Back to school time - How ready are you?

It's about that time for those of us who are off for the summer. School is fast approaching. Are you ready? Are you the kind of girl who's excited and already organizing her supplies? (See the photo for the kind of girl I am.) Or are you in love with your flipflops and wishing the summer would never end? Tell us!


Georgiagirl is already thinking about school and a certain someone there...

Dear PLS,
Ok so I need advice. My school starts back August 7th and it's a private school, which means that I have basically the same people in my class every year and there is this boy that I have had a crush on since 5th grade and I'm going into 7th now his name is Benjamin and for a time I thought he liked me but now I'm not so sure. Here are some of the things that made me think he might have liked me.

1. In fifth grade on the way to lunch, his older brother called to him hey bemma! Bemma is what our names would be combined, Benjamin and Emma.
2. He would tell me a joke in 6th grade and not really blush but his face would be redder than usual and when I laughed he would smile
3. In fifth grade we were at recess and the jungle gym and the merry go round are right next to each other and he and his friends were sitting on tht and me and my friends were on the merry go round an I had my hair down and was swinging around and laughing and I could have sworn he was looking at me. 
3. In 6th grade we were doing a mini spelling bee in English to see who would go to the actual spelling bee and the English teacher called my name after his and his friend Ben said bemma just where I could hear it and nobody else.

Please help and give me your opinion. Thanx!
Georgiagirl

Oh, who hasn't done this - kept a perfect record of everytime your crush glanced your way or something even a little encouraging happened? It sounds to me like this boy genuinely likes Georgiagirl. Does he like-like her, like want to be her boyfriend? Well, that's trickier. 

Boys might not express themselves quite as openly or as much as girls. And sometimes a boy can feel uncomfortable when a girl has soooooo much emotion for him. But Georgiagirl can't help how she feels and she's doing some important thinking about the kind of boy she likes. Maybe Ben has some excellent qualities that she really likes in a boy - qualities she will look for when she's older and considering a boyfriend or husband. But for now, I'd say that she should keep being friends with Ben. If it turns out he likes her in that more serious way, great! If not, keep cool and keep being friends.

Do you agree?

Think pink!
Jemma

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think he does :)

August 3, 2014 at 3:02 PM  
Anonymous Blonde.Chick said...

Hey there is this guy that i really like he held my hand 3 times but the bad part is that hes a player what should i do

August 3, 2014 at 7:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yayayayayay!!!!! thanks Jemma for FINALLY posting! Us girls love every one!

August 3, 2014 at 7:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OMG Georgiagirl!
I too have a crush on a boy called Benjamin! Only I and the boy live in Asia and he confessed that he likes me. TO ME!
We are keeping it quiet for now, and even though we like each other we've decided not to start dating.
Hope you have as much success in your crush!
Izzy
ps people call me and him Benjabel

August 4, 2014 at 5:39 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I can't wait for school to start!

August 4, 2014 at 6:51 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

When is old enough to really have a boyfriend?

August 4, 2014 at 6:53 AM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

I need help. I have liked this guy for two years and when I was playing truth or dare at a sleepover, I got asked who I liked. I said the guys name and then the game went on. a week later my friend told me that my other friend told him and she sent me a screenshot. I found out from my other friend that she did tell him. he has been avoiding me ever since even though I confronted him and told him it was making me feel bad. I even said I wouldn't follow him around or anything but he still pretty much runs away from me. my friend says I should just talk to him at church because now I have gotten to the point where I cry at night about him. I feel like Audrey Hepburn in Sabrina! I need advice, especially now that he is looking at me constantly and he may like me. what do I do pls? help!

August 4, 2014 at 12:38 PM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

Jemma! Welcome back! I have been waiting for a post like this to ask this question:

Next year I'll be going to 8th grade. I'm excited, but there's a lot more to be dreading for than what I'm excited for.

What I'm Excited For:

-I get to go to DC with my class!

-Last year of middle school!

-Graduation!

-School elections for President!

However...

What I'm dreading:

-Graduation Dance= Boys asking girls= a LOT of boy trouble (for my friends, which I'm always brought into)

-There's a lot of work in 8th grade. When my sister was in that year her work kept her up until midnight.

-Lots of responsibility, a lot more than the other years

-Younger grades look up to us

-No free time

-I have to work up early in the morning

So what do I do about what I'm dreading? How do I get over it? Girls, please help me out!

~PurpleRose

August 4, 2014 at 5:22 PM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

Also, to GeorgiaGirl:

He definitely seems to like you! But don't start anything too soon, like asking him if he does. Wait some time. Good luck with school!

~PurpleRose

August 4, 2014 at 5:24 PM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

Blonde.Chick:

Hm, if you really like him, awesome for you! How do you know he's a player? Is it the rumors? There may be a good reason why he is, like he's searching for the perfect girl, which may be you! But follow you heart. If you like him that much, for all means, go for it!

Hope I Helped!

~PurpleRose

August 4, 2014 at 5:40 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

@ anonymous wondering about what age is okay to have a boyfriend
So, when I was in grades 4-5 I had three boyfriends. At the time it was fun, but now I realize I didn't have any feelings for them, I really just wanted to look cool. I seriously regret ever dating, it was just stupid, I was trying to look older and cooler than I was. I am going into 8th grade now, and I still consider myself too young.
In my opinion, you are ready once you have actual, legitimate feelings for someone, and you won't be embarrassed to tell your parents and grandparents about the relationship. That might seem strange, but if you are embarrassed, that means deep down you are aware the relationship isn't a good idea.
I hope this helped!

DFTBA- don't forget to be awesome

August 4, 2014 at 6:42 PM  
Anonymous pink-a-boo said...

PurpleRose:
For a dance you don't need to have a date. If some of your friends and you all don't have dates, you can go in a girl group! At my 8th grade dance, one of my friends went with a date, and I went with two of my best girlfriends.
It's true that the work load is larger than in 7th grade. Once I stayed up until almost dawn! However, you'll probably only have to stay up late for a few nights out of the year, and you can always sleep in that weekend. Don't worry, you'll still have time to hang out with friends. Personally, I had enough time for a club or sports practice every day after school, and then for being in Grease at my school at the end of the year.
Remember, every girl has survived their 8th grade year, and once you get started in it, it'll feel as normal as 7th grade or 6th grade did.
Hope I helped! :)

August 5, 2014 at 12:49 AM  
Anonymous Georgiagirl said...

That's awesome!!!

August 5, 2014 at 7:41 AM  
Anonymous Georgiagirl said...

Thanx!

August 5, 2014 at 7:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Purple Rose,
I think as long as you manage your time wisely, you'll be fine.
Oh, and the boy thing? Try to stay out of it. Its hard, I know. But I think your friends are at this stage where they are trying to experiment. So go with the flow
Hope this helped.
Izzy

August 5, 2014 at 8:41 AM  
Anonymous Shine_as_me said...

I agree with @remakingabraveme. I'm a teen, and I don't need a guy to feel good. I'm good enough for me and that's all I need <3 ;)

August 5, 2014 at 11:33 AM  
Anonymous Georgiagirl said...

I love school sometimes but I wish summer would never end. My friend Jamie from va beach thinks the summers here in geargia are too hot but I LOVE the heat.

August 5, 2014 at 12:23 PM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

Wake up not work up, :P Typo.

August 5, 2014 at 2:50 PM  
Anonymous G said...

Hi prurple rose, I read your comment about 8th grade and i feel you. I am in 9th grde now, a freshman in high school and getting used to things is different. But 8th grade isn't too bad. I went to the 8 grade dance with my bffs and we had an awesome time. Good Luck in 8th grade.
-G

August 5, 2014 at 5:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think he does like you but just see if he does more stuff like that then he actually likes you . An other way you can know is by asking your friend to ask one of his friends if he likes you or noy

August 5, 2014 at 11:36 PM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

I need help. I have liked this guy for two years and when I was playing truth or dare at a sleepover, I got asked who I liked. I said the guys name and then the game went on. a week later my friend told me that my other friend told him and she sent me a screenshot. I found out from my other friend that she did tell him. he has been avoiding me ever since even though I confronted him and told him it was making me feel bad. I even said I wouldn't follow him around or anything but he still pretty much runs away from me. my friend says I should just talk to him at church because now I have gotten to the point where I cry at night about him. I feel like Audrey Hepburn in Sabrina! I need advice, especially now that he is looking at me constantly and he may like me. what do I do pls? help!

August 6, 2014 at 2:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

For some reason this just seems weird in my opinion because I also have a crush on a guy named Benjamin and he goes to public school, haha weirdd

August 6, 2014 at 6:37 PM  
Anonymous HeartbrokenLuna said...

I have the same problem as polkadots. Only mine is a lot more worse, because my crush likes another girl who is absolutely stupid (I'm not being mean-it's a fact) and is a complete attention-seeker. He completely avoids me now that our mutual friend told him that I liked him- and now that mutual friend of ours is helping him 'earn the love' of the other girl.
Now (almost a week later), he tries to catch my eye and look/stare at me- and it feels like he wants to tell me something but is too shy to. I feel weird to go and talk to him now, because he likes another girl AND he knows that I like him- what should I do?

August 7, 2014 at 8:03 AM  
Anonymous Alexa said...

I have a crush on a boy called jonty

August 7, 2014 at 5:02 PM  
Anonymous Shine_as_me said...

I'm 13. I've never been kissed or kissed anybody. I've only had 2 crushes, one when I was about 8, another when I was ten. Although, I know at least 2 guys liked me :) lol Both crushes were SO silly. I was just curious about if other girls have had their first kiss yet, and how old you were, or how did it happen? I'm not sure if I want it yet, but I'm just all..... curious, as all girls my age are <3

August 7, 2014 at 11:28 PM  
Anonymous PurpleRose said...

Thank you to all of you girls who helped! I appreciate it. :)

August 8, 2014 at 1:40 AM  
Anonymous Lucy said...

Thanks for letting me comment!! It feels great to be able to talk about girlie stuff without being embarrassed!!

August 9, 2014 at 8:29 AM  
Anonymous Lucy said...

Great artical!

August 9, 2014 at 8:30 AM  
Anonymous pink-a-boo said...

HeartbrokenLuna:
Staring and acting shy around you? It sounds actually like he might've started liking you! I know it might sound weird, but when he first heard you liked him, he probably thought, "Her? No! I like this other girl! She's just a friend! This is awkward..." but then, he may have started thinking, "but, what if I did like her? What if we actually dated?" and he might've liked that idea, and now he has a crush on you! I think! I'm not a mind reader, but all the signs are pointing toward it :)

August 10, 2014 at 5:34 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Nope, I'm not ready for school. I still have 3 weeks of hiking and camping to do!

August 10, 2014 at 9:41 AM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

Urrgh, I am experiencing some mega-sucky cramps!! I just got my period recently, so I don't know what to do about them. Does anyone have some good tips for PMS relief?? Thank you!

DFTBA - dont forget to be awesome

August 10, 2014 at 10:22 PM  
Anonymous polkadots said...

I have had this situation for three months. oh and the boy I like used to have a gf that he almost kissed but then they got into a fight and broke up.

August 12, 2014 at 12:39 PM  
Anonymous Tigger said...

Wow That is so cool

August 13, 2014 at 1:59 AM  
Anonymous pink-a-boo said...

Shine_as_me
I'm 14, and haven't had a first kiss yet. I'm actually hoping my first kiss will be a stage kiss because that doesn't REALLY count as a first kiss, but it would be a great chance to see what it's like :)

August 13, 2014 at 2:57 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

HeartbrokenLuna:
You never know. Its either
A) he no longer likes that girl but likes you
B) He just feels bad about avoiding you (but I think this is most unlikely)
C) He has a crush on both you and the girl.
So I advise you to just stay friends with him for now.
I have a crush who likes me back- and when my friend first blurted out the news to him he replied he hated me and avoided me. But a few days later he confessed he liked me too!
So good luck,
Izzy

August 14, 2014 at 3:42 AM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

Shine_as_me
I'm thirteen and havn't had my first kiss either.But to be honest, I don't even have a crush, so kisses aren't on my mind

DFTBA

August 14, 2014 at 10:20 PM  
Anonymous HeartbrokenLuna said...

Izzy and Pink-a-boo, thank you so much! All of you girls are awesome.
My crush still says that he likes the other girl, although he never looks or talks to her even if she's sitting right next to him.

The girl is really weird. She used to have a crush on a guy called R, and then she found out he liked someone else. So then she said that she'd begun to like S (he liked her). And after she found out that my crush liked her, she called HIM her love-interest. (so basically she's been changing her crushes). Now my crush supposedly doesn't pay her any 'attention' (that's in her words), so she has stopped liking him, and now she likes S again.

What's wrong with her?! And she's such a horrible person- she's even tried to steal a girl's bff!

Is it even possible for anyone to 'change' crushes like that? Or do you think she's just making a whole lot of drama?

Sorry if its all very confusing.

August 17, 2014 at 5:55 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm definitely the type of person to start organising my supplies as soon as I get them. I know it's unusual, but I'm a bit of an organise freak, it's just a fun way for me to spend my time lol.

August 17, 2014 at 8:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@Blonde.Chick you need to drop him like he's hot before he hurts you, it's the easy way out

August 17, 2014 at 8:18 AM  
Anonymous Georgiagirl said...

Ok after I got home on the first day of school,(aug.7) I was thinking about everything that had gone on. Some boys were teasing this guy named Brandon about choosing to sit near me when there were two seats he could have sat on. Then I thought back to last year when the boys claimed he said he liked me and would not let me forget it. Then I randomly started thinking about what our names would be together. AND THEN IT HIT ME. Our name would be bemma too!! Maybe benji never liked me at all. Maybe it was BRANDON. And Brandon isn't a boy I would like to have as a boyfriend to put it mildly. What do I do? How do I find out if benji likes me or not WITHOUT asking him.(I'm not brave enough :-P) and if he doesn't like me, what do I do? Help PLZ and God bless y'all

August 17, 2014 at 4:19 PM  
Anonymous Shine_as_me said...

@Gorgiagirl
Oh my NEMO! its like a movie!
Honestly, I think that you should just play it cool. I'm going into 8th grade, and boys are nothing worth worrying about a our age. But, I would let the guy come to you, whether its Benji or Brandon. If the guy liked you enough, he would make the move. Who knows? Maybe your feelings will change if Brandon says he likes you. Just keep cool. :)

August 19, 2014 at 2:36 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

Don't know if u guys remember me but I'm finally back from my summer trip in china. (I live in the us) Well GeorgiaGirl, I'm totally like u, keeping track of everything little possible hint my crush gives. And at our school we like to mix names together to. Also about ur new problem, I've had trouble with that b4 too. I've never really asked him directly and I do not recommend that, but he's certainly given signs that he wants to be just friends. Btw I've liked him since 5th grade too but this yr I'm starting 8th grade. Maybe u could ask his close friend to ask him who he likes or what he would say if u asked him out. I hope it works out and good luck!

August 19, 2014 at 6:33 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

@Shine_as_me
I'm 13 also and I've never had my first kiss either. Well, a guy has kissed my hand before but that doesn't count. Anyways u should save ur first kiss for someone special. It's worth the wait. :)

August 19, 2014 at 6:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't want school to start because all my friends are going to a different school and now I have to face junior high alone

August 19, 2014 at 8:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Annoynamous@August 17, 2014
I am the same except I also don't want summer vacation to end!

August 20, 2014 at 12:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What is a player?

August 20, 2014 at 12:04 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Heartbroken Luna,
Some ppl are just like that- they jump from one person to another. Personally, I feel these kind of people only say they have crushes cause they think its fun. Be careful aroungd these ppl cause they always end up breaking hearts.
Hope this helped.
Izzy

August 22, 2014 at 7:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Georgiagirl,
Come on! If you don't like him, there's nothing to worry about.
I have NO IDEA on how to tell a crush u like him. I tried it with the boy I liked AND IT WAS AWFUL. I wanted to cry and he didn't understand what I was talking about until my friend told him a few weeks later.
So just chill and go with the flow!
Izzy

August 22, 2014 at 7:47 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So this guy I know acts shy around me, told all his friends I had a crush on him when I never said so, still talks to me, smiles at me a lot and is in my same lunch period. Do you think he likes me? Also if he does should I talk to him about the whole crush friends thing???? Please hellpppp

August 22, 2014 at 10:04 PM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

Hey girls. I just got my schedule and found out what my crush's schedule is and we have absolutely no classes together. I don't know why but this is making me rly sad. Last yr we became rly close but we had like 3 classes together. I enjoy walking a long walk home with him everyday after school since our houses r close together. But now that we don't have any classes together, we won't have anything to talk about and it'll be all awkward. Help?

August 23, 2014 at 10:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I always think pink

August 24, 2014 at 11:25 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey guys!I'm a rising sixth grader and I just wanted a little bit of advice on what to watch out for in middle school.As in boy problems,too much homework,cliques, and all the other things I've heard about!Its not anything urgent, just a curious middle school newbie!Thanks for all of you pls bloggers out there, you rock!

August 24, 2014 at 3:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi.

August 24, 2014 at 3:03 PM  
Anonymous Remakingabraverme said...

I'm doing online school this year and am super pumped!
I'm going to (hopefully) volunteer at the Library and hospital, take ukuele lessons, and be mentored by a proffessional creative writer. I'm going to have tons of time to bike, write, hike, read, unicycle, and do art. YAY!!

August 28, 2014 at 2:00 PM  
Anonymous cupcake_cutie said...

hi everyone! school starts for me in two days! so excited! I know most of you are probably already back in school, but for us, school always starts after labour day. I'm going to eighth grade! any tips?

@ Remakingabraverme:
You're a nerdfighter too? DFTBA!

Think (insert your favorite colour),
Cupcake_cutie

August 30, 2014 at 3:48 PM  
Anonymous Georgiagirl said...

GAME DAY!!! GO DAWGS!!!!

August 30, 2014 at 6:18 PM  
Anonymous LoveStruck said...

ms tips: be organized, don't get too distracted from ur work bcz of ur crush, study for tests, have a neat locker, don't try to be "cool", and don't get too obsessed over homework: give urself some free time!!

December 18, 2014 at 9:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey follow ur heart emma there is nothing wrong in having bf

December 20, 2014 at 2:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

way to go pink locker society!!! bless'yall

December 20, 2014 at 2:17 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

anonymous
way to go pinkies!!

December 20, 2014 at 2:18 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

anonymous

hey Georgia no mistake having a bf. do wat u like if u know wat ur doin is right .

December 20, 2014 at 2:21 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey no worries Georgia about u havin crushes

December 20, 2014 at 2:25 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Is it a bad thing if I have a crush on my best friend? His name is Cory. I don't know what to do. Every time we have a conversation I start blushing. Should I just try to avoid him or keep talking with him?

December 22, 2014 at 10:27 AM  
Anonymous Isabella09 said...

@remakingabraverme,
That is nice.

December 22, 2014 at 3:02 PM  
Anonymous Isabella09 said...

I kind of just joined:)

December 22, 2014 at 3:03 PM  
Anonymous Isabella09 said...

@Remakingabraverme,
Nice, So I guess you can learn at your own pace in online schooling? Is it like homeschooling?
I am attending a regular, public school,
What grade are you in??
I am in grade eight,
and next year, I will be in high school,
You know that. I am both excited and nervous
So what type of volunteering are u planning to do in the Library and hospital?
Are they just your dreams,
I would like to volunteer in high school clubs next year, then earn straight As for high school:)
I don't want to share my current grades,
Just trying to be friendly and if course wondering!
Let me know if you would like ny advice in this blog,
I can try to help you and to all of you. I would like advice too,
Thanks,
Isabella09 plus sorry if it is long

December 22, 2014 at 3:25 PM  
Anonymous Isabella09 said...

I may look here like I talk a lot but sometimes in school and stuff, I am quiet when I am actually with people. Is this anything anyone does not like so much? Just wondering.

December 22, 2014 at 3:29 PM  
Anonymous Isabella09 said...

@anonymous who asked that when is old enough to have a boyfriend?
It is when you feel like you are mature enough and can handle it, read this somewhere in school but no offense but make sure you are not too young, and parents may help:)
Yeah

December 22, 2014 at 3:39 PM  
Anonymous Isabella09 said...

@remakingabraverme,
Grades four to five is too young in my opinion,
Middle school is okay maybe but maybe not the best:) but it's okay you did that other young girls o that

December 22, 2014 at 3:48 PM  
Anonymous Isabella09 said...

I have a problem

December 22, 2014 at 3:51 PM  
Anonymous Isabella09 said...

@heartbrokenLuna
I think that is possible, has happened to me but not as much and if i think I sound not smart, I don't know why I am sending stuff. I think I just want to be part if this site cause I like it and everything and can be, age to be, girl and everything,
Sorry, hope I answer you question, it's not good but whatever:)

December 22, 2014 at 4:05 PM  
Anonymous Catgal 89 said...

Hi. I just wanted to ask something. I have mediumish boobs and they are not very visible and all my friends wear boob tops. I feel strange when we are changing for gym and everyone is like omg love your bra! And all I'm wearing is a tank top. Please help me!

December 23, 2014 at 10:23 AM  
Anonymous Soccerbunny said...

Gah! Where did everyone go? There hasn't been a post for like half a year!!

January 1, 2015 at 4:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Awesome

January 2, 2015 at 3:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I like unicorns

January 2, 2015 at 3:44 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Awesome!!

January 2, 2015 at 3:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I guess that you should, when you're a little older, ask him! He might tell you, but with boys, that's not really believable. I've been in strange situations like this. Trust me.

January 8, 2015 at 12:29 PM  
Anonymous Isabella said...

Ok, I live in Australia (but I'm still going to a new school.) if your wondering, going to high school in Australia is year 7 to 12 (ages 13-18). And I'm super excited! ^^

January 9, 2015 at 2:08 AM  
Anonymous Book girl said...

Finally read "The Forever Crush"!

January 13, 2015 at 4:56 PM  
Anonymous abbey said...

what if i want to marry someone??

January 13, 2015 at 5:10 PM  
Anonymous cakelovergirl123 said...

Jemma, why isn't my question in yet? :)

January 15, 2015 at 7:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think he does I mean boys can be confusing I'm in the sixth grade and well I've gone to a new school and well I've dated a guy so many times and now I think he still has feelings for me so I think he does like u

January 15, 2015 at 10:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well I'm in the sixth grade and I've gone to a new school and I've gone out with a guy so many times and now we are really good friends so I think it's possible that he likes u and the best way to find out is to ask close friends of his or ask him through a note if u r too shy

January 15, 2015 at 10:26 PM  
Anonymous BaseballChic said...

@Shine_as_me. I'm 13 too! And I have never been kissed by a boy.
My friend's uncle and his fiancee never kissed until they were married. I think that's awesome! But you should probably wait to find a guy who loves just you and nobody else. But, in my opinion, 13 year olds are WAY too young to kiss boys. Hope I helped in any way. =)

January 16, 2015 at 9:51 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I tots understand u! Your crush probably likes u if he tries to talk to u a lot, and wants attention. Although some boys just talk to everyone. He may like u a little, telling his friends his crush on u

January 16, 2015 at 7:43 PM  
Anonymous Catgal89 said...

Don't avoid him!!!! He will be hurt if you do. Just talk to him as you would you best girl friend! Good luck(If you've not figured anything out yet since I'm replying 4 months later!!!)

April 12, 2015 at 9:59 AM  
Anonymous Kal said...

Oh my god, my crush did the most adorable thing ever! So we were waiting in a long line at the cafeteria at school, and for some reason I had to go upstairs. He offered to buy for me, and leave it with our friend, so I gave him the money and left. When I came back, my friend gave me my lunch, with my money. I went to him and gave him the money, but he refused, saying that if I asked him to do anything for me, he'd be the one paying. So sweet <3
Comment what you think below :)

April 13, 2015 at 11:53 AM  
Anonymous judojo said...

what happened to this blog?

April 13, 2015 at 6:36 PM  
Anonymous Helena said...

He probably just considers you a friend. Read the signs carefully, as guys give mixed signals often

April 14, 2015 at 1:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

been so long since a post!

PINK GLITTER GIRL

April 17, 2015 at 1:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

just go with the flow he will show you some interest at one point

April 28, 2015 at 10:22 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

just go with the flow he will show you some interest at one point

April 28, 2015 at 10:22 AM  
Anonymous Bluetiful Blossom said...

There hasn't been a post in a long time and there's been no comments recently. What's happened? I used enjoy coming here and giving ppl advice but now this cite is just outdated

April 28, 2015 at 6:52 PM  
Anonymous Candy Cane Girl said...

Help Jemma i have a crush and i'm afraid to tell him my feeling give me advice
think pink
Candy Cane Girl

May 8, 2015 at 3:04 PM  
Anonymous Kempy said...

I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months now and before he asked me out he would never flirt or try to get my attention. But when i started talking to his friends and asking about who he likes, they obviously told him and he asked me out. Before he asked me out i liked him for months before that and i was confused just like you but i went for it ........... take a risk and who knows it might turn into something great!!!!!!!!!!!

May 10, 2015 at 8:14 AM  
Anonymous Sweet Lover said...

isn't soccerbunny like PLS most wanted lol

May 12, 2015 at 1:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I totally agree with BaseballChic. 13 year olds are way too young to kiss boys. I have seen alot of my friends kissing their boyfriends and I think its kinda weird!! I hope someone tries to understand this as my point of view!!

May 13, 2015 at 10:27 AM  
Anonymous Shannon said...

I have been homeschooled all my life and I want to got to public school but I don't have a clue on what to do there. I have never been in a school for more than 30 min! HELP!

May 16, 2015 at 10:47 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ummmm, Jenna? Are you still there?? ;(

May 17, 2015 at 7:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

A person that says they love you but they don't. Or a person that cheats on you.

May 18, 2015 at 5:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So today I was bored while we were taking a test then I put my hand on my mouth and I blew and it sounded like I farted I am so embarrassed everybody was staring at me and my friends laughed at me what do I do sincerely The Girl that is Embarrassed

May 20, 2015 at 12:14 AM  
Anonymous Sweet Lover said...

i am so humiliated because i am the only 4th grade 11 year old and my crush is in 5th ugh humiliating

May 22, 2015 at 11:09 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think you should tell Benjamin how you feel and remain just friends for now. At least until you know how you feel, then go out with him!
Good Luck, Drew

May 27, 2015 at 3:59 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I totally think he likes you ok and I have a question this guy likes or liked me and he told me he did but now he ignores me so tell me what to do

June 9, 2015 at 3:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

is there just no more posts after this one???

June 14, 2015 at 9:31 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

he totally likes u

June 18, 2015 at 5:13 PM  
Anonymous Tess said...

u should ask him if he does

June 18, 2015 at 5:22 PM  
Anonymous J is Helping said...

Help ok so I had a guy friend and I didnt like him then he said that he didnt want to be friends cause I liked him which I dont So I told him that and now he hates m what do I do

June 28, 2015 at 6:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

u never know

July 1, 2015 at 9:59 PM  
Anonymous burselfie said...

Everybody does this, and there's nothing wrong with it either! Ur story sounds amazingly like mine...u see him looking ur way bam you feel perfect! I am pretty forward with my crush, kinda like Jemma and Forrest started out,so we're really good friends!! Ithink u should do the same:just kind of start out with a friendship that may turn into chemistry:-) BURSELFIE!!
Signed,
burselfie

July 23, 2015 at 11:29 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Im kinda new to this site but my crush is really confusing! we snapchat EVERYDAY and he'll sometimes say i look fire using the fire emoji and side smirks, but then other days we wont even talk or sometimes i have to message him first. Im just really confused on how he feels and im scared to ask how he feels because ive known him since we were 8 and we are now 15 ! i dont want to ruin our friendship but i really really like him! What should i do?! Help?!

August 8, 2015 at 3:59 PM  
Anonymous songwriter heart said...

MEGA PROBLEM!!!!!
well I have a really annoying girl in my class, she really wants to be my friend, but I can't be her friend because she did some really mean things to me in the past( she actually pulled me away from my friend and forced me to hang out with her the first time and has thought we were best friends and has done EVERYTHING with me) and I really want to tell her this..but she's super sensitive...once I called her something random like apple and she got so worked up about it she called me fartface all day.. even in front of the teacher! I could just tell th teacher, but the mean girl will make it sound like I did everything wrong when the teacher talks to her, and this has been going on for ages. She hasn't done it much this year, but I can't trust her anymore!

August 10, 2015 at 1:07 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Starting middle school after tropical vacation! Sixth grade beware George!

August 10, 2015 at 9:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am so ready!!!! i hope to get good luck though :]

August 16, 2015 at 7:56 AM  
Anonymous Lydia said...

I need back 2 school help. my sister starts school and I'm proud of her but, she doesn't behave well at home. I'm afraid that she will get bad grades or expelled. how can I help her? Thx

August 24, 2015 at 8:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jenna, I really want you to come back. We all miss u so much!!!!!!!!!
<3

August 28, 2015 at 8:17 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

songwriter heart, it sounds like this girl is a bully. u should tell your parents about her when shes not around.

August 29, 2015 at 11:44 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is kind of tricky. I know that when I found out that my best guy friend liked me I did not take it well. I basically freezed him out for the last week of the school year. This year things are perfectly fine with us, though I still don't return his feelings. So at the beginning of your post you make it sound like he doesn't like you, but at the end you do(if you see this please elaborate on that). I would try to make things less awkward between you two. Hang out with his friends more, give him a reason to talk to you, ask him to do small favors for you and see what he says.

September 2, 2015 at 11:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I already started school we get homework during the weekends it doesn't sound fun and it isin't.

September 7, 2015 at 1:57 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Is it alright to try on your mum's bra to see if your ready for a bra? I'm 9 and I have developing boobs, everyone at school is noticing! I'm going to try my mum's bra, is that OK?
From Garfield the cat lover, I am songwriter heart from above

September 11, 2015 at 4:10 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okayyyyy

December 10, 2015 at 8:01 PM  
Anonymous Magentakick850 said...

Please post some more ive asked a million questions a million times!?!!!!!!!??!???!?!!m!
Waiting patiently as I can, Magentakick850

January 4, 2016 at 2:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Please post another thing !!!!!!!!

January 8, 2016 at 2:10 PM  
Anonymous Alice7 said...

Just keep in touch with the guy! As long as you keep a steady relationship, it will be fine! Love will develop naturally.......................

February 16, 2016 at 12:09 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think he does

March 1, 2016 at 6:09 PM  
Blogger Bella375 said...

yeahhh

March 25, 2016 at 11:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

How do I get a tampon/pad 2 the school bathrooms without "friends" noticing?

April 1, 2016 at 12:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Im "Marie" Im scared about getting my period yet I want it to come sooooo badly

April 21, 2016 at 10:15 AM  
Anonymous Angel said...

anonymous, Just put the pad in your pocket, bra, purse or even your shoe. there's plenty of ways to conceal a pad.

April 22, 2016 at 5:57 PM  
Anonymous Susie said...

How do I see the question I asked?

May 28, 2016 at 9:34 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Should I tell my crush I like him or keep it a secret

May 30, 2016 at 8:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hellooo everyone!
Its been so long since I last commented!! I am in 8th grade now O.O and would like to share a little! The blogging may have stopped, but I hope the community formed here will keep striving :)
I had my first crush at age 10, we confessed to each other at age 11 and were an item till March 2015. Even till now we remain friends and still talk to each other regularly. So don't worry, I understand all the thrill, joys and sorrows that come with crushes. But whether or not each new relationship works out or fails, its an important learning point. Keep treasuring every moment while it lasts, and keep moving on if it doesn't.
Okay so in my country we move schools at age 12 (that's why the puberty year of age 13 is automatically harder for all of us!!) I'm in a private all girls school, which is pretty cool, but the sad thing was my crush and I parted ways :( it was sort of an inevitable drifting apart thing.. he messaged me one night to ask "Do you still like me?" and I was just "no.. sorry" and he was super relieved "I don't either but was scared it would hurt you" he's a great guy and we were an item for two years and I don't really have any regrets. If you ask me about relationships, here are my two cents:
First, try not to get caught up in anything complicated ie love triangles yes you can't help feeling that way (and its a beautiful feeling) but that doesn't have to become an obsession. Hang out with your girlfriends, do fun things and enjoy yourself with or without the guy. Second, its okay to go forward and confess, but make sure at least 2 people you can trust back up your decision. If it happens the person doesn't feel the same way, you'll have both of them to comfort you and help you heal. Third, guys are really immature sometimes, and they can find it hard to deal with crushes and such. Don't let them lead you in circles and leave you confused and in a situation. One day they'll grow up.
I have missed so many of you: georgiagirl, polkadots, PurpleRose, pink-a-boo, Bluetiful Blossom, Heartbroken Luna just to name a few. I guess you all are tackling new problems now but if you are facing any issues please comment here and such!!
On kisses: as a christian I believe God wants me to save my first kiss and so on, but its still your heart and your decision. Make sure that kiss (and the ones to follow) are happy memories!!
-Izzy

June 2, 2016 at 10:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i am in fifth grade and i am home schooled, does that mean i will never meet cute dudes???!!
-Kayla

July 1, 2016 at 3:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Actually, never mind it's solved! I talked to her and she said that no one liked her and she had no friends, so I was kind of her first good friend, so she didn't really know she was being mean at the time. She found some nice friends( also my friends) and we hang out all the time. She's nicer now that she has some company!

~songwriter heart

July 9, 2016 at 5:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm in fourth grade and if I were you I'd say talk to him or you can set up one of your friends to ask him if he likes you

August 9, 2016 at 11:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi. speaking from my friends behalf, I just want to say there are 2 main options when you have a crush:

1- talk to him. Tell him your feeling and see if he likes you or not

2-keep it a secret. Pretend it's like a game of life which only you know about.

One more thing, just be yourself. Something MAGICAL can just happen. Hope this helps.

THINK PINK!

December 8, 2016 at 8:00 PM  
Anonymous Pnkgrl said...

Hi! This is pnkgrl! I think he does like you! :D For now you can be friends with him and if you two start to make a bond together you could CONSIDER talking to him about your feelings. But first gain his trust and you gain his. Hope this helps! Good luck!

May 10, 2017 at 10:33 PM  

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