One week only: Take our boyfriend poll!

Some girls say they're curious about the other girls who read this blog. Me too. So we'll ask some questions, such as...Do you have a boyfriend?

FYI, you do not need a boyfriend. But if you have one, that's OK, too. It's all part of growing up. And even though relationships don't usually last long in middle school, having a crush is a way of thinking about the kind of person you might eventually want to pair up with when you are a grownup.

The poll will be up for just one week, so take it now and tell us what you think!

Think pink!
Jemma

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Anonymous athena said...

i love how i can talk my Mom about this as well as having this website as a resource.the pinklockersociety helped me not worry about my breast that where growing.

July 24, 2014 at 10:33 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

When I have my period I feel embarrassed to go in public especially in the summer

July 25, 2014 at 6:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I totally agree. My best friend had a Boyfriend and whenever they saw eachother they fought. That didn't last long

July 26, 2014 at 8:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thats true! I also have a crush on my best guy friend and people say he likes me but i dont know

July 26, 2014 at 8:04 AM  
Anonymous Georgiagirl said...

Ok so I need advice. My school starts back August 7th and it's a private school, which means that I have basically the same people in my class every year and there is this boy that I have had a crush on since 5th grade and I'm going into 7th now his name is Benjamin and for a time I thought he liked me but now I'm not so sure. Here are some of the things that made me think he might have liked me.
1. In fifth grade on the way to lunch, his older brother called to him hey bemma! Bemma is what our names would be combined, Benjamin and Emma.
2. He would tell me a joke in 6th grade and not really blush but his face would be redder than usual and when I laughed he would smile
3. In fifth grade we were at recess and the jungle gym and the merry go round are right next to each other and he and his friends were sitting on tht and me and my friends were on the merry go round an I had my hair down and was swinging around and laughing and I could have sworn he was looking at me.
3. In 6th grade we were doing a mini spelling bee in English to see who would go to the actual spelling bee and the English teacher called my name after his and his friend Ben said bemma just where I could hear it and nobody else.
Please help and give me your opinion. Thanx!

July 27, 2014 at 1:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

im the anonymous from b4, thax for ur help!!

July 28, 2014 at 4:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

sorry didn't finish..should i ask my mom for pads?
im only 12

July 28, 2014 at 4:16 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I want to know if this boy likes me or not. Here are some reasons I think he might like me but idk for sure.
1. In fifth grade we were on the merry go round and he an his friends were on the jungle gym and I had my hair down and was laughing and he was staring at me I'm sure of it.
2. I usually sit behind him or in front of him in not if my classes so he will sometimes tell me a joke or something funny. When he's telling me about it he is kinda but not really blushing and when I laugh or smile he smiles .
3. His friend is always saying bemma. That I put two name combined. Idk if he is doing it to annoy me or doing it to hint that his friend likes me.
4. Last year, me and friends were playing truth or dare and they dared me to hug him and when I did he blushed like crazy and looked over at his friends.
5.at this camp we go to every year, he followed me and my friends around. My friend thinks its cuz he likes her, as she likes him as well.
6. I'm a cheerleader and he sometimes looks at me during games.
PLZ help me and give your opinion. Do u think he likes me or not? I would really like to know b for school starts back. It may be my imagination but idk.

July 29, 2014 at 1:53 PM  
Anonymous kggrace said...

Where are you Gemma? We miss you!!!

July 31, 2014 at 7:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Does anyone know the person who runs this site? There hasn't been a blog update in forever! I'm a teenager and like this site but would love it if it was constant. @ me and reply if you agree! If the comments are uploaded she has got to know what's up!

July 31, 2014 at 4:13 PM  
Anonymous ConfusedLover said...

I've liked a guy in my class for nearly a year, and I thought that he liked me too, although I never went up to him to ask him. Today, a good friend of both of ours came to know that I liked him, and she thought that he liked me as well- and then she asked my crush about it. He blushed and did not reply.
Around an hour later, he told her that he liked another girl, H, and that he knew that I had a crush on him. And now he's asking our mutual friend to help him with HIS crush.

August 1, 2014 at 8:46 AM  
Anonymous Katie said...

I'm 12, when is the right time?

August 3, 2014 at 3:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

glad i do not

August 4, 2014 at 6:57 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I luv this page! they should put quizzes on here.

August 4, 2014 at 7:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I honestly think that at our age, we shouldn't have boyfriends. I mean just live your life fun and free from boys. I'm not saying that you are <3 but even though say some other girl you know has a boyfriend doesn't mean you need one. Boys aren't always fun to be around, they can be really mean, and sometimes when you have a boyfriend, you expect more from him then he gives and then it just falls apart there. So for me personally speaking, I agree with the answer before mine, if you want to, yes go ahead, a lesson is a lesson, no if you don't think so, then don't, you shouldn't do something like that if you don't want to.

August 12, 2014 at 1:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Theres no reason to have a boyfriend intill youre older. They are just destracting. You dont need to waste your life on boys.Now is the time to be free and relax.

August 13, 2014 at 6:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ummm im mentally dating hayes grier does that count?

August 14, 2014 at 1:24 AM  
Anonymous anon niamh said...

I have a boyfriend we talk and always hang around we always hug and hold hands we have been out for 2 years exactly and we r going 4 dinner with a few close friends most of our friends have couples and we r like one massive family all of the girls and sometimes me play the free hug game where we hug all the boys do you think my boyfriend gets jelous srry its big
Niamh xx

August 14, 2014 at 3:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

why hasn't anyone commented in like forever? is this website outdated?

December 17, 2014 at 3:15 PM  
Anonymous LoveStruck said...

hey I just found this website. At first I saw all the comments and I'm like, whoah! I will get help in No time! but then I looked at when they were posted. July??? August???? It's DECEMBER!!!! So I freaked. This is the only place I can get help. PLZ answer all the questions! we need you!

December 17, 2014 at 3:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a girlfriend...

December 17, 2014 at 7:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i wish i did sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much

December 19, 2014 at 3:55 PM  
Anonymous Leah09 said...

@sophisticated Swiftie,
Same with me,
I have had a crush but no BF,
Yeah:)
Don't worry, you don't need one:),
like how old r u?

December 22, 2014 at 11:50 AM  
Anonymous Leah09 said...

@ Leaper,
Instead of what other people think, if you like him, go ahead, unless there are big rumors are huge problems, than you can break up but other than that go for him, if you want to and if he is okay with it, like you are already dating him so...Yeah!
hope I help,
Leah09

December 22, 2014 at 11:55 AM  
Anonymous Leah09 said...

@Leaper,
Also you can make it secret if u r okay with it, like instead of showing it out, just keep it in between eachother:) like act like you r not with everyone else,
but do with him and no one will ever realize, like don't tell everyone,
hope it helps:),
ho old r u? , I am thirteen for real!

December 22, 2014 at 11:58 AM  
Anonymous Leah09 said...

like hold hand when people r not around and stuff and do everything you when you r dating sceretly:),
yeah and thats all, not going to keep going sorry

December 22, 2014 at 12:00 PM  
Anonymous Leah09 said...

4 keep going,
Think PInk!

December 22, 2014 at 12:00 PM  
Anonymous Isabella09 said...

@iceprincess,
quit being freinds with that girl because she is honestly not someone who you would wnat to be freinds with(bot trying to be mean)
but like she is not a good freind,
she is just jealous of you so she like ruins realtionship with you. She is just angry cause she broke up with her boyfriend and you get to hang out with your crush, what I think so just, talk it out with her are ignore her, or leave your crush for later!
Hope I Help:)
Sorry if it is too long or too late:)

December 22, 2014 at 1:40 PM  
Anonymous Isabella09 said...

do I have to tell my parents my crush?

December 22, 2014 at 1:41 PM  
Anonymous Coolio12 said...

I have two crushes.

January 3, 2015 at 11:19 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think a few boys like me but I like this boy and he doesn't act like he likes me :(

January 16, 2015 at 11:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm 13 and I have a crush on my best guy friend.. Lots of people think he likes me back but really I know he actually likes both me and my best girlfriend?! I want him to be happy but I want to be happy to I hope he finds a way to choose between us soon because my other best girlfriend is hinting him to ask me out soooo........ 😉

April 17, 2015 at 9:36 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I really want a boyfriend

May 13, 2015 at 10:07 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yup single and proud 👌

May 18, 2015 at 12:20 PM  
Anonymous anetika said...

I like this boy and I think he likes me to kus when ever I walk by or talk to him he blushes and starts to say stuff like i'm in 6th grade and when I walked by I did not have a seat and he got up for me and I don't really now him but on MY birthday he started to act really weird like he acted like I do in front of my crushes but in a boyish way and I do not have a boyfriend and im turning 10 in three months but my mom says he's just being nice but I don't now PLEASE HELP ME!

June 6, 2015 at 7:24 PM  
Anonymous rrocks said...

I don't have a boyfriend, but I like him. We are NOT dating or anything. I think he looks cute though!

June 9, 2015 at 4:15 PM  
Anonymous PHAPIF said...

Hi, PinksHugzandPlayingInFun.

How did I even get that name?

Right, random word generator.
So, for all those girls who don't have a boyfriend.
I don't either, listen to this.

I don't know how, but I have met three of the most amazing guys ever.

They call me beautiful, they give me plenty of hugs, give me their jackets, I can rest my head on their shoulder, they make me smile.

But you know what is the best thing? They are committed to me. They are my friends, if we had an argument they would come and fix things up.
They wouldn't break up with me, they would look me in the eye, and make me melt, and say they are sorry.

Yeah, I admit, I get jealous. Of all the happy couples out there, or even my guyfriends crushes.
Them girls are pretty, and nice, and most possibly my best friends.
But I hold on to what I have, and that is enough for now.
And it is not "just enough" it is more than enough.
And I think it is safe to say that I fell in love with our friendship, and they have too.

Hi, PinksHugzandPlayingInFun.

How did I even get that name?

Right, random word generator.
So, for all those girls who don't have a boyfriend.
I don't either, listen to this.

I don't know how, but I have met three of the most amazing guys ever.

They call me beautiful, they give me plenty of hugs, give me their jackets, I can rest my head on their shoulder, they make me smile.

But you know what is the best thing? They are committed to me. They are my friends, if we had an argument they would come and fix things up.
They wouldn't break up with me, they would look me in the eye, and make me melt, and say they are sorry.

Yeah, I admit, I get jealous. Of all the happy couples out there, or even my guyfriends crushes.
Them girls are pretty, and nice, and most possibly my best friends.
But I hold on to what I have, and that is enough for now.
And it is not "just enough" it is more than enough.
And I think it is safe to say that I fell in love with our friendship, and they have too.

I should have been here for
#TALKaboutyourbffsweek

But I left the blog for a while.

June 25, 2015 at 6:39 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think u should too, if you're sure that you like him.

August 30, 2015 at 11:23 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi! So there's this guy who was in my school but he moved this year, even though his sis is in my school so I know he'll come to pick her up.... PROBLEM : On our last day, he asked, well he got chased until he said yes to a date with a girl in my class. I really like him and he likes me, but has She changed all that? What do you think girls?

September 1, 2015 at 1:02 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a crush my friends who are friends with him say he likes me he says no but I see him look at me a lot How can I tell if he likes me or not?

December 14, 2015 at 11:08 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My friend has been getting mad at me for no reason. What should I do?

December 14, 2015 at 11:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree

December 24, 2015 at 1:30 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

even though I am in year 9, I still don't have a boyfriend and personally I am super satisfied with myself (cause I am a tomboy). even though I get asked out a lot I don't want any thing distracting me from academics and my sports. I do have more guy best friends than girl best friend. I personally think the judge u less and understand u more

January 7, 2016 at 12:40 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I totally agree!

January 7, 2016 at 10:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm almost 12 i have a boyfriend.

January 26, 2016 at 9:57 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Do you like him more than friends? If you don't, don't just date him for the sake of having a boyfriend!

January 31, 2016 at 5:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Help, I have a crush on this guy and everyone says he likes me and he flirts with me and stuff, but he used to and might still like my best friend (who thinks that he likes both of us) AND I have a friend who I used to have a crush on and he still has a crush on me and thinks that I have a crush on him. Also he and my current crush hate each other and both of them have accused me of liking the other. Should I tell my crush that I like him and if so what should I say to my old crush? Please help!

February 12, 2016 at 10:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

im gr6 and i still dont have boyfriend

February 15, 2016 at 12:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I want one but I have a crush and I'm too scared to ask him

June 23, 2016 at 11:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

there is a boy who likes me but i do not like back.Would u consider that a boy fried??

July 1, 2016 at 3:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have had a friend for YEARS and now it looks like she is not being my friend anymore!!! HELP!!!!!!!
-Kayla

July 2, 2016 at 3:28 PM  
Anonymous Vanya said...

No, but it sounds pretty cool to have one!

July 7, 2016 at 8:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a boyfriend and he is really nice, he doesn't go to my school so he doesn't distract me

August 8, 2016 at 8:20 PM  
Anonymous Hannah🐯 said...

I thank pls for the help it gives. Without it, puberty "gets to me."

March 6, 2017 at 9:45 AM  
Anonymous Hannah🐯 said...

I'm 11 years old and I didn't get my period yet I have some questions on tampons because if I get my period in the pool and I don't have a tampon what do I do?

March 6, 2017 at 9:47 AM  
Blogger Jemma said...

http://blog.pinklockersociety.org/2011/03/question-no-8-wear-pad-to-pool.html

March 9, 2017 at 6:43 AM  
Blogger Jemma said...

http://blog.pinklockersociety.org/2012/07/pool-party-her-period-helpme.html

March 9, 2017 at 6:44 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My bestie is so worried about boys, I hardly hang out with her at school

March 13, 2017 at 7:23 PM  
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