Happy Valentine's Day!

Have a sweet Valentine's Day, even if you don't have a sweetheart! It's a fun day for dreaming about that special someone or even dreaming up what your ideal sweetheart would be like. Or maybe you'd prefer to celebrate "Galentine's Day" - a day to enjoy your girlfriends. 


Some of you have been stressing about whether to tell your crushes that you like them. Valentine's Day seems like a romantic day to reveal your love, but be careful with your heart. And sometimes the big day might heap too much pressure on the other person. 

So take a deep breath, get yourself a warm cup of something to sip, and take it nice and easy on Valentine's Day. 

Think pink!
Jemma

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Anonymous polkadots said...

I wish my crush had given me something. I wish anyone had given me something. my friend got an anonymous valentines gram from her secret admirer....... πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’š

February 14, 2014 at 2:41 PM  
Anonymous Bestfriendloveisforever said...

First Comment- woo! Lol I LOVE HEART DAY ! My crush asked me out but denied it when my friends heard (see how tht goes on tuesday)! And me and my BFF decided today we would be each others valentine. We made a joke about divorcing after today - it was fun and I was happy to know we care about each other so much and it was her birthday!!! Happy birthday! Lol today was definitly a girls day!

February 14, 2014 at 5:44 PM  
Anonymous Jolie said...

My BFF Lily got a valentine from a guy asking her on a date- she said she wasn't interested in dating right now. But, she told me she just wanted a cute BF.. Not a booger eater!

February 14, 2014 at 8:10 PM  
Anonymous Rosebud said...

I've always wanted my crush to get me a Valentine, but after Friday, I wasn't really sad that he didn't. Actually, I was in a pretty good mood! I guess it was nice seeing all my friends so happy. :)

February 15, 2014 at 11:26 AM  
Anonymous pubertyqanda said...

my parents anniversary is on this day they entered a contest and got married in about 5 mins....romantic lol

February 15, 2014 at 4:39 PM  
Anonymous pubertyqanda said...

at my school we can by wooden roses and I got one all its says is a smiley face next to the from box....

February 15, 2014 at 4:40 PM  
Anonymous Sophisticated Swiftie said...

I've had this HUGE crush on this guy (I still do), and I was really hoping that he'd done something sweet for me or something, but he didn't. I think he likes another girl, who's always with him and they've been to each other's houses and stuff. But you know what? On Monday, I have a holiday, so I'm having a Galentines Day with my friends! Who needs a guy anyway when you have friends. :)

February 15, 2014 at 4:53 PM  
Anonymous Lemon said...

So SWEET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

February 16, 2014 at 3:16 AM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Polkadots don't feel bad our school was out on valentines day so I didn't get a valentines. But I still was good. Oh yeah and today is my 14 birthday :D febbruary 16.

February 16, 2014 at 9:51 AM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

omg today is my paris bday party wish all u could come its a sleepover....... you guys are all awesome luv uuuuuuuu!!!!!!!!!!!!!! πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’–πŸ’™πŸ’šπŸ’›πŸ’œπŸ’πŸ’žπŸ’”β€πŸ’•πŸ’•β€β€πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ’πŸ’žπŸ’ŸπŸ’ŸπŸ’Ÿ

February 16, 2014 at 9:56 AM  
Anonymous soccerbunny said...

My crush's birthday is on Valentine's day... ironic huh?

February 16, 2014 at 5:04 PM  
Anonymous Rainbow love said...

Anyone want to join the club?

February 16, 2014 at 7:42 PM  
Anonymous pink-a-boo said...

pubertyquanda:
Ooo la la, I wonder who it is. :)

February 17, 2014 at 5:56 AM  
Anonymous pink-a-boo said...

Ok, this has nothing to do with valentines day, but guess what I did this weekend!!!
Ok, you don't have to guess, because I want to tell you anyway. Lol. On Saturday, I was in All State Choir! It was so cool because only 70 girls were chosen out of the entire state, and I was one of them. It was so amazing to sing with a group of such talented girls, and I hope I'm able to do it again next year! :)

February 17, 2014 at 6:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks so much. I had a crush.I told him how I felt and then wham. He did not like me back.[big suprise] I am thinking about galentine's day though...

February 17, 2014 at 11:03 AM  
Anonymous NatLovesOwls said...

I do! What is this club?

February 17, 2014 at 5:55 PM  
Anonymous Lemon said...

Well done pink-a-boo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

February 18, 2014 at 12:21 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Natlovesowls
The pink locker society is a series of books in addition to a REAL website. The website is for questions and answers of middle school stuff like puberty and boy issues and all that stuff. Welcome to the website!!

February 18, 2014 at 8:41 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks very good advice
Did you draw that picture it's really good.

February 18, 2014 at 12:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

cool

February 18, 2014 at 12:39 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Yeah what club... I want in

February 18, 2014 at 2:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

wow

February 19, 2014 at 8:40 AM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

congrats pink-a-boo!!!!! πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜Šβ€β€ what state was it through?????????????????????. think polkadotted rainbow colours!!!!!!!!!!

February 19, 2014 at 11:45 AM  
Anonymous leaper said...

my valentine is awesome!!!!!! its a little late to post this but oh well. first i should tell you that me and my valentine agreed to not b bf or gf untill jr high. but anyway we act like were dating. so for valentines day he gave me something that said "i love you
happy valentines day
forever yours
my love"

February 19, 2014 at 6:26 PM  
Anonymous NatLovesOwls said...

I can help anyone with their period questions. For those who asked for help on other posts, my reply may come up sooner or later. Just come out and ask here and now if you want one now. If you don't want to, tell you mom, because she is the best person to ask for help.

February 20, 2014 at 9:31 PM  
Anonymous Radha:) said...

umm I have a HUGE crush on a guy in my class. I don't know if he likes me. I live in a place where love is not encouraged too much. My own classmates consider it taboo and you're teased a LOT even if you talk to a boy in a friendly way.

So basically no girl talks to any boy about anything other than school stuff. What do I do?

How can I find out if he likes me too? Or how I can tell him that I like him? Especially when I love him with all my heart?

February 21, 2014 at 7:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I would have a friend talk to him- or talk yourself and be open show him you are brave and confident. If not write a note! I was in this position once - soon life will seem perfect lol.

February 21, 2014 at 10:07 PM  
Anonymous NatLovesOwls said...

Here is a solution for all the people worried about love, boys, and dating.
Dating is a planned activity were two people get to know each other. It is a time to develop friendship, have fun, and to find someone you want to live with for a long time.
If you have rules not to date untill a sertain time in your family, follow them. Try to avoid going one on one and go on group dates. Also avoid developing serious relationships too early in life were you limit the people you meet and can also create a great place to stay out of being two timed.
If you want someone with high moral standards for a husband, date the ones who do. Try to have moral standards for yourself if you want to be beautiful in a different way to them.
You can do all of these things outside of dating, and use them when around guys. Try to create a friendship, not a mushy gushy love dude.
I tried to help all you love birds out there the best of my abilities. I hope this helps. (:

February 21, 2014 at 10:28 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Radha maybe u can sneak him a note. Most people read notes and they r private.... good luck

February 22, 2014 at 11:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

if you have periods its okay, after a while you'll get used to it

February 22, 2014 at 6:58 PM  
Anonymous leaper said...

@Radha if you really love him go for him girl!!!!!

February 22, 2014 at 11:42 PM  
Anonymous leaper said...

also my new bf asked me out yesterday!!!! i think that this is my first real love i have dated before and my friends think i just date to have a boyfriend but i dont. i really thought that i liked me exs. but i no i love my bf i cried yesterday because he seemed to b flirting with someone nd i thought "what would i do if they dated and he dumped me!? i would die"

February 22, 2014 at 11:45 PM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

@Radha don't send a note. I tried that and the whole school knew in an hour. I also found out the hard way he didn't like me. I was mortified for a year. talk to him in person privately.

February 23, 2014 at 3:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

leaper, take a nice long deep breath girl. now let it out. calm down dahling. its ok. sometimes boys flirt with girls without noticing. and (im not shallow) i flirt with boys I don't like. i dress everyday to make boys like me even if i don't like them. it just gives you a nice feeling inside you know, that tingly sensation that makes you feel good about yourself. maybe its just cause im insecure, but i do. so chillax. if u c him kiss another girl or go out with another girl, then u 2 need 2 talk. but other wise, u r FINE

February 25, 2014 at 11:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

oh your name is jemma i just looked at it know,i
thought it said jenna don't take me wrong!

February 25, 2014 at 5:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear PLS,
I need help. Okay, so after the past 2 months I haven't been myself. I'm always tired, I get distracted WAY too easily, and I have frequent headaches. I am also worrying way too much about things I shouldn't worry about. But then my grades have been dropping, and I honestly don't know why, and I dread going to school every single morning. I have been a complete mess. Even though I seem like the same fun and kind person people say I am, I'm going crazy on the inside. My hands shake vigorously from the worrying and lack of sleep I've been getting. I pace around. Today everything fell apart when I found out I got a C- in LA, and that's my best class, and now I think there's nothing left for me. I have no other talent than school, but now my grades are going down. I have broken down into tears twice today and I don't know why, shaking and pacing, and angered. I just don't know what to do. What's wrong with me? How do I get over my problems? I want to tell my mom about this, but I feel like she'll scream at me, which she obviously won't, because she's a kind and understandable mom. I'm thinking of the worst and I can't help it. I'm a regular user here but I don't want to use my username, so I'm using Anonymous. PLEASE I need help immediately. Thank you!

February 25, 2014 at 10:26 PM  
Blogger Jemma said...

Sorry you are not feeling like yourself. Please tell a parent or another trusted adult, such as a guidance counselor at school. We are rooting for you! This article may help but it is most important that you talk to a grow up who can begin to help. http://kidshealth.org/kid/feeling/thought/sadness.html

February 25, 2014 at 11:21 PM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

omg anonymous you poor thing. have you talked to your bestie? if not talk to her and your dad/mom. just remember its ok to still use your user name (haha get it use ur user haha) because we will all support you. we all love each other on here right girls? think polkadotted rainbow colours

February 26, 2014 at 10:41 AM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

also here r some jokes to make u feel better:

68. β€œWhy don't aliens eat clowns? Because they taste funny!”



69. β€œWhy did the cookie go to the doctor? Because he was feeling crummy.”



70. β€œWhere does a penguin keep his money? In a snow bank.”


71. β€œWhy are pirates so scary? They just arrr!”



72. β€œWhat’s brown and sticky? A stick!”



73. β€œWhy can’t a bicycle stand on it’s own? Because it’s two-tired.”

February 26, 2014 at 11:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

To what age should you receive a time-out?

February 26, 2014 at 7:49 PM  
Anonymous bestiesroc said...

Okay, so right now, am lost.
I kind of like my friend's ex and this other guy i crushed on last year. don't know if i like either of them as a crush, but i feel like they are not the perfect guys. plus,the guy i crushed on last year is on 'aquaintance' terms with me right now. im so confused, i dont know who to pick or even if i should pick!!! please help!!!

February 26, 2014 at 10:56 PM  
Anonymous boyproblem said...

this guy asked me out to the valentines day dance and another one asked if i could be his gf. i know i obviously cant say yes to both. i want to go with the guy who asked me out to the dance but i feel that the dance should be gone with somebody special, and i dont think we are there yet. the second guy, well, i kind of like him but dont know him well enough to be his gf.

February 26, 2014 at 10:59 PM  
Anonymous pink-a-boo said...

Anonymous on feb. 25:
Okay, you seem really stressed out. I agree with Jemma that you should tell an adult, but at the same time, you should become less stressed. things are always easier when you aren't stressed. Maybe try to meditate of do a bit of yoga for 30 minutes a day. It will really help.

Now, onto you being tired and headachy. Get more sleep. I personally get a lot of headaches when I don't get enough sleep, so I'm sure that's what's going on with you. Your body is probably needing more energy to go through puberty and stuff.

Finally, the dropping grade. School is horrible, I know. Here are a few study techniques:
-Have a special place for studying. somewhere quiet and comfortable, where you can spread out with all your stuff.
-Have a plan. a lot of people like to start with the harder homework to get it over with, but I personally like to do my easiest homework, because that's the perfect way for me to get ready to do the harder stuff
-realize that you may have less time to spend by yourself and with your friends. But it will make your life better later when you're an adult. doing good in school can get you a good job that you like. if you have a job you like, your whole life will be fun, even if this small part of school isn't right now.

Hope I helped! :)

February 27, 2014 at 3:08 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I AM FURIOUS. Basically there were about three girls in my class who pulled a prank on my teacher. My teacher wanted to know who they were but they didn't confess so my teacher punished the ENTIRE most-innocent class with a weekend detention which is SO UNFAIR because me and my friends didn't do ANYTHING and were absolutely NO PART WHATSOVER of their prank. So now everyone has to show up at eight o'clock tomorrow morning for a detention. I never got detention in my LIFE and I'm not going to show up for something I didn't even do!! Besides I'm new to my school in a NEW country with a different LANGUAGE and I'm so far having the worst year ever and I HATEEE my class and I dont want to spend more than a minute with them off school grounds. I'm always home. I told my mother about it thinking shed support me and tell me I shouldn't have to go but she actually went AGAINST me and said I SHOULD show up cause if I don't ill get into trouble and blah blah blah. I DON'T WANT TO GO. I SHOULDNT HAVE TO SINCE IM TOTALLY INNECENT AND I HATEEEE MY SCHOOL SO MUCH AND THE TEACHERS SHOULD PITY ME SINCE IM NEW TO THE COUNTRY AND LANGUAGE. I need advice on what I should do and PLEASE BE NICE. I'm so angry especially with the older sis pushing me to go and making me even MORE crazier. I don't WHAT to do. I feel like dropping out of school. Sorry this is so long. Please help!!!!!!!!!

February 27, 2014 at 10:02 AM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Annonymous. So I want to let u kno that 1 u need to take a chill pill. Maybe close your eyes or journal about your feelings. Then u need to talk to ur mom she would understand if she's kind and caring as u say. And sometimes the symptoms w the grouchiness sadness and distractedness may b a sign that ur period is coming..... good luck

February 27, 2014 at 8:10 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Annonymous- The one who is angry at school. Number one I totally feel you i would b so angry if i had 2 show up for something I didnt do. But u still probably should go. I mean you dont want to b in trouble. And next time u may want to speak up and tell on the girls who played the prank. And about hating school you should find things that are good aout it like friends and meditate on it take a bathroom break when u need to breathe and rellax....
Boyproblem u can say yes to both. You cold go to the dnce w the one who asked u and u should probably ask out the one u like.
GOOD LUCK :3

March 1, 2014 at 10:22 PM  
Anonymous Sparkly girly said...

There is a boy at my school that I think might like me and I need to know if you think so to. Things he has done( his name is Jake).
1. He sat next to me when there were other empty chairs.( he might have just sat down bc he had to look at my face to make sure it was me before he talked to me).
2. Teases me that I am quiet; which I am
3. Thinks I am super smart and says that
4. Sitting in group and talking to other girl who claims to know who he likes and he said he doesn't care if she says it out loud
Let me know what you think! Thanks a lot! )

March 1, 2014 at 11:21 PM  
Anonymous NatLovesOwls said...

Ok, here I am to help those in need of advice.

@ Anonymous who said...
To what age should you receive a time-out?
On February 26, 2014 at 7:49 PM

I would really just ask your mom. Most parents often choose to do groundings instead of time outs for older kids. The whole time out thing is used to create a habit to cool off when angry or sad. But it is usually ment for younger kids who haven't developed that habit that more mature kids have developed. Groundings are the new punishment for teens. But for babysitting ask the parent of the kid to know what to do.

@ Anonymous bestiesroc who said...
Okay, so right now, am lost.
I kind of like my friend's ex and this other guy i crushed on last year. don't know if i like either of them... On February 26, 2014 at 10:56 PM

I would probably have both of them as my friends. Don't pick. It is ok to like them and all, but you don't need to "keep them". They are only crushes, not dates or your soon to be husband. Most girls get caught up with boys because they are cute. But you only need to worry about actually loving them untill you are ready to get married. Liking people doesn't mean you have to pick them out or in. It means you should get to know them, like becoming friends. Actual love should come when you are ready to be married.

@Anonymous boyproblem who said...
this guy asked me out to the valentines day dance and another one asked if i could be his gf. i know i obviously cant.... On February 26, 2014 at 10:59 PM

This is were you go and get a gf that is going and take here and go as a group dance date. If you honestly don't know what to do, tell the guy who wants to be your gf you want to meet with a variety of guys, and not focus on a one on one relationship, and you do care so you aren't 2 timing when you go to the dance with the one who asked you.

@ Anonymous who said...
I AM FURIOUS. Basically there were about three girls in my class who pulled a prank on my teacher. My teacher wanted to know who they were but they didn't confess so my teacher punished the ENTIRE......On February 27, 2014 at 10:02 AM

I think the lesson that life is unfair has hit you hard. Really hard. And it shows that you are not happy with it because of others disobedience. I think you want your teacher to have pity on you because you are new. But your teacher had a reason to put you all in detention. If you knew who it was, you should have confessed. But since you and the people who did know didn't tell who, you guys get detention for it. Its like in real life. If you see a crime and don't report you can go to prison. So, just notice, life is unfair. I learned that a much more traumatic way that has scared and ruined my life. Cool off and as the comment above and write down your feelings. And there is no reason to hate your school because your are new. I forgive your silly mistakes that I make all the time too.


@ Anonymous who said...
Dear PLS,
I need help. Okay, so after the past 2 months I haven't been myself. I'm always tired, I get distracted WAY too easily, and I have frequent headaches. I am also worrying way too much......

You sounded just like me. I have suffered just like you. The thing was, my mom didn't scream at me. I was definitely not myself. I had a horrible situation happen in my childhood and most of it had caused me to be that way. My mom had taken me into a therapist and I started working to be better myself. I had worked and went through the rough process and finally, I am much happier and less miserable. Tell your mom, because she needs to know. She is the one if anyone you should trust. She will definitely help you. Your story for your life will most definitely be different than mine and you will have different needs. Tell her and good luck. Everyone will have to do something hard. This is your time to shine. Good luck!

March 2, 2014 at 12:09 AM  
Anonymous pink-a-boo said...

Bestiesroc and Boyproblem:
Both of you have similar questions, so I'm going to try to answer them at the same time.
You don't have to choose either boy. If you can only thing of why you shouldn't choose this one and why you shouldn't choose that one, then don't choose either. If there's one that you keep on thinking "Ooo, I REALLY want to be with this guy, but, you know, I shouldn't because..." then that's the guy you might want to choose
Really, just follow your heart. If your heart says neither of them are the correct choice, don't choose either of them. Also, if one of them will wreck your friendship, don't choose him. A friend usually lasts longer than a boyfriend at our age.

March 2, 2014 at 1:42 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks guys.

March 4, 2014 at 9:08 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm home sick with the flu. I'd been in bed all day today,yesterday and the day b4. The flu can last up till 2 weeks I know, I just hope I get better soon cause I'm missing a LOT of school. I'm supposed to stay home and rest for a week and not go near any1 cause its contagious. Anyone else ever experienced the flu? If u had, than u know how it feels. Ugh, I hate the feeling. Also I'm not the kind of person to miss a lot of school. Hopefully ill heal quick...

March 4, 2014 at 9:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yeah if you like some one you dont need to get scared i told the boy i liked even though he didnt like me that way i was ok cuase mabe some day he will like me but till then i can just wait.

March 4, 2014 at 2:25 PM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

so i liked this guy and well something terrible happened i am friends with him and i know him really well and then i asked him to be my bf and he said ok but then when we were in class he said "you know i was just kidding" ugh, it was horrible i felt my heart break. i felt horrible i used to think he was so sweet and all and at lunch my friend who i told about my crush saying yes but not the rest said "why arent you sitting with your boyfriend" not mean or anything so i told her and on of hes friends said "shes always had something for him" and everyone knew i liked him it sucked and im still mad at him. i really want to asked why he did that but im home schooled now so i would have asked on swim team but im to afraid to what if he says or does something more mean then before. some one please help me.

March 4, 2014 at 3:04 PM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

ok when it comes to boys i know a thing or two and stuff can be really good and really bad like once i liked a boy and he did a really mean thing (sayed that earlier today) and i still am mad at him and that is what can go wrong but once a boy liked me and i liked him and we were bf and gf and it did kinda work and thats a good thing that can happen so if a bad thing happens its ok talk to a friend thats what i did my bff calmed me down and told me even though he was mean i should not be upset becuase there are alot of mean people out there and i need to suck it up and go on with life but i still can get mad.

March 4, 2014 at 11:06 PM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

Dear PLS,
my mom is going thourgh her 5th parentcy and shes being kinda of mean more then the others. how can i help her be more nice or how can i make her happy.

March 5, 2014 at 2:27 AM  
Anonymous NatLovesOwls said...

@Bluerocks1001
Think through your head and try to think what would make you happy. Follow your idea. It should at least show her that you are trying to be helpful if you don't completely make her happy.

March 6, 2014 at 12:16 AM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

someone please say something jemma any one please i need help with the boy trouble and my mom if anyone is out there talk to me please.

March 6, 2014 at 12:17 AM  
Anonymous pink-a-boo said...

bluerocks1001
try to just be really nice to your mom. Help her whenever you can, and don't do anything that could start an argument. She has a lot of hormones going through her body so she might get really emotional.

March 6, 2014 at 1:17 AM  
Anonymous pink-a-boo said...

My teacher just got engaged! *squeals* This is so cool! :D

March 6, 2014 at 1:18 AM  
Anonymous pink-a-boo said...

Hey, PLS!
I have a question that a lot of you might not be able to answer...
Well, let's see where to start.
I dream of becoming an actress. In musicals onstage mostly. Singing + dancing + acting = almost everything I enjoy!
I know that to actually be successful in acting, I need to take dance lessons, voice lessons, acting lessons, and all sorts of other stuff.
Now, I'd do all of that if I could, but my mom just started working, which is good I guess, but since I'm not old enough to drive myself to anywhere to take any of those classes, I'm kind of stuck.
In fact, the best I can do right not is take voice lessons on Tuesday, my mom's one day off, do cheer at school, since that has a lot of dance in it, and participate for school plays.
I don't live in New York or anywhere that I could easily walk to any place I need. I am seriously stuck. It takes about 20 minutes just to walk to the nearest Elementary school.
So do you guys have any suggestions about what I can do until I turn 16 in two and 1/3 years and can get my drivers license?
Thanks!

March 6, 2014 at 2:50 AM  
Anonymous PHaPIF (PinksHugzandPlayingInFun) said...

Hey peeps, sorry I haven't commented I have been really, really busy!!!

Hey I think that for Valentines Day the best thing to do is flirt with your guy friends a little, I love mine he is just the best friend ever but I only see him 2 times a week :(.

Hey peeps Here are a few Questions4Fun (my new thing)

1. When was your first crush
2. What was his name
3. Why you liked him
4. and did he like you back, or did you move on.

I will answer it now

1. In grade 3-4
2. Blake
3. He was so funny and really sweet
4. He liked me back, I think he acted really nice around me and treated me better than any other girl, but I had to move school and I am still heartbroken 4 years later, I have never een him again but will still remember him...


Happy Past-Valentine
and remember we don't need boys, the saying goes.

No life without wife, (not husband or boyfriend)!!!
Just to boost girl-power !!

March 6, 2014 at 4:41 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My friend is trying to get me a boyfriend. but everyone i like said no. It made me feel really ugly. But I don't think they will change their minds.

March 7, 2014 at 8:34 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Bluerocks10001
Sorry boys can b such jerks but I would actually just ignore what the guy said and tell my best friend about him. The boy mayve chickened out which s no excuse......
Also about parentcy pregnant parents r a lil more moody. You could cheer her up by doingnthings she likes to do for example cooking and do it w her.

March 7, 2014 at 10:32 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

@bluerocks1001
1st question- I know exactly how you feel. A few years ago I met this great guy during summer and we spent a lot of time with each other during summer camp and we became bf and gf. Then school started and he was like "let's forget about what happened in the summer, I mean, I wasn't serious." I was really sad and I was still obsessed with him for quite a while. This happened in 5th grade. Later we dated for a few months and then we broke up. 6th grade we dated again but broke up. I'm not saying u need to date someone in 5th and 6th grade cuz I wish I didn't. And now, in 7th grade we're best friends and I want it to stay that way. We talk about how we first met in summer camp sometimes but it's always a little awkward. The thing is, I still don't know why he did it. I never really asked him. I let the past be the past. We say that we were both young and stupid and I mean we were only 10.
Now for u, I think u should talk to him if u want to. This way u can get some clarification and things'll be less awkward.
I hope all goes well for u and I'm sorry I like told u my life story. :) ~Bluetiful Blossom

March 8, 2014 at 12:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my bf is the best person ever. we decided to not keep it a secret anymore. i think this is my first real love. he is my first thought in the morning and my last at night. he is always on my mind. i alays want to just sit next to him and hold hands or hug. i just want him in my presence. i LOVE him. he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. but the problem is that i am a little young for this. i am a LOT more maturer r than most people in my grade. what should i do?

March 8, 2014 at 9:22 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What would happen if you had your period in the summer? Also when you have your period, do they stink? Because you would be wearing shorts and you would have no sweatshirt to tie around your waist.

March 8, 2014 at 10:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@PHaPIF


1. kindergarden (i had one in preschool but i forgot his name)
2. Zach
3. he is funny, cute, tall, and awesome
4. idk if he liked me or not but we dated in 5th grade (he was not my first boyfriend)


March 8, 2014 at 5:43 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

@PHaPIF
1. 10 yrs old
2. Derek
3. He was nice, cool, and knew how to be a gentlemen
4. Well the whole story is on where I answered bluerock1001's question. But to shorten it up, I was obsessed with him for 2 years until I finally got over him. He used to like me back but now we're friends. :)
Also, PHaPIF, do u have this guy u like phone number, adress or anything? If not, u should definently look him up in the yellow pages or google him on some social network site.
And your saying "no life without wife" Did u get it from the movie Bride and Prejudice? I don't know if you've seen it. :)

March 8, 2014 at 8:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi peeps
@ anonymous who said about her not being herself
I feel bad for you and it is not your fault
We all love everybody on here and there is no need to worry

March 9, 2014 at 11:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

New post pretty please???

March 10, 2014 at 4:55 PM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

Bluetiful Blossom
its ok you told me your life story i like it when people tell me about their pain becuase it helps to know not alone

March 10, 2014 at 10:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Help! Ok.. So last month after the first few days of February my period ended and in the middle of February I started to get brown discharge it lasted for 5 days it stopped and came back to normal white/clear discharge. I researched online about it but instead I found women complaining why they got weeks of brown discharge after becoming pregnant. So I got rly worried that im pregnant. But I have NO bf And NO ONES abusing me and I didnt do anything that wud make me pregnant. Wut makes me extra worried is that I was suppose to get my 3rd period at march 2 but nothing came... HELP ME! Im worried! Pls reply!


- wynterfell

March 11, 2014 at 5:22 AM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

Bluetiful Blossom thanks for that but i feel like i shou and shouldnt tell him, so any thing for that. p.s its ok if you told your life story i like when people compair their exsperins to others. (love your name)

March 13, 2014 at 12:28 AM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

@Bluerocks10001
Thx :) You don't have to tell him if u don't want u. I think he just chickened out maybe cuz he wasn't ready. You should act like nothing happened and just be normal good friends. If u still like him then maybe flirt some more and try to get him to like u back. Take your friendship to the nxt level. Get his phone number and if u do, txt him. Swim w/him on the swim team. Invite some of your friends and him to go to the movies or someplace to meet up other then swim practice. But if u want to get over him, then just be friends w/him. I mean, theres plenty of guys out there. I know when I liked this guy, I didn't believe I could ever love a different guy but now I'm over him and it's great being single. Good luck! :)

March 13, 2014 at 11:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok pls so I have a boy problem.
Basically there are 2 boys I like at my school but one is perfect. t I mean this guy is my color, likes the same thing I like, is cute and funny has a nice smile and is smart. But I barely know him at all.
Then there is the other boy he is caucasion not my color, funny, kind of weird but in a cute way, not same religion and a big glitch how do I put this appropuately he likes boys.... but we r good friends and both like same type of things. Do I have a right to like thus boy even though he isn't perfect? Please I need help. And one more thing we have a dance coming up and I'm wonderingbif just bc u ask someone does it mean u need their attention????? Aka being desperate
Thanx for help

March 14, 2014 at 10:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Bluerocks10001
I read your comment about 6 boys who liked u on valentinees day comment and u don't have to go out w any of them u can just have a mutual relationship w them.....

March 16, 2014 at 9:24 PM  
Anonymous leaper said...

@Anonymous

i think that its okay if u like a gay guy. (sorry if thats offensive to anyone) but i think that whoever u liked or noticed second should be the one you have a relation ship with. because if u really liked the first you wouldnt have noticed the second.

hope this helped

March 17, 2014 at 9:41 PM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

Bluetiful Blossom
thanks again so I kinda tried that but he just ironred me and didn't talk to me he just thinks I'm invisavle now and I don't know if I like him or don't I mean I feel feelings but I don't know if their real its hard to tell I keep thinking what would've happened if he never played that joke and became my BF. grr I just wish I could move but I have to swim in the same lane and its to painful really to talk to him.

March 18, 2014 at 5:28 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

you don't have to go out with any boys just because
you like them, you can wait for later! you have time

March 24, 2014 at 7:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Um what do i do i do i have a crush and we have been texting alot but i dont know if he likes me i dont know what to do should i tell him i like him but what if he dosnt like me back that would be embarrasing and everyone would talk about it and he has a girl friend but i think he trust me cause he tells me stuff that no body elese knows but i also think his best friends cute and we always call each other names and tease each other please help me !!!!!
Love
Yvette

March 26, 2014 at 2:00 AM  
Anonymous Cupcake_cutie said...

@PHaPIF:
im a bit late, but thought it would be fun to answer your questions:
1. Grade 5 (10 years old)
2. Michael
3. He's really nice and almost my height. (I'm super tall)
4. So basically, all through grade 5 and 6, I was completely obsessed with him, but recently i realized it's time to move on. btw i'm in grade 7. Not sure if he ever liked me back though.

Also, i just got my first period a few days ago. Any tips, girls?

Think (your favorite colour),
Cupcake_cutie

March 26, 2014 at 5:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What I got was a box of mini chocolate bars.

March 28, 2014 at 12:53 AM  
Anonymous Izzy said...

Hie Yvette,
Woah! Cool down! I think the best is to just stay friends with this guy. Go where your heart leads you but before saying anything think about how the guy may react : )

March 28, 2014 at 5:56 AM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Yvett
You could jus keep flirting with the guy u like smiling and whatever but not say anything to him about ur crush on him. Bc thic can cause heartbreak on both sides.

March 28, 2014 at 4:59 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

Yvett, what can cause heartbreak on both sides?

April 1, 2014 at 3:55 PM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

ok so this is kinda weird but i think i might be like in love becuase i have liked other boys but hes diffrent he makes me smile even on my worst days and he said he liked me but i was being a rebel cuase my parents always said that oh your going to marry him and all that so i tried to prove them wrong but that blow up and now i just feel like everything makes sense and all and the big problem is he moved away to be closer to his sister and i miss him and i feel stupid that i didnt tell him and i am kinda deprest and i just want him here with me and sorry this is taking forever but can some one help me thanks god bless you all p.s his name is alex

April 2, 2014 at 4:19 PM  
Anonymous coolgabs1216 said...

oh sorry, I forgot to say thanks though but please
answer my other question! i have to know! i kind of
don't get your answer and I am
not trying to be rude so can you please explain!?

April 4, 2014 at 3:12 PM  
Anonymous ama said...

im worryed about valantimes day. theres a boy in my class . [ im not saying any names]. well he thinks hes my crush but im not keen on him. what happens if he gets offended if i dont give him a card. and what if he asks me to date him. help!

April 10, 2014 at 11:35 AM  
Anonymous Natlovesorange said...

Don't worry. No need to worry about it. Your still very young. Treat anyone you like as a friend, because you don't have to go all love crazy over a boy at such of a young age. And as I have said multiple times, don't make a relationship, and become a social butterfly and not having to worry about heart ache.

April 13, 2014 at 12:52 AM  
Anonymous Daniella said...

telling him before hand is better

April 13, 2014 at 11:30 AM  
Anonymous Kitty said...

There is a boy in my class 'M' 9as his name starts with M0 who likes me and keeps telling me that and I only think of him as a friend, he offered me chocolates at Valentine's Day and has now asked me to go out. I like the boy in football team, but I do not have the heart to tell 'M' I love another person. What should I do????

April 18, 2014 at 6:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

U should tell him that u only think of him as a friend.. my bf said this when a boy asked her out and he was sad for a minute then he was ok..

April 18, 2014 at 5:28 PM  
Anonymous ama said...

thanks natslovesorange. i am much better now.when i grow up ill might give boys a chance.

April 19, 2014 at 1:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Girls,
Could u answer this question for me?
My friends always say I'm flirting with my crush (who likes me back by the way) but I don't think we are. They also call us boyfriend and girlfriend but we had a serious talk and decided to stay friends.
Any advice?
Izzy

May 11, 2014 at 6:34 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Kitty,
Stay friends with that guy, but make it clear u don't like him, or else u might unintentionally lead him on. Just break the news gently.don't be blunt.
If u need more advice browse the other blogs.
Izzy

May 11, 2014 at 6:42 AM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

can some one tell me what to do about alex no ones told me and i'm really sad and i love him and i never got to tell him and i feel so stupid and i tried to look him up but i can't find him. please some one talk to me. i really think i love him cause every minuite his not here my heart breaks. i know some of you are going to say "don't get hung up over one guy there ore out there blah blah blah" but i can't stop thinking about him. i look at m year book and i almost start to cry when i see him. even if some one said his name i get butterflys and i feel sick. some one please help me!!!!!

May 12, 2014 at 2:12 AM  
Anonymous cutiepie4eversophie said...

@ kitty
Dont worry im the same way. I usually try to tell them in a nice way. Maybe u can say.. hey i would loveto but i would rather not date til im older or something :)

May 15, 2014 at 8:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@bluerocks1001
I totally get how u are feeling right now. Its super hard not being able to contact the one who you like! Try asking his friends casually about him- try to get his phone number or email that way. Contact him then, but be careful! A friend of mine found out her crush was leaving and told him her feelings. The crush avoided her afterward. Just simply tell him how you feel and don't put it in a mushy sort of way.
Izzy

May 21, 2014 at 2:45 AM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

please please please some one help me with my boy problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! : (

May 23, 2014 at 4:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My crush says he doesn't like me... OMG

June 10, 2014 at 7:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

like

June 10, 2014 at 7:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My crush said he has a GF.

July 6, 2014 at 12:39 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I had the AWESOMEST BOYFRIEND EVER! And then guess what? Some stupid boys that like me (NOT vice versa) told him some stupid lies about me and he broke up with me! And to make it worse, his stupid dad moved away and he has no phone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ARRRR!R!!!!!!

July 7, 2014 at 3:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okay! Guess what! I have a new boyfriend! He is so CUTE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love him so much who cares about my old boyfriend anyhow!???

July 7, 2014 at 3:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear bluerocks1001,
I know exactly how you feel! The same thing happened to me! My advice is that you, if you go to school with him, write him a letter telling him how you feel. If not, maybe (and I know this sounds weird) talk to your Mom about it. I didn't want to but I told Mom and she had advice. It helped and fixed everything! Ask me for any more advice. P.S. My boyfriend didn't even have a phone!
Sincerely,
Help and Advice

July 7, 2014 at 3:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey on valentines day I just wish somebody not from my house like my secret admirer could have given me something

July 9, 2014 at 4:18 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey on valentine day,. I just wish ,my secret admirer gave me a gift

July 9, 2014 at 4:22 AM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

@Izzy
ok i can't contact him and he has the name of a famous person so when i look up his name on google its someone else and its getting to the point where every night i dream of him like he's coming to my porch and he sweps me off my feet but then i wake up and go crazy i miss him soooooooooooooo much i dont know what to do and it like if i knew he was ok i guess i would be ok to but i dont know so im going crazy like i thought i saw him running up my steps please please what do i do

July 13, 2014 at 3:45 PM  
Anonymous bluerocks1001 said...

can some one please help me im going extra crazy :( and i'm still in school so it kinda is affecting my grades like I finished my bible class and sceinice and history but got Cs on all of them because I keep thinking about him pleales please help me :(

July 26, 2014 at 2:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

bluerocks1001,
Stop.Think. Sort out your priorities in life.
Good luck
Izzy

July 31, 2014 at 4:51 AM  
Anonymous LoveStruck said...

I HAVE TO WRITE THIS SOMEWHERE AND MY BRO DISCOVERED MY DIARY SO THATS NOT AN OPTION:
its about my crush
name: alexander (or amo for short)
age: 11 or possibly 12, im 10
hair color: cinnamon color
amount of freckles: 149
Eye color: green and brown with flecks of gold
smile: makes me go crazy!
From 1 to 10 how much i love him: 8
how much it affects me: me grades are still all As, thats good! Sometimes i randomly will start writing his name and my name together. Me and my friend Sophia talk about our crushes: code name is LAUGHTER (bcz they make us laugh) her and nico, me and amo.
Its my first crush
Do my parents know? No I wish but i just cant tell them.
Do my friends know? Sophia and Maddy do...although im really regretting ever telling maddy....GRR she just had to tell every girl in the grade!! Help!!

December 16, 2014 at 7:35 PM  
Anonymous LoveStruck said...

bluerocks1001,
maybe take a break from him, then come back after ur grades have improved. I dont understand how this affects ur grades, im still all As, but thats my advice.

December 16, 2014 at 7:37 PM  
Anonymous LoveStruck said...

bluerocks1001,
wow ur HEARTBROKEN. I feel horrible. My advice: find another cute boy.
write down ur feelings somewhere, it helps
tell someone how u feel

December 16, 2014 at 7:39 PM  
Anonymous LoveStruck said...

oh i love my crush πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ’ŒπŸ’Œ
whenever my brother invites him over i get butterflies in my stomach i cant stop smiling and i start getting nervous about what he might think of me. The funny thing: My friend maddy and him both came over for halloween and they HATED each other!!! Maddy was like, ur weird. And alex was like, Oh yeah? well this is my impersonation of ur voice: SQUUEAAK!!!
me and my bro were cracking up
ugh i wish he would like me too
its so unfair my friends crush is litterally heads over heels with her and mine barely even pays attention to me!! HELP

December 16, 2014 at 7:43 PM  
Anonymous LoveStruck said...

how do i get my crush to like me?

December 16, 2014 at 7:44 PM  
Anonymous LoveStruck said...

if my crush came over for halloween and i gave him all of my unwanted candy and he told me and my bro and my friend he thought i was generous does that count as AWESOME or not?
and
if my crush came over again and helped me fix my computer and when my brother said "im bored lets do something else" my crush said "No wait a minute im helping her" does THAT count as awesome either? all my friends say its NOTHING but for me its pretty good bcz most guys dont even glance at me.

December 16, 2014 at 7:47 PM  
Anonymous Glasses On a Girl said...

I have glasses so none of the guys like me! And i cant take them off. Is there any way to be pretty and fabulous WITH glasses? Help!

December 16, 2014 at 7:48 PM  
Anonymous josie said...

I didn't do anything for valentines day except receive a box full of chocolate from my family.

December 27, 2014 at 5:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I know my crush(AKA Ian) will send me a card!

January 2, 2015 at 4:23 PM  
Anonymous Baseball Lover said...

Please help me! There's this guy at my church that I have a huge crush on. We both work in AWANA together. Sometimes I think he likes me because whenever he talks to the boys about football I'll watch him and then he looks at me and smiles. But then I think he's a player. He had a girlfriend right now and I know his ex and who knows how many he's had. =(

January 16, 2015 at 10:16 AM  
Anonymous Sweet Lover said...

Baseball Lover do you know Freja i'm her plus i feel your humiliation with this boy in Smith.

April 14, 2015 at 11:26 AM  
Anonymous rkcrocks said...

Glasses On a Girl, it doesn't matter what you look like. If you look around, there are lots of people who have glasses, and are dating/married. If boys judge you by your outside looks, why would you want them to like you. You want someone who likes your personality, NOT your looks

June 14, 2015 at 4:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well, on V day I just sit back, but everybody tells me who THEY like!

September 10, 2015 at 3:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Happy Valentines day to ya'll pinkes out there

December 4, 2015 at 6:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What if my crush is a girl?

March 1, 2017 at 3:38 PM  

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