who are in, was in, or was invited into NJHS please answer! I need help quick! I'm so scared! :(
Thank you for answering! :)
-PurpleRose

December 15, 2013 at 8:13 PM  
Anonymous Anjola said...

TAKE TIME OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Girl,you don't have to go through with this! Just create a day when you can go to the spa with your friends.
Anjola:)

December 17, 2013 at 12:03 PM  
Anonymous pink a boo said...

LanieJanie
that makes sense, but at the same time the other girls, like the busy girl and the girl a few posts back that wanted to be more flexible, need some help too. You could defiantly learn from this post, because trust me, at some point or another in your life, you will also be so busy your head is spinning. Also, if you do have any questions, feel free to ask here, in the comments. I'm sure us girls will be more then happy to help you! :)

December 17, 2013 at 8:02 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

PS Does anyone have any 14 bday party ideas??? Themes or anything. Actually it can b anything that applies to maybe 12-13 or 14 yrs old Thanx. Bye

December 18, 2013 at 9:02 PM  
Anonymous parrotmonkey said...

I have a group of friends I hang out with... But sometimes I feel left out either because they have other friends or they just leave me out. .. What should I do?

December 19, 2013 at 9:31 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okay. I'm not sure how to put this, but I think I'm not a good person. I went on YouTube and watched videos that were not meant for kids. I was just curious and it was only like 2 clips, but my parents found out and got really upset. Now I feel really ashamed and feel like I'm the only one in the world who has done this. I'm sorry if this is a long, awkward post, but I really have no one else to confide in. Thanks for any support you might be able to give me.

December 23, 2013 at 12:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ill be 14 in a month YAY. Happy birthday!! šŸŽ‹šŸ’šŸŽ‰šŸŽˆšŸŽā¤šŸŽšŸŽŠ you can do a Harry Potter theme party if your a fan of HP ( I am lol) hmm maybe you can invite over friends to watch a movie or bake something and play games you know... You can have a pinyata ( sry no idea how to spell that word) and you can invite a magicion or artist or something like that to entertain the guests.. sorry not good at this!! Hope this helped tho!! :)

December 23, 2013 at 6:42 AM  
Anonymous PuffTheMagicDragon said...

Coolgabs1216,
If someone like a book series, have a party revolve around that. Or maybe just play outside, I love the snow, my friends and I had so much fun! Another cool theme is to research everything that happened on that birthday, and theme the party like that! Hope I helped.

December 23, 2013 at 2:01 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

@coolgabs1216
Well since it's getting close to Christmas u could have a winter themed party with games like pin the star on the tree or make Christmas cookies or things like that. My friend once had her party at an ice skating rink. Hope I helped! :)

December 23, 2013 at 6:58 PM  
Anonymous pink-a-boo said...

purplerose
Hi! I'm in national junior honor's society. I don't know this for sure, but I bet you'll get in, even if you don't do any clubs. You seem like an awesome student, and even though you don't do any clubs, you volunteer, and I wasn't volunteering when I got in. trust me, you'll get in.

December 24, 2013 at 5:44 AM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

@Anonymous
You know what? I have done the exact same thing. I was just curious, and it is totally natural to be curious. Dont feel ashamed! YOU ARE STILL A GOOD PERSON! Your parents are probably just trying to protect you from inappriopriote things, its not as if you've DONE inappropriote things. Dont worry. :)

December 24, 2013 at 7:06 PM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

Happy Christmas! (As they day in England)
Thanks Pink-a-Boo! I feel a lot better! :)

-PurpleRose

December 25, 2013 at 10:44 AM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

Merry Christmas, Kwanza, Hannukah or whatever you celebrate! I hope u girls have a great day :)

December 26, 2013 at 12:33 AM  
Anonymous iNK said...

Hi everyone!!! It's iNK!!! I don't know if anyone remembers me but, well, I'm back!!!

December 26, 2013 at 1:26 AM  
Anonymous Cupcake_cutie said...

@Anonymous on December 23

Don't worry. we've all been there. parents make it seem like everything's such a big deal :) on this blog, you're definitely not alone. if i ever feel alone, I just think about how many people in the world there are (7 billion!) and someone's bound to have done the same thing as you. Does that make sense? Until next time,

Think (whatever your favorite colour is)
Cupcake_cutie

December 26, 2013 at 11:40 AM  
Anonymous Miss Independent said...

To Anonymous who thinks shes a bad person. Everybodys done something that must have been not good. Thats called a mistake. Since were humans we all make mistakes we wish we could take back. So no matter what we do we cant reverse time. You just have to live with the fact were human. The faster you except that the happier and wiser you'll be

December 29, 2013 at 12:28 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i always have something to do.it is either a project pr a test or just plain homework.when i get overwelmed i do something that i like for a half hr or so and after that i go backe to skwl work

December 29, 2013 at 8:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

pr= project

December 29, 2013 at 8:31 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

@iNK
Great to have u back again! I think a lot of us who come here regularly have stopped or paused a while almost as if it was the same time. Even I have. I think it's mostly because school started and us girls just became flooded with work. Well anyways it's nice to "talk" with u again :)

December 30, 2013 at 10:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Do what you like. For me, it would be music + swimming + cozy in a blanket while going on pls blog

January 1, 2014 at 11:47 PM  
Anonymous LanieJanie said...

Believe me I'm busy too, I figure skate five to six days a week and take dance class on top of that( homework too) I just feel like I don't have the same connection I used to, I used to learn a lot here but now I feel like everything's kind of at a stand still. But your right everybody has different problems as they grow up and this is the place to ask about them so you do have a point! :)

January 2, 2014 at 7:02 PM  
Anonymous SwagChick said...

@iNK yaaaaaaayyy your back i remember you

January 4, 2014 at 9:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I know how it feels to be rushed! I am a straight A student but, I had to keep up with all the work in all classes! I have recently done a PowerPoint for my math class that took me from 3:45-8:00 pm! I could not believe that! So, if you do feel overwhelmed just hold on and eventually you will conquer the overwhelming stage!

January 26, 2014 at 10:25 AM  
Anonymous Want MyPeriod said...

Hey girls,
Look, I'm really worried. I am 13 and 3 months, have little disharge, and hair in my underarms and "down there'' . I still haven't had my period!!!! Any advice on how to get it faster????

January 27, 2014 at 2:11 AM  
Anonymous NatLovesOwls said...

@WantMyPeriod
I have advice, but you gotta hear my story. First off I was just like you. Almost everyone in my friend group had started their period in 6th grade. I hadn't gotten mine until 7th grade. I had my discharge for a little less than a year. I felt so alone. I lived through it, and once I got it, I was shoked. I now get it and its like this. Periods are like an anoying little brother that follow you around and only you can see him. Periods may make you in the group, but aren't that fantastic. Spend life without it for now. There isn't a way to make you start it except if your doctor gives you a shot at age 16. At an age of 13, you are still in the "Ok" zone. My aunts got theirs at 14. It sounds like your coming of age is coming soon. About 2 months to 1 year. Ask your mom when hers was and they should be somewhat close to age. But just don't be too eager to get it. Just enjoy life as it is.

January 29, 2014 at 10:45 PM  
Anonymous Wolves08 said...

AHHHH! O.M.G!!! wolves08 here and plz help!

i am having problems and no advise! please tell me some tips: I like this boy and i don't know if he likes me, at all...................cute this cute that

please help i will respond to big helpers! think pink!

wolves08 over and out...

February 2, 2014 at 8:32 PM  
Anonymous Wolves08 said...

I love this guy named kaden!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

February 4, 2014 at 5:22 PM  
Anonymous NatLovesOwls said...

Here is my advice. Just don't worry about it. Become friends. If he doesn't even know you, then talk to him at lunch or in a class. Just talk. Make a friendship. Then when you want to date, you can date him. But for now, just be friends. Hope it helps

February 17, 2014 at 6:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

read a book, it always takes ur mind off of stressful times like middle school.

March 10, 2014 at 2:08 PM  
Anonymous Daniella said...

I am full of stress and I just don't know how to balance at all! I have homework to do and then I have to practice for ballet class. I have ballet class
right after that. Then I have art class right after that. Can someone please give me some advice!
Please! Whoo! Whoosh! oh sorry and thanks a lot!


March 26, 2014 at 11:50 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Advice for Daniella: do some homework during school, at lunch maybe. As for the art and ballet, don't stress. You are doing what you love.

March 30, 2014 at 11:02 PM  
Anonymous Coolcadycat said...

I lile this guy named Shane but i dont know who he likes plz give me advive !!
Love Coolcadycat

April 5, 2014 at 3:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I know! I stay up late all the time and now I have bad eyesight and I feel like there's no time to do fun stuff now! It's all homework, homework, and more homework.

April 15, 2014 at 7:53 AM  
Anonymous Wolves08 said...

HEY CADYCAT ITS BELLA!! Here is some advice:)

give him the three hints:

1: wink (once)
2: make sure he doesnt have a crush on other girls

3: Tell him how you feel

use these tips anyone can. I am wolves08 the C.A. Cupid for blogs over and out

June 16, 2014 at 9:05 PM  
Anonymous AskKat said...

If anyone knows busy it is me! I do competive cheer an hour away from where I live and just qualified for regionals in track in three events! So what I have to do is get ALL of my homework done first thing! If you stay on task you most likely will be able to get everything finished! I am an all "A" student and have been ever since I have stepped foot into a classroom, if you have trouble with anything homework related go through the T.P.I. way first ask your teacher, then your mom or dad, then the INTERNET!!! I know it sounds crazy but I learned one whole chapter of math I missed by the internet! Another thing to help you with your business is work on TIME MANAGEMENT!!!!!!!! TIME MANAGEMENT is your best friend when you are busy! So to most girls this is hard but when you are busy you have to put your SOCIAL LIFE aside and stick to the most important things at the time! If you use your time management you will have time to look on your phone! Well I hope I helped!

Your Friend , Kathryn James:)

June 20, 2014 at 12:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Great advice. But I never go to my parents; my dad's never home, my mom's always working, and afterwards she's busy looking for a job. Sooo...I just come to this website.

July 13, 2014 at 3:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think that's good advise. I have a friend that has a gymnastics every day, and she only has Thursday off. She does all her homework then.

December 31, 2014 at 5:49 PM  
Anonymous Coolio12 said...

I'm not busy.

January 2, 2015 at 2:22 PM  
Anonymous Cupkake with Xtra sprinkles 9 said...

Try the school counciller they can really help. Talking also helps.

May 27, 2016 at 10:21 PM  

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